"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?"
Honestly know what you mean, of course it would be easy enough to find a guy, and can understand your thinking behind that because in essence that would be true..
But finding a regular, which I agree a lot of couples would prefer!!
Isn't as straightforward as it sounds.
A regular would probably have to tick a lot of boxes,
I probably mean a lot more boxes than just a shag kinda thing. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?
Honestly know what you mean, of course it would be easy enough to find a guy, and can understand your thinking behind that because in essence that would be true..
But finding a regular, which I agree a lot of couples would prefer!!
Isn't as straightforward as it sounds.
A regular would probably have to tick a lot of boxes,
I probably mean a lot more boxes than just a shag kinda thing."
So for all the guys here, what are the boxes that needs to be ticked? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?
Honestly know what you mean, of course it would be easy enough to find a guy, and can understand your thinking behind that because in essence that would be true..
But finding a regular, which I agree a lot of couples would prefer!!
Isn't as straightforward as it sounds.
A regular would probably have to tick a lot of boxes,
I probably mean a lot more boxes than just a shag kinda thing.
So for all the guys here, what are the boxes that needs to be ticked?"
Lol well I mean apart from all the sexual stuff, there's other things like logistics privacy discretion trust.
Ok I know talking about these sort of things totally kills the vibe but just saying..
Of course you could always say feck it and just go out and have a good time..
But finding a regular? I don't know, maybe other couples have better ways to find what there looking for |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?"
Agree with Lobos- it can be mega difficult. It's hard enough finding one-off guys who tick the boxes. W
And we don't even consider ourselves very picky  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?
Agree with Lobos- it can be mega difficult. It's hard enough finding one-off guys who tick the boxes. W
And we don't even consider ourselves very picky "
I suppose it whatever preferences people have too. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?
Agree with Lobos- it can be mega difficult. It's hard enough finding one-off guys who tick the boxes. W
And we don't even consider ourselves very picky "
Finding regular guys who tick all the boxes is hard enough. Trust us on that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?
Honestly know what you mean, of course it would be easy enough to find a guy, and can understand your thinking behind that because in essence that would be true..
But finding a regular, which I agree a lot of couples would prefer!!
Isn't as straightforward as it sounds.
A regular would probably have to tick a lot of boxes,
I probably mean a lot more boxes than just a shag kinda thing.
So for all the guys here, what are the boxes that needs to be ticked?
Lol well I mean apart from all the sexual stuff, there's other things like logistics privacy discretion trust.
Ok I know talking about these sort of things totally kills the vibe but just saying..
Of course you could always say feck it and just go out and have a good time..
But finding a regular? I don't know, maybe other couples have better ways to find what there looking for "
I don't think these things kill tje vibe, they need to be discussed specially in the begging see where everyone's at.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?
Agree with Lobos- it can be mega difficult. It's hard enough finding one-off guys who tick the boxes. W
And we don't even consider ourselves very picky
Finding regular guys who tick all the boxes is hard enough. Trust us on that. "
Just probably need to chat and see what happens then |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's hard to find a couple you both click with thankfully we have found a few .when it works it's brilliant.
It does take time effort and a lot of money to find those couples but it's worth it when it works . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I get the feeling that folks here are more about showing off than having real meet-ups; I’ve actually had more genuine meetings outside this site. Honestly, I'd prefer to find a regular couple for everything. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I think alot of couples are looking for this!
"
I don’t think only couples are looking for this.
I would love to find the right girl to be a regular and hopefully then meet together other couples. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
A regular meet is definitely the way to go, the idea of constantly mailing and starting from scratch, well it’s awful, have more or less given up and back to relying on old fashioned wit and beer goggles   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *oghunter33Woman 16 weeks ago
on the hill NordWest of |
While there's many ways of checking out social compatibility there's only one way to to find out if you're sexually compatible: you have to have sex. So the latter is most basic part of finding a regular.
Other than that: the more hurdles and box ticking you pack in the trickier it gets. Not saying you should drop all your preferences but rather than trying to find prince and princess perfect try to see the human and give him/her/them a chance.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *og-ManMan 16 weeks ago
somewhere |
"While there's many ways of checking out social compatibility there's only one way to to find out if you're sexually compatible: you have to have sex. So the latter is most basic part of finding a regular.
Other than that: the more hurdles and box ticking you pack in the trickier it gets. Not saying you should drop all your preferences but rather than trying to find prince and princess perfect try to see the human and give him/her/them a chance.
"
You have to kiss some frogs before you find your prince alright  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *s LollyWoman 16 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"While there's many ways of checking out social compatibility there's only one way to to find out if you're sexually compatible: you have to have sex. So the latter is most basic part of finding a regular.
Other than that: the more hurdles and box ticking you pack in the trickier it gets. Not saying you should drop all your preferences but rather than trying to find prince and princess perfect try to see the human and give him/her/them a chance.
You have to kiss some frogs before you find your prince alright "
Ive kiseed my fair share im definitely due a break |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I get the feeling that folks here are more about showing off than having real meet-ups; I’ve actually had more genuine meetings outside this site. Honestly, I'd prefer to find a regular couple for everything."
No one is forcing you to stay on the site.
We have meet plenty of lovely people thanks to Fab it is a great site for meeting like mined couples |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We so far have only met males but recently have been chatting about meeting a couple socially then see ... hard thou to find one we can click with "
The great thing about Fab is there is someone foe everyone on here. Our taste might not be yours and vise a versa. Keep looking you will find a,couple that suit you.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ACOLCouple 16 weeks ago
limerick |
Finding a set couple is extremely hard, as there are two to please, and everyone needs to be comfortable with each other, also finding the time for everyone to meet as couple normally have kids and aren't available so easily.
Lina. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Glad we’re not the only ones that find it hard to find a regular guy and as mentioned before who ticks the boxes that need ticked. We’ve less boxes now that need to be ticked without losing standards so to speak.
Most guys say they would like regular but found they’re usually saying anything to get a score or don’t understand what regular is. Some think you’re an easy hit without the invested time to keep it fun. It’s not that we don’t realise couples can be bit demanding but step to the plate at least
To find really genuine people isn’t easy but glad to say there is plenty on fab if you stick it out. Couples for us has definitely been harder as there’s 4 people that has to click and to be equally invested as ourselves. The search goes on and still having fun |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We have a few nice couples we meet regularly enough it is tough to find time to meet with work and family but when we meet everyone is more relaxed and the fun is better because we all know what each other likes. Yes it is the dream and we are lucky to have found it. All we need now is that elusive unicorn lol. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Can see the attraction of regular meets. From the perspective of a being single here, I’ve found there’s a danger of one side becoming more involved/invested than is merited. Great if it works for everyone but boundaries and ongoing communication are so important (and difficult). |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
|
I'm a guy, looking for a regular meet. Its tricky to get all the stars to align, but have had some really great experiences. Time and location is the hardest. (Anywhere around Cork or south Tipp suits me xx) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Unless you have the time to dedicate to meeting people for socials it's very, very difficult!!! Starting to realise we were fairly lucky! "
Really have to agree.
We too have been lucky but it does take time and effort. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have my own place in Shannon but would love to find a couple or female for regular meets. Everyone can have stressful days so it would be nice to release that stress and tension every once in a while with a person or couple who need the same thing. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I have my own place in Shannon but would love to find a couple or female for regular meets. Everyone can have stressful days so it would be nice to release that stress and tension every once in a while with a person or couple who need the same thing. "
Why don’t couples approach the men they fancy or women or both ? Looks distance personally that suits you both
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why don’t couples approach the men they fancy or women or both ? Looks distance personally that suits you both "
They do. Pretty much all of the people I've had repeat meets with have gotten in touch with me first. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why don’t couples approach the men they fancy or women or both ? Looks distance personally that suits you both
They do. Pretty much all of the people I've had repeat meets with have gotten in touch with me first."
Best way as couples and ladies inboxes my be stuffed , I need to update my profile and pictures and get a facelift too lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's not at all easy. We have met one couple together and separately for many years and it's still amazing.
We would be happy to do other separate things but there's just so much stuff to wade through that we typically don't really even try. For her, just finding someone who can make her laugh, is normal enough and is only looking to have a fwb/ small number of partners seems difficult. For me, women who want a guy typically seem to look for singles rather than the male of a couple, or maybe it's just I see the amount of messages they get and I can't be bothered to put effort into something that is likely to remain unread!
Relying on socials from now on!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Alot of people come on fab looking for regular playmates, it's how you treat people and fab is proof of how successful you are. We have been on a few group chats of late find them away better than fab as you know your speaking to real people and can relax alot more be yourself more, we have built some great connections from these groups which we hope can form some regular meets in the future. Do what ye feel comfortable doing is our advice most important than anything be yourselves not what you think people will want you to be. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
