Always safe with anyone other than hubby. Possibly maybe someday way in the future when we have a special connection with someone it could happen but that's only a thought at the moment and would be testing involved before considering it |
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By *panishRebelMan 18 weeks ago
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I don't know of anyone who thinks that the actual condom feels better then bareback!
It's often said that there's always one...I bet there isn't this time.
Condoms are used for safety and or out of respect. It's basic.
Exclusive relationships can make there own choice on this with our the worry/concern of health or even unwanted pregnancy.
This type of opp question is a regular.
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"Always safe with anyone other than hubby. Possibly maybe someday way in the future when we have a special connection with someone it could happen but that's only a thought at the moment and would be testing involved before considering it "
Totallyvagree.
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My honest opinion on this is that it's easy and well and good chatting in this forum about safe sex, but in the heat of the moment you honestly don't know where you can go... When you know something is forbidden it's always in the corner of your mind that it's something that turns you on. Obviously we all know the dangers of bareback sex, but how many other things do we do that we know deep down are wrong. That forbidden fruit lol |
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By *aseylee324Couple 18 weeks ago
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The only truly safe sex is masturbation. Condoms only offer a certain amount of protection. I would never trust anyone other than himself for intercourse without a condom, but there's an element of risk to all sexual contact. Penis in orifice isn't the only way to catch something. |
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"The only truly safe sex is masturbation. Condoms only offer a certain amount of protection. I would never trust anyone other than himself for intercourse without a condom, but there's an element of risk to all sexual contact. Penis in orifice isn't the only way to catch something. "
99% according to Ross |
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Does the OP actually think this would be a open discussion? Would be fab suicide to come on this thread & say yes I prefer/do bareback :O I don't do bareback, just to clarify. Safe sex all the way. |
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prefer bareback as way better feeling, condoms ruin feeling but would never do bb with a stranger.
would only bb with husband or regular fb we trust. If we found a guy we could trust would only do bb after many meets so we could build up trust.
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"Does the OP actually think this would be a open discussion? Would be fab suicide to come on this thread & say yes I prefer/do bareback :O I don't do bareback, just to clarify. Safe sex all the way.
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Totally agree with this, |
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"My honest opinion on this is that it's easy and well and good chatting in this forum about safe sex, but in the heat of the moment you honestly don't know where you can go."
I disagree completely. If there's a danger of you losing control in the heat of the moment then it's something you should be concerned about ... for all sorts of reasons. |
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A big problem on fab is the absolute stigma and pillering someone who says they do meet without using condoms, or are actively looking for those meets.
All that attitude does is push people towards saying one thing while thinking/doing another.
On fab always assume the other person is having unprotected adx elsewhere |
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"Only bareback with my partner. But we have chatted to a frightening amount of men and couples here who will only BB. Milly x
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Strange ... we've been here nearly 5 years and have never been asked for BB. |
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"Only bareback with my partner. But we have chatted to a frightening amount of men and couples here who will only BB. Milly x
Strange ... we've been here nearly 5 years and have never been asked for BB."
I have seen it mentioned on a couple of profiles lately but that’s it. I never been asked to or offered either. It’s bat shit crazy if you ask me |
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Have had it mentioned to me, and have heard its happening a good bit, I get the impression that people won't admit to it.
Also people not being honest to fbs about who they are meeting, or how many. So bb always a risk however much you trust fwb or regular partners. |
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No one is going to say they play bare on here. Yes we all love cum and in an ideal world this would be brilliant to be able to achieve.
After 17 years online we have seen it all from going to gangbangs were no one at them used a condom  we didn’t do much at them parties used our hands a lot 
Men turning up without condoms, similar with couples and women.
Years ago we used to say we won’t meet anyone who plays without protection but at this stage, we are older and wiser and realise fab is not the only avenue people meet others off. And frankly each to their own it’s none of our business how others get their kicks and if playing bare is it so be it!
To be safe we have to look after ourselves, never assume others are always playing safe as not many do from what we have observed.
Others have said it to be totally safe abstinence is the key….. But that would be rather boring! Condoms for fucking and oral and dental dams are the recommendations for safe sex! Most don’t use condoms for oral!
Just get tested regularly this includes swabbing throat not just genitals.
If you are playing bare go on PrEP as HIV has increased in Ireland among straight people. Get Hap A and B and HPV vaccines. Some of the other viruses are nasty but treatable with antibiotics if caught on time x
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"No one is going to say they play bare on here. Yes we all love cum and in an ideal world this would be brilliant to be able to achieve.
After 17 years online we have seen it all from going to gangbangs were no one at them used a condom we didn’t do much at them parties used our hands a lot
Men turning up without condoms, similar with couples and women.
Years ago we used to say we won’t meet anyone who plays without protection but at this stage, we are older and wiser and realise fab is not the only avenue people meet others off. And frankly each to their own it’s none of our business how others get their kicks and if playing bare is it so be it!
To be safe we have to look after ourselves, never assume others are always playing safe as not many do from what we have observed.
Others have said it to be totally safe abstinence is the key….. But that would be rather boring! Condoms for fucking and oral and dental dams are the recommendations for safe sex! Most don’t use condoms for oral!
Just get tested regularly this includes swabbing throat not just genitals.
If you are playing bare go on PrEP as HIV has increased in Ireland among straight people. Get Hap A and B and HPV vaccines. Some of the other viruses are nasty but treatable with antibiotics if caught on time x
Xxx "
From experience through the years here on a previous profile you have hit the nail on the head when it comes to fab.
If we chose a male for said bareback he must have a most recent clear health check.
Yes safe sex is always a must if you're looking to fuck most of the site, but if you a looking for a select regular that you can trust why not live a little?
I don't like eating sweets with the wrapper on... |
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