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By *om TangoMan 21 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
I keep fab life to myself and say nothing about it to family or friends. Last social I was at I bumped into a drinking buddy from years ago. No big deal and we talked away like normal. Why are you in trouble. |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
I'm not in trouble anymore more,I sent a face pic to a girl,she said she was gonna tell my wife if I didn't give her money,a phone n cigarettes yes cigarettes!! Well I didn't pay I'm now divorced she told my ex and daughters |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"Was it the Tattoo that identified you to others as very distinctive and assuming it’s on you. Just curious as Sue always a bit concerned to keep things very private "
No wasn't the tattoo it was a face pic  |
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We were always interested in swinging and did it in clubs abroad until we heard about Fab. We are both free to play solo but mostly we play as a couple. Sorry to hear that it was a rotten thing to do as none of her business. Presume you reported it to Fab and she is off the site |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"We were always interested in swinging and did it in clubs abroad until we heard about Fab. We are both free to play solo but mostly we play as a couple. Sorry to hear that it was a rotten thing to do as none of her business. Presume you reported it to Fab and she is off the site "
she probably just changed her profile and try again not thinking of the consequences, I now have no family, along with trying to do a few different things to myself |
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"We were always interested in swinging and did it in clubs abroad until we heard about Fab. We are both free to play solo but mostly we play as a couple. Sorry to hear that it was a rotten thing to do as none of her business. Presume you reported it to Fab and she is off the site she probably just changed her profile and try again not thinking of the consequences, I now have no family, along with trying to do a few different things to myself "
That's a shit show lad, hope you are doing better now |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"We were always interested in swinging and did it in clubs abroad until we heard about Fab. We are both free to play solo but mostly we play as a couple. Sorry to hear that it was a rotten thing to do as none of her business. Presume you reported it to Fab and she is off the site she probably just changed her profile and try again not thinking of the consequences, I now have no family, along with trying to do a few different things to myself
That's a shit show lad, hope you are doing better now"
thanks mate slow process but getting there!! 👍🏻 |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"The fuck she knew who your wife was? Like ok, she has your face pic but still, to connect the face to an address and wife??? "
She said she was from Derry but she wasn't she was from my own town and knew us,I've never found out who she was she sent everything to my ex's Facebook
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"The fuck she knew who your wife was? Like ok, she has your face pic but still, to connect the face to an address and wife???
She said she was from Derry but she wasn't she was from my own town and knew us,I've never found out who she was she sent everything to my ex's Facebook
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Mate, that was targeted and deliberate. Entrapment. Well planned and executed. It was not a coincidence, or whatever... They knew exactly what they were doing.
All these profiles, like, send me your face pic in your very first message if you want me to consider talking to you...
Those should be banned from the site.
Asking for PI and not offering any back... Really? |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"The fuck she knew who your wife was? Like ok, she has your face pic but still, to connect the face to an address and wife???
She said she was from Derry but she wasn't she was from my own town and knew us,I've never found out who she was she sent everything to my ex's Facebook
Mate, that was targeted and deliberate. Entrapment. Well planned and executed. It was not a coincidence, or whatever... They knew exactly what they were doing.
All these profiles, like, send me your face pic in your very first message if you want me to consider talking to you...
Those should be banned from the site.
Asking for PI and not offering any back... Really? "
I know what you're saying mate but wasn't on the 1st txt quite a few texts in,to be honest I gave up caring who it was a long time ago as it was doing my head in lol |
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By *rnicaMan 21 weeks ago
The Great Outdoors |
"I'm not in trouble anymore more,I sent a face pic to a girl,she said she was gonna tell my wife if I didn't give her money,a phone n cigarettes yes cigarettes!! Well I didn't pay I'm now divorced she told my ex and daughters "
Holy shit dude... Ive never come across anything on Fab that came close to shocking me until I read your post. Several words come to mind... Vindictive, misandristic, entitled, hypocritical, cowardly, violent.
I'm sure there are those that might chastise you for infidelity, but that's beside the point. The vanilla world is already chock-full of judgement, intolerance & contempt for people who, for whatever reason, struggle to conform to societal expectations. There really is no room for that shit on here - live and let live, I say.
I'm sorry you'd such a grim experience OP. Wish you well in the future. |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"My ex. Used it as a way of insulting me when there's a no contact court order in place. No where is safe from a true narcissist. "
I'm sorry that you've had to go through it!! Pity there was no way of knowing r being able to block people beforehand, Keep your head up always  |
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By *adylaceWoman 21 weeks ago
Waterford City |
I'm single so there is nobody for me to get into "trouble" with but I had one guy i met years ago start showing up at my house shouting about what I was up to. I live in a housing estate so that was not fun. |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"I'm single so there is nobody for me to get into "trouble" with but I had one guy i met years ago start showing up at my house shouting about what I was up to. I live in a housing estate so that was not fun. "
fuck that's terrible there really is some nut jobs out there,I hope he's stopped n no-one knew what he was on about!! |
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By *adylaceWoman 21 weeks ago
Waterford City |
"I'm single so there is nobody for me to get into "trouble" with but I had one guy i met years ago start showing up at my house shouting about what I was up to. I live in a housing estate so that was not fun. fuck that's terrible there really is some nut jobs out there,I hope he's stopped n no-one knew what he was on about!! "
The neighbours were obviously asking questions. So I just let on that he was a guy I had turned down on a night out and he didn't like it. They seemed to believe me. Don't really care if they didn't. Lol. I called the Gardai on him and that was enough to scare him off. |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"I'm single so there is nobody for me to get into "trouble" with but I had one guy i met years ago start showing up at my house shouting about what I was up to. I live in a housing estate so that was not fun. fuck that's terrible there really is some nut jobs out there,I hope he's stopped n no-one knew what he was on about!!
The neighbours were obviously asking questions. So I just let on that he was a guy I had turned down on a night out and he didn't like it. They seemed to believe me. Don't really care if they didn't. Lol. I called the Gardai on him and that was enough to scare him off. "
LOL That's brilliant and it's likely if the neighbours aren't on Fab they've probably never heard of it, I hope he's stayed away since!! |
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By *rRiosMan 21 weeks ago
dublin |
"I'm single so there is nobody for me to get into "trouble" with but I had one guy i met years ago start showing up at my house shouting about what I was up to. I live in a housing estate so that was not fun. fuck that's terrible there really is some nut jobs out there,I hope he's stopped n no-one knew what he was on about!!
The neighbours were obviously asking questions. So I just let on that he was a guy I had turned down on a night out and he didn't like it. They seemed to believe me. Don't really care if they didn't. Lol. I called the Gardai on him and that was enough to scare him off. "
Again, I apologies profusely about this
Joking aside op, why didn’t you meet them under the guise of giving with money and cigs with a guard in toe? |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"I'm single so there is nobody for me to get into "trouble" with but I had one guy i met years ago start showing up at my house shouting about what I was up to. I live in a housing estate so that was not fun. fuck that's terrible there really is some nut jobs out there,I hope he's stopped n no-one knew what he was on about!!
The neighbours were obviously asking questions. So I just let on that he was a guy I had turned down on a night out and he didn't like it. They seemed to believe me. Don't really care if they didn't. Lol. I called the Gardai on him and that was enough to scare him off.
Again, I apologies profusely about this
Joking aside op, why didn’t you meet them under the guise of giving with money and cigs with a guard in toe? "
I definitely should have but I suppose I thought they were chancing their arm |
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Really sorry for you OP. Terrible betrayal to experience. You can’t change anything that happened and almost certainly was going to tell your ex no matter what you did.
You’ve done nothing wrong. Your ex and daughters will come around in time. Just look after yourself for now. |
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By *rRiosMan 21 weeks ago
dublin |
"Really sorry for you OP. Terrible betrayal to experience. You can’t change anything that happened and almost certainly was going to tell your ex no matter what you did.
You’ve done nothing wrong. Your ex and daughters will come around in time. Just look after yourself for now. "
Not having a go at the op but “you’ve done nothing wrong” seems like a wild take to have considering it was attempted bl@ckmail on him trying to cheat on his wife and ending in the breakup of that relationship. |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Strabane |
"Really sorry for you OP. Terrible betrayal to experience. You can’t change anything that happened and almost certainly was going to tell your ex no matter what you did.
You’ve done nothing wrong. Your ex and daughters will come around in time. Just look after yourself for now. "
cheers mate I really appreciate your kind words 👌👍🏻 |
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"I'm not in trouble anymore more,I sent a face pic to a girl,she said she was gonna tell my wife if I didn't give her money,a phone n cigarettes yes cigarettes!! Well I didn't pay I'm now divorced she told my ex and daughters "
Unfortunately I had a very similar experience, even if was not about money, I decided not to bend.
It end up with some family members, friends and colleagues suddenly getting notified that I’m bisexual.
I managed to get things disappeared after confronting the other party, I then decided to talk to my then wife, that was not aware of what’s just happened. I thought I got a second chance but actually we just postponed the inevitable, so we separated few years later.
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"Really sorry for you OP. Terrible betrayal to experience. You can’t change anything that happened and almost certainly was going to tell your ex no matter what you did.
You’ve done nothing wrong. Your ex and daughters will come around in time. Just look after yourself for now.
Not having a go at the op but “you’ve done nothing wrong” seems like a wild take to have considering it was attempted bl@ckmail on him trying to cheat on his wife and ending in the breakup of that relationship. "
OP makes it clear in a number of posts that his wife is his ex wife. |
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"Really sorry for you OP. Terrible betrayal to experience. You can’t change anything that happened and almost certainly was going to tell your ex no matter what you did.
You’ve done nothing wrong. Your ex and daughters will come around in time. Just look after yourself for now.
Not having a go at the op but “you’ve done nothing wrong” seems like a wild take to have considering it was attempted bl@ckmail on him trying to cheat on his wife and ending in the breakup of that relationship.
OP makes it clear in a number of posts that his wife is his ex wife. "
Unless I've read it wrong she's his ex wife because this woman exposed him |
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"The fuck she knew who your wife was? Like ok, she has your face pic but still, to connect the face to an address and wife???
She said she was from Derry but she wasn't she was from my own town and knew us,I've never found out who she was she sent everything to my ex's Facebook
Mate, that was targeted and deliberate. Entrapment. Well planned and executed. It was not a coincidence, or whatever... They knew exactly what they were doing.
All these profiles, like, send me your face pic in your very first message if you want me to consider talking to you...
Those should be banned from the site.
Asking for PI and not offering any back... Really? "
People can ask. If you don't want to send it just move on.
I don't think it's right either but banning them might be a bit harsh. |
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