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By *iscuits8Man 26 weeks ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
Because no matter how much or how strictly women on here state on a profile they're not looking for them, a sizeable amount will still just ignore it and shoot their shot anyway... so it's totally understandable. |
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By *eordie.Woman 26 weeks ago
The Sticks |
"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here  "
You have them blocked from mailing yourself, so I'm guessing you've already had a dose of unwanted mail  |
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If only I could get a few genuinely single guys to message me that would be great!!
I'm at the stage where I'm considering deleting my account because of the amount of married/attached liars messaging me.
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here "
It's probably for personal reasons or preference or there's also the lies that they tell to try and get meets |
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Single males overwhelm the system, as everyone is highlighting… it’s the biggest part of the learning curve of joining here as a single male. I’ve seen the volume of messages females receive, it’s phenomenal. No doubt the same for couples. Because of this, a new single male profile has little currency/value, even if it’s well presented/crafted. Recognising these allows you to address it and develop your strategies to stand out and have the impact you want. Best of luck. |
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By *cuk4funCouple 26 weeks ago
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here "
Well done , you probably got lots of views to your profile ...no such thing as bad publicity eh  |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"Don't know about the ladies but for some reason I also get single guys messaging me, have it no where in my profile I am looking for one either  "
I have filters set up for messages, but still keep getting fabs! |
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"Don't know about the ladies but for some reason I also get single guys messaging me, have it no where in my profile I am looking for one either
I have filters set up for messages, but still keep getting fabs! "
Where there is a will there is a way, I almost respect their hustle  |
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By *og-ManMan 26 weeks ago
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"Don't know about the ladies but for some reason I also get single guys messaging me, have it no where in my profile I am looking for one either
I have filters set up for messages, but still keep getting fabs! "
You can turn off the option to have your photo's fabbed |
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The thing with single males that annoys us is that they always only direct the message towards boobs and with our account being equal between boobs and myself by ignoring me it sets her no chance mood so usually they get blocked especially if there vulgar with there message |
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"Well I can guarantee I'm never vulgar or offensive in my messages, I'm exactly as described in profile. Maybe that's going against me..."
They all say that 
Seriously OP, plenty of people don't give single guys grief here. I'd personally change some things about your profile but overall you're already a standout. Just difficult with the numbers game stacked against you  |
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"Well I can guarantee I'm never vulgar or offensive in my messages, I'm exactly as described in profile. Maybe that's going against me..."
Both doors and legs open for guys who are sound, look after themselves, are patient and attend lots of events. Don't lose heart  |
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Op there is one part of your profile that is like alot of other single male profiles and that's in your case you only accommodate when you are OK hols which would lead us to presume that you have a hidden reason why you wouldn't accommodate at home and that's because you have a wife or partner at home who knows nothing of your adventures |
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By *r-Ed OP Man 26 weeks ago
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"Op there is one part of your profile that is like alot of other single male profiles and that's in your case you only accommodate when you are OK hols which would lead us to presume that you have a hidden reason why you wouldn't accommodate at home and that's because you have a wife or partner at home who knows nothing of your adventures "
I'm deffo single, separated nearly a year just can't yet accommodate unfortunately but it will change soon hopefully |
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It's a bit of a thing on fab unfortunately. If a man can't accommodate the assumption is that he's attached.
You might have kids, you might be sharing or you might just not want to but it is what it is.
And your under no obligation to explain but some folk expect that too. |
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By *s LollyWoman 26 weeks ago
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"It's a bit of a thing on fab unfortunately. If a man can't accommodate the assumption is that he's attached.
You might have kids, you might be sharing or you might just not want to but it is what it is.
And your under no obligation to explain but some folk expect that too."
Was just about to say the exact same thing, i never have anyone to my home it's my private space i never feel i had to justify why i don't and wont so shouldn't the OP or anyone for that matter  |
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"It's a bit of a thing on fab unfortunately. If a man can't accommodate the assumption is that he's attached.
You might have kids, you might be sharing or you might just not want to but it is what it is.
And your under no obligation to explain but some folk expect that too.
Was just about to say the exact same thing, i never have anyone to my home it's my private space i never feel i had to justify why i don't and wont so shouldn't the OP or anyone for that matter "
I agree, it's never something we would question |
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"The thing with single males that annoys us is that they always only direct the message towards boobs and with our account being equal between boobs and myself by ignoring me it sets her no chance mood so usually they get blocked especially if there vulgar with there message "
This is really common in clubs too!  |
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Most single men don't understand that wemon or couples are not always in the mood 24/7, like a message we got this morning, the guy said tell her ill meet her at 10 my place or hers, nothing else, instantly blocked like half the men already blocked from similar messages.
Be nice respectful and be what people are looking for, if not don't bother. |
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here "
Lots of reasons.
Most get bombarded by morons who have no clue about human etiquette - I've seen the crap my female friends get!
Others don't have any interest in single guys - some won't even say hello in a club in case they catch something.
Many get messages with absolutely no effort put into them.
Some are jaundiced and others are either arrogant/superior/hostile or just downright fed up of guys. Could be a combination of things.
Get yourself to a social or club and get known for who you are. If you're one of the 'good guys' peirce will pick up on it and decide for themselves. I've never looked back! |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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Lots of reasons,
Girls let down non stop by guys no show! Even just a verification meeting in town!
Girls want to pick themselves not pestered 200 messages a day!
Girls can get the same thing from a couple and more chance of showing up.
Guys thinking it's dial a whore on here!
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here "
I don't think it's often towards single guys in general, it's more the problematic behaviour of some of them. |
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"Lots of reasons,
Girls let down non stop by guys no show! Even just a verification meeting in town!
Girls want to pick themselves not pestered 200 messages a day!
Girls can get the same thing from a couple and more chance of showing up.
Guys thinking it's dial a whore on here!
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Agree with all of the above - although a lot of single women mess guts around too. My last five arranged meets have ghosted after great communication and having made arrangements......once after a considerable amount of effort from me in driving to the place nominated by her. Crap! |
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Complaints are more likely to be posted than praise.
Lots of couples, single women, hotwives, cuckold couple's are here to meet single men.
And plenty of men do well through fab. They just don't brag about it in the forum's. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"Lots of reasons,
Girls let down non stop by guys no show! Even just a verification meeting in town!
Girls want to pick themselves not pestered 200 messages a day!
Girls can get the same thing from a couple and more chance of showing up.
Guys thinking it's dial a whore on here!
Agree with all of the above - although a lot of single women mess guts around too. My last five arranged meets have ghosted after great communication and having made arrangements......once after a considerable amount of effort from me in driving to the place nominated by her. Crap!"
I replied to the theme of the thread, never said couples or guys don't get messed around too. At the moment myself or us NEVER agree any meet without a back up plan of some sort. 75% chance your stood up so shopping, cinema, coffee, visit friends, sight seeing, or at ours we just go to bed ourselves |
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"Lots of reasons,
Girls let down non stop by guys no show! Even just a verification meeting in town!
Girls want to pick themselves not pestered 200 messages a day!
Girls can get the same thing from a couple and more chance of showing up.
Guys thinking it's dial a whore on here!
Agree with all of the above - although a lot of single women mess guts around too. My last five arranged meets have ghosted after great communication and having made arrangements......once after a considerable amount of effort from me in driving to the place nominated by her. Crap!
I replied to the theme of the thread, never said couples or guys don't get messed around too. At the moment myself or us NEVER agree any meet without a back up plan of some sort. 75% chance your stood up so shopping, cinema, coffee, visit friends, sight seeing, or at ours we just go to bed ourselves "
Definitely a good plan. Easier as a couple definitely. That part of things I envy you. |
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As a couple, we prefer even numbers, not odds. We've done threesomes. And while it's a nice threat on occasion, it ends up involving at least one person to sort of hover around waiting their turn, and the constant switching can be exhausting.
It's just not something we look for on fab when meeting other couples provides a better experience for all.
There are also just too many men on the site. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here "
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat . |
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat . "
Rubbish. I’m very single and I know other guys who are also |
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat . "
Sorry, that's very dismissive and sweeping. Also indicative of a lot of attitudes to single guys on the scene. So many start off at the most negative and scathing end of the spectrum.....and rarely bother to work backwards.
Happy to admit there will inevitably be some in that situation, but the same could be said of single women potentially.
With regards to individuals (and proven) fair enough.
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat .
Rubbish. I’m very single and I know other guys who are also "
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat .
Sorry, that's very dismissive and sweeping. Also indicative of a lot of attitudes to single guys on the scene. So many start off at the most negative and scathing end of the spectrum.....and rarely bother to work backwards.
Happy to admit there will inevitably be some in that situation, but the same could be said of single women potentially.
With regards to individuals (and proven) fair enough.
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Of course there are women too but if questioned single men only . I’m speaking from personal experience and not a generalised sweep of fab . Unfortunately some don’t even tell you til after . Personal preference I suppose to not meet them . Also I don’t judge anyone if they mail me I answer |
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat .
Rubbish. I’m very single and I know other guys who are also "
When a guy doesn't state his relationship status on his profile, we assume he is cheating because usually he is. Just saying |
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat .
Sorry, that's very dismissive and sweeping. Also indicative of a lot of attitudes to single guys on the scene. So many start off at the most negative and scathing end of the spectrum.....and rarely bother to work backwards.
Happy to admit there will inevitably be some in that situation, but the same could be said of single women potentially.
With regards to individuals (and proven) fair enough.
Of course there are women too but if questioned single men only . I’m speaking from personal experience and not a generalised sweep of fab . Unfortunately some don’t even tell you til after . Personal preference I suppose to not meet them . Also I don’t judge anyone if they mail me I answer "
Nice to hear - many do......although I'd also concede there are plenty of rude, obnoxious and vile men on Fab too - based on the messages I see my female friends get. Would be a good idea for guys sho don't get that to see them sometimes. I despair on occasion. |
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat .
Rubbish. I’m very single and I know other guys who are also
When a guy doesn't state his relationship status on his profile, we assume he is cheating because usually he is. Just saying "
You guys are the reason single is pretty much the first word on my profile
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat .
Rubbish. I’m very single and I know other guys who are also "
Just because you and other guys you know are single, it doesn't make this lady's lived experience of Fab rubbish.
The OP asked why there was negativity.And, whether you like it or not, this is one reason. |
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"Hey there new fabber here, just wondering what is all the negativity towards single guys in couples/women's profiles on here
Very small percentage of truly single so most ladies don’t want the hassle of a cheat .
Rubbish. I’m very single and I know other guys who are also
When a guy doesn't state his relationship status on his profile, we assume he is cheating because usually he is. Just saying
You guys are the reason single is pretty much the first word on my profile
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Oh wow 
There should really be a tick box for what is an important little detail to many. Some might lie, but at least people are prompted to indicate one way or another x |
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