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By *razymind OP Man 11 weeks ago
Dublin mainly |
Well so far been mainly chatting to many people..but would love to have a regular ,hopefully in Dublin..
I believe sex then is much better..you can relax more and more.
How many people here actually have only one regular? |
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By *bcplCouple 11 weeks ago
Aberdeenshire |
Regulars are like unicorns up in the NE Scotland!!
The idea is what we’re after, maybe 2 or 3 to play with all together (mmmmf), me with wife and regular (mmf) or the wife to have solos.
We’re greedy and fussy 
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"Worst thing you could ever have is a regular lover unless both of ye can keep feelings out of it!!!
Be careful for what you wish for, you just might find it!!!  "
I believe it would be difficult for both parties to keep feelings out of it especially if you meet regularly and over a long period of time.
But if it works, it is the perfect senario
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Trying to find someone who you get along with, have fun with regularly and it not being “cold” fun is extremely hard. I had a great thing going for a year or so and unfortunately the feelings came into the situation and the water got muddy!
We went from talking every few days to radio silence and not even acknowledging me now if we happen to be in the same places. 😔
It’s an extremely hard balance to find and if you do I think it should come with “rules” that have been discussed here before! |
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By *og-ManMan 11 weeks ago
somewhere |
"I have had a few over the years. As long as you both talk openly and know the limits. It can be fantastic. It can last as long as both,want it too. Every situation is different. "
Exactly this ....not everything has to end in a disaster |
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Had bad experience with so called regular partner, he got way too attached to me , I liked the sex it was great and very hot sex every single time. I afraid to answer guys who looking for regular meets |
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"Had bad experience with so called regular partner, he got way too attached to me , I liked the sex it was great and very hot sex every single time. I afraid to answer guys who looking for regular meets"
Ah you should never be afraid, you would never know what’s around the next corner 😅 |
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Yeah I really believe it's possible to have a regular on here.
I have been seeing someone and I know it will be a very regular thing. Communication is the key. And being able to have a laugh together definitely helps |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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When that ol' devil called feelings come into things , it doesn't matter from which side, it's very difficult to stop that from happening but l will say timing is everything. When you meet someone that you thought at the start both were just gonna enjoy each other but then feelings creep into things...F**k..what do you do then ? If it's not the right time, you walk away , very very difficult to leave someone here if everything is bliss as sometimes the other person wants to take things further,as in a full time relationship & it's just not the brilliant sex , you know it goes way deeper than that but as l said the timing is everything...great if it's right...not so great if it's wrong & there could be other factors which contribute to the timing being wrong & then when you know it's right , it could be too late , she's gone . |
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By *attooYouMan 11 weeks ago
just about northside |
" & then when you know it's right , it could be too late , she's gone ."
There’s melancholy in that……..for me if I meet someone and there is more than sex developing then that’s when you decide whether you’ve staying in it. Personally if there is more to it than sex it could be a great thing…… |
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It can be difficult to be open to new possibilities but you have to go with your gut. Finding someone that you have a special connection with is always a minefield whatever the circumstances. Especially on here where the truth isn't always what it seems. But you only live once so seize the day.  |
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Everyone seems to want a regular but very few are ready to make an effort, I see for my inbox... At the least the half of the messages I get are from people that clearly didn't read my profile.
I also seek a regular but Jaysus how difficult it is for men to keep a conversation without sending a bloody dick pic without being asked.
I am not a prosti.tute, treat people with some respect.
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"Everyone seems to want a regular but very few are ready to make an effort, I see for my inbox... At the least the half of the messages I get are from people that clearly didn't read my profile.
I also seek a regular but Jaysus how difficult it is for men to keep a conversation without sending a bloody dick pic without being asked.
I am not a prosti.tute, treat people with some respect.
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Yes I think it would be a hard thing to find. Especially if that is what it is classed as from the first meet. If you meet with no pressure from the start it can build up to that when you get to know each other better. But labeling it too early can be a bad thing too. |
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"I have had a few over the years. As long as you both talk openly and know the limits. It can be fantastic. It can last as long as both,want it too. Every situation is different.
Exactly this ....not everything has to end in a disaster "
How do you find such a person?
One who knows the emotional boundaries, that you have great chemistry with and fantastic sex as well as being a friend?
I think that is the big question for most on here.
In my case, can I find one again.
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By *razymind OP Man 11 weeks ago
Dublin mainly |
"I have had a few over the years. As long as you both talk openly and know the limits. It can be fantastic. It can last as long as both,want it too. Every situation is different.
Exactly this ....not everything has to end in a disaster
How do you find such a person?
One who knows the emotional boundaries, that you have great chemistry with and fantastic sex as well as being a friend?
I think that is the big question for most on here.
In my case, can I find one again.
lol "
And then even when you find all that..he is not living near you...clasdic |
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Its not like picking apples n such. And yes its hard work to find the right. But thats half the fun. Stop looking for people to tick your boxes. It can very often be that person, who at first glance. You thought no way. |
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"Its not like picking apples n such. And yes its hard work to find the right. But thats half the fun. Stop looking for people to tick your boxes. It can very often be that person, who at first glance. You thought no way. "
True 👍🏻 |
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"Its not like picking apples n such. And yes its hard work to find the right. But thats half the fun. Stop looking for people to tick your boxes. It can very often be that person, who at first glance. You thought no way. "
Exactly this. Nothing good ever came easy. Open minds and endless possibilities |
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"Its not like picking apples n such. And yes its hard work to find the right. But thats half the fun. Stop looking for people to tick your boxes. It can very often be that person, who at first glance. You thought no way.
Exactly this. Nothing good ever came easy. Open legs and endless possibilities "
Fixed that for ya 🤪 |
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"Its not like picking apples n such. And yes its hard work to find the right. But thats half the fun. Stop looking for people to tick your boxes. It can very often be that person, who at first glance. You thought no way.
Exactly this. Nothing good ever came easy. Open legs and endless possibilities
Fixed that for ya 🤪"
So right 😍😉 |
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By *alroc80Man 11 weeks ago
between Galway, Dublin and Mayo |
From my experience, iv messaged a load on here and they have read and ignored message or not bothered to read atall. I might send a second message a few months later, but most will just judge the person on the little they see and won't give any taught to meet for a social and chat. I 100% agree, you can't judge someone without getting to know them and it's very possible someone you would never have considered might be someone you would really get on with and a great friendship with or the potential of a great sexual chemistry. Personally, I'll meet anyone for a social meet. If nothing comes of it, we'll was no harm in meeting for a coffee. I think the one thing I have learned on here is don't expect much and be greatful for any contact you have with others. They have taken the time to reply. |
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"Worst thing you could ever have is a regular lover unless both of ye can keep feelings out of it!!!
Be careful for what you wish for, you just might find it!!! "
Hope everyone guessed I was joking??
If you find it, hold on to it as long as you can!!!  |
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