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I was offered €75-€100 to wear a pair of tights! Not sure how you get the €100  "
He wanted me to go to a hotel room with him give me 200 a week and gifts I think he thought I was from pretty woman or something |
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"It happens all the time I'm sure most people here have experienced it on many occasions I have."
It crazy I told him to drive around in his car and he might find a woman too sleep with him for money |
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"He’s in the wrong site and too much money ffs. I remember listening to an interview and apparently it’s very common with some college girls to take on a sugar daddy for cash rewards. "
Yeah he said too me there was other sites for that so I told him to go on one of them haha |
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"I think it's common enough, bit scary to be honest I'd always assume if I paid for something it's mine, do these guys think the same "
That was what I was thinking if they pay you doesn't that mean they could do anything they wanted...it is extremely scary |
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I was offered €75-€100 to wear a pair of tights! Not sure how you get the €100
He wanted me to go to a hotel room with him give me 200 a week and gifts I think he thought I was from pretty woman or something"
Ah well I'm raging! I got the cheap deal  |
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By *iscuits8Man 14 weeks ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"..... ok €300 final offer
OK done hahaha
Yeeooooo I knew you'd cave in. Let's see, Kildare... see you in an hour in the shaggin' wagon 
Haha ah I see you looked at my profile "
If you're gonna start charging me for profile views as well then I'm pulling out of the deal  |
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No. I wish. Sometimes I'm like a psychologist. I should charge by the hour.
Men... and especially young men.... only open up after they've orgasmed.
Seriously...it's almost as bad as the subs who want to be tied down....
What's in it FOR ME |
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I was offered €75-€100 to wear a pair of tights! Not sure how you get the €100
He wanted me to go to a hotel room with him give me 200 a week and gifts I think he thought I was from pretty woman or something
Ah well I'm raging! I got the cheap deal "
You were offered 100 too wear some tights that is a pretty good deal |
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"No. I wish. Sometimes I'm like a psychologist. I should charge by the hour.
Men... and especially young men.... only open up after they've orgasmed.
Seriously...it's almost as bad as the subs who want to be tied down....
What's in it FOR ME"
Ah you see you don't count as long as they can get their feelings yours doesn't matter |
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"..... ok €300 final offer
OK done hahaha
Yeeooooo I knew you'd cave in. Let's see, Kildare... see you in an hour in the shaggin' wagon
Haha ah I see you looked at my profile
If you're gonna start charging me for profile views as well then I'm pulling out of the deal "
I want a tenner everytime you view my profile hahaha |
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By *iscuits8Man 14 weeks ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"..... ok €300 final offer
OK done hahaha
Yeeooooo I knew you'd cave in. Let's see, Kildare... see you in an hour in the shaggin' wagon
Haha ah I see you looked at my profile
If you're gonna start charging me for profile views as well then I'm pulling out of the deal
I want a tenner everytime you view my profile hahaha "
Jaysis... I'm about €350 out of pocket before I've even left the gaf  |
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I'm not a woman but man enough to wear a dress and make up , was offered 300 euros recently lol FFS I wouldn't lower myself.
On Grindr I get a lot of strange requests, the funny thing it's mostly attached guy's who seem to be the strange ones. Single solo guy's are usually quite normal
It's just a bit of fun, that smell of want is a turn off and I'm not offering service's.
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"..... ok €300 final offer
OK done hahaha
Yeeooooo I knew you'd cave in. Let's see, Kildare... see you in an hour in the shaggin' wagon
Haha ah I see you looked at my profile
If you're gonna start charging me for profile views as well then I'm pulling out of the deal
I want a tenner everytime you view my profile hahaha
Jaysis... I'm about €350 out of pocket before I've even left the gaf "
Brilliant I am up 350 haha |
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"I'm not a woman but man enough to wear a dress and make up , was offered 300 euros recently lol FFS I wouldn't lower myself.
On Grindr I get a lot of strange requests, the funny thing it's mostly attached guy's who seem to be the strange ones. Single solo guy's are usually quite normal
It's just a bit of fun, that smell of want is a turn off and I'm not offering service's.
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I get some weird ones haha |
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"Wouldn’t it be cheaper for him to hire a working lady. Something not right with men like that. As someone above stated. Will he think he owns you if you take his offer "
See that would be the biggest red flag ever its scary to think ...really hope other women don't fall for it |
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"I'm not a woman but man enough to wear a dress and make up , was offered 300 euros recently lol FFS I wouldn't lower myself.
On Grindr I get a lot of strange requests, the funny thing it's mostly attached guy's who seem to be the strange ones. Single solo guy's are usually quite normal
It's just a bit of fun, that smell of want is a turn off and I'm not offering service's.
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I'm guessing it's because it's 90% fabtasy for them so the boundaries are pushed.
Whereas people genuinely looking to meet at a saner approach...
So basically the same as fab |
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Have been contacted previously by females offering their services for a fee on here. Just report to admin and move on.
I've also seen on here people looking to sell all sorts of garments and fluids.
Takes all sorts to make the world go round.
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When I was on here a few years ago I met a lady for coffee in Blanch Shopping Centre and we were chatting away for a while and then she said she needed to go shopping in Dunnes and that I should come along and we could keep chatting. Trolley is getting fuller by the aisle. Up to the checkout and we’re putting the items on the belt and at the end she says to me to pay for it. I said for what? And she said do you think you’re getting a ride for nothing. I laughed and walked off and left her at it. |
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"When I was on here a few years ago I met a lady for coffee in Blanch Shopping Centre and we were chatting away for a while and then she said she needed to go shopping in Dunnes and that I should come along and we could keep chatting. Trolley is getting fuller by the aisle. Up to the checkout and we’re putting the items on the belt and at the end she says to me to pay for it. I said for what? And she said do you think you’re getting a ride for nothing. I laughed and walked off and left her at it."
Lol ?? |
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"When I was on here a few years ago I met a lady for coffee in Blanch Shopping Centre and we were chatting away for a while and then she said she needed to go shopping in Dunnes and that I should come along and we could keep chatting. Trolley is getting fuller by the aisle. Up to the checkout and we’re putting the items on the belt and at the end she says to me to pay for it. I said for what? And she said do you think you’re getting a ride for nothing. I laughed and walked off and left her at it."
Legend lol |
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On my I am genuinely shocked at this. It is absolutely coercive, disgusting and degrading to offer money in return for anything at all in my view. I would suggest defo blocking and reporting.
I just don’t understand how anyone could get remotely turned on knowing they have paid for ‘services’
I thought I was bad enough being a married man on here… |
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We got offered not that long ago, 150 just to watch us while he wankwd . We were pissed in Belfast and decided to call his bluff to see if he would show.
Well he called ours showed up paid , watched us and came thanked us and left - all very respectful and at the same time made both of us feel smug and very horny. Would do again for sure |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"If I were to pay a lady for services I’d at least expect her to do a few hours turning turf or muck out the horses at least lol "
 so funny, like today I need the grass cut…. Any volunteers? |
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"So twice in the space of 24 hours I have been offered money from men on this site for my time...Has any other woman been asked the same thing "
From time to time someone tries to suggest money for a hookup or paying on regular basis. I would really like if when people register on this site, they get a list of statements what this is all about. So many have this false ideas that people are sitting and waiting to be invited for a quick cheap interaction |
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Some guys are really into it..I think it's called being a pay pig, when a guy sends money sometimes in exchange for content or just for some kink for the guy in sending it. Each to their own I guess |
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By *lueLotusWoman 13 weeks ago
the wilderness |
"Some guys are really into it..I think it's called being a pay pig, when a guy sends money sometimes in exchange for content or just for some kink for the guy in sending it. Each to their own I guess"
Pay pig like a piggy bank |
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By *aseylee324Couple 13 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
"Was recently offered money for the first time in all the years we've been here - about fucking time too
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This was about 'fucking time', as in duration, or 'fucking' time as in long overdue?  "
Both of course |
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"Was recently offered money for the first time in all the years we've been here - about fucking time too
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This was about 'fucking time', as in duration, or 'fucking' time as in long overdue?
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Both of course "
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I am enamoured.  |
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I was offered €75-€100 to wear a pair of tights! Not sure how you get the €100
He wanted me to go to a hotel room with him give me 200 a week and gifts I think he thought I was from pretty woman or something
Ah well I'm raging! I got the cheap deal "
I can beat your cheap deal… I got offered £40 to hand over a pair of worn knickers |
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By *ano53Man 13 weeks ago
Wicklow |
"If I were to pay a lady for services I’d at least expect her to do a few hours turning turf or muck out the horses at least lol so funny, like today I need the grass cut…. Any volunteers? "
Id be delighted to cut your grass ... Do message me x |
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I was asked one time to go to a hotel & pillow fight with a girl friend of mine. €300 each & extra €500 to the winner :O madness like lol would pay through revolut prior to meeting.
Had messages asking to buy my underwear after certain events or from certain photos I have on here.
I know some have done it. But wouldn't be my kinda thing.
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By *rRiosMan 12 weeks ago
dublin |
"I was asked one time to go to a hotel & pillow fight with a girl friend of mine. €300 each & extra €500 to the winner :O madness like lol would pay through revolut prior to meeting."
Did you win? |
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"We got offered not that long ago, 150 just to watch us while he wankwd . We were pissed in Belfast and decided to call his bluff to see if he would show.
Well he called ours showed up paid , watched us and came thanked us and left - all very respectful and at the same time made both of us feel smug and very horny. Would do again for sure "
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By *og-ManMan 12 weeks ago
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"There is a woman on here that has a man servant as she calls him that pays for her shopping every week and keeps asking me to let him pay for mine. "
If thats what he's into make sure its a big shop |
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"No. I wish. Sometimes I'm like a psychologist. I should charge by the hour.
Men... and especially young men.... only open up after they've orgasmed.
Seriously...it's almost as bad as the subs who want to be tied down....
What's in it FOR ME
Ah you see you don't count as long as they can get their feelings yours doesn't matter "
Exactly. That's why I now vet them over dinner. I choose the restaurant, they pick up the cheque.
That does the trick and sifts out the wheat from the chaff. |
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By *og-ManMan 11 weeks ago
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"No. I wish. Sometimes I'm like a psychologist. I should charge by the hour.
Men... and especially young men.... only open up after they've orgasmed.
Seriously...it's almost as bad as the subs who want to be tied down....
What's in it FOR ME
Ah you see you don't count as long as they can get their feelings yours doesn't matter
Exactly. That's why I now vet them over dinner. I choose the restaurant, they pick up the cheque.
That does the trick and sifts out the wheat from the chaff."
Does that mean they think they get the ride if they buy you dinner |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"No. I wish. Sometimes I'm like a psychologist. I should charge by the hour.
Men... and especially young men.... only open up after they've orgasmed.
Seriously...it's almost as bad as the subs who want to be tied down....
What's in it FOR ME
Ah you see you don't count as long as they can get their feelings yours doesn't matter
Exactly. That's why I now vet them over dinner. I choose the restaurant, they pick up the cheque.
That does the trick and sifts out the wheat from the chaff.
Does that mean they think they get the ride if they buy you dinner "
It depends. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"I don't do single men so this will never happen me! The BS they pull boggles the mind. "
Yes because married men are all honest and would never put single women through any bs.  |
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"I don't do single men so this will never happen me! The BS they pull boggles the mind. "
That presumably means you once did meet single men? Maybe it was your judgement that was at fault for not spotting the dodgy ones and maybe not all single men are dodgy? |
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"A guy offer to buy my underwear last week on fab.
Me too and I'll not lie, I was tempted lol.
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I kind of understand women underwear but a single guy. I told he's need help or go the church. But he say he enjoy church too much. Because himself and priest would be tearing each other mickys off. So ya. |
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By *runchMan 11 weeks ago
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"There is a woman on here that has a man servant as she calls him that pays for her shopping every week and keeps asking me to let him pay for mine. "
This "friend" of yours is looking to rip off the apparent guy who probably has low self esteem and a few other things going on under the hood. Your friend probably isn't the full shilling either. What lovely people you associate with! |
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By *runchMan 11 weeks ago
Dublin |
"I don't do single men so this will never happen me! The BS they pull boggles the mind.
Yes because married men are all honest and would never put single women through any bs. "
She has alot to learn... |
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"There is a woman on here that has a man servant as she calls him that pays for her shopping every week and keeps asking me to let him pay for mine.
This "friend" of yours is looking to rip off the apparent guy who probably has low self esteem and a few other things going on under the hood. Your friend probably isn't the full shilling either. What lovely people you associate with! "
Or he just gets off on it. Kink shaming has no place here. |
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By *runchMan 11 weeks ago
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"There is a woman on here that has a man servant as she calls him that pays for her shopping every week and keeps asking me to let him pay for mine.
This "friend" of yours is looking to rip off the apparent guy who probably has low self esteem and a few other things going on under the hood. Your friend probably isn't the full shilling either. What lovely people you associate with!
Or he just gets off on it. Kink shaming has no place here."
Fulfilling a mate's shopping list in addition to her own probably doesn't fall under umbrella of the so called kink. Poor chap! |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"I don't do single men so this will never happen me! The BS they pull boggles the mind.
Yes because married men are all honest and would never put single women through any bs.
She has alot to learn... "
Perhaps. But IDGAF. |
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By *og-ManMan 11 weeks ago
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"There is a woman on here that has a man servant as she calls him that pays for her shopping every week and keeps asking me to let him pay for mine.
This "friend" of yours is looking to rip off the apparent guy who probably has low self esteem and a few other things going on under the hood. Your friend probably isn't the full shilling either. What lovely people you associate with!
Or he just gets off on it. Kink shaming has no place here.
Fulfilling a mate's shopping list in addition to her own probably doesn't fall under umbrella of the so called kink. Poor chap! "
He's offered to pay for both ...
I think the kink is called a pay pig
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"There is a woman on here that has a man servant as she calls him that pays for her shopping every week and keeps asking me to let him pay for mine.
This "friend" of yours is looking to rip off the apparent guy who probably has low self esteem and a few other things going on under the hood. Your friend probably isn't the full shilling either. What lovely people you associate with!
Or he just gets off on it. Kink shaming has no place here.
Fulfilling a mate's shopping list in addition to her own probably doesn't fall under umbrella of the so called kink. Poor chap! "
You might want to educate yourself on Findom |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"There is a woman on here that has a man servant as she calls him that pays for her shopping every week and keeps asking me to let him pay for mine.
This "friend" of yours is looking to rip off the apparent guy who probably has low self esteem and a few other things going on under the hood. Your friend probably isn't the full shilling either. What lovely people you associate with!
Or he just gets off on it. Kink shaming has no place here.
Fulfilling a mate's shopping list in addition to her own probably doesn't fall under umbrella of the so called kink. Poor chap!
He's offered to pay for both ...
I think the kink is called a pay pig
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There are sites for that. I see no problem. |
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By *og-ManMan 11 weeks ago
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"There is a woman on here that has a man servant as she calls him that pays for her shopping every week and keeps asking me to let him pay for mine.
This "friend" of yours is looking to rip off the apparent guy who probably has low self esteem and a few other things going on under the hood. Your friend probably isn't the full shilling either. What lovely people you associate with!
Or he just gets off on it. Kink shaming has no place here.
Fulfilling a mate's shopping list in addition to her own probably doesn't fall under umbrella of the so called kink. Poor chap!
He's offered to pay for both ...
I think the kink is called a pay pig
There are sites for that. I see no problem. "
Neither do I
As long as its consensual between adults and not illegal then each to their own |
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By *runchMan 11 weeks ago
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"There is a woman on here that has a man servant as she calls him that pays for her shopping every week and keeps asking me to let him pay for mine.
This "friend" of yours is looking to rip off the apparent guy who probably has low self esteem and a few other things going on under the hood. Your friend probably isn't the full shilling either. What lovely people you associate with!
Or he just gets off on it. Kink shaming has no place here.
Fulfilling a mate's shopping list in addition to her own probably doesn't fall under umbrella of the so called kink. Poor chap!
You might want to educate yourself on Findom"
I'd rather not as I am likely to have more questions than answers, but thanks for the suggestion.
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Reading all the comments and replies, retorts and thoughts, I can't help but wonder how many people actually accept such offers?
Knew a guy in one of my past lives, he used to say, if you ask 100 of them, statistically one will accept.
No moral, ethical or otherwise strings attached to this statement, just a thought... |
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By *rRiosMan 11 weeks ago
dublin |
"No. I wish. Sometimes I'm like a psychologist. I should charge by the hour.
Men... and especially young men.... only open up after they've orgasmed.
Seriously...it's almost as bad as the subs who want to be tied down....
What's in it FOR ME
Ah you see you don't count as long as they can get their feelings yours doesn't matter
Exactly. That's why I now vet them over dinner. I choose the restaurant, they pick up the cheque.
That does the trick and sifts out the wheat from the chaff."
This makes it sound very transactional  |
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By *enitMan 11 weeks ago
Galway |
"No. I wish. Sometimes I'm like a psychologist. I should charge by the hour.
Men... and especially young men.... only open up after they've orgasmed.
Seriously...it's almost as bad as the subs who want to be tied down....
What's in it FOR ME"
Tie them down and then go through their pockets . . . |
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