So I used to be a regular way back when, before covid basically on the Irish fetish scene, totally fell out of it and just lost touch, its been years now since gone to anything, bit I want to get back Into it, so basically asking how this one get involved in these events clubs etc, are mist for couples? Imagine single lady and would be attending these alone which is the biggest obstacles for me, just early nerves of not knowing anyone, do many singles go or are they even invited I dunno, looking for advice and invites |
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"So I used to be a regular way back when, before covid basically on the Irish fetish scene, totally fell out of it and just lost touch, its been years now since gone to anything, bit I want to get back Into it, so basically asking how this one get involved in these events clubs etc, are mist for couples? Imagine single lady and would be attending these alone which is the biggest obstacles for me, just early nerves of not knowing anyone, do many singles go or are they even invited I dunno, looking for advice and invites "
You should be grand. Most people are nice and friendly in places like Dv8, Coco and Envy should be fine.
Dv8 sunday social are great to get your confidence |
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Nimneach is great for fetish a very friendly crowd and always a fun night .. Dv8 Runs great social nights as well as trans/Tv nights once a month and Sunday socials 4 to 10 pm .. coco runs socials which are great and envy runs socials and play parties .. there’s an events page on forums for all the socials and parties being held .. always something for everyone |
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The social scene is the huge part of the ENM/Swinging scene for us. We are constantly amazed at how friendly and inclusive everyone we meet at events are. We try and return the favour. Just say hello and a coversation starts. Often people just come over which is even better.
There's an list of events (constantly updated) here on the forum. Organisers have their own pages on here. We just add then to "Hotlist" to keep them handy. |
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Thanks for advice I'll defo keep more an eye on the forums to I think..
It can be tricky as a trabs women also, little vulnerable maybe, I did attend a swinger event years back thru fetlife, lucky with some friends I knew in the scene then, I was approached by a guy that didn't realise I was trans, obviously I told him but he didn't react well, got a little abusive towards me so that kinda stuck with me to, |
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I should mention that nearly every event now offers attendees entrance to an event specific group chat. Almost always on Telegram these days.
If you are downloading Telegram check the settings carefully. All your contacts on your phone who have Telegram will see you have joined and see the name you have chosen and your profile photo. Choose wisely. |
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"I should mention that nearly every event now offers attendees entrance to an event specific group chat. Almost always on Telegram these days.
If you are downloading Telegram check the settings carefully. All your contacts on your phone who have Telegram will see you have joined and see the name you have chosen and your profile photo. Choose wisely. "
That's very handy advice thank you |
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"Thanks for advice I'll defo keep more an eye on the forums to I think..
It can be tricky as a trabs women also, little vulnerable maybe, I did attend a swinger event years back thru fetlife, lucky with some friends I knew in the scene then, I was approached by a guy that didn't realise I was trans, obviously I told him but he didn't react well, got a little abusive towards me so that kinda stuck with me to, "
Not going to lie but there aren’t enough genuine trans woman on this site, so you are an important addition to this site irrespective  |
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"Thanks for advice I'll defo keep more an eye on the forums to I think..
It can be tricky as a trabs women also, little vulnerable maybe, I did attend a swinger event years back thru fetlife, lucky with some friends I knew in the scene then, I was approached by a guy that didn't realise I was trans, obviously I told him but he didn't react well, got a little abusive towards me so that kinda stuck with me to,
Not going to lie but there aren’t enough genuine trans woman on this site, so you are an important addition to this site irrespective "
We like leprechauns lol..thank you |
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"Thanks for advice I'll defo keep more an eye on the forums to I think..
It can be tricky as a trabs women also, little vulnerable maybe, I did attend a swinger event years back thru fetlife, lucky with some friends I knew in the scene then, I was approached by a guy that didn't realise I was trans, obviously I told him but he didn't react well, got a little abusive towards me so that kinda stuck with me to,
Not going to lie but there aren’t enough genuine trans woman on this site, so you are an important addition to this site irrespective
We like leprechauns lol..thank you "
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Hello everyone I saw there was a social event in DV8 the 13th of august. I never been to any social here in Ireland even tho I have my fare share of swinger experience.
Can you go there as a single man or there are precise criterias to be admitted? |
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