Hey all. Looking for someone’s opinion on a debate I’ve been having with someone in regards to threesomes. My point:
1. I feel it’s best done with 3 single people (not necessarily strangers), as jealousy or inadequacy could come into play if couples are involved.
But the other person is basically saying that they’d be more inclined to have a threesome if they were in a relationship as it’s a trust thing (where I’d see this as technically cheating).
Who, in your opinion would be “correct”, or is there even a right and wrong answer? Discuss (and everyone play nice  ) |
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"Hey all. Looking for someone’s opinion on a debate I’ve been having with someone in regards to threesomes. My point:
1. I feel it’s best done with 3 single people (not necessarily strangers), as jealousy or inadequacy could come into play if couples are involved.
But the other person is basically saying that they’d be more inclined to have a threesome if they were in a relationship as it’s a trust thing (where I’d see this as technically cheating).
Who, in your opinion would be “correct”, or is there even a right and wrong answer? Discuss (and everyone play nice )"
I should also add, which would YOU be more comfortable with if you were in the situation. |
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I agree, every situation is unique.
From my own perspective, when in a couple our threesomes were plentiful, however as a single I've felt less inclined, mostly from a safety aspect but also because it's more difficult to organise |
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"Definitely as a couple. Two single males in a MFM, unless they're very familiar with each, could be a mess!
Also, how do you consider a threesome cheating, on a swingers site?"
I’m not attached to this person in question. In my opinion, if I was in a relationship I wouldn’t be interested in a threesome as I’d feel as if we were cheating. Whereas if I’m single I’d have no commitment to anyone, so I can do it guilt free. Just my opinion on it. |
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"Definitely as a couple. Two single males in a MFM, unless they're very familiar with each, could be a mess!
Also, how do you consider a threesome cheating, on a swingers site?
I’m not attached to this person in question. In my opinion, if I was in a relationship I wouldn’t be interested in a threesome as I’d feel as if we were cheating. Whereas if I’m single I’d have no commitment to anyone, so I can do it guilt free. Just my opinion on it. "
OK, bit strange for a swingers site.
All sorts on here I suppose! |
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There is no correct answer. Its situational and really how you feel at the time. Weve had a few threesomes as a couple. MFM, MFF and FMF. As long as there is chemistry and a connection with all involved we do not see that as cheating at all as we are doing it together. If i was to go off on my own to be a 3rd for someone else that could maybe be construed as cheating however we ourselves wouldnt see it as such. But hey its a swinging site. Share and share alike 
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"There is no "correct" answer here. It's all down to the individuals (and the dynamics of the couple, if there is one) and how well they gel together."
100%, what works for one person might not work for others at all. |
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By *insBadMan 28 weeks ago
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"Hey all. Looking for someone’s opinion on a debate I’ve been having with someone in regards to threesomes. My point:
1. I feel it’s best done with 3 single people (not necessarily strangers), as jealousy or inadequacy could come into play if couples are involved.
But the other person is basically saying that they’d be more inclined to have a threesome if they were in a relationship as it’s a trust thing (where I’d see this as technically cheating).
Who, in your opinion would be “correct”, or is there even a right and wrong answer? Discuss (and everyone play nice )"
Swinging might not be for you  |
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Zero jealousy- quite the opposite- we loooove to share our bed 