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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
Just a thought that popped into my head this morning. I’m sure there is a plethora of reasons but I would like to hear them. I think I’m still quite naive, being relatively new to the scene but before joining Fab I simply never considered single guys being interested in couples. I assumed they would be looking for single m/f/whatever, and that the world was their oyster when it came to getting what they wanted. However, it seems a majority of single male profiles on the site have couples as a preference.
Is it simply that it casts their net wider due to the lack of single women on here? (I’m assuming there is an imbalance) or is it a fantasy situation?
Enlighten me please 
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I've never had a threesome of any description so for a long time I was looking to meet couples as well as single women mainly for new experiences.
I changed that a few years ago mainly because of the demands I received in their opening messages and I'm no longer looking to meet a couple on this profile.
I'm also one half of a couples profile here and when we get around to meeting again we will be looking to meet singles as well as couples. |
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At the risk of sounding too serious, it’s a big honour to be invited by a couple to be part of their sex life, especially if it’s a first time for them. If I help them realise a dream and we all enjoy it, it’s something special. |
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Simply love couples they (plural) are more open for experiences and trying new things. Vanilla life also has a woman or a man (in my case as I am bi) but couple add a new level of excitement to life.
If they are both bi or are willing to try, nothing like it. Best feeling ever.
In case they are straight, still add a different level of excitement.
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"Fantasy of a MFM or a MMF if the men are bi
Fantasy of having sex with a wife or partner while the male half of the couple watches
Fantasy of watching a couple having sex
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Yeah, I guess I just didn’t realise how popular it was. Like I said, pre Fab I only thought I was open minded |
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"I've never had a threesome of any description so for a long time I was looking to meet couples as well as single women mainly for new experiences.
I changed that a few years ago mainly because of the demands I received in their opening messages and I'm no longer looking to meet a couple on this profile.
I'm also one half of a couples profile here and when we get around to meeting again we will be looking to meet singles as well as couples. "
Yeah I can imagine there is a lot of pressure on a single guy being invited in. That’s probably why I am surprised so many are up for it. |
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"We’re a couple. And we like couples, as a couple and as singles.
Don’t think it’s limited to single men?"
No, you’re right. I guess it was just what popped into my head from my own experiences on here. I’m sure the reasoning is the same for single women who are interested in couples. |
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"At the risk of sounding too serious, it’s a big honour to be invited by a couple to be part of their sex life, especially if it’s a first time for them. If I help them realise a dream and we all enjoy it, it’s something special."
Not too serious at all |
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"Simply love couples they (plural) are more open for experiences and trying new things. Vanilla life also has a woman or a man (in my case as I am bi) but couple add a new level of excitement to life.
If they are both bi or are willing to try, nothing like it. Best feeling ever.
In case they are straight, still add a different level of excitement.
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By *aughty MilfCouple 35 weeks ago
Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland |
"At the risk of sounding too serious, it’s a big honour to be invited by a couple to be part of their sex life, especially if it’s a first time for them. If I help them realise a dream and we all enjoy it, it’s something special."
definitely agree
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love"
She might not want anything from him after!!  He’d want to fairly sure of himself to presume she would! |
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By *panishRebelMan 35 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Just a thought that popped into my head this morning. I’m sure there is a plethora of reasons but I would like to hear them. I think I’m still quite naive, being relatively new to the scene but before joining Fab I simply never considered single guys being interested in couples. I assumed they would be looking for single m/f/whatever, and that the world was their oyster when it came to getting what they wanted. However, it seems a majority of single male profiles on the site have couples as a preference.
Is it simply that it casts their net wider due to the lack of single women on here? (I’m assuming there is an imbalance) or is it a fantasy situation?
Enlighten me please
Mrs "
Yea lots of possible reasons.
It's just one option for me. Starting out exploring I took the attitude why not try it.
Is it my first choice? No...but if it's on the menu with the right mood or connection yes.
Personally I can live without it, but remain open. |
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By *panishRebelMan 35 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Just a thought that popped into my head this morning. I’m sure there is a plethora of reasons but I would like to hear them. I think I’m still quite naive, being relatively new to the scene but before joining Fab I simply never considered single guys being interested in couples. I assumed they would be looking for single m/f/whatever, and that the world was their oyster when it came to getting what they wanted. However, it seems a majority of single male profiles on the site have couples as a preference.
Is it simply that it casts their net wider due to the lack of single women on here? (I’m assuming there is an imbalance) or is it a fantasy situation?
Enlighten me please
Mrs
Yea lots of possible reasons.
It's just one option for me. Starting out exploring I took the attitude why not try it.
Is it my first choice? No...but if it's on the menu with the right mood or connection yes.
Personally I can live without it, but remain open."
PS.
I am straight. I would imagine a bi, has much more attraction towards couples. |
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By *og-ManMan 35 weeks ago
somewhere |
"He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love
She might not want anything from him after!! He’d want to fairly sure of himself to presume she would! "
Think there's been a few cases on here where he continued fucking the woman without the other half knowing until they split up |
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By *eordie.Woman 35 weeks ago
The Sticks |
"He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love"
This^^
Also so many single guys have told me it's easier to arrange meets with couples than single women, and less drama. |
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"Just a thought that popped into my head this morning. I’m sure there is a plethora of reasons but I would like to hear them. I think I’m still quite naive, being relatively new to the scene but before joining Fab I simply never considered single guys being interested in couples. I assumed they would be looking for single m/f/whatever, and that the world was their oyster when it came to getting what they wanted. However, it seems a majority of single male profiles on the site have couples as a preference.
Is it simply that it casts their net wider due to the lack of single women on here? (I’m assuming there is an imbalance) or is it a fantasy situation?
Enlighten me please
Mrs
Yea lots of possible reasons.
It's just one option for me. Starting out exploring I took the attitude why not try it.
Is it my first choice? No...but if it's on the menu with the right mood or connection yes.
Personally I can live without it, but remain open.
PS.
I am straight. I would imagine a bi, has much more attraction towards couples."
This I would have thought would have been the main reason. But like you said, it’s good to be open. Most are probably just exploring. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 35 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
"He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love
She might not want anything from him after!! He’d want to fairly sure of himself to presume she would! "
He's pretty much counting she won't  |
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By *aseylee324Couple 35 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
"He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love
This^^
Also so many single guys have told me it's easier to arrange meets with couples than single women, and less drama. "
Also true I would imagine, less risky for the woman too |
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love
She might not want anything from him after!! He’d want to fairly sure of himself to presume she would!
Think there's been a few cases on here where he continued fucking the woman without the other half knowing until they split up "
Oh dear! |
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"He gets to fuck a woman in the certainty she won't be expecting anything from him after
What's not to love
She might not want anything from him after!! He’d want to fairly sure of himself to presume she would!
He's pretty much counting she won't "
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By *insBadMan 35 weeks ago
& around |
I like my woman naughty and, for want of a better word, slutty, and nothing says I'm a naughty little fire cracker than a lady who enjoys playing with 2 or more guys at the same time, 2 fold if she is doing it with or in front of her husband/boyfriend |
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By *eordie.Woman 35 weeks ago
The Sticks |
"I like my woman naughty and, for want of a better word, slutty, and nothing says I'm a naughty little fire cracker than a lady who enjoys playing with 2 or more guys at the same time, 2 fold if she is doing it with or in front of her husband/boyfriend "
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"Just a thought that popped into my head this morning. I’m sure there is a plethora of reasons but I would like to hear them. I think I’m still quite naive, being relatively new to the scene but before joining Fab I simply never considered single guys being interested in couples. I assumed they would be looking for single m/f/whatever, and that the world was their oyster when it came to getting what they wanted. However, it seems a majority of single male profiles on the site have couples as a preference.
Is it simply that it casts their net wider due to the lack of single women on here? (I’m assuming there is an imbalance) or is it a fantasy situation?
Enlighten me please
Mrs
Yea lots of possible reasons.
It's just one option for me. Starting out exploring I took the attitude why not try it.
Is it my first choice? No...but if it's on the menu with the right mood or connection yes.
Personally I can live without it, but remain open.
PS.
I am straight. I would imagine a bi, has much more attraction towards couples."
100% more attracted to couples. (As a bi guy) |
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times. "
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not? |
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By *panishRebelMan 35 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?"
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked. |
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"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked."
I’ll take your asparagus over escargots anyday
Couple here that play with single guys . Great fun
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"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked.
I’ll take your asparagus over escargots anyday
Couple here that play with single guys . Great fun
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Yous are very rare to find.
Always found either fully bi or the female bi couple. |
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By *panishRebelMan 35 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked.
I’ll take your asparagus over escargots anyday
Couple here that play with single guys . Great fun
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I'm always happy to cook up. It's one of the things I do best.
Have you ever tried Escargot Spainish style?
It's with an almond buttery sauce!
That works well too |
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By *ACOLCouple 35 weeks ago
limerick |
"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked."
Topped with parmessano and we have a deal.
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By *exnssstuff OP Couple 35 weeks ago
a land far, far away |
"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked.
I’ll take your asparagus over escargots anyday
Couple here that play with single guys . Great fun
I'm always happy to cook up. It's one of the things I do best.
Have you ever tried Escargot Spainish style?
It's with an almond buttery sauce!
That works well too "
I am not a fan of Escargot but did obviously try it while in Paris.. as ya do! |
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"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked.
I’ll take your asparagus over escargots anyday
Couple here that play with single guys . Great fun
I'm always happy to cook up. It's one of the things I do best.
Have you ever tried Escargot Spainish style?
It's with an almond buttery sauce!
That works well too "
I’m Vegan so not interested in trying that type of meat |
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By *panishRebelMan 35 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked.
Topped with parmessano and we have a deal.
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Of course!
The toppings and trimmings are a must. |
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By *panishRebelMan 35 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked.
I’ll take your asparagus over escargots anyday
Couple here that play with single guys . Great fun
I'm always happy to cook up. It's one of the things I do best.
Have you ever tried Escargot Spainish style?
It's with an almond buttery sauce!
That works well too
I am not a fan of Escargot but did obviously try it while in Paris.. as ya do!"
Like a lot of things, place and time are all part of what we try! |
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By *panishRebelMan 35 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Group sex is fun. That's my reason at least. But I think I didn't know what I liked about it until I had tried it a few times.
Just wrote out a long reply and it didn’t post, so here I go again
This is what got me thinking, how many single guys outside of Fab have fantasies of joining a couple? Not just group sex, couple specific.
Is it simply like trying a new restaurant and trying something you don’t realize was on the menu?
Are couples the escargot of Fab? You never really thought about trying it, but now you’re here and it’s on offer, why not?
The Asparagus of fab.....
Feck I always loved asparagus, fresh only however. Lightly Pan fried with a little butter; served with salt crystals and balsamic vinegar. If all couples with singles were like that....we'll I might just get hooked.
I’ll take your asparagus over escargots anyday
Couple here that play with single guys . Great fun
I'm always happy to cook up. It's one of the things I do best.
Have you ever tried Escargot Spainish style?
It's with an almond buttery sauce!
That works well too
I’m Vegan so not interested in trying that type of meat "
Well although I am not Vegan myself....I have been known to prepare a full vegan menu. |
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"At the risk of sounding too serious, it’s a big honour to be invited by a couple to be part of their sex life, especially if it’s a first time for them. If I help them realise a dream and we all enjoy it, it’s something special. definitely agree"
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"Just a thought that popped into my head this morning. I’m sure there is a plethora of reasons but I would like to hear them. I think I’m still quite naive, being relatively new to the scene but before joining Fab I simply never considered single guys being interested in couples. I assumed they would be looking for single m/f/whatever, and that the world was their oyster when it came to getting what they wanted. However, it seems a majority of single male profiles on the site have couples as a preference.
Is it simply that it casts their net wider due to the lack of single women on here? (I’m assuming there is an imbalance) or is it a fantasy situation?
Enlighten me please
Mrs "
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By *aughty MilfCouple 32 weeks ago
Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland |
"At the risk of sounding too serious, it’s a big honour to be invited by a couple to be part of their sex life, especially if it’s a first time for them. If I help them realise a dream and we all enjoy it, it’s something special."
. Definitely agree to that as we experienced that and really enjoyed . Jane |
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"Tip the Mrs and the hubby makes the tae sure it's a no brainer  "
With answers like this is it any wonder why some couples avoid single males like the plague as your making it sound like your only interested in getting the chance to fuck a wife while treating her hubby as less than human. For us if discussing the possibility of a single male meet if he ignores chatting to hub we ignore there request |
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Definitely, in fact, it started as me like the birthday present for the wife and it has progressed now into a proper friendship.
Some of them are very demanding but I don’t take MMF offers today by tomorrow, I value the social part too.
The cuck couple role play is very exciting too, even some of them take as a way of living their sex life and even their life. |
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"Tip the Mrs and the hubby makes the tae sure it's a no brainer
With answers like this is it any wonder why some couples avoid single males like the plague as your making it sound like your only interested in getting the chance to fuck a wife while treating her hubby as less than human. For us if discussing the possibility of a single male meet if he ignores chatting to hub we ignore there request "
In fairness ,we took this as just a tongue n cheek comment ! |
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