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Long term Swingers: do you find 1:1 sex boring?
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"Just wondering g if the seasoned Swingers find the more traditional 1:1 sex boring?
Do you find you need and more and more stimulation to turn you on, keep you turned on? "
Sex is bored if becomes a routine, so, yes, stimulation, novelty, adventure, mystery, risk, experiment, fantasies… keep the excitement alive. |
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"Just wondering g if the seasoned Swingers find the more traditional 1:1 sex boring?
Do you find you need and more and more stimulation to turn you on, keep you turned on?
Sex is bored if becomes a routine, so, yes, stimulation, novelty, adventure, mystery, risk, experiment, fantasies… keep the excitement alive. "
Agreed 100% |
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By *ORBCouple 20 weeks ago
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I don't need sex generally so combinations wouldn't make much of a difference.
I've never experienced anything other than 1 on 1 and I don't class myself as a swinger but I've always imagined that for most people it's more about the relationship you have with those you are having sex with and how stimulating each encounter is rather than how many are involved.
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"Just wondering g if the seasoned Swingers find the more traditional 1:1 sex boring?
Do you find you need and more and more stimulation to turn you on, keep you turned on? "
Definitely not. We rarely meet others for fun. Mainly do socials at the moment. Maybe because we done a lot and met here before we became a real life couple. But guess it also depends on the individual as well |
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Definitely not, I’ve also (as Geordie said) reverted back to just one on one, over the years I’ve figured out that it’s the connection and passion with one other person and getting lost in that, that’s the biggest turn on for me |
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"Just wondering g if the seasoned Swingers find the more traditional 1:1 sex boring?
Do you find you need and more and more stimulation to turn you on, keep you turned on?
Sex is bored if becomes a routine, so, yes, stimulation, novelty, adventure, mystery, risk, experiment, fantasies… keep the excitement alive. "
My partner and I do so many varied kink practices that I know it will never get boring. Plus he knows my body so well and so much better than a new person would. He has made me orgasm by command, can edge me for hours and we play dynamically so it's shockingly amazing every time. Yesterday it was so overwhelming I sobbed my eyes out after just as an emotional release. Just so intense.
So my main thing is formulaic relationship sex is something I actively don't want. And luckily my partner is as kinky as I am. |
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