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"... which is of greatest importance to you when choosing to meet someone. This is something that has crossed my mind so just said I'd ask.
Personally it's mind, face then body. In that order.
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Face, body then mind. First impressions and all that. Of far the most important to successful interactions though is the mind imo it's just that I can't judge someone's mind quickly enough. |
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"... which is of greatest importance to you when choosing to meet someone. This is something that has crossed my mind so just said I'd ask.
Personally it's mind, face then body. In that order.
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Same. Definitely personality first.
But also an attraction that stems from personality and the connection when you meet, and has nothing to do with face or body for me.
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For us it's always personality before everything no point looking like super models if ya don't have the intelligence to hold a conversation. We like to have in our meets to have a meal, a few drinks then a bit of fun. Just normal people loving the lifestyle. |
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To be quiet honest body would play a big part with both of us we don't expect models but we like to play with people who take reasonable care of themselves. Big can be beautiful. But for us there is such a thing as to big also . Sorry if I offended anyone I didn't mean to it's just our preference for play. |
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"To be quiet honest body would play a big part with both of us we don't expect models but we like to play with people who take reasonable care of themselves. Big can be beautiful. But for us there is such a thing as to big also . Sorry if I offended anyone I didn't mean to it's just our preference for play. "
I'd like to think I'm similar |
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"On here I'm not gonna lie it's the body that gets my attention first, then the mind and personality.
So when it comes to arranging meets both matter, for chemistry. Face not so much. "
I'd like to think I'm the same |
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I'm definitely an ass and leg man but I like eyes and a nice smile but then again no point having all that if you're as dull as dishwater so I'd say personality plays a big part...but then again I'm a man and I just like getting my cock wet let's be honest...it's a vicious circle |
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"On here definitely face first, however, there's a guy who uses the forum that I've never seen and probably never will but I am really attracted to him by his posts and replies "
Awww you're too kind 🤗 I'll show you my face anytime lol 😍 |
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By *panishRebelMan 12 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"... which is of greatest importance to you when choosing to meet someone. This is something that has crossed my mind so just said I'd ask.
Personally it's mind, face then body. In that order.
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I like the phrasing of the thread.
I am not so sure what is meant by importance. But no matter what, if the mind is shit, the matter how good looking the face, or desirable the body is, my interest rapidly cools.
But surely the attitude has to be included. I don't get on with complainers....so even if the mind is brilliant and the rest,I just don't settle in.
Maybe at a party for a few hours, I could but beyond that, no.
Everything is intertwined.
A face or body can catch my eye and I want to check out more. It's rare that I find out about the mind before the face or body catching the eye. Not unknown however.
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"To be quiet honest body would play a big part with both of us we don't expect models but we like to play with people who take reasonable care of themselves. Big can be beautiful. But for us there is such a thing as to big also . Sorry if I offended anyone I didn't mean to it's just our preference for play. "
You are allowed your preferences and as the owner of a plus size body I do not take offence. As it works out the people who actively love my body type are my favourite ones to play with and so people who have your preferences would not align with me anyway.
Horses for courses.
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I have a look I'm attracted too but in " real life" I've noticed it's different. I've ner guys who I thought straight away from looking at their pic I'm attracted to them but in person it's just not there.
Than I've met other guys and stra8ght off there's an attraction.
I do thing here though it's how you look |
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None of them work for me in isolation.
No matter how fabulous someone's personality is, I still need to find them physically attractive; no matter how physically attractive they are, I need to find them engaging. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Mind ,both to be on the same wavelength ,
Face , smile & eyes
Body, we all age & people themselves have insecurities about their body even though they're absolutely hot & sexy in the eyes of others, but like l said if people are on the same wavelength mentally/mind ,body doesn't matter to the extent people think . |
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"Face and body attracts me,
Mind keeps me.
Love this answer!"
Agreed! Love this too
But it’s trickier as if a face/body ages I have no problem as it’s beautifully natural. If a mind changes or shows it’s true colours… - Mrs |
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"On here definitely face first, however, there's a guy who uses the forum that I've never seen and probably never will but I am really attracted to him by his posts and replies
Awww you're too kind 🤗 I'll show you my face anytime lol 😍"
Hahahha chancer |
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I don't have a type.
I like the person. personality is more important to me Sense of humour and sarcasm is vital too. I need to be able to connect with the person before I can be attracted to them. |
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