So you see a profile that catches your attention?
What do you do?
I've noticed a few different options that guys use
1 keep looking at profile few times a day but not interact
2 message, send a wink and a friend request
3 like all public pics
What works for you? |
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Look at their profile and read the bio to see if there's anything there to use as an ice breaker, but due to the fact that I'm a smoker most of the time I don't even chance my luck.
If I see that they don't meet smokers I just fab a few of their pictures and move on🙂 |
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"So you see a profile that catches your attention?
What do you do?
I've noticed a few different options that guys use
1 keep looking at profile few times a day but not interact
2 message, send a wink and a friend request
3 like all public pics
What works for you? "
Well there is only so much one can do to draw females attention! So try everything…
Most men don’t get responses back, so yeah like a pic or just simple like page. Or ask directly in possible interest. 95% time probably not reply.
Men will try everything before they give up.
That answer your question |
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"So you see a profile that catches your attention?
What do you do?
I've noticed a few different options that guys use
1 keep looking at profile few times a day but not interact
2 message, send a wink and a friend request
3 like all public pics
What works for you? "
Nothing works😂.
Previously I would message them and probably fab a few pics too.
Now I have a wank and block🤣 |
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My thought process would be...
1) Where are they. If too far away don't bother
2) Are they verified? If not then they are a bit of a risk. Who are they verified by? Are they play verifications or social?
3) Do they describe what they are looking for? Is that me / us?
4) Do I / we have the opportunity (free time, babysitting, play money, energy) to meet?
5) Do they look like they are serious about meeting at the moment?
6) Have they been online recently? If not there is no point contacting
7) Do I / we think we would get on socially? Look for signs of compatibility or red flags
8) Check private notes.
9) Discuss with each other. Maybe one of us has met them before or has heard something about them. Maybe they will spot something that's been missed. Maybe they just aren't feeling like sharing at the moment. Maybe they just get a bad vibe off the profile
10) In the extremely unlikely event that all of these other tests are passed, they maybe message them.
Clubs / events are way way easier. |
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"So you see a profile that catches your attention?
What do you do?
I've noticed a few different options that guys use
1 keep looking at profile few times a day but not interact
2 message, send a wink and a friend request
3 like all public pics
What works for you? "
I recall on a forum thread ages ago a guy mentioning he used to leave verifications on profiles he wanted to meet, this almost always resulted in a reply asking why they left a verification to which he responded he could see the future etc. although I think it worked a couple of times for him I think he was banned eventually. |
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It very much depends on why they catch my attention.
If I just like their pics I'll give them a fab.
If I like (or disagree with a forum posts or multiple) I'll really to them on here.
If I like the whole package evem if I dont think we might meet I'll send a message.
And sometimes I'll just send random messages to people off here because they made me laugh or I can't say something on the public forum in reply to a post they made |
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If I find a profile I’m interested in I might fab a few photos if I like them and if I decide to send them a message I’ll open the message box and stare at it for a few minutes. Then back out of it when nothing comes to mind. I might then go back and type another message only to delete again because I think it’s garbage. I might repeat this another few times and in the end never actually message the person |
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By *ergalMan 13 weeks ago
East Cork |
"If I find a profile I’m interested in I might fab a few photos if I like them and if I decide to send them a message I’ll open the message box and stare at it for a few minutes. Then back out of it when nothing comes to mind. I might then go back and type another message only to delete again because I think it’s garbage. I might repeat this another few times and in the end never actually message the person "
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If I’m lucky enough to find someone I’m interested in that hasn’t filtered out my age group I’ll more than likely fab a few of their photos and message them with a compliment on their profile! Rare to get replies though! |
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Speaking from the point of view of a man trying to contact a woman -
Combination of all but usually a message works best.
Wonder about the value of winks , it’s basically a hi which most ladies hate !
Do woman really check through all the profiles that have fabbed their pics or who has their viewed their profile , I don’t think so.
A well worded message that shows you have read their profile and then cross your fingers.
I use to like when you had to write a subject line, it was fun coming up with something you thought might grab the attention. |
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Firstly I go on the forums see what the topics of the day are. If I see someone interesting I'll have a look at their profile and then send message if I like what I see on their profile.
I rarely wink and as for fabbing photos, sometimes... Depends on the photo 
Sometimes I just see who's online... And if they're interesting to me I'll message. Not rocket science, if there's genuine mutual attraction there will be interaction then there's no need bombarding with messages or abusive messages. We are all here for some physical erotic pleasure. 
Happy Fabbing |
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I try and come up with a well worded message based on what their profile says and maybe fab a picture of theirs, not all of them.
But I'd say the women get so many messages that it is just impossible to reply to all. |
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"Speaking from the point of view of a man trying to contact a woman -
Combination of all but usually a message works best.
Wonder about the value of winks , it’s basically a hi which most ladies hate !
Do woman really check through all the profiles that have fabbed their pics or who has their viewed their profile , I don’t think so.
A well worded message that shows you have read their profile and then cross your fingers.
I use to like when you had to write a subject line, it was fun coming up with something you thought might grab the attention."
I would always check who's fabbed my pics or viewed my profile |
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By *ykkesMan 13 weeks ago
North Dublin |
Depends on the context of where I am. If working, maybe quick fab of pics or quick message…I tend to not message if there is checklist to adhere to like
no dick pics on your profile, face pic on first message, blocked if don’t do as I say, no dirty talk…all from a blank profile called cumwhore with no verifications and only joined 10 mins ago 😂😂 |
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"Speaking from the point of view of a man trying to contact a woman -
Combination of all but usually a message works best.
Wonder about the value of winks , it’s basically a hi which most ladies hate !
Do woman really check through all the profiles that have fabbed their pics or who has their viewed their profile , I don’t think so.
A well worded message that shows you have read their profile and then cross your fingers.
I use to like when you had to write a subject line, it was fun coming up with something you thought might grab the attention.
I would always check who's fabbed my pics or viewed my profile"
Good to know. I rarely see that someone has viewed my profile after I have fabbed or viewed theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"My first message would be usually from an interaction on here the forum page, if it's not id read the bio an pick something from that and pop a message 😁"
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I don't cold call people. I find I'm drawn to very interesting profiles, regardless of what their photos look like.
I engage with the forum, and see who finds me fascinating , desirable ,irresistible, mysterious, and sexy and wait for their messages.
It seems to have worked in the past, but this year I'm attracting an abundance of men pretending to be women.
( Must change the colours of the candles for my next full moon ritual )
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I do look at the status they put up to start a conversation. Definitely better luck there.
Say they are going to Envy or looking at a recommendation, that is my cue to start the chat.
Often, I message people who fab my photos or view my profile but do read the profile before doing it.
Additionally, if they get a veri from someone I know or played with, that can be a good ice breaker as well. |
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"Speaking from the point of view of a man trying to contact a woman -
Combination of all but usually a message works best.
Wonder about the value of winks , it’s basically a hi which most ladies hate !
Do woman really check through all the profiles that have fabbed their pics or who has their viewed their profile , I don’t think so.
A well worded message that shows you have read their profile and then cross your fingers.
I use to like when you had to write a subject line, it was fun coming up with something you thought might grab the attention.
I would always check who's fabbed my pics or viewed my profile
Good to know. I rarely see that someone has viewed my profile after I have fabbed or viewed theirs."
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"So you see a profile that catches your attention?
What do you do?
I've noticed a few different options that guys use
1 keep looking at profile few times a day but not interact
2 message, send a wink and a friend request
3 like all public pics
What works for you? "
1st put in the hotlist
2nd make some follow up especially new profiles or profile with no pics and/or veris to avoid surprises.
3rd wink
4th text sometimes face pic attached
4a if the reply happens see if is positive or negative and move on or stop.
4b if not reply and keep in yellow sending more text till one is read.
4c if read and not replied send a second one, if that is not replied either stop texting and block to avoid texting again.
4d if read and deleted (block) the same as 4c.
I never send random friend requests and only fab the pics that I like, I don’t fab pics as an attraction strategy. |
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By *wirl02Man 13 weeks ago
Dublin 12 |
If browsing profiles & fabbing pics it's a bit of window shopping. If something catches the eye or the right mood hits (I.e something more interesting then "hey" to say) I'll message and see if I get a reply |
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