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By *lueLotusWoman 18 weeks ago
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I can only speak for myself. It would make me MORE attracted to a guy if they've been with tv/cds, trans, lgbtq+ people, it's a green flag which would tell me the guy is open minded and emotionally intelligent. |
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"I think it depends personally. There’s a huge difference between a fem tv/ts and a bloke in a wig and heels no?"
The grouping of trans people here with crossdressers isn't helpful... but some women would be transphobic enough that it would just be a straight no way. |
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"Would you two be into a trans person together? Just curious "
Potentially. Herself have played with trans people before, but I haven't. It's not something we would rule out in the right circumstances. |
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"What I mean is the site itself groups trans people together with crossdressers "
Good point.
Have you two tried. Personally I’d prefer a 3 way with a female and a trans person. Don’t think that’s too bad honestly |
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For me it would depend on the reason they've been with a trans person. Any whiff of fetishism of trans people would put me off. If they've been with someone who is trans because they found that person attractive (and the fact that person was trans was inconsequential) then I've no issue at all. But I'm self aware enough to know that's due to my own circumstances |
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"Id definitely not be fucking someone who wasn't super enthusiastic about it. If someone thought sex with me would not be too bad, then that would be a fuck no from me."
No I meant I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to be with a trans person. Most people think it’s bad but I think it’s grand. I was just wondering would it turn a woman away having a verification from a TS/TV. Think it does |
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"For me it would depend on the reason they've been with a trans person. Any whiff of fetishism of trans people would put me off. If they've been with someone who is trans because they found that person attractive (and the fact that person was trans was inconsequential) then I've no issue at all. But I'm self aware enough to know that's due to my own circumstances"
That’s exactly what I think. You’re just more articulate than me lol |
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As others have pointed out, the way this website groups trans people together with crossdressers is extremely unhelpful, mostly because it just wastes a lot of time!
OP, as others have pointed out "a trans" is not an accurate way to talk about us. Trans is a descriptive word. I am a trans woman. There are also trans men, not to mention people with other genders beyond that who may or may not identify as trans. You wouldn't call someone "a tall".
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"Id definitely not be fucking someone who wasn't super enthusiastic about it. If someone thought sex with me would not be too bad, then that would be a fuck no from me.
No I meant I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to be with a trans person. Most people think it’s bad but I think it’s grand. I was just wondering would it turn a woman away having a verification from a TS/TV. Think it does "
"Most people think it's bad"?
We obviously move in different circles.  |
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Ya the grouping in fab is ridiculous, but hey we have emojis now at least.
I would say alot of what I know about the trans community in the last 10 years was learned via discussions on this forum and chatting to fabbers so it's not all bad |
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"As others have pointed out, the way this website groups trans people together with crossdressers is extremely unhelpful, mostly because it just wastes a lot of time!
OP, as others have pointed out "a trans" is not an accurate way to talk about us. Trans is a descriptive word. I am a trans woman. There are also trans men, not to mention people with other genders beyond that who may or may not identify as trans. You wouldn't call someone "a tall".
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Again. I’m sorry. I didn’t mean offence |
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OP just do whatever you want and meet whoever you want. Don’t be concerned that a little green tick from a TV/TS as this site defines them turns certain people off. You are never going to please everyone no matter what. There are so many judgmental people around, it’s best you do you and let them do them. Who cares what others are or aren’t doing. Meet a trans person if that’s what you want and don’t worry about the ones who will be put off by it. For everyone who is put off there are people who aren’t. You don’t need to join the sheep to fit in, find your own peoples xx |
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"Depends on the girl you meet. Some don't care and others are very judgemental "
Judgemental is the wrong word. It's about preference. Just because they're not interested due to someone's past doesn't make them judgmental |
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"Id definitely not be fucking someone who wasn't super enthusiastic about it. If someone thought sex with me would not be too bad, then that would be a fuck no from me.
No I meant I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to be with a trans person. Most people think it’s bad but I think it’s grand. I was just wondering would it turn a woman away having a verification from a TS/TV. Think it does "
No the fact of a veri alone wouldn't put me off. If the content of the veri was really gratuitously graphic, it might put me off a little, if I thought the description maybe devalued either person or objectified them. |
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"Depends on the girl you meet. Some don't care and others are very judgemental
Judgemental is the wrong word. It's about preference. Just because they're not interested due to someone's past doesn't make them judgmental"
Id disagree. Not being interested in someone for something that's not related to who they are or how they present themselves to you, but rather because of someone they chose to be intimate with previously isn't (in my opinion) a preference. |
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