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Trying to get meet verified. Northwest
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By *hay9 OP Man 29 weeks ago
Derry |
Alright, so I'm having a little trouble getting my first meet under my belt and realising it's ruining my chances with a lot of members that will only meet verified people.
I'm shy sometimes, I'm terrible at starting conversations but don't shut up after I'm a little more comfortable and i don't drink. These mixed together make it a little awkward to get social meets arranged lol.
Live in derry and can travel to meet someone. Open to casual coffee meets etc or kinky car meets. I'm more comfortable around forward, happy people under 35.
Anyone nearby willing to help out? |
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"Alright, so I'm having a little trouble getting my first meet under my belt and realising it's ruining my chances with a lot of members that will only meet verified people.
I'm shy sometimes, I'm terrible at starting conversations but don't shut up after I'm a little more comfortable and i don't drink. These mixed together make it a little awkward to get social meets arranged lol.
Live in derry and can travel to meet someone. Open to casual coffee meets etc or kinky car meets. I'm more comfortable around forward, happy people under 35.
Anyone nearby willing to help out? "
Your best bet are socials set up for unverified people, it seems like you put effort into your profile so it shouldn't be too difficult. |
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Status updates like this won't be doing you any favours...
"11 hours ago... Small woman needed!! Really want to have sex while driving... Yes it's a terrible idea yes it's dangerous but that makes it better. Pm me" |
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By *hay9 OP Man 28 weeks ago
Derry |
"Status updates like this won't be doing you any favours...
"11 hours ago... Small woman needed!! Really want to have sex while driving... Yes it's a terrible idea yes it's dangerous but that makes it better. Pm me""
With all due respect, everyone has different fantasies and things they enjoy. Putting someone down for that isn't cool but thanks for the tip. |
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By *hay9 OP Man 28 weeks ago
Derry |
"Kinky car meets, is a turn off for many.
This hobbie is expensive, get with the program... 
Lina."
I'm well aware but I'm not trying to appeal to the many to be honest. I'd rather talk with people i actually click with than people i have nothing in common with if you get what i mean. |
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By *hay9 OP Man 28 weeks ago
Derry |
"There's a social night in Derry in a few weeks time, get yourself to that and you'll meet some great people "
I'll have to look into this thank you. I always see people talking about meets and clubs in Belfast or Dublin, maybe when i get more comfortable I'll venture further away. |
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To be honest OP, I don’t think you can be helped
You’ve shot down 2 responses that you could learn something from
Your profile, statuses and forum posts are your shop window, you want these to be as appealing as possible, if you’re only ever interested in meeting people that want to fuck you while driving or jump straight into kinky car meets then you may be waiting a very long time for a veri |
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"Kinky car meets, is a turn off for many.
This hobbie is expensive, get with the program...
Lina.
I'm well aware but I'm not trying to appeal to the many to be honest. I'd rather talk with people i actually click with than people i have nothing in common with if you get what i mean. "
And right you are but they're probably saying that that means it'll take you longer to find like-minded people.
If you're looking for a veri your best bet will be a social that is open to unverified people. |
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By *hay9 OP Man 28 weeks ago
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"To be honest OP, I don’t think you can be helped
You’ve shot down 2 responses that you could learn something from
Your profile, statuses and forum posts are your shop window, you want these to be as appealing as possible, if you’re only ever interested in meeting people that want to fuck you while driving or jump straight into kinky car meets then you may be waiting a very long time for a veri"
I've shot down two people that are telling me not to be myself. If i have to pretend to be someone else/change my personality just to meet someone then i honestly have no interest in meeting that person.
I'm well aware that I'm open to a smaller group of people and i know that holds me back.
But i have no interest in meeting with just anyone and everyone.
Also, i am not expecting anyone to jump straight into anything and that is not all that I'm interested in. Forum post are used as a way of expressing how you're feeling right now, i have a lot more interests than just that. |
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By *hay9 OP Man 28 weeks ago
Derry |
"Kinky car meets, is a turn off for many.
This hobbie is expensive, get with the program...
Lina.
I'm well aware but I'm not trying to appeal to the many to be honest. I'd rather talk with people i actually click with than people i have nothing in common with if you get what i mean.
And right you are but they're probably saying that that means it'll take you longer to find like-minded people.
If you're looking for a veri your best bet will be a social that is open to unverified people."
Yes i think that's true. Socials are looking like my best bet so I'll have to get looking at what's coming up. |
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By *hay9 OP Man 28 weeks ago
Derry |
Apologies if I'm coming across as hostile towards anyone, it's not meant that way.
I have pride in being myself and i don't take well to being told that i should try being like everyone else just to get a meet.
I appreciate people are trying to help but I'd honestly rather go without than dull down my personality to appeal to more people. |
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