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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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I've recently changed my public pictures, to take the nudity out of my public profile. I'm not really a dicks out kinda guy, but at the time of creating the profile it seemed like what you're supposed to do judgin from the profiles of others. Not just guys, but women have lots of pics of them chowing down on flutes (hair covering their identities usually).
Two things i've noticed however is 1)how many women ask for face pics as a red line, who don't have a face pic themselves...and 2) how many women say dic picks give them the (ugh) "Ick" (for the record, "ick" gives me the boke), while at the same time showing some equally explicit photos on their own profiles.
Is there a double standard in how men v women are treated in this regard? I have had many a man look at my profile, to the point i've blocked all mail PMs so i get the unsettling nature of an unwanted flute shoot. But i've also seen some ham sandwiches that would turn a sailor green. (joke...mostly).
So langer or no langer...what says ye all? |
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"Ah sure look.
I'll do what I want on my own profile. I let others worry about whether it bothers them or not. I don't really care. "
This aswell.
If they don't like it, hopefully the door doesn't hit them(to hard) on the way out.   |
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I don't like dick pics showing that they've cum or close up pics of their dicks, to me it gives me the ick.... 
I do have a face pic but mostly I don't send them on when arranging to meet up, just meet them blind!!
I don't have pics of me sucking cock and if I did, it would be in the private section of my profile!! |
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"I don't like dick pics showing that they've cum or close up pics of their dicks, to me it gives me the ick....
I do have a face pic but mostly I don't send them on when arranging to meet up, just meet them blind!!
I don't have pics of me sucking cock and if I did, it would be in the private section of my profile!! "
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There's only one way to do fab and that's on your own terms.
Everyone has a reason for setting out their own terms and it's not really worth your time trying to figure out why.
I don't send face pics to people I don't know so if an account wants them sent up front then I just move on as we are mutually incompatible.
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"I don't like dick pics showing that they've cum or close up pics of their dicks, to me it gives me the ick....
I do have a face pic but mostly I don't send them on when arranging to meet up, just meet them blind!!
I don't have pics of me sucking cock and if I did, it would be in the private section of my profile!!
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Why are you sad mister!!?   |
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"I don't like dick pics showing that they've cum or close up pics of their dicks, to me it gives me the ick....
I do have a face pic but mostly I don't send them on when arranging to meet up, just meet them blind!!
I don't have pics of me sucking cock and if I did, it would be in the private section of my profile!!
Why are you sad mister!!? "
I'm missing all those good pics!  |
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By *ustBoWoman 27 weeks ago
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Like others said just do your own thing. Put whatever you want on your own profile.
As for double standards who knows, and who really cares I know I don't. If you don't want to jump through hoops for others then don't. No one is forcing anyone to send face pics that is people's own choice. If you see a profile and the pics or bio don't appeal just move on. It's as easy,in fact easier to ignore the stuff you don't like than to get annoyed over it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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"Like others said just do your own thing. Put whatever you want on your own profile.
As for double standards who knows, and who really cares I know I don't. If you don't want to jump through hoops for others then don't. No one is forcing anyone to send face pics that is people's own choice. If you see a profile and the pics or bio don't appeal just move on. It's as easy,in fact easier to ignore the stuff you don't like than to get annoyed over it. "
More an observation than an annoyance...and an interesting forum topic.
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I took down all dick pics from my profile after getting some good advice and it changed my fab experience.
To be fair, I don't really care what a womans private parts look like close up. I don't need to see them and I don't ask to see them, so I presume they don't need to see mine. It has no bearing on attraction for me
If a woman or couple sent me a close up of a vulva without being asked I'd assume it was a fake profile but I could be wrong. I don't have dick pics unless very specifically asked. |
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I've never taken a pic down based on someone else's opinion and never taken advice from anyone else either.
At the same time I've never posted a pic based on someone else's opinion.
I post what I want and if others like them that's just a bonus.
I don't think there's a double standard in regard to pics because for every woman in the forums who had ever said they don't like dick pics there is another who encourages them. |
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Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see |
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Do what you want with your profile, and pass by those who's profile doesn't appeal whatever the reason. You'll never please all of the people all of the time.
Personally I don't mind if a profile has some tasteful cock shots, so long as they are just part of the overall gallery.
I think what some people object to more is getting univited langers in their inbox, rather than in the guy's profile. In which case it's not a double standard unless they're sending muff pictures as an opener |
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see "
Ahem |
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By *ohnFKMan 27 weeks ago
Where the Streets Have No Name |
"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see "
Ahem |
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By *eordie.Woman 27 weeks ago
The Sticks |
"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Ahem"
you get my vote  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see "
Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message |
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Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message "
Obviously everyone can put up whatever they like, but if they want to be successful, then it makes sense to do what is successful for other people. Common sense I think. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message
Obviously everyone can put up whatever they like, but if they want to be successful, then it makes sense to do what is successful for other people. Common sense I think."
Depends on how you define successful I guess. If 99% of women like the cookie cutter look, maybe there's a diamond in the other 1%. Vive la difference. |
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Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message
Obviously everyone can put up whatever they like, but if they want to be successful, then it makes sense to do what is successful for other people. Common sense I think."
It does make sense, while also putting your (Twist) on thing's, in your own way aswell. |
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"Personally I don't mind if a profile has some tasteful cock shots, so long as they are just part of the overall gallery
Is that a TASTEFUL cock shot
Or a tasteful COCK shot
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Tasty tasty very very tasty |
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You can be forgiven for the impression that displaying photos of your phallus is 'de rigueur' on here, because the men outnumber the women on this site = more male profiles = a higher probability of those profiles having crass cock images on display.
There is no right or wrong; men (and women) can do as they please when it comes to profiles.
I have never had a woman ask me for a "face pic". It's only been shared when she has set the precedence and I've reciprocated. Occasionally I won't reciprocate at all if her gallery contains a portfolio of crass and uncouth images with a cocktail of bodily fluids being exchanged. In that case I've already determined she's not for me. But good luck to her. Her profile, her prerogative.
At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly and arguably - women are perceived as having the upper hand on here when it comes to double-standards: let them have a basic profile, with no intentions of them sharing their photo and having crass images adorned across their gallery, but they will be shown the door if they come knocking on mine and asking for the moon on a stick and offering me space dust in return. |
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see "
Jay_Gatsby_D4 and JohnFk also (momentary lapse!) |
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message "
Repeat.. if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Take that whatever way you like  |
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By *og-ManMan 27 weeks ago
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"Personally I don't mind if a profile has some tasteful cock shots, so long as they are just part of the overall gallery
Is that a TASTEFUL cock shot
Or a tasteful COCK shot
Tasty tasty very very tasty "
I'll be singing that till breakfast time tomorrow......then go with the full Irish anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message
Repeat.. if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Take that whatever way you like "
75% of all statistics are made up
Namaste |
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message
Repeat.. if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Take that whatever way you like
75% of all statistics are made up
Namaste "
You know it's possible to acknowledge the effort others make without a particular agenda?
_ofusplus and I have never once spoken or met but are able to appreciate each others profiles.
It's not a competition unless you make it one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message
Repeat.. if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Take that whatever way you like
75% of all statistics are made up
Namaste
You know it's possible to acknowledge the effort others make without a particular agenda?
_ofusplus and I have never once spoken or met but are able to appreciate each others profiles.
It's not a competition unless you make it one. "
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message
Repeat.. if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Take that whatever way you like
75% of all statistics are made up
Namaste "
I was trying to help you.
Namaste |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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"You can be forgiven for the impression that displaying photos of your phallus is 'de rigueur' on here, because the men outnumber the women on this site = more male profiles = a higher probability of those profiles having crass cock images on display.
There is no right or wrong; men (and women) can do as they please when it comes to profiles.
I have never had a woman ask me for a "face pic". It's only been shared when she has set the precedence and I've reciprocated. Occasionally I won't reciprocate at all if her gallery contains a portfolio of crass and uncouth images with a cocktail of bodily fluids being exchanged. In that case I've already determined she's not for me. But good luck to her. Her profile, her prerogative.
At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly and arguably - women are perceived as having the upper hand on here when it comes to double-standards: let them have a basic profile, with no intentions of them sharing their photo and having crass images adorned across their gallery, but they will be shown the door if they come knocking on mine and asking for the moon on a stick and offering me space dust in return."
Well put. Nothing wrong with some crassness, but bodily fluids is where I step back. Each to their own. A slipknot or operation ivy tshirt wouldn't hurt |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message
Repeat.. if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Take that whatever way you like
75% of all statistics are made up
Namaste
I was trying to help you.
Namaste "
merci beaucoup madam. |
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Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message
Obviously everyone can put up whatever they like, but if they want to be successful, then it makes sense to do what is successful for other people. Common sense I think.
Depends on how you define successful I guess. If 99% of women like the cookie cutter look, maybe there's a diamond in the other 1%. Vive la difference. "
Look at what has worked for others and do that. If you wanna go for the 1% rather than the 99% then go for it, but you are rather cutting down your chances. Maximising your chances would be a better strategy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message
Obviously everyone can put up whatever they like, but if they want to be successful, then it makes sense to do what is successful for other people. Common sense I think.
Depends on how you define successful I guess. If 99% of women like the cookie cutter look, maybe there's a diamond in the other 1%. Vive la difference.
Look at what has worked for others and do that. If you wanna go for the 1% rather than the 99% then go for it, but you are rather cutting down your chances. Maximising your chances would be a better strategy."
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If 99% of women all agreed on one thing, why is there 75 different shades of pink lipstick?
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see
Don't follow others, just do what my three guys do? That's a mixed message "
If only I was one of her three guys 
Thanks for the compliment Mrs 2 of us
I looked at other guys photos before I started taking any. I went dick blind.
It makes sense though. It helps to know what the standard is and what it takes to stand out.
Inspiration is not imitation.
And effort is sexy. |
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To answer your Langer or no Langer question OP I think you can totally have a photo of your dick and there's plenty of women who will appreciate it and plenty of other women who won't write you off for it.
The thing is, and I could be wrong here, is that most women I've read comments by on fab seem to be more interested in the body and the person so I think the balance is that if it are going to show your dick, it will be best presented as part of a bigger picture.
And one photo with your dick is plenty. That's based on my, albeit limited, experience on fab.
I keep my full nudes in my friends photos because that's what comfortable for me.
And really, go look at Linden. He's the gold standard for how to take a dick pick.
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By *astelloWoman 27 weeks ago
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"Why would you copy what everyone else is doing?
Stand out and you will do better on here. The bar is set very low for single guy photos, so it's not difficult.
Take note of the profiles of Reality Bites, Delectable Icecream and linden if you want ideas for really good pics that 99% of the ladies actually want to see "
And please add your own lovely profile... Exquisitely beautiful and sexy pics of a gorgeous couple |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 27 weeks ago
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"Tbh OP, I’m baffled why ye took your trousers off then put your shoes back on for a pic"
Wasn't wearing trousers,was wearing shorts.
At least I moved the washing basket |
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