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By *eeking_sensuality77 OP   Woman 12 weeks ago

Athlone

... which is of greatest importance to you when choosing to meet someone. This is something that has crossed my mind so just said I'd ask.

Personally it's mind, face then body. In that order.

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By *anandJCouple 12 weeks ago

Citywest

Face and mind. Face before mind as I love beautiful faces. Mind after that as it take time to gat to know it. After that nothing matters.

Dan

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By *ozzlesMan 12 weeks ago

galway


"... which is of greatest importance to you when choosing to meet someone. This is something that has crossed my mind so just said I'd ask.

Personally it's mind, face then body. In that order.

"

Face, body then mind. First impressions and all that. Of far the most important to successful interactions though is the mind imo it's just that I can't judge someone's mind quickly enough.

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By *ethmeonfireMan 12 weeks ago

Dublin

To be honest

Mind

Beauty fades away and a face would do nothing.

If the person has a mind think about the things we can imagine and do together 🤣

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By *exyScientistsCouple 12 weeks ago

Castlebar


"... which is of greatest importance to you when choosing to meet someone. This is something that has crossed my mind so just said I'd ask.

Personally it's mind, face then body. In that order.

"

Same. Definitely personality first.

But also an attraction that stems from personality and the connection when you meet, and has nothing to do with face or body for me.

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By *antra MassageMan 12 weeks ago

Wicklow

Face and body attracts me,

Mind keeps me.

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By *arbh BanMan 12 weeks ago

Roses

Interesting mind

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By *eard and BoobsCouple 11 weeks ago

Portstewart

We love a mind as naughty as ours

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By *aptain Caveman41Man 11 weeks ago

Home

Mind because if we don't get on no matter how good looking you are we won't be getting into bed

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By *ilthyNightsCouple 11 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Face, mind, lots and lots of other things, then body. In that order.

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By *onewolf84Man 11 weeks ago

North cork

Once they have good smile and really good sense of humour and make me laugh. They have me already. We are different shape and sizes.

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By *uitman1986Man 11 weeks ago

dublin

Cheeky smile and dark sense of humor can go a long long way!!

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

Face and body will get my attention but a good sense of humour and someone who laughs will keep my attention!

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple 11 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

To be honest. The face then mind.

The body is the body. I have a plus size body so I don't judge others on their body type or size.

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By *on Juan the MADridMan 11 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/


"To be honest. The face then mind. "

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple 11 weeks ago

Cork

For us it's always personality before everything no point looking like super models if ya don't have the intelligence to hold a conversation. We like to have in our meets to have a meal, a few drinks then a bit of fun. Just normal people loving the lifestyle.

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By *ornywife20Couple 11 weeks ago

North Cork

To be quiet honest body would play a big part with both of us we don't expect models but we like to play with people who take reasonable care of themselves. Big can be beautiful. But for us there is such a thing as to big also . Sorry if I offended anyone I didn't mean to it's just our preference for play.

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By *ubadubdubWoman 11 weeks ago

Hereabouts

On here I'm not gonna lie it's the body that gets my attention first, then the mind and personality.

So when it comes to arranging meets both matter, for chemistry. Face not so much.

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By *oinNumberMan 11 weeks ago

Not in Dublin

Body grabs my attention

Face gets me interested

Mind seals the deal

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By *he jumpstartMan 11 weeks ago

Donegal

Face mind then body. Strange thing is I find different people attractive for different reasons. And this may make me sound weird but I am really attracted to a nice teeth!

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By *wirl02Man 11 weeks ago

Dublin 12

Face and body attract the eye but the mind makes you stay

Doesn't matter how beautiful you are if you're as dull as dishwater

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By *rishlad88Man 11 weeks ago

Co Dublin


"To be quiet honest body would play a big part with both of us we don't expect models but we like to play with people who take reasonable care of themselves. Big can be beautiful. But for us there is such a thing as to big also . Sorry if I offended anyone I didn't mean to it's just our preference for play. "

I'd like to think I'm similar

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By *rishlad88Man 11 weeks ago

Co Dublin


"On here I'm not gonna lie it's the body that gets my attention first, then the mind and personality.

So when it comes to arranging meets both matter, for chemistry. Face not so much. "

I'd like to think I'm the same

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By *otownkid1967Man 11 weeks ago

Portlaoise

The mind is most important for me. If there's no connection then I won't be interested.Looks and body are secondary for me.

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By *rMotivator2.0Man 11 weeks ago

Donegal

I'm definitely an ass and leg man but I like eyes and a nice smile but then again no point having all that if you're as dull as dishwater so I'd say personality plays a big part...but then again I'm a man and I just like getting my cock wet let's be honest...it's a vicious circle

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By *ree051970Woman 11 weeks ago

greystones

Definitely first attraction on fab is the face

In the real world it's different.

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By *eckme70Man 11 weeks ago

Strabane

Has to be face 1st as you don't know someone's mind

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By *oxyvixen99Woman 11 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

On here definitely face first, however, there's a guy who uses the forum that I've never seen and probably never will but I am really attracted to him by his posts and replies

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By *eckme70Man 11 weeks ago

Strabane


"On here definitely face first, however, there's a guy who uses the forum that I've never seen and probably never will but I am really attracted to him by his posts and replies "

Awww you're too kind 🤗 I'll show you my face anytime lol 😍

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By *panishRebelMan 11 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"... which is of greatest importance to you when choosing to meet someone. This is something that has crossed my mind so just said I'd ask.

Personally it's mind, face then body. In that order.

"

I like the phrasing of the thread.

I am not so sure what is meant by importance. But no matter what, if the mind is shit, the matter how good looking the face, or desirable the body is, my interest rapidly cools.

But surely the attitude has to be included. I don't get on with complainers....so even if the mind is brilliant and the rest,I just don't settle in.

Maybe at a party for a few hours, I could but beyond that, no.

Everything is intertwined.

A face or body can catch my eye and I want to check out more. It's rare that I find out about the mind before the face or body catching the eye. Not unknown however.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple 11 weeks ago

Northern Ireland


"To be quiet honest body would play a big part with both of us we don't expect models but we like to play with people who take reasonable care of themselves. Big can be beautiful. But for us there is such a thing as to big also . Sorry if I offended anyone I didn't mean to it's just our preference for play. "

You are allowed your preferences and as the owner of a plus size body I do not take offence. As it works out the people who actively love my body type are my favourite ones to play with and so people who have your preferences would not align with me anyway.

Horses for courses.

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By *3nsesMan 11 weeks ago

Dublin

Mind and body. If I am attracted to both of those ill always be attracted to their face.

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By *aseylee324Couple 11 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

No amount of physical beauty will compensate for an off-putting personality

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By *ingerNNutsCouple 11 weeks ago

dublin

For fab it’s mind, face, then mind again but in-person (which can be HEAPS different to how they represent themselves online) and lastly body

- Mrs

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By *pentoall555Man 11 weeks ago

benfleet

Body

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By *ocal studMan 11 weeks ago

A town near you

A smile on any woman's face shows her true beauty.i don't think there is the perfect body out there.i look at all shapes of lady's when passing.i am a sucker for a smile and a nice ass.

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By *elloMarylouWoman 11 weeks ago

mayo

I have a look I'm attracted too but in " real life" I've noticed it's different. I've ner guys who I thought straight away from looking at their pic I'm attracted to them but in person it's just not there.

Than I've met other guys and stra8ght off there's an attraction.

I do thing here though it's how you look

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By *r_Insatiable666Man 11 weeks ago

Cork

None of the above, I only care about their ability to play hurling.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman 11 weeks ago

South Down

None of them work for me in isolation.

No matter how fabulous someone's personality is, I still need to find them physically attractive; no matter how physically attractive they are, I need to find them engaging.

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

Face will attract me but the mind is what will pique my interest

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By *urvaliciousMeWoman 11 weeks ago

lisburn/Quigleys Point


"Face and body attracts me,

Mind keeps me. "

Love this answer!

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By *leasurevilleMan 11 weeks ago

kilkenny

mind

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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago

Mind ,both to be on the same wavelength ,

Face , smile & eyes

Body, we all age & people themselves have insecurities about their body even though they're absolutely hot & sexy in the eyes of others, but like l said if people are on the same wavelength mentally/mind ,body doesn't matter to the extent people think .

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By *ingerNNutsCouple 11 weeks ago

dublin


"Face and body attracts me,

Mind keeps me.

Love this answer!"

Agreed! Love this too

But it’s trickier as if a face/body ages I have no problem as it’s beautifully natural. If a mind changes or shows it’s true colours… - Mrs

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By *edro50Man 11 weeks ago

enniskillen

Imaginative mind always has me excited

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman 11 weeks ago

borderarea

Mind - definitely the mind - I have found myself attracted to a broad range of looks because of their mind - I have also been turned off a broad range due to their mind.

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By *me2cMan 11 weeks ago

Donegal

Mind, face and then body. A great personality is a huge attraction..

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By *oxyvixen99Woman 11 weeks ago

Newtownabbey


"On here definitely face first, however, there's a guy who uses the forum that I've never seen and probably never will but I am really attracted to him by his posts and replies

Awww you're too kind 🤗 I'll show you my face anytime lol 😍"

Hahahha chancer

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By *ot so needyMan 11 weeks ago

Galway

I don't have a type.

I like the person. personality is more important to me Sense of humour and sarcasm is vital too. I need to be able to connect with the person before I can be attracted to them.

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By *oy.2022Man 11 weeks ago

Dublin

Here is body first. Then, if I'm lucky, I get a face pic and if everything goes well, we keep chatting so mind is the last.

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