I’m fairly fit. Not massive but in good shape with a flat stomach. It doesn’t seem to make much difference with women in here. Some note it but definitely not a point of focus… fair more gained out of how you interact, what the first message says/does etc…. Men on the other do focus on the body, big time. And I’m bi so that’s grand.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ittlekinks38Woman 29 weeks ago

outside belfast x

Dad bod everytime I wouldn't dare look or chat to a toned physique bod ...that's a personal thing for me I'd doubt they'd look at me with my lumps and bumps....

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *aseylee324Couple 29 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"Whichever person has a good personality. "

This

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ipstick KissesWoman 29 weeks ago

South Down

"Despite having a penchant for tall and toned, it's body the person has that I'm attracted to. "

I've just realised my own post doesn't make sense

What I mean is, I'm drawn to tall toned men. However if I'm attracted to someone, then I'm attracted to them regardless of body type

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago

Never cared, so long as our sexual interests are aligned. But I am heightist, apologies, but I’m

5”9! Milly x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ethmeonfireMan 29 weeks ago

Dublin

Looking at the replies here, I feel there is still hope for fab. But sadly, a lot of people only go for the toned bods

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *adhatter and coCouple 29 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Dad bod here ,I’d find very fit , very toned or very good looking men intimidating

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *rofguy78Man 29 weeks ago

Dublin

"Dad bod here ,I’d find very fit , very toned or very good looking men intimidating "

Your in great shape so if your intimidated I think we're all in trouble

But really it's personality that counts across the board. I'm sure we all have preferred 'types' and I'm also sure we've all gone for the exact opposite of that type because of a great connection/laugh/flirt etc.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *panishRebelMan 29 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Who wins between Dad bods or toned bods?

Why would there need to be a winner?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ubadubdubWoman 29 weeks ago

Hereabouts

Yes I'd agree with this, chemistry is surprising

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *aptain Caveman41Man 29 weeks ago

Home

"Who wins between Dad bods or toned bods?

"
I presume it's in the eyes of the beholder

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *parky-1992Man 29 weeks ago

dublin

They all love “dad bods” until you piss them off. Then you’re a fat f****er

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *umon337Man 29 weeks ago

Offaly

"They all love “dad bods” until you piss them off. Then you’re a fat f****er

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *umon337Man 29 weeks ago

Offaly

I'm certainly one the dad-bod brigade and I found it refreshing and affirming that the majority of the lads on here, that are around my age, are in similar shape. It reduced the pressure to be "gym fit" and gave me some self confidence.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *yesgreenMan 29 weeks ago

north and south

"I'm certainly one the dad-bod brigade and I found it refreshing and affirming that the majority of the lads on here, that are around my age, are in similar shape. It reduced the pressure to be "gym fit" and gave me some self confidence."
personality with an off-licence instead of a six pack that’s me lol

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago

Dad bods ....but I'm biased lol

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ed386Man 29 weeks ago

close by

Good manners hygiene would possibly be the most important alongside don't mess people around.

Over60 so old guy bid here

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ed386Man 29 weeks ago

close by

Good manners hygiene would possibly be the most important alongside don't mess people around.

Over60 so old guy bod here

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

[Removed by poster at 19/07/24 17:51:31]

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

"Whichever person has a good personality. "

Boom!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

Rugby bod

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *yesgreenMan 18 weeks ago

north and south

"Rugby bod "
I must eat more before I taco or get into a scrum

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *annyZ100Man 18 weeks ago

Limerick

"Rugby bod "

Player or ball?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *elloMarylouWoman 18 weeks ago

mayo

For me it's more about the guy abd his personality, yes I may find toned bodies good to look at it but to get me to bed I need someone I'm attracted more mentally to than physically

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ommickMan 18 weeks ago

cork

Reasonable fit dad bod here if anyone wants to have a go....

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago

In my younger days, I was shallow and vein, it was all about looks for me. Now I'm more into the connection you form and I'm more attracted to personality.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic