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By *astello OP   Woman 21 weeks ago

Far far away

What's your non negotiable in a fab buddy, FB, fwb..

🗣🙅‍♀️🙅

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By *adger BrocMan 21 weeks ago

Co. Cork

They have to be real, totally hot, and a good listener....

And not fussy.......definitely not even the tiniest bit fussy.

Oh and if the sex is good, that's a bonus.

😉🤪😈

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By *leasurevilleMan 21 weeks ago

kilkenny

not clingy

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By *astello OP   Woman 21 weeks ago

Far far away

Those unsexy fusspots ..

Pah...😬😬😬😬

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By *astello OP   Woman 21 weeks ago

Far far away

Smoking 🚬 is a definite no

Equality in chat.... 🤐🤐

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By *iscuits8Man 21 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Can't have a penis. Total dealbreaker.

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By *addyseeds.ieMan 21 weeks ago

Gorey, Enniscorthy

Drugs, definitely no negotiable.

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By *og-ManMan 21 weeks ago

somewhere

Non smoker

Can share a conversation

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By *om TangoMan 21 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Been self centred, wants me to jump hoops, fine dining and wines. Her way or no way.

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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago

No negotiation, I've found it

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By *uriousVoyeurMan 21 weeks ago

Northside


"Can't have a penis. Total dealbreaker."

Not even a teeny one???

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By *razyNippleLoverMan 21 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

People that eat weetabix with hot milk made into a paste spread on toast with real butter 😉😉

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By *antra MassageMan 21 weeks ago

South Side.

Allergic to coconut oil. A dealbreaker.

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By *istletoe KissesWoman 21 weeks ago

There and Here

Smoking w-eed. The smell makes me boke

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By *voidingboredomMan 21 weeks ago

around

Communication. FWB for me involves the friends part. Not daily messages or anything necessarily but I can't handle radio silence and then booty call.

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By *ealitybitesMan 21 weeks ago

Belfast

Equally as interested in the F as the WB.

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By *adhatter and coCouple 21 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Minimum Height 5ft 10 . Non negotiable

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By *heBlowinsCouple 21 weeks ago

West Cork


"What's your non negotiable in a fab buddy, FB, fwb..

🗣🙅‍♀️🙅"

Prejudice of any kind.. if they turn out to be racist, homophobic, transphobic, sexist...

🚫👎⛔🙅‍♂️

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By *chochamberWoman 21 weeks ago

Munster

Weed smoking

Mysogyny

Female sexuality shaming

Sneeriness

Entitled Bully.

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By *heBlowinsCouple 21 weeks ago

West Cork


"Weed smoking

Mysogyny

Female sexuality shaming

Sneeriness

Entitled Bully. "

How do you feel about cigarette smoking and male sexuality shaming?

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By *ealitybitesMan 21 weeks ago

Belfast

Interesting that most of these including my own are character traits rather than physical ones.

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By *chochamberWoman 21 weeks ago

Munster


"Weed smoking

Mysogyny

Female sexuality shaming

Sneeriness

Entitled Bully.

How do you feel about cigarette smoking and male sexuality shaming? "

I m not a fan of cigarette smoking, but I might be OK, if the person took steps to freshen up after a cigarette.

I think male sexuality shaming isn't as common as female. Maybe bi males get negatively judged, whereas bi females don't.

What I don't like is when people look for a hook to judge women and to chastise them, to put them in their place. Its all part of mysogyny.

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By *amsevenMan 21 weeks ago

cork

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By *amsevenMan 21 weeks ago

cork

Wears pjs to the shop

Drives a BMW

Drinks alcohol on a meet

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By *chochamberWoman 21 weeks ago

Munster


"Wears pjs to the shop

Drives a BMW

Drinks alcohol on a meet"

Jeekers, what's wrong with a BMW? I don't have one by the way.

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By *heBlowinsCouple 21 weeks ago

West Cork


"Weed smoking

Mysogyny

Female sexuality shaming

Sneeriness

Entitled Bully.

How do you feel about cigarette smoking and male sexuality shaming?

I m not a fan of cigarette smoking, but I might be OK, if the person took steps to freshen up after a cigarette.

I think male sexuality shaming isn't as common as female. Maybe bi males get negatively judged, whereas bi females don't.

What I don't like is when people look for a hook to judge women and to chastise them, to put them in their place. Its all part of mysogyny. "

Ah so your feelings on are more ethical and not solely to do with the smell?

Absolutely agree with what you're saying re: misogyny

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By *rakesterlingMan 21 weeks ago

Dublin

For me, the most important thing is the Friends part of FWB.

Once someone is invested in being a friend, everything else more or less slots into it's place.

Can't say how many times people extracted their fun out of our communication, and once satisfied moved on without even some semblance of good bye, farewell...

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By *chochamberWoman 21 weeks ago

Munster

I don't want to kiss an ashtray, or to have smokey fingers touching my face. I don't like if someone imposes their smoking on me. I m not completely _ilitant about it, if they are pretty nice in other ways, I ld be tempted to over look it.

Weed smoking : rewires the brain in horrible ways, no interest at all.

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By *he KakapoMan 21 weeks ago

A nice rock

Nah I'd pretty much fuck anything

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By *exyScientistsCouple 21 weeks ago

Castlebar

Communication and personality.

Also someone who can drive 🚗

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By *chochamberWoman 21 weeks ago

Munster

Andrew Tate followers

Coercive controllers

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By *ensual_SmartieWoman 21 weeks ago

Midlands , Leinster.... your fantasies

Manners, respect & honesty, be straight.

If you cant sorry won't be happening.

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By *on Juan the MADridMan 21 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

Last minute cancellations, I find them very disrespectful

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By *electableicecreamMan 21 weeks ago

The West

Connection is non negotiable for me. Without that sex is just friction and I can do that by myself

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By *ichael McCarthyMan 21 weeks ago

Lucan

A vagina and a pulse, and I suppose a vaguely human form just to be safe.

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By *ealcoupleCouple 21 weeks ago


"Nah I'd pretty much fuck anything "

Lol

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By *TinyDelight-Woman 21 weeks ago

City Centre


"Communication. FWB for me involves the friends part. Not daily messages or anything necessarily but I can't handle radio silence and then booty call. "

I'm the same. If I'm getting a whiff of that I'm disappearing. Reciprocating energies and communication is important.

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By *im kirkMan 21 weeks ago

Prosperous

Not being available for new experiences...I mean if all I wanted to do every single time was get beaten with last week's rolled up RTE guide I'd go home to my mother

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple 21 weeks ago

kinda dublin


"Can't have a penis. Total dealbreaker.

Not even a teeny one??? "

Sure didn't Christ himself pause on the cross for a nice teeny penis, before giving himself up for the world.

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By *adyKarmennTVTV/TS 21 weeks ago

Dublin

If I’m meeting a guy on the regular I have 3

Patience!! I can’t stand constant messages expecting replies there and then!!

Honesty!! Be upfront! I hate lies and slyness! I don’t want to know your personal stories but don’t say one thing an mean another

Big loads!! This is a literal dealbreaker? I don’t want a dribble! I don’t want a bit of a squirt! I want a good solid shoot

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By *ealcoupleCouple 21 weeks ago

Drugs - zero tolerance

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By *ichael McCarthyMan 21 weeks ago

Lucan


"Drugs - zero tolerance"

Oops...

*instantly hides the paracetamol

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By *og-ManMan 21 weeks ago

somewhere


"Drugs - zero tolerance

Oops...

*instantly hides the Viagra "

Fixed that for you

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By *razyNippleLoverMan 21 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond


"Can't have a penis. Total dealbreaker.

Not even a teeny one???

Sure didn't Christ himself pause on the cross for a nice teeny penis, before giving himself up for the world."

😂😂😂😂

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple 21 weeks ago

kinkytown

Height, packing a decent sized weapon and the ability to not catch feelings

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By *ilitaWoman 21 weeks ago

The best town

Not a liar!!!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man 21 weeks ago

Home

Can't smoke or take drugs

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By *agic mike1Man 21 weeks ago

around

Someone who questions everything you do.

Even down to taking pictures to prove where you actually are.

Asks you a question but when you answer and ask a question back, they reply with a question not an answer.

I suppose by not answering a question, they aren't lying??

More sly and underhand possibly??

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By *agic mike1Man 21 weeks ago

around


"Height, packing a decent sized weapon and the ability to not catch feelings"

Catching feelings is a tough one, easier said than done

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By *apperMystiqueMan 21 weeks ago

east Glasgow

Body confidence/ healthy/ fun / kinky

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By *ofusplusCouple 21 weeks ago

Limerick

Christ

It's far easier being a couple on here seemingly

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By *agic mike1Man 21 weeks ago

around


"Christ

It's far easier being a couple on here seemingly "

Well you already have a someone to play with!!

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By *ofusplusCouple 21 weeks ago

Limerick


"Christ

It's far easier being a couple on here seemingly

Well you already have a someone to play with!! "

I think its more that couples are less emotionally available

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By *agic mike1Man 21 weeks ago

around


"Christ

It's far easier being a couple on here seemingly

Well you already have a someone to play with!!

I think its more that couples are less emotionally available "

Possibly true, but there's always the chance that emotions can evolve??

That's just life!!

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By *ofusplusCouple 21 weeks ago

Limerick


"Christ

It's far easier being a couple on here seemingly

Well you already have a someone to play with!!

I think its more that couples are less emotionally available

Possibly true, but there's always the chance that emotions can evolve??

That's just life!!"

Of course

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By *udding RoseWoman 21 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

Honesty and respect is important!

Preferably a non smoker, the smell of cigarette is horrible and the taste of it when kissing is worse!

Good conversation and communication is a must!

The ability to make each other laugh is incredibly important!!

Treating me like a human being and not just wanting me for a fuck and nothing else!!

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By *owwow909Woman 21 weeks ago

La La Land

Have to have good healthy teeth other than that nada

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By *amsevenMan 21 weeks ago

cork


"Wears pjs to the shop

Drives a BMW

Drinks alcohol on a meet

Jeekers, what's wrong with a BMW? I don't have one by the way. "

Slightly tongue in cheek. Some, and I stress some drivers of big cars think they own the road. BMW drivers usually got the brunt of the blame. There's an old saying, if you think you've wasted your life remember there's someone in Germany putting indicators on BMW's.

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By *aid backMan 21 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

Obviously some sort of connection and they can't be man united supporters

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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago

Seriously what's wrong with people that drive a bmw,,, for Mr it's catfish, not nice

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By *amsevenMan 21 weeks ago

cork


"Seriously what's wrong with people that drive a bmw,,, for Mr it's catfish, not nice"

Nothing.

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By *omebirdWoman 21 weeks ago

N7

Sanity is preferable.

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By *eckme70Man 21 weeks ago

Strabane

The best looking

Best body

And best in bed

(Carlsberg) don't really do ad's 🤣

Only joking Honest from the Start 🤷‍♂️

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By *eckme70Man 21 weeks ago

Strabane


"Sanity is preferable. "
🤣👌🤣

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple 21 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

Just as in life, people who are transphobic, dont respect pronouns, mysogynists, fatphobes and also kink, sex and limit shamers.

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By *astello OP   Woman 21 weeks ago

Far far away

Hides red devil's jersey

BMW .... daft cheap car deals

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