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Sasha loves a younger guy. Probably an ego thing. So many offer to accommodate, so many are fantasists.
For me, one advantage to an older lady, is that they tend to me less self conscious, so more confident. So many younger ladies worry too much about small boob's or a slight tummy, or whatever. At a certain age. I think both sesxrs will say, yeah this is me. Like me me or jog on. |
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I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen! |
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen! "
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By *s LollyWoman 22 weeks ago
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen! "
Mabey he got grounded  |
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen!
Mabey he got grounded "
Must have forgotten to put the bins out |
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen! "
In fairness the leaving cert is on. |
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen!
In fairness the leaving cert is on."
Ah that's why he kept mentioning grinds |
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen!
In fairness the leaving cert is on.
Ah that's why he kept mentioning grinds "
I don't appreciate the backhanded compliments of "no way your 50" and I once got a message saying exactly that but he added 'if u really are, I'd love to meet' wtf like |
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen!
In fairness the leaving cert is on.
Ah that's why he kept mentioning grinds
I don't appreciate the backhanded compliments of "no way your 50" and I once got a message saying exactly that but he added 'if u really are, I'd love to meet' wtf like"
Exactly not ready for the Fab old folks home yet as long as there's life in these knees I'll still be sucking dick. Now just let me find my false teeth |
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By *og-ManMan 22 weeks ago
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen!
In fairness the leaving cert is on.
Ah that's why he kept mentioning grinds
I don't appreciate the backhanded compliments of "no way your 50" and I once got a message saying exactly that but he added 'if u really are, I'd love to meet' wtf like
Exactly not ready for the Fab old folks home yet as long as there's life in these knees I'll still be sucking dick. Now just let me find my false teeth "
Jesus no.....keep the teeth out for a while |
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"Sasha loves a younger guy. Probably an ego thing. So many offer to accommodate, so many are fantasists.
For me, one advantage to an older lady, is that they tend to me less self conscious, so more confident. So many younger ladies worry too much about small boob's or a slight tummy, or whatever. At a certain age. I think both sesxrs will say, yeah this is me. Like me me or jog on."
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen!
In fairness the leaving cert is on."
They're mostly done with that now, so they're all off Inter-railing.. |
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"I enjoy the company of younger men but I end up getting the ick a lot when they start chatting and say things like bet you could teach me a thing or two or always wanted to fuck a older woman. We're not something to tick off the Fuck It List. There's definitely a aquired art trying to catch attention of us older ladies.
But if you make plans follow through We're busy people we don't tolerate getting messed around. I had one young guy ask for coffee this weekend as soon as I said yes let's organise day no where to be seen!
In fairness the leaving cert is on.
Ah that's why he kept mentioning grinds
I don't appreciate the backhanded compliments of "no way your 50" and I once got a message saying exactly that but he added 'if u really are, I'd love to meet' wtf like
Exactly not ready for the Fab old folks home yet as long as there's life in these knees I'll still be sucking dick. Now just let me find my false teeth
Jesus no.....keep the teeth out for a while "
That's a whole other thread right there, teeth or no teeth! Well not literally but a gentle nibble or not! |
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Me the misses prefer 30-45 not huge fan of younger or older (only in exceptional circumstances this might change). Just don't feel comfortable with big age gaps. Never did and don't think I ever will |
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I know plenty self conscious women over 40 and plenty really happy content women under 40.
I think maybe fab (with a higher age demographic) skews some people's view of this, with alot of sexually confident older women on here... maybe....
That's my less cynical view on it |
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"Confidence- older women know what they want and focus more on just enjoying themselves over looking "perfect".
Do they? I still don't know what I want most days but maybe I'm the exception "
I'm the same |
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By *eordie.Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Confidence- older women know what they want and focus more on just enjoying themselves over looking "perfect".
Do they? I still don't know what I want most days but maybe I'm the exception
I'm the same "
Ah, I'm in good company so |
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"I know plenty self conscious women over 40 and plenty really happy content women under 40.
I think maybe fab (with a higher age demographic) skews some people's view of this, with alot of sexually confident older women on here... maybe....
That's my less cynical view on it "
It's part of the fantasy too. And that fantasy is easily reinforced by projecting onto profiles and online personas. |
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Honestly that is just troublesome phrasing.
It's called roleplaying, between two overaged persons, giving full consent beforehand. Maybe you doesn't understand what kink and fetish mean."
I do. And it's why I didn't comment on the kink thread.
But I can still find it troublesome, kink or not.
The same way if a man posted on an older man younger woman thread saying he liked hunting for defenseless girls I'd mention the phrasing isn't great |
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It's not something I ever gave any thought to. I raised my lower age range because it became clear from the majority of messages from individuals in their late teens and early twenties, that they were seeking to fulfil the fantasy of having sex with a much older woman, or being taught how to fuck by a much older woman. I understand the fantasy/kink, it just wasn't for me. |
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"It's not something I ever gave any thought to. I raised my lower age range because it became clear from the majority of messages from individuals in their late teens and early twenties, that they were seeking to fulfil the fantasy of having sex with a much older woman, or being taught how to fuck by a much older woman. I understand the fantasy/kink, it just wasn't for me."
I love older women especially into gilfs ghese days
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"It's not something I ever gave any thought to. I raised my lower age range because it became clear from the majority of messages from individuals in their late teens and early twenties, that they were seeking to fulfil the fantasy of having sex with a much older woman, or being taught how to fuck by a much older woman. I understand the fantasy/kink, it just wasn't for me. I love older women especially into gilfs ghese days "
You're 38 not a teeny bopper |
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I would prefer a mature women anyday as compared to a youngster.. mature women are experienced, sexy and beautiful.. have always admired women older to me.. there is something about them that always attracts me to them.. it’s their beauty, the way they interact, their experience and sensuality.. I believe mature women are more sensual than youngsters..
Just my two cents there.. |
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Women of any age can be mature, it doesn't necessarily come with age.
And we never see threads about 'older men' so do we have to keep having them about 'older women'??
Now I'm off to have my Horlicks, take my teeth out and go to bed.. |
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By *og-ManMan 22 weeks ago
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"Women of any age can be mature, it doesn't necessarily come with age.
And we never see threads about 'older men' so do we have to keep having them about 'older women'??
Now I'm off to have my Horlicks, take my teeth out and go to bed.."
Dont forget to put the hairnet on over the rollers |
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"Women of any age can be mature, it doesn't necessarily come with age.
And we never see threads about 'older men' so do we have to keep having them about 'older women'??
Now I'm off to have my Horlicks, take my teeth out and go to bed..
Dont forget to put the hairnet on over the rollers "
Ah I've given up on that.. the 23 cats keep taking all the rollers to play with  |
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"Young lads, tell me, what attracts you to the older lady?
Got their shit together in mind...know who they are...all pretense is gone.."
Jaysus.. I'm old and I can assure you my shit is nowhere near together!! |
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"Young lads, tell me, what attracts you to the older lady?
Got their shit together in mind...know who they are...all pretense is gone..
Jaysus.. I'm old and I can assure you my shit is nowhere near together!!"
Fibre will help with that |
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"Young lads, tell me, what attracts you to the older lady?
Got their shit together in mind...know who they are...all pretense is gone..
Jaysus.. I'm old and I can assure you my shit is nowhere near together!!
Fibre will help with that"
Should have expected that |
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Generalising here, but men who like older women also tend to like women their own age. Men usually cast a wider net than women and are less inclined to have ‘types’.
It’s easy for men to appreciate older women for all the reasons outlined above, which are all true, but it’s probably less common for older women to go for younger men, so when a younger man gets attention from an older woman there is a definite added thrill to it. |
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By *s LollyWoman 22 weeks ago
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"Generalising here, but men who like older women also tend to like women their own age. Men usually cast a wider net than women and are less inclined to have ‘types’.
It’s easy for men to appreciate older women for all the reasons outlined above, which are all true, but it’s probably less common for older women to go for younger men, so when a younger man gets attention from an older woman there is a definite added thrill to it. "
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Agree with a lot of what's been said above, and will just add that it's all pretty relative - attracted to who we're attracted to.
BUT there is something special about being flirted with and garnering the attention of an attractive older woman. Literally makes me blush - L |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"Confidence- older women know what they want and focus more on just enjoying themselves over looking "perfect".
Do they? I still don't know what I want most days but maybe I'm the exception
I'm the same "
I think its the confidence that most older women have. They don't shy away from a younger man and are very comfortable telling them exactly what they want |
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Because when you arrange something with an older lady they actually have their word, always easy to get along with and by god they will show you a thing or ten when it comes to getting into bed! Any man of my age that tells you different is telling you lies! |
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"Sasha loves a younger guy. Probably an ego thing. So many offer to accommodate, so many are fantasists.
For me, one advantage to an older lady, is that they tend to me less self conscious, so more confident. So many younger ladies worry too much about small boob's or a slight tummy, or whatever. At a certain age. I think both sesxrs will say, yeah this is me. Like me me or jog on."
Lives a younger lad but have so gle lads blocked, seems a bit counterintuitive no? |
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When I first separated from my wife in my late 20s I did have a weakness for older women. I guess it was the idea of experience, being more chilled out, less drama and mindgames.
Now I still like the older woman, but it's less of a preference now. I still see age as just a number. Because equally there are plenty of younger women out there who have those qualities too. |
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"My weakness is for tall younger guys or HYLFs as I like to call them
HYLFs is somewhere in the Dictionary but can't find it lol, care to translate the meaning to us slowchecks lols"
I need to copyright it HYLF ©️ is hung young and loads of fun... and I do love a HYLF |
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"My weakness is for tall younger guys or HYLFs as I like to call them
HYLFs is somewhere in the Dictionary but can't find it lol, care to translate the meaning to us slowchecks lols
I need to copyright it HYLF ©️ is hung young and loads of fun... and I do love a HYLF"
How hung is a HYLF  |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"Young lads, tell me, what attracts you to the older lady? "
I think the conversation tends to be better. I am not that young myself but I think people above my age tend to have manners that the younger generation didn't learn. It's about both ways, keep the conversation flowing and being intrigued as well.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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Only seeing this but in my own personal experience , when I was around 21 I ended up a few times with women 10/15 years older and after no one around my own age or younger even came close … if you get my gist lol |
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By *og2018Man 16 weeks ago
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"Sasha loves a younger guy. Probably an ego thing. So many offer to accommodate, so many are fantasists.
For me, one advantage to an older lady, is that they tend to me less self conscious, so more confident. So many younger ladies worry too much about small boob's or a slight tummy, or whatever. At a certain age. I think both sesxrs will say, yeah this is me. Like me me or jog on."
I agree with a lot of this, I date women of all ages, what older women have over younger is all the above, there's no silly games if they want you or not they'll let you know, less self conscious and I also feel less judgy too.
Just my thoughts |
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Define "old" I think the term most men are looking for when they say this is "experienced"
For myself personally, I think more experienced and mature women just generally show a better time and know how to mutually entertain, they're usually alot more "fire"
Definitely not got a huge amount of experience with more mature women but I can honestly say I've never had a bad experience with one... |
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This older woman thing really makes me laugh.
The kink exists but I'm my opinion age has fuck all to do with it. I've had shite sex with people older and younger.
You either make that sexual connection or you don't.
All those guys who say the daddy dom things gives them the ick...
Is the older woman thing not just a bit maternal? Really? |
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Huge misconceptions abound here that age equals experience or confidence.
For many people that couldn't be further from the truth.
There are lots of 20 somethings on fab with more sexual experience than some people in their 50s. |
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"I enjoy younger guys it's not a kink it's a preference 😁"
I know Lolly and I truly believe everyone should get to find whoever they want.
Plenty of guys have kink for older women. I support it 100%
I'm just a bit fucked off that guys can't seem to find a way to compliment 'older' women without the back handed criticizing of younger women.
No one is better. It's as you say. Preference. |
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