"You're a retard get fucked and a couple profile that is close blocked me.
Thank you!"
The word ‘retard’ mentioned is often used as an insult or derogatory remark. People use it to demean or belittle someone, usually implying that the person is unintelligent or inferior. Personally, I find the word inappropriate. If someone said that to you on here and then blocked you, you’ve probably dodged a bullet. |
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By *og-ManMan 28 weeks ago
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"You're a retard get fucked and a couple profile that is close blocked me.
Thank you!
The word ‘retard’ mentioned is often used as an insult or derogatory remark. People use it to demean or belittle someone, usually implying that the person is unintelligent or inferior. Personally, I find the word inappropriate. If someone said that to you on here and then blocked you, you’ve probably dodged a bullet."
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"I wonder what he was expecting to get from this
Just to show how people act here
This hasn't really explained what you're initial post was even about!?"
You're right!
A couple's profile is quarter mile from me.
I messaged it with the word 'close' and get a reply with the word 'and'.
Then, I tell them 'we can have fun together' and they come to me typing 'wow, 1 pic and 1 very, why would we?'.
I reply them that 'it's up to you' attaching another pic naked covering my penis.
Their final sentence is 'You're a retard get fucked' and blocked.
This is the whole story.   |
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"I wonder what he was expecting to get from this
Just to show how people act here
This hasn't really explained what you're initial post was even about!?
You're right!
A couple's profile is quarter mile from me.
I messaged it with the word 'close' and get a reply with the word 'and'.
Then, I tell them 'we can have fun together' and they come to me typing 'wow, 1 pic and 1 very, why would we?'.
I reply them that 'it's up to you' attaching another pic naked covering my penis.
Their final sentence is 'You're a retard get fucked' and blocked.
This is the whole story. "
They might have thought you were coming across a bit cocky mate
You have to leave your feelings at the door on this site |
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"I wonder what he was expecting to get from this
Just to show how people act here
This hasn't really explained what you're initial post was even about!?
You're right!
A couple's profile is quarter mile from me.
I messaged it with the word 'close' and get a reply with the word 'and'.
Then, I tell them 'we can have fun together' and they come to me typing 'wow, 1 pic and 1 very, why would we?'.
I reply them that 'it's up to you' attaching another pic naked covering my penis.
Their final sentence is 'You're a retard get fucked' and blocked.
This is the whole story. "
Yeah I’d prob have started the conversation with
“hey, how are you? Nice profile, How are ye getting on?”
But I’m weird that way |
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"You're a retard get fucked and a couple profile that is close blocked me.
Thank you!
The word ‘retard’ mentioned is often used as an insult or derogatory remark. People use it to demean or belittle someone, usually implying that the person is unintelligent or inferior. Personally, I find the word inappropriate. If someone said that to you on here and then blocked you, you’ve probably dodged a bullet."
I'd tend to agree with that post |
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By *ACOLCouple 28 weeks ago
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"I wonder what he was expecting to get from this
Just to show how people act here
This hasn't really explained what you're initial post was even about!?
You're right!
A couple's profile is quarter mile from me.
I messaged it with the word 'close' and get a reply with the word 'and'.
Then, I tell them 'we can have fun together' and they come to me typing 'wow, 1 pic and 1 very, why would we?'.
I reply them that 'it's up to you' attaching another pic naked covering my penis.
Their final sentence is 'You're a retard get fucked' and blocked.
This is the whole story. "
So you dont see anything wrong with your approach?
I get it, this is a swingers website, but no one in here(or that I know of, I am all for kink friendly  ) is a blow up doll, try making a connection...
Don't always let your other head do the talking...
Lina. |
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"I mean... I don't think either of yous really come out looking great from that, but hey-ho maybe that's just me"
I second this.
I can semi understand why the couple would be frustrated....'near by' does not mean 'down to fuck'. You'd not get a response from me on an opening message like that OP.
Their final response was on the extreme side. |
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"Yeah I’d prob have started the conversation with
“hey, how are you? Nice profile, How are ye getting on?”
But I’m weird that way
Yeah you sound like a unicorn!
Lina."
that's how I send every first message and it's got me nowhere |
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"I wonder what he was expecting to get from this
Just to show how people act here
This hasn't really explained what you're initial post was even about!?
You're right!
A couple's profile is quarter mile from me.
I messaged it with the word 'close' and get a reply with the word 'and'.
Then, I tell them 'we can have fun together' and they come to me typing 'wow, 1 pic and 1 very, why would we?'.
I reply them that 'it's up to you' attaching another pic naked covering my penis.
Their final sentence is 'You're a retard get fucked' and blocked.
This is the whole story. "
Just because they are near you think I will be in her knickers in 10 minutes. Then they reply "close and" so that tells me they aren't interested. Then send another message to which they clearly tell you they aren't interested.
So you think if I send a naked pic they won't be able to resist.
The only thing I agree with you on this is their words were horrible and not nice.But maybe that was from frustration. So sorry but I might same my pity for someone else. |
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By *eth TVTV/TS 28 weeks ago
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"I wonder what he was expecting to get from this
Just to show how people act here
This hasn't really explained what you're initial post was even about!?
You're right!
A couple's profile is quarter mile from me.
I messaged it with the word 'close' and get a reply with the word 'and'.
Then, I tell them 'we can have fun together' and they come to me typing 'wow, 1 pic and 1 very, why would we?'.
I reply them that 'it's up to you' attaching another pic naked covering my penis.
Their final sentence is 'You're a retard get fucked' and blocked.
This is the whole story. "
I’ll bite here.
I get messages which are worded exactly like what you sent to them. Sometimes from people whose profile are like yours. Early 20’s, one pic, a few short words and that’s all. No offence but it’s got nothing going on; no redeeming features or things to grab ones attention. That was your first mistake.
And then they send a message that is like yours; minimum content and minimum interaction about it. “Hi” is bad enough, but “close”? Honestly my dear, do you think that would charm your way into their bed? That was mistake two.
At least they replied and to be fair, you were lucky to get a reply let alone a witty if sarcastic one. Females and Trans profiles get dozens of similar messages, asking nothing and expecting anything, and sorry but we get kind of fed up of them. That you got the grace of a reply but you missed the dry cutting humour and didn’t understand it, well take that as mistake three.
But anyway. Whatever about the other people but you probably deserve to treat yourself better here too. Trust me, it will work for you. Just don’t make mistake four and not learn from the first three.
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Some people don't want anyone that's too close to them and the R word should never be used at all ever. And messaging someone with one word would get a one word answer from us if we even bothered to reply manners are free and if you don't use your manners then the response is valid we think. Just our two pence but be plesent kind polite and use all your words to have a conversation it may help you in future OK best of luck too you |
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I'm shocked by all of this as one word messages are famously popular with the ladies on this site. Neither participant in this exchange has covered themselves in glory but the recipient of "close" may have had numerous such enlightening and informative messages already and may just have been at breaking point.
Anyway, nobody died. Move on and maybe next time try two words. |
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All ladies? I find I give a lot more than one or ten word answers. I would find the OP messages creepy and blocked immediately, I would not give any response or explanation. Some messages you get are seriously troubling, so I can see why the recipient went OTT. But most likely it was the male part who seen it and took offence. |
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"You're a retard get fucked and a couple profile that is close blocked me.
Thank you!"
If someone sends a statement, then it doesn't require a reply...if I reply saying that we're not looking to meet single guys right now that implies that I assume they are looking for a meet...and I don't assume.
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I get things like this all the time from random men for honestly no reason!
Gotten told “you look like a crashed car”, “you think your sexy but your not”, “your makeup is shit you look like a man”
I just block them… screenshot it and share on my socials  |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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"All ladies? I find I give a lot more than one or ten word answers. I would find the OP messages creepy and blocked immediately, I would not give any response or explanation. Some messages you get are seriously troubling, so I can see why the recipient went OTT. But most likely it was the male part who seen it and took offence. "
Just curious what someone should write in first message?
I mean what is wrong with message Hi how are you?
Is it insulting or in some looks like alot females and couples too short...?
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"All ladies? I find I give a lot more than one or ten word answers. I would find the OP messages creepy and blocked immediately, I would not give any response or explanation. Some messages you get are seriously troubling, so I can see why the recipient went OTT. But most likely it was the male part who seen it and took offence.
Just curious what someone should write in first message?
I mean what is wrong with message Hi how are you?
Is it insulting or in some looks like alot females and couples too short...?
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Something more than one word it's certainly a good start  |
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"I get things like this all the time from random men for honestly no reason!
Gotten told “you look like a crashed car”, “you think your sexy but your not”, “your makeup is shit you look like a man”
I just block them… screenshot it and share on my socials "
Omg that's actually horrible, like wtf. Who the fuck speaks to people like that  |
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"I wonder what he was expecting to get from this
Just to show how people act here
This hasn't really explained what you're initial post was even about!?
You're right!
A couple's profile is quarter mile from me.
I messaged it with the word 'close' and get a reply with the word 'and'.
Then, I tell them 'we can have fun together' and they come to me typing 'wow, 1 pic and 1 very, why would we?'.
I reply them that 'it's up to you' attaching another pic naked covering my penis.
Their final sentence is 'You're a retard get fucked' and blocked.
This is the whole story. "
While there is no excuse for that language, if I was OP I would look at myself and wonder why with no more than 10 words, people are uninterested, offended, and think I'm ret*rded.
I'd seriously revise your wooing techniques. Because with your current approach, it was only a matter of time before you messaged the wrong person and got a derogatory reply like that. |
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Honestly that sounds like a pretty tame thread, you were lucky to get a reply in the first place. If somebody said they were close to me and I wasn't actively looking to meet, I'd be weirded out.
Secondly, I find most people don't really enjoy "hi, how are you?" as an opening message, so instead read their profile and actually ask about something you might both have an interest in.
You can get blocked for a lot less on here and you've got to take it in your stride. Yeah they said mean words but honestly I'd say a lot of women get a lot worse when they say no to someone on here. |
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I think you’re in the wrong here , to message a couple simply because they are close by and then your follow up message is wanting fun .
Would have been a block from me as well or ignored message tbh |
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