A few things I can comment on
1- nominate someone that you TRUST to insure that people are using protection (condoms) in the past I’ve seen men try and slip them off without saying 
2- if you invite 10 guys you will get two that show up, so do a good vet and invite plenty.
3- make sure everyone knows rules and limits
4- be careful and have a good time
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"Has anybody ever done one? Would you do it again? Tips for a newbie? "
Arranged several with varying degrees of success.
Next one in the planning for September.
Double girl gang bang.
Feel free to drop me a message, I'll run through my process should you like. |
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By *asual777Man 13 weeks ago
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I have had female friends who have set aside an afternoon or evening and I have invited guys (they vetted the profiles of ) either to arrive together or on an hourly basis . Delightful way to spend a day !! |
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By *asual777Man 13 weeks ago
i travel all over |
Having a male friend you trust is helpful
Condoms are non negotiable
Room costs need to be discussed and sorted
Boundaries to be discussed beforehand . What you like , what you won’t do .
No alcohol or drugs
That sort of thing
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All that has been said here so far is good advice.
Definitely make sure you have at least 2 to take care of your safety.
Meet away from the room, any undesirables can be cut loose before going to the room(if in a hotel).
Bring extra condoms, things happen so having spares is a good idea.
Know what you want and discuss that with the guys you trust. Also have some form of safe word/phrase to alert them.
On the night relax and enjoy.
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By *ergalMan 13 weeks ago
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Yea as above, have a trusted friend there to monitor things
A safe word, that if things are going wrong or you feel uncomfortable with something, they will be able to notice straight away
And invite lots, as a large percentage probably won't turn up |
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Have a shower available and ask them all to use it beforehand. With a bunch of men you might run the risk of getting one that doesn't have great hygiene... and (potentially without foreplay/chat beforehand) you run the risk of not realising the issue until it's in your mouth or something. |
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Ideally run it where you’ve 2 rooms:
- Chill out / break room to meet people initially and where someone can take a break
- Bedroom with access bathroom for the reasons previously mentioned
- Have lots of towels
- Lots of water and limit the alcohol
- 2 people to watch out for you ( One of whom will always be in the room with you to check for condoms and make sure you’re comfortable)
- Be very direct and blunt about what you want, like and don’t like.
- If you want to take on more than one guy at a time say it out loud, a lot of guys will just stand back and wait their turn
- If you’re enjoying something say it
- Enjoy |
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Safe words can be plain language (Stop) or a prearranged code (Red is the traffic light system. Been is good and Yellow is very fucking close to my limit and should instigaa check in).
Whatever you use, discuss it thoroughly.
In a group scenario it's helpful to have rules of the room. My personal ones are say 'Time Out' or do the time out symbol with your hands and I also like it when people check in with each other 'are you ok', 'are you having fun' etc. |
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"[Removed by poster at 15/08/24 10:15:55]
Safe words can be plain language (Stop) or a prearranged code (Red is the traffic light system. Been is good and Yellow is very fucking close to my limit and should instigaa check in).
Whatever you use, discuss it thoroughly.
In a group scenario it's helpful to have rules of the room. My personal ones are say 'Time Out' or do the time out symbol with your hands and I also like it when people check in with each other 'are you ok', 'are you having fun' etc. "
Yeah good advice. Keep it simple. I'd love to get involved with a group for some social fun even on a naturist/nudist non sexual level  |
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I sent you a pm there now 
Lucky I went out and bought some for her. 