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On my search for couples I’ve come across profiles that only show photos of the female side, beautiful as these woman are I’m looking to play with the couple so why hide him away???
Even when I engage and ask for photos they are not wiling to supply a body photo.
Anyone else experience this or am I just looking at the wrong profiles??
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"I know for us I usually just dont find myself that nice in pics... trying to take better ones lately tho as I dont want tho whole page to be full of S photos.
C."
It’s nice to see both, you are a couple anyone joining you is joining both of you |
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But why take individual pictures? Why not take a nice couples pic?
They are real profiles op and to be honest we don't entertain them at all. Makes no sense to us at all, except maybe in a hotwifing situation. Mrs  |
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"But why take individual pictures? Why not take a nice couples pic?
They are real profiles op and to be honest we don't entertain them at all. Makes no sense to us at all, except maybe in a hotwifing situation. Mrs "
Your photos are amazingly hot, you should given lessons to other profiles  |
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I find it off putting when a couples profile only shows her and not him. I wonder if its fake or is he using her as a thirst trap and he's like Quasi Modo.
Ours needs a little more work as I'd like more of us both together and maybe clothed ones as well as lingerie and undies ones. But we are building the quantity up.
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"I know for us I usually just dont find myself that nice in pics... trying to take better ones lately tho as I dont want tho whole page to be full of S photos.
C."
Same. Mr hates having photos taken. He won't even take them of me. If it was up to him there would be one of each of us. We aren't both even in our family ones! |
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This annoys me so much, we try to have a fairly equal split with our pics on here and it's so irritating when only the female half has pics up or sends pics, it's very hard to flirt into a void.
Really hope our public pics are equal now or there will be egg on my face  which would make a change 
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Even as a single guy I prefer to see a couple together in a photo.
If I'm looking to be with a couple it's because I want that experience and so I want to get an idea what the vibe is likely to be between them and between all three of us.
If the man is absent it's hard not to read things into that that might not necessarily even be true but because we are all working with limited info based on a few lines in a bio and some photos then it follows for me that profiles will get ruled out in favour of ones with better overall info in the context of the experience we're looking for. |
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Beard here and honestly I don't like having my pic taken there are only a couple of pics of me on our profile but am willing to send anyone who asks for more.so it's more a lack of confidence as to the lack of my pics and its possible that others th8nk the same |
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We definitely prefer to see photos of both on a profile and we love couples photos. We try to have a balance with our own pics although Mr isn't as confident with pictures as Mrs is.
Unfortunately pictures with the both of us are harder to take without a third person around  that's why we don't have more of them. (coincidentally I ordered a tripod with remote last week..  ) |
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"We definitely prefer to see photos of both on a profile and we love couples photos. We try to have a balance with our own pics although Mr isn't as confident with pictures as Mrs is.
Unfortunately pictures with the both of us are harder to take without a third person around that's why we don't have more of them. (coincidentally I ordered a tripod with remote last week.. )"
Exactly. Don't think my kids would be up for taking those... |
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"We definitely prefer to see photos of both on a profile and we love couples photos. We try to have a balance with our own pics although Mr isn't as confident with pictures as Mrs is.
Unfortunately pictures with the both of us are harder to take without a third person around that's why we don't have more of them. (coincidentally I ordered a tripod with remote last week.. )
Exactly. Don't think my kids would be up for taking those..."
Can't see my kids being up for that either.
A tripod is OK but best is a willing third and we have plans to get someone else involved. |
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We have come up against this as well and it is frustrating, especially for her given she has nothing to go on in terms of enticement.
We have gotten to the point of turning down meets because there are only pictures of her. Or the single cock pick to acknowledge his existence. It might be a harsh position, but we come (cum?) as a couple and like to see that mentality with the couples we meet. And that, for us, starts with the profile. 1 out of 4 pics. Yeah. Ok. 2 out of 60. Not so much.
No expectation of an Anne Leibovitz photo shoot, but a fair acknowledgement and representation of both people shouldn't be that much to ask.
And please. Not just cock pics.
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By *1CorkCouple 35 weeks ago
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No photos of male partner in a couple profile that contacts us just screams disrespect to our Mrs from the outset.
The excuses of male halves saying they’re not confident or happy with how they look in photos goes beyond the physical and doesn’t give a great impression of the personality. How would that lack of confidence and meekness transfer in a real group sex scenario?
Man up for Christ’s sake. |
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I now ignore messages from couples where there's no representation of the male half in their photos (or it's just a photo of his cock).
I've heard all the excuses/reasons, but I've arrived at the point where, unless he's not actually looking to be a part of things, I just find it disrespectful.
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As I the male have no intentions of playing myself, there's no point whatsoever of putting pictures on our profile. It's not what we do because I'm more interested in the voyeur aspects of seeing Mrs with others and taking vids pictures of this. |
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If there is no male in the photos, it's highly unlikely we'd engage in any conversation.
As said above if you don't feel confident putting up a photo of yourself or don't like photos of yourself etc. Then that mentality is highly likely to transfer to a more intimate setting and is probably Mrs biggest turn-off. |
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This is a pet peeve of ours despite us not looking for couples- particularly since we often get messaged by the male half asking to play solo with K- and we have no idea what he looks like!
Physical attraction is important to some of us |
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"This is a pet peeve of ours despite us not looking for couples- particularly since we often get messaged by the male half asking to play solo with K- and we have no idea what he looks like!
Physical attraction is important to some of us "
Potential for a blind date , though it could go very wrong |
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"I know I'm a hot manly piece of ass, but tbh, people just wanna see tits.
Straight women don't, so there's really nothing on offer to us  "
Fab is still a male dominated platform and does nothing to entice a straight woman, I am bisexual but as you’ve said it’s always female photos again taken by the man to show off or entice others but not from the perspective of a female. Until there is a more equal representation of men it will always be this way |
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By *aseylee324Couple 34 weeks ago
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BTW OP, there are plenty of sound couples where there's a very fit male on public display (one or two of them on the forum), concentrate on the profiles who meet your requirements and ignore the others.  |
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"On my search for couples I’ve come across profiles that only show photos of the female side, beautiful as these woman are I’m looking to play with the couple so why hide him away???
Even when I engage and ask for photos they are not wiling to supply a body photo.
Anyone else experience this or am I just looking at the wrong profiles??
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I can only speak for ourselves, we display the pics we're both comfortable to share!
And we contact the profiles we like the look of, don't bother with the ones we don't  |
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"On my search for couples I’ve come across profiles that only show photos of the female side, beautiful as these woman are I’m looking to play with the couple so why hide him away???
Even when I engage and ask for photos they are not wiling to supply a body photo.
Anyone else experience this or am I just looking at the wrong profiles??
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Oh pet peeve doesn’t even cover this one for me.
Did have a good laugh out loud today at the opposite though; couples profile where the pics are all just a shirtless guy in the same pose, not even trying to hide its are a dude attempting to get around single male filters.
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"On my search for couples I’ve come across profiles that only show photos of the female side, beautiful as these woman are I’m looking to play with the couple so why hide him away???
Even when I engage and ask for photos they are not wiling to supply a body photo.
Anyone else experience this or am I just looking at the wrong profiles??
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I find that also but what I find odd is that it's only the male that chats. Even if I tell them I'm not interested in chatting with the male they keep going which ultimately leads to me blocking them |
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"On my search for couples I’ve come across profiles that only show photos of the female side, beautiful as these woman are I’m looking to play with the couple so why hide him away???
Even when I engage and ask for photos they are not wiling to supply a body photo.
Anyone else experience this or am I just looking at the wrong profiles??
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If its a hotwife couple and male half never plays we get it. But so many times we get couples reaching out and basically refuse even when we ask to see male and they even ghost us or block. These are again well verified profiles. Or even worse they request more pics of us. When not hidden we have plenty pics of both |
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Every situation is different for people.
Being camera shy on a swinging site while insisting on openness and transparency from contacts is purely lack of confidence, it has the potential to be really completely misunderstood and as other mentioned already a turn off,while lack of confidence is understandable its not excusable, suggesting to request private pics of the male in the couple. I think its a lot to ask, when they're
so many options on here .
It's a fun lifestyle and site have fun making your pics together as a couple.
Make it a play date. Glass of wine if partial to one and have some giggles together, it's not a competition. Every pic doesn't have to be a page one result
We have couples photoshoot packages available for people who'd like to capture and create classy sexy seductive pics of them selves together and individually for their profile content.Its a fantastic experience and really helps with one's confidence on a lot of levels.
Whatever people decide, have fun and enjoy it.
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The most of our pics are of herself for 2 reasons no 1 she is stunning and more photogenic than me no.2 it's mostly the male half goes on fab so pictures of her draw more attention to our profile. There are a few pics of me that show my phisic as we think that's important. |
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"The most of our pics are of herself for 2 reasons no 1 she is stunning and more photogenic than me no.2 it's mostly the male half goes on fab so pictures of her draw more attention to our profile. There are a few pics of me that show my phisic as we think that's important. "
I’m a single female looking to play with couples, I have no male running my profile, I am particularly talking about profiles looking for a female to join them and then won’t show a photo of the male even after we’ve chatted |
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"The most of our pics are of herself for 2 reasons no 1 she is stunning and more photogenic than me no.2 it's mostly the male half goes on fab so pictures of her draw more attention to our profile. There are a few pics of me that show my phisic as we think that's important.
I’m a single female looking to play with couples, I have no male running my profile, I am particularly talking about profiles looking for a female to join them and then won’t show a photo of the male even after we’ve chatted "
That seems very strange it would be a red flag for us.
We also like meeting single ladies must check our profile to make sure it says that |
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"Ask to video link then if they refuse then you know they are scammers "
Lol not a chance on this planet of us doing a video call to prove we're real or any kind of call really. Either meet us for a coffee or don't, no love loss |
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By *aseylee324Couple 34 weeks ago
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"Ask to video link then if they refuse then you know they are scammers
Lol not a chance on this planet of us doing a video call to prove we're real or any kind of call really. Either meet us for a coffee or don't, no love loss"
Exactly! |
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My worry is that I have very distinct and recognizable tattoos, and by not really knowing who's looking at your profile makes it a little terrifying of being outed I suppose. Maybe more being paranoid as she has not many tattoos. |
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"My worry is that I have very distinct and recognizable tattoos, and by not really knowing who's looking at your profile makes it a little terrifying of being outed I suppose. Maybe more being paranoid as she has not many tattoos. "
Stupid question, can you take a pic, that doesn't show the tattoos?
Otherwise it's going to be hard enough for ye to have public picture's of both of ye. Maybe get pictures of the other profile in DM'S & return ye're to them, that way. It's better safe than sorry eitherway. |
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"I've sent pictures of myself privately, but I'd only be able to put pictures from the middle of my stomach down  "
O right.
Sure that's all you/ye can. Make sure Johnny is covered up in some of them. |
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By *og-ManMan 34 weeks ago
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"My worry is that I have very distinct and recognizable tattoos, and by not really knowing who's looking at your profile makes it a little terrifying of being outed I suppose. Maybe more being paranoid as she has not many tattoos. "
There's also software on Samsung phones that removes the tattoo from your pics and you can post that photo instead
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"My worry is that I have very distinct and recognizable tattoos, and by not really knowing who's looking at your profile makes it a little terrifying of being outed I suppose. Maybe more being paranoid as she has not many tattoos.
There's also software on Samsung phones that removes the tattoo from your pics and you can post that photo instead
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Good man Bog-man.
There you go, all sorted now. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Yup! Blue in the face saying this on here. And to my own Mr (but he’s not as bad).
When he’s messaging a cpl to meet he’ll occasionally ask for a pic of the Mr cos he knows it’s the first thing I’ll notice
However…think it’s probably time we upload another public couple pic instead of individuals….always forget as when we’re playing our phones rarely come out. The pics we put up are generally (a small selection) from when one of us is WfH and the other in the office and we’ve sent them to tease one another
Maybe a June photo forum challenge should be for cpls to put up a couple (together in same pic) photo - Mrs |
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"Yup! Blue in the face saying this on here. And to my own Mr (but he’s not as bad).
When he’s messaging a cpl to meet he’ll occasionally ask for a pic of the Mr cos he knows it’s the first thing I’ll notice
However…think it’s probably time we upload another public couple pic instead of individuals….always forget as when we’re playing our phones rarely come out. The pics we put up are generally (a small selection) from when one of us is WfH and the other in the office and we’ve sent them to tease one another
Maybe a June photo forum challenge should be for cpls to put up a couple (together in same pic) photo - Mrs "
Great idea xo |
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"On my search for couples I’ve come across profiles that only show photos of the female side, beautiful as these woman are I’m looking to play with the couple so why hide him away???
Even when I engage and ask for photos they are not wiling to supply a body photo.
Anyone else experience this or am I just looking at the wrong profiles??
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female most definitely more than likely is stunning and the male is sporting a dad bod and less confident than the female half of the couple maybe they have private photos and willing to share at some point of communication when they are sure it's not a fake profile they are communicating with .... |
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"My worry is that I have very distinct and recognizable tattoos, and by not really knowing who's looking at your profile makes it a little terrifying of being outed I suppose. Maybe more being paranoid as she has not many tattoos. "
Wear clothes? |
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"On my search for couples I’ve come across profiles that only show photos of the female side, beautiful as these woman are I’m looking to play with the couple so why hide him away???
Even when I engage and ask for photos they are not wiling to supply a body photo.
Anyone else experience this or am I just looking at the wrong profiles??
female most definitely more than likely is stunning and the male is sporting a dad bod and less confident than the female half of the couple maybe they have private photos and willing to share at some point of communication when they are sure it's not a fake profile they are communicating with .... "
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Mr here...
As one canny couple on here (with a super-hot female) say at the head of their profile page...
"Usual couple on here, ya know, hot wife average hubby.."
This probably covers it.
In our case, as per our profile, we're not necessarily on here to meet people with whom we would swap or play, but rather to watch/view or be watched/viewed.
So it's kind of moot whether anyone viewing our profile would want to see me, though we do have one couple pic and a pic of my mickey.
In case anyone was curious, our met-in-person verifications generally describe us as attractive / good-looking / handsome, which is flattering and aligns with our own opinion (I think P is good-looking and very attractive, and she thinks the same of me).
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