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Am I right in thinking that single straight guys looking for MF couples are, on the whole looking for F but just trying to widen the net due to the lack of F only profiles? If not, what is the advantage of the F of a MF couple? |
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By *aseylee324Couple 23 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
I'll give the same answer I gave when someone else asked a similar question a few days ago:
He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love
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"I'll give the same answer I gave when someone else asked a similar question a few days ago:
He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love
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I guess that's what most people on here are looking for....but I'm not sure that there is certainty in that assumption either. |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Single straight males tend to be interested in the female assuming they are actually single straight males.
It’s nothing to do with the net but if you’re interested in giving pleasure as well as receiving it can be a very pleasurable experience with the right couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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For some it could be about being part of someone’s fantasy. Getting to play with a hotwife/vixen or cuckolding their partner. Having a good time where everyone gets something they want out of it. |
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I really enjoy mfm with a couple but I don't seek it out on my profile.
It's nice to be with a couple. It's intimate. A couple know each other very well and so for me it's about taking part in that dynamic.
Group sex is fun.
I need to like the guy too.
If I just want to fuck someone it would be much easier and have less variables to find a single. |
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"Ya gotta love when women answer a question on behalf of men. I wouldn't mind if they weren't so overwhelmingly negative.
Don't think men would get away with speaking for women like that."
That's why I'm wondering if a female view on it is different and that there may be many reasons...also if the M of the couple is not always involved in playing then its a different dynamic.
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By *panishRebelMan 23 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"I'll give the same answer I gave when someone else asked a similar question a few days ago:
He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love
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Yep...that sums it up. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 23 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
"Ya gotta love when women answer a question on behalf of men. I wouldn't mind if they weren't so overwhelmingly negative.
Don't think men would get away with speaking for women like that."
If you're referring to me, I dont believe my answers to be negative, although they may be somewhat tongue in cheek. I'd imagine we all do things with a variety of different motives, some conscious, some not, some laudable in the eyes of others, some perhaps not so much, which may be simply a question of perspective.. humans are complex , just because man answers here, he's not answering for all men either. |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"Am I right in thinking that single straight guys looking for MF couples are, on the whole looking for F but just trying to widen the net due to the lack of F only profiles? If not, what is the advantage of the F of a MF couple? "
. Not all guys are looking for the f if I meet a couple we all have fun  |
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For me I find mfm play with a couple I click with hotter than 1 on 1 with a female, it's not about widening options to get to play with a female it's the whole experience of 2 guys with 1 girl is just so fucking hot. Best sexual expenuence I have ever had were with couples....one in particular as we just clicked so well |
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"Am I right in thinking that single straight guys looking for MF couples are, on the whole looking for F but just trying to widen the net due to the lack of F only profiles? If not, what is the advantage of the F of a MF couple? "
Single straight guys looking for MF are not 100% straight in my opinion |
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"Ya gotta love when women answer a question on behalf of men. I wouldn't mind if they weren't so overwhelmingly negative.
Don't think men would get away with speaking for women like that.
If you're referring to me, I dont believe my answers to be negative, although they may be somewhat tongue in cheek. I'd imagine we all do things with a variety of different motives, some conscious, some not, some laudable in the eyes of others, some perhaps not so much, which may be simply a question of perspective.. humans are complex , just because man answers here, he's not answering for all men either."
Fair enough. The man bashing is fairly constant on fab so perhaps I didn't appreciate your humour in the moment. |
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When my ex lover and I were looking for a guy to join us for a mfm, the intention was for my lover to get as much pleasure as possible from the situation.
I'd no issues watching her enjoy having fun with another guy, much the same as the male part of a couple watching his wife enjoy herself.
Now a guy looking for a mf couple isn't much different.
Yes the single guy wants to have fun, but none of the guys we met previously were cocky or arrogant regarding the situation.
My feelings is, we are all here for fun, yes everyone is choosy and everyone has their opinions, so respect each other!! |
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Perhaps they just like to see a woman enjoying more than one man?
Also on occasions where I've been involved in threesomes, the guys have appreciated the opportunity for one or the other to have a little time out where, if they like, they can sit back and enjoy the view, or to get their breath back, nip to the loo, drink some water or whatever without it interrupting proceedings |
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"Am I right in thinking that single straight guys looking for MF couples are, on the whole looking for F but just trying to widen the net due to the lack of F only profiles? If not, what is the advantage of the F of a MF couple? "
For me it the build up an the ladies hubby watching me please his wife x |
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By *og-ManMan 23 weeks ago
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"Perhaps they just like to see a woman enjoying more than one man?
Also on occasions where I've been involved in threesomes, the guys have appreciated the opportunity for one or the other to have a little time out where, if they like, they can sit back and enjoy the view, or to get their breath back, nip to the loo, drink some water or whatever without it interrupting proceedings "
Or even donuts |
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"Am I right in thinking that single straight guys looking for MF couples are, on the whole looking for F but just trying to widen the net due to the lack of F only profiles? If not, what is the advantage of the F of a MF couple?
Single straight guys looking for MF are not 100% straight in my opinion"
Well am sure there are plenty of bi guys enjoy playing with couples but it's a broad generalisation to assume all guys interested in partaking in mfm with couples are not 100% str8. I am 110% str8 and never interested when the male of the couple is bi or bi curious, for me the thrill is all about a female being pleased by 2 guys at the same time |
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By *rbubbleMan 23 weeks ago
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"Question for th married females meeting single guys is it common to be asked "an I better than your other half?" In bed of course? "
I’ve met my fair few couples really lovely down to earth couples who are crazy about each other and never once asked that question why would you even bother.. they’ve been kind enough to invite you to join them and share their fantasies with you so the respect is a must and leave the ego at the door and enjoy the experience..
No wonder it’s tough at times for singles guys if this is the crap asked
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"Question for th married females meeting single guys is it common to be asked "an I better than your other half?" In bed of course?
I’ve met my fair few couples really lovely down to earth couples who are crazy about each other and never once asked that question why would you even bother.. they’ve been kind enough to invite you to join them and share their fantasies with you so the respect is a must and leave the ego at the door and enjoy the experience..
No wonder it’s tough at times for singles guys if this is the crap asked
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By *rbubbleMan 23 weeks ago
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"Am I right in thinking that single straight guys looking for MF couples are, on the whole looking for F but just trying to widen the net due to the lack of F only profiles? If not, what is the advantage of the F of a MF couple?
Single straight guys looking for MF are not 100% straight in my opinion"
You’re so wrong here give over I’m 100% straight and have many meets with couples so your theory is so far wrong |
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"Question for th married females meeting single guys is it common to be asked "an I better than your other half?" In bed of course?
And that there is why we don't meet young guys "
Only an insecure gasún could ask a question like that! |
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"Question for th married females meeting single guys is it common to be asked "an I better than your other half?" In bed of course?
And that there is why we don't meet young guys
Only an insecure gasún could ask a question like that!"
It's an interesting point. In a cuck situation it's plausible, no? Not all mfm are straight or straight forward. Some couples court degradation either for the wife or husband and sometimes both. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 23 weeks ago
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"Question for th married females meeting single guys is it common to be asked "an I better than your other half?" In bed of course?
And that there is why we don't meet young guys
Only an insecure gasún could ask a question like that!
It's an interesting point. In a cuck situation it's plausible, no? Not all mfm are straight or straight forward. Some couples court degradation either for the wife or husband and sometimes both. "
Indeed, as I said, everyone has their own perspective  |
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By *un_guy_69Man 23 weeks ago
Limerick Tipp border |
For me meeting a couple for MFM is a different dynamic that gives an enjoyable experience. Watching the lady with her husband and then being invited into that is a truly erotic experience.
There are positions and interactions that cannot be experienced in a 1 on 1 situation (and vice versa).
Clicking with the couple gives such an enjoyable and erotic experience that's different to other situations. I've had many different mfm meets yet they were all so enjoyable.
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Any that have tried it with us totally try to blank hubby like there going to give me the best fuck ever and it's laughable because none of them realise that usually a significant other/partner could give you more of a thrill using nothing but there finger tips than some guy who thinks they can bang for hours. And we can honestly say that it's the single males total lack of respect for hubby that has us ignoring them.they forget that they would be invited to join something intimate and special with us |
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By *aseylee324Couple 23 weeks ago
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"Any that have tried it with us totally try to blank hubby like there going to give me the best fuck ever and it's laughable because none of them realise that usually a significant other/partner could give you more of a thrill using nothing but there finger tips than some guy who thinks they can bang for hours. And we can honestly say that it's the single males total lack of respect for hubby that has us ignoring them.they forget that they would be invited to join something intimate and special with us "
We have never had that experience, all the guys we've met have been very respectful with both of us, and vice versa, I might add. |
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By *I TwoCouple 23 weeks ago
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"In our experience most single guys on here are engaging with couples because they have to. It's very hard to find the ones that actually want to"
It's very hard to find single guys that can perform with a couple, most can't rise to the occasion. |
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"In our experience most single guys on here are engaging with couples because they have to. It's very hard to find the ones that actually want to
It's very hard to find single guys that can perform with a couple, most can't rise to the occasion."
NI lady would raise the DEAD! |
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"Am I right in thinking that single straight guys looking for MF couples are, on the whole looking for F but just trying to widen the net due to the lack of F only profiles? If not, what is the advantage of the F of a MF couple? "
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A lot of the single guys who message are taking what they can get.
Swinging is defined by couples swapping, it's not simply all casual sex.
From what I hear from other couples, finding a single guy is tough, and the best threesome additions are be partnered men who are experienced swingers.
You need someone who understands the dynamic and have ideally been there themselves.
Someone claimed there is a lot of "male bashing" on here..
When the majority of this sites traffic is single men with no experience in Swinging, they are obviously going to be the source of most issues. It's not that men are bad as a whole.
Rather than getting defensive, guys who want to do well here need to be humble enpigh to take feedback, and learn from others mistakes.
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I guess the point I was trying to make, albeit not well, was that the culture of male bashing and sweeping generalisations on fab simply reinforces negative stereotypes and makes it harder for everyone to have a good time.
It drives away men who might very well be what someone is looking for and often turns couples off of the idea of looking for single guys at all.
There's lots of really positive feedback threads for guys to read that are much more helpful. |
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"Any that have tried it with us totally try to blank hubby like there going to give me the best fuck ever and it's laughable because none of them realise that usually a significant other/partner could give you more of a thrill using nothing but there finger tips than some guy who thinks they can bang for hours. And we can honestly say that it's the single males total lack of respect for hubby that has us ignoring them.they forget that they would be invited to join something intimate and special with us
We have never had that experience, all the guys we've met have been very respectful with both of us, and vice versa, I might add. "
I'd totally agree. In our time here as a couple almost all our meets were with single guys. None behaved like arseholes and there was always mutual respect. None had any performance problems either, and even those who were perhaps a little tentative to start with soon got into the swing of things |
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"Am I right in thinking that single straight guys looking for MF couples are, on the whole looking for F but just trying to widen the net due to the lack of F only profiles? If not, what is the advantage of the F of a MF couple? "
To me is not to widen the net. It’s about the trill of the sex that’s different from a MF only situation. But it’s also to be in a different dynamic where my focus has to be on two people, ensure they have a pleasure time and ensure I don’t do or say something that can upset them. Unfortunately I had only one MFM experience and it was not great, hopefully my second one will be much better. |
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This entire thread lays bare the need for more education and open discourse on the subject as there's a fair amount of confusion and generalization, presumably based on limited anecdotal evidence.
We could go endlessly theorize about other peoples' intentions and desires but that will never truly answer the question at hand as there are numerous individual answers, which is what OP is asking.
If you're joining a couple as a single man, talk about what you all want from it. Talk about your desires, your boundaries , your experience, your sexuality...
That's all there is to it. |
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"I guess the point I was trying to make, albeit not well, was that the culture of male bashing and sweeping generalisations on fab simply reinforces negative stereotypes and makes it harder for everyone to have a good time.
It drives away men who might very well be what someone is looking for and often turns couples off of the idea of looking for single guys at all.
There's lots of really positive feedback threads for guys to read that are much more helpful."
Tbh some of the men on here are absolute morons and deserve a bashing |
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"This entire thread lays bare the need for more education and open discourse on the subject as there's a fair amount of confusion and generalization, presumably based on limited anecdotal evidence.
We could go endlessly theorize about other peoples' intentions and desires but that will never truly answer the question at hand as there are numerous individual answers, which is what OP is asking.
If you're joining a couple as a single man, talk about what you all want from it. Talk about your desires, your boundaries , your experience, your sexuality...
That's all there is to it."
I come from the world of BDSM and negotiation and pre-mortems are part of that normal language as well as debriefs the following day, aftercare etc. It baffles me that this lifestyle isn't adopting that model of advanced communication.
I recently stood beside a swinger and run down the SMASHT model of consent (The Kink Shrink), they looked at my like I had two heads. Still happy I did it though. |
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By *I TwoCouple 23 weeks ago
PDI 12-26th Nov 24 |
"In our experience most single guys on here are engaging with couples because they have to. It's very hard to find the ones that actually want to
It's very hard to find single guys that can perform with a couple, most can't rise to the occasion.
NI lady would raise the DEAD! "
Oooh for a round two of that night |
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I agree with delectable's earlier comment, there is a special feeling sharing with a couple, and it's a very different feeling to a single meeting. you become part of the extended couple and the sex is more intimate, yes its mainly the addition with the wife but some husbands love to see this going on and being okay with it. Thats just my experience and I'm sure others have different, but I'm just saying how it went for me and I wish I had it back. |
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"This entire thread lays bare the need for more education and open discourse on the subject as there's a fair amount of confusion and generalization, presumably based on limited anecdotal evidence.
We could go endlessly theorize about other peoples' intentions and desires but that will never truly answer the question at hand as there are numerous individual answers, which is what OP is asking.
If you're joining a couple as a single man, talk about what you all want from it. Talk about your desires, your boundaries , your experience, your sexuality...
That's all there is to it.
I come from the world of BDSM and negotiation and pre-mortems are part of that normal language as well as debriefs the following day, aftercare etc. It baffles me that this lifestyle isn't adopting that model of advanced communication.
I recently stood beside a swinger and run down the SMASHT model of consent (The Kink Shrink), they looked at my like I had two heads. Still happy I did it though. "
In fairness, BDSM is a wide ranging area with complex scenarios/protocols so it requires detailed communication of boundaries.
Swinging is a much simpler concept. |
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"A lot of the single guys who message are taking what they can get.
Swinging is defined by couples swapping, it's not simply all casual sex.
From what I hear from other couples, finding a single guy is tough, and the best threesome additions are be partnered men who are experienced swingers.
You need someone who understands the dynamic and have ideally been there themselves.
I totally agree
Someone claimed there is a lot of "male bashing" on here..
When the majority of this sites traffic is single men with no experience in Swinging, they are obviously going to be the source of most issues. It's not that men are bad as a whole.
Rather than getting defensive, guys who want to do well here need to be humble enpigh to take feedback, and learn from others mistakes.
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"This entire thread lays bare the need for more education and open discourse on the subject as there's a fair amount of confusion and generalization, presumably based on limited anecdotal evidence.
We could go endlessly theorize about other peoples' intentions and desires but that will never truly answer the question at hand as there are numerous individual answers, which is what OP is asking.
If you're joining a couple as a single man, talk about what you all want from it. Talk about your desires, your boundaries , your experience, your sexuality...
That's all there is to it.
I come from the world of BDSM and negotiation and pre-mortems are part of that normal language as well as debriefs the following day, aftercare etc. It baffles me that this lifestyle isn't adopting that model of advanced communication.
I recently stood beside a swinger and run down the SMASHT model of consent (The Kink Shrink), they looked at my like I had two heads. Still happy I did it though.
In fairness, BDSM is a wide ranging area with complex scenarios/protocols so it requires detailed communication of boundaries.
Swinging is a much simpler concept."
True that there may be more complexity in some kinks but the core is the same- consent and communication is paramount.. in every interaction really, not just sexual. |
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"In a straight mfm, the most important person is hubby because he's gaining the least out of the experience. If he's happy, then everyone is likely happy. Mrs."
This is so accurate in our experience (even though hotwifing is a big turn on for Mr)..really appreciate
you saying this |
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"This entire thread lays bare the need for more education and open discourse on the subject as there's a fair amount of confusion and generalization, presumably based on limited anecdotal evidence.
We could go endlessly theorize about other peoples' intentions and desires but that will never truly answer the question at hand as there are numerous individual answers, which is what OP is asking.
If you're joining a couple as a single man, talk about what you all want from it. Talk about your desires, your boundaries , your experience, your sexuality...
That's all there is to it.
I come from the world of BDSM and negotiation and pre-mortems are part of that normal language as well as debriefs the following day, aftercare etc. It baffles me that this lifestyle isn't adopting that model of advanced communication.
I recently stood beside a swinger and run down the SMASHT model of consent (The Kink Shrink), they looked at my like I had two heads. Still happy I did it though.
In fairness, BDSM is a wide ranging area with complex scenarios/protocols so it requires detailed communication of boundaries.
Swinging is a much simpler concept."
I am not sure that's correct. It is still a big thing mentally for some people, especially newbies. Many people have past traumas. I personally can't deal with anything to do with cars. I'll not clarify why but it's really triggering for me when I have people asking for a car meet.
Factor in things like we've had slut shaming our whole lives, complicated feelings about being sex positive, monogamy is supposed to be the societal ideal pushed on us from our parents and others.
But how would anyone know triggers and feelings unless we had that negotiation.
Or you played with someone who had a pacemaker fitted. Might be a good idea to know that in advance.
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"In a straight mfm, the most important person is hubby because he's gaining the least out of the experience. If he's happy, then everyone is likely happy. Mrs."
Unless he has a kink for that
For me (male) I like focusing on one woman at a time tbh. So if I'm with my wife I want it to be all about her so mfm works great and I don't feel like I'm not getting anything from it!
But then if I'm meeting someone else, I prefer it to be all about her during that time. |
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One guy on here claimed to be 110% straight. Another claimed 100%.
Does that mean the guy that's 100% straight is not as hetero ?
Or does it just mean one of them doesn't understand the concept of percentages
I have a question. Any 100% straight guys on here ever watched porn that includes mf sex ? . Surely they would only watch female / lesbian action etc... |
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"One guy on here claimed to be 110% straight. Another claimed 100%.
Does that mean the guy that's 100% straight is not as hetero ?
Or does it just mean one of them doesn't understand the concept of percentages
I have a question. Any 100% straight guys on here ever watched porn that includes mf sex ? . Surely they would only watch female / lesbian action etc..."
I'm not quite sure what your getting at here.
My experience with mfm is that is actually takes confidence to be naked around another man. Especially a man with a boner.
I felt pretty awkward at first to be fair but that passed.
And given the opportunity to suck some dick I found, despite my curiosity, it just didn't turn me on at all. So in the end I found it gave me more confidence in my sexuality. |
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By *og-ManMan 23 weeks ago
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"One guy on here claimed to be 110% straight. Another claimed 100%.
Does that mean the guy that's 100% straight is not as hetero ?
Or does it just mean one of them doesn't understand the concept of percentages
I have a question. Any 100% straight guys on here ever watched porn that includes mf sex ? . Surely they would only watch female / lesbian action etc..."
But then you see blow jobs for 10 mins in a porn film
So you see a hard cock and a mouth ....what audience is that designed for
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"One guy on here claimed to be 110% straight. Another claimed 100%.
Does that mean the guy that's 100% straight is not as hetero ?
Or does it just mean one of them doesn't understand the concept of percentages
I have a question. Any 100% straight guys on here ever watched porn that includes mf sex ? . Surely they would only watch female / lesbian action etc...
I'm not quite sure what your getting at here.
My experience with mfm is that is actually takes confidence to be naked around another man. Especially a man with a boner.
I felt pretty awkward at first to be fair but that passed.
And given the opportunity to suck some dick I found, despite my curiosity, it just didn't turn me on at all. So in the end I found it gave me more confidence in my sexuality."
At least you gave it a lash.
It's good to test out sexuality, experiment, situations that turn you on, in your mind, don't always fully turn you on in real life. Not saying you fantasised about sucking cock. Some of my girl on girl fantasies, didn't do much for me in real life, and then surprisingly some other stuff did. No harm trying things out. |
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"One guy on here claimed to be 110% straight. Another claimed 100%.
Does that mean the guy that's 100% straight is not as hetero ?
Or does it just mean one of them doesn't understand the concept of percentages
I have a question. Any 100% straight guys on here ever watched porn that includes mf sex ? . Surely they would only watch female / lesbian action etc...
I'm not quite sure what your getting at here.
My experience with mfm is that is actually takes confidence to be naked around another man. Especially a man with a boner.
I felt pretty awkward at first to be fair but that passed.
And given the opportunity to suck some dick I found, despite my curiosity, it just didn't turn me on at all. So in the end I found it gave me more confidence in my sexuality."
The first point was just me being sarcastic. Really bugs me when people claim to be MORE than 100%.
The amount of men that have , or would, in the right circumstances, interact with another male,is higher than some imagine. In my opinion.
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"It is still a big thing mentally for some people, especially newbies.
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I agree with that too and am in no way underestimating the importance of open communication before, during and after a swinging encounter |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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The amount of men that have , or would, in the right circumstances, interact with another male,is higher than some imagine. In my opinion.
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I think men tend to be either straight or not and I’m not sure circumstance would have any effect on sexual preference.
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"Am I right in thinking that single straight guys looking for MF couples are, on the whole looking for F but just trying to widen the net due to the lack of F only profiles? If not, what is the advantage of the F of a MF couple? "
Speaking for myself absolutely not love playing with couples but also understand how the male half has enjoyment of watching and been there plus I love seeing 2 together as well hot as fuck once everyone is understanding relaxed with each other and share  |
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"In a straight mfm, the most important person is hubby because he's gaining the least out of the experience. If he's happy, then everyone is likely happy. Mrs.
This is so accurate in our experience (even though hotwifing is a big turn on for Mr)..really appreciate
you saying this "
I only realised this through our own experiences. We don't do mfm much but if we do, I obviously choose the guy. But hubby must like him too and there should be rapport for it to work. Mrs |
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"In a straight mfm, the most important person is hubby because he's gaining the least out of the experience. If he's happy, then everyone is likely happy. Mrs.
This is so accurate in our experience (even though hotwifing is a big turn on for Mr)..really appreciate
you saying this
I only realised this through our own experiences. We don't do mfm much but if we do, I obviously choose the guy. But hubby must like him too and there should be rapport for it to work. Mrs "
This 100%. I can't imagine being with a couple if the guy wasn't someone I'd want to hang out with too. |
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The amount of men that have , or would, in the right circumstances, interact with another male,is higher than some imagine. In my opinion.
I think men tend to be either straight or not and I’m not sure circumstance would have any effect on sexual preference.
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So. It's 100% or nothing ?
I'm not saying circumstances change preferences. But , for instance. Double penetration. 2 cocks millimeters apart. Sounds like fun to me .
Would a straight guy indulge ? |
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The amount of men that have , or would, in the right circumstances, interact with another male,is higher than some imagine. In my opinion.
I think men tend to be either straight or not and I’m not sure circumstance would have any effect on sexual preference.
So. It's 100% or nothing ?
I'm not saying circumstances change preferences. But , for instance. Double penetration. 2 cocks millimeters apart. Sounds like fun to me .
Would a straight guy indulge ?"
My wife loves DP and I’m as straight as a man gets. |
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The amount of men that have , or would, in the right circumstances, interact with another male,is higher than some imagine. In my opinion.
I think men tend to be either straight or not and I’m not sure circumstance would have any effect on sexual preference.
So. It's 100% or nothing ?
I'm not saying circumstances change preferences. But , for instance. Double penetration. 2 cocks millimeters apart. Sounds like fun to me .
Would a straight guy indulge ?
My wife loves DP and I’m as straight as a man gets."
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"One guy on here claimed to be 110% straight. Another claimed 100%.
Does that mean the guy that's 100% straight is not as hetero ?
Or does it just mean one of them doesn't understand the concept of percentages
I have a question. Any 100% straight guys on here ever watched porn that includes mf sex ? . Surely they would only watch female / lesbian action etc...
I'm not quite sure what your getting at here.
My experience with mfm is that is actually takes confidence to be naked around another man. Especially a man with a boner.
I felt pretty awkward at first to be fair but that passed.
And given the opportunity to suck some dick I found, despite my curiosity, it just didn't turn me on at all. So in the end I found it gave me more confidence in my sexuality.
The first point was just me being sarcastic. Really bugs me when people claim to be MORE than 100%.
The amount of men that have , or would, in the right circumstances, interact with another male,is higher than some imagine. In my opinion.
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If me saying 110% in my comment bugs you you have very little to be getting your nickers in a knot over, we all know it's not a real percentage its just a term some people use to bolster a declaration, we are not calculating a lunar landing here or anything |
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By *cuk4funCouple 23 weeks ago
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"Any that have tried it with us totally try to blank hubby like there going to give me the best fuck ever and it's laughable because none of them realise that usually a significant other/partner could give you more of a thrill using nothing but there finger tips than some guy who thinks they can bang for hours. And we can honestly say that it's the single males total lack of respect for hubby that has us ignoring them.they forget that they would be invited to join something intimate and special with us
We have never had that experience, all the guys we've met have been very respectful with both of us, and vice versa, I might add.
I'd totally agree. In our time here as a couple almost all our meets were with single guys. None behaved like arseholes and there was always mutual respect. None had any performance problems either, and even those who were perhaps a little tentative to start with soon got into the swing of things "
Yep, very similar to our experiences with single guys , but , we make it clear from the off as to what we want . We are very choosy when it comes to single guys and its always herself who decides who we meet as its all about her pleasure for me . It can be a really horny night and the reclaim sex is incredible afterwards |
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"One guy on here claimed to be 110% straight. Another claimed 100%.
Does that mean the guy that's 100% straight is not as hetero ?
Or does it just mean one of them doesn't understand the concept of percentages
I have a question. Any 100% straight guys on here ever watched porn that includes mf sex ? . Surely they would only watch female / lesbian action etc...
I'm not quite sure what your getting at here.
My experience with mfm is that is actually takes confidence to be naked around another man. Especially a man with a boner.
I felt pretty awkward at first to be fair but that passed.
And given the opportunity to suck some dick I found, despite my curiosity, it just didn't turn me on at all. So in the end I found it gave me more confidence in my sexuality.
The first point was just me being sarcastic. Really bugs me when people claim to be MORE than 100%.
The amount of men that have , or would, in the right circumstances, interact with another male,is higher than some imagine. In my opinion.
If me saying 110% in my comment bugs you you have very little to be getting your nickers in a knot over, we all know it's not a real percentage its just a term some people use to bolster a declaration, we are not calculating a lunar landing here or anything "
I agree 200% with everything you say  |
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