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By *ookwhoitisha OP   Man 12 weeks ago

outside Strabane

As the subject line says let's all clear our block lists and give everyone a second chance. If they are still a dose block again but give everyone another go at ballsing things up ha

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple 12 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

That would let the abusive ones back in again.

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By *eordie.Woman 12 weeks ago

The Sticks

Would take me all day to unblock, the amount on mine

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By *xstevenxxMan 12 weeks ago

Ashbourne

Not a chance - sorry there on there for a reason

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By *ookwhoitisha OP   Man 12 weeks ago

outside Strabane

Just fishing to see if I'm blocked by any local hotties lol

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By *iscuits8Man 12 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I've got one on mine. He's there years. Forgot all about him but no...

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By *eralt80Man 12 weeks ago

cork

The Fab repechage

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By *electableicecreamMan 12 weeks ago

The West


"I've got one on mine. He's there years. Forgot all about him but no..."

Oh baby just give me one more chance.

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By *chochamberWoman 12 weeks ago

Munster

Fab amnesty

No thanks, I enjoy a grudge.

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By *exyScientistsCouple 12 weeks ago

Castlebar

It's not crazy Saturday.

We block very few and I give second chances so after that I'm done.

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By *addyseeds.ieMan 12 weeks ago

Gorey, Enniscorthy

I just reviewed my block list, only a guy that has been a dxxk on his messages, not going to give him a second chance. I rarely block people on socials, if I do it there is a reason for that.

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman 12 weeks ago

Athlone

That would mean I'm unblocking all the attached and married men. I won't ever change my mind on that one.

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By *ealitybitesMan 12 weeks ago

Belfast

A cunt never changes it's spots

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By *lueLotusWoman 12 weeks ago

the wilderness

No second chances with me!

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple 12 weeks ago

kinkytown

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 no

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By *K430Man 12 weeks ago

Tipperary

Haha ,not overly quick to block , but when I do , it's with good reason , so no amnesty here

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple 12 weeks ago

ireland

Noooo,they where blocked for a reason !

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman 12 weeks ago

South Dub

I’d be here till next year to unblock mine massive no on that one!!!

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By *adger BrocMan 12 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I used to have a fairly large block list but I cleared it at Christmas, as a goodwill gesture.

I now have only 3 couples and 2 guys blocked for sending abusive messages.

Judicious use of filters and a thick skin are your best friends on fab to keep you from finger strain due to over use of the block button.

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By *otownkid1967Man 12 weeks ago

Portlaoise


"Fab amnesty

No thanks, I enjoy a grudge. "

Ditto

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman 12 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

My blockees are blocked for a reason. And they'll stay that way.

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By *ust M.A.IMan 12 weeks ago

Mullingar

Nope, not in a million years, this is fab, not the church

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By *adger BrocMan 12 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I have been unblocked by a number of fabbers who are now good fab friends.

The unblock button is there for a reason.

🔙

Never say never.

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By *osepearlWoman 12 weeks ago

bray

No way I will give second chance to all abuse I have got, I am not willing to go back in stress what I have got true, has lots of nice lovely fabers who I can enjoy with

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By *ot so needyMan 12 weeks ago

Galway

I have Blocked people.

But I have also unblocked people too.

If I block it is usually because of rude messages.

I would never block someone just because I'm not interested.

But I can see how some would use it as just another filter.

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By *adger BrocMan 12 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Not everyone gets blocked because they have been abusive.

Some people resort to using the block button when they should have been more careful with their filters in the first instance which would have prevented them from receiving unwanted messages.

The block button can also be used by people as a power trip device which is in itself a subtle form of abuse.

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By *ot so needyMan 12 weeks ago

Galway


"Not everyone gets blocked because they have been abusive.

Some people resort to using the block button when they should have been more careful with their filters in the first instance which would have prevented them from receiving unwanted messages.

The block button can also be used by people as a power trip device which is in itself a subtle form of abuse.

"

I don't think it's abuse.

It's up to everyone to decide how they use it.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple 12 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Fuck no

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By *electableicecreamMan 12 weeks ago

The West


"Not everyone gets blocked because they have been abusive.

Some people resort to using the block button when they should have been more careful with their filters in the first instance which would have prevented them from receiving unwanted messages.

The block button can also be used by people as a power trip device which is in itself a subtle form of abuse.

"

Blocking is a filter...

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By *iscuits8Man 12 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I know of a few block lists I'm on. Makes me feel like such a rebel (a bollocks really...) 😀

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By *electableicecreamMan 12 weeks ago

The West


"I used to have a fairly large block list but I cleared it at Christmas, as a goodwill gesture.

I now have only 3 couples and 2 guys blocked for sending abusive messages.

Judicious use of filters and a thick skin are your best friends on fab to keep you from finger strain due to over use of the block button."

There's no such thing as overuse. Just use of a tool.

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By *s LollyWoman 12 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa it's great to keep all the cunts in the one place 🤭😏✌️

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By *ustBoWoman 12 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nah thanks I'll keep them blocked .Unblocked some before and regretted it pretty quicky. So nope,no point in unblocking anyone they are on there for a reason

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By *un_Lover123Man 12 weeks ago

Lonely

Hmmmm

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple 12 weeks ago

The West


"Not everyone gets blocked because they have been abusive.

Some people resort to using the block button when they should have been more careful with their filters in the first instance which would have prevented them from receiving unwanted messages.

The block button can also be used by people as a power trip device which is in itself a subtle form of abuse.

"

There is no power trip with blocking.

They can be people that don't match what you're looking or people you've found unlikeable or abusive.

The block button is the best filter on Fab.

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By *ealitybitesMan 12 weeks ago

Belfast


"Not everyone gets blocked because they have been abusive.

Some people resort to using the block button when they should have been more careful with their filters in the first instance which would have prevented them from receiving unwanted messages.

The block button can also be used by people as a power trip device which is in itself a subtle form of abuse.

"

You seem to have had a lot of issues with being blocked. I have 40 plus on my block list. Well over half of those are people I've never spoken to but we have nothing in common and blocking keeps them out of my local updates.

Others I've never spoken to either but I don't like their forum attitude or the fact they have made forum comments in the past hinting at how well we know each other through fab despite the fact we have never exchanged a single message.

That leaves maybe 10 that are just complete arseholes with no redeeming qualities whatsoever.

I'm struggling with how you could see any of that as a failure on my part or any form of abuse?

I actually see it as a very positive approach so I have to assume you are talking about your own experiences which you do quite often in regards to the block button?

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By *lueLotusWoman 12 weeks ago

the wilderness


"Not everyone gets blocked because they have been abusive.

Some people resort to using the block button when they should have been more careful with their filters in the first instance which would have prevented them from receiving unwanted messages.

The block button can also be used by people as a power trip device which is in itself a subtle form of abuse.

There is no power trip with blocking.

They can be people that don't match what you're looking or people you've found unlikeable or abusive.

The block button is the best filter on Fab."

Yes I relate to this. I want to meet single men and so I don't filter them but with the block button I can filter out those I know I wouldn't get on with. My blocklist is huge.

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By *og-ManMan 12 weeks ago

somewhere


"Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa it's great to keep all the cunts in the one place 🤭😏✌️"

If one was looking for a cunt where would one look

Hypothetically

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By *s LollyWoman 12 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa it's great to keep all the cunts in the one place 🤭😏✌️

If one was looking for a cunt where would one look

Hypothetically "

Im my block list 🚫🤪

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By *ozzlesMan 12 weeks ago

galway


"Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa it's great to keep all the cunts in the one place 🤭😏✌️

If one was looking for a cunt where would one look

Hypothetically "

Looks like a combined fab block list might be a good place to start.

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By *adger BrocMan 12 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"Not everyone gets blocked because they have been abusive.

Some people resort to using the block button when they should have been more careful with their filters in the first instance which would have prevented them from receiving unwanted messages.

The block button can also be used by people as a power trip device which is in itself a subtle form of abuse.

You seem to have had a lot of issues with being blocked. I have 40 plus on my block list. Well over half of those are people I've never spoken to but we have nothing in common and blocking keeps them out of my local updates.

Others I've never spoken to either but I don't like their forum attitude or the fact they have made forum comments in the past hinting at how well we know each other through fab despite the fact we have never exchanged a single message.

That leaves maybe 10 that are just complete arseholes with no redeeming qualities whatsoever.

I'm struggling with how you could see any of that as a failure on my part or any form of abuse?

I actually see it as a very positive approach so I have to assume you are talking about your own experiences which you do quite often in regards to the block button? "

.................

Obviously I can only relate my own experience and would not presume to speak on behalf of others.

The block button can be used to prevent annoying, abusive, unsuitable or uninteresting people from contacting you, and I have used it for this purpose myself.

My point is purely that not everyone who gets blocked has been abusive.

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By *og-ManMan 11 weeks ago

somewhere


"Not everyone gets blocked because they have been abusive.

Some people resort to using the block button when they should have been more careful with their filters in the first instance which would have prevented them from receiving unwanted messages.

The block button can also be used by people as a power trip device which is in itself a subtle form of abuse.

You seem to have had a lot of issues with being blocked. I have 40 plus on my block list. Well over half of those are people I've never spoken to but we have nothing in common and blocking keeps them out of my local updates.

Others I've never spoken to either but I don't like their forum attitude or the fact they have made forum comments in the past hinting at how well we know each other through fab despite the fact we have never exchanged a single message.

That leaves maybe 10 that are just complete arseholes with no redeeming qualities whatsoever.

I'm struggling with how you could see any of that as a failure on my part or any form of abuse?

I actually see it as a very positive approach so I have to assume you are talking about your own experiences which you do quite often in regards to the block button?

.................

Obviously I can only relate my own experience and would not presume to speak on behalf of others.

The block button can be used to prevent annoying, abusive, unsuitable or uninteresting people from contacting you, and I have used it for this purpose myself.

My point is purely that not everyone who gets blocked has been abusive.

"

But they don't have to be abusive

I reckon 50% of my block list are too young

40% have written shite I fundamentally disagree with so blocked

10% have been abusive to me in the forums

Don't bother normally replying to the abusive ones just block and forget

Fuck them ...just another random stranger on the internet ....don't need validation from them.

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By *iCuri0Man 11 weeks ago

Shannon

No thanks. They failed to read my profile and were blocked due to that

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