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Here is a question to all out here. What would you prefer.
1. Someone fabbing your pics / videos thereby indicating their interest in you.
2. Winking your profile indicating interest to chat further and maybe meet up.
Or 3. Messaging you directly with details about themselves and what they are looking for.
I see that winks and fabs are never answered. With me, I personally respond to all the winks and fabs of the interest is mutual. |
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I would be pretty much to same as you. If someone like my picture. I would thank them. A little confident boost for myself. Hopefully it might be a conversation starter. If someone wink me I would wink them back. |
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None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.
One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.
Winks are lazy.
If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.
Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related. |
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By *s LollyWoman 11 weeks ago
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I fab pic's cause i like them dosent mean im interested or looking to meet or chat with them...
Never send winks cause i think there pointless and never check my own...
If im interested ill message simples really 😁 |
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"I fab pic's cause i like them dosent mean im interested or looking to meet or chat with them...
Never send winks cause i think there pointless and never check my own...
If im interested ill message simples really 😁"
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By *s LollyWoman 11 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.
One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.
Winks are lazy.
If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.
Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related."
Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄 |
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"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.
One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.
Winks are lazy.
If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.
Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.
Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄"
Just tell him where the nearest garage is🤣🤣🤣 |
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"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.
One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.
Winks are lazy.
If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.
Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.
Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄"
You need to attach nude pics😎 |
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By *s LollyWoman 11 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.
One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.
Winks are lazy.
If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.
Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.
Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄
You need to attach nude pics😎"
Christ ye do that once and it follows ye for year's after ffs 🙄 🙈 |
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"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.
One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.
Winks are lazy.
If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.
Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.
Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄
You need to attach nude pics😎
Christ ye do that once and it follows ye for year's after ffs 🙄 🙈"
That's what happens when you stick them all over my windscreen🤪 |
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Anything would be appreciated , I dont get a thing , I send really polite messages , only to be deleted , I couldn’t send anyone horrible messages because that would lower my own standards , plus been horrible to others wouldn’t get you any where . I would rather treat others how I expect to be treated and thats with respect . |
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I rarely look at winks tbh. But…usually Nuts sends a bog standard message in response or wink back if I didn’t send the 1st one. Then when the messages are back and forth they’ll become more personalised etc
We do appreciate fabs and I’ll often return them. And one of us usually replies to messages we get
We usually use winks as a polite way to see if the other profiles initially interested so we do interact with them
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By *razy-CplCouple 11 weeks ago
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I like to wink , its way to say hi , without the message ,and if they wink back , we would send a message, like if ur out and some one takes ur fancy , ud look at them and if they keep looking at you too ,ud go over and make contact / chat , a messege might be too much as u dont know if they like you or not . Winks are great but we know lots dont use them 
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By *s LollyWoman 11 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.
One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.
Winks are lazy.
If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.
Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.
Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄
You need to attach nude pics😎
Christ ye do that once and it follows ye for year's after ffs 🙄 🙈
That's what happens when you stick them all over my windscreen🤪"
Id say ye had some craic trying to swish them off driving outa Sprucefield |
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We mainly respond to winks or messages, occasionally fabs if we like what we see on the other side. We don't respond to friend requests unless we have spoken to them a few times feel a level of trust. |
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"I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis
But do you answer the message 🤷♂️😉"
only if it's interesting and the profile has something intriguing about it that may suit what I'm looking for |
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"I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis
But do you answer the message 🤷♂️😉 only if it's interesting and the profile has something intriguing about it that may suit what I'm looking for"
You're 100% I totally understand but most that I message don't even check my profile so I don't understand how they'd know anything 🤷♂️ |
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"I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis
But do you answer the message 🤷♂️😉 only if it's interesting and the profile has something intriguing about it that may suit what I'm looking for
You're 100% I totally understand but most that I message don't even check my profile so I don't understand how they'd know anything 🤷♂️"
How do you know they haven't checked your profile , there's stealth mode |
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"I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis
But do you answer the message 🤷♂️😉 only if it's interesting and the profile has something intriguing about it that may suit what I'm looking for
You're 100% I totally understand but most that I message don't even check my profile so I don't understand how they'd know anything 🤷♂️
How do you know they haven't checked your profile , there's stealth mode "
Ohhh I never knew that lol how's that done? Have you stealth moded me? Lmao |
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If I see someone fabbed my pic, I don't take it as they are interested in me, I take it as they like the picture, so I go on their profile and if I see pictures that I think are hot I return the favour.
I think winks are to get someone's attention, but personally I prefer if the person messages me instead of winking |
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