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How could I make my profile look better?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 29 weeks ago
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Hi everyone, I'm after making this forum post because I have a question. What can I do better with my profile? How can I make it look more attractive for people to look at and make it look like a more approachable profile. I'd love to be able to talk to more people on here and I think my profile might be holding that back. |
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By *ACOLCouple 28 weeks ago
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Although this is a swingers site, your profile is mainly pics of your dick, maybe keep 1 dick pic or move them all to friends only and keep the one for the public more on what you do... but in a teasing way.
Maybe don't disclosed that you are a virgin yet? That would turned me away, although I know it might be a few people's kink, it also might mean drama... even if there is none.
Try adding abit more into your profile, do you like hiking, playing games or what is something you like doing.
21 might make you look too young for a suit, but have pics where you have clothes on.
Lina.  |
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Agree as above. Your pics aren't helping you. Start from scratch with them. Take 1 new good dick pic. Take 1 underwear pic. Take 1 clothed pic. That's all you need. Work with angles and lighting to see what works best.
On the last thread you said you were going to try socials. How is that going for you? |
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Improve photos, take all the messy stuff out of the background, get sexy undies and pose a bit. Take a photo either in the shower all suds up or after with nice fresh glistening skin.
Think about what you can offer, and offer that.
Currently it's a no accommodation and no experience profile, switch that up to willing to pay for hotels and willing, eager and excited to learn and explore. |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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"Put some women in it...I'd like it more
How? He has no experience, also don't just use women as bait.
Lina."
First...it was a joke as I'm not into dudes
Second...it was a joke. Welcome to the party
Third...I'm sure he has been with a girl before... surely.
I've seen plenty of women's profiles with Langer's coming in from stage left, pretty sure they weren't trying to bait other women with them. |
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By *ACOLCouple 28 weeks ago
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"Improve photos, take all the messy stuff out of the background, get sexy undies and pose a bit. Take a photo either in the shower all suds up or after with nice fresh glistening skin.
Think about what you can offer, and offer that.
Currently it's a no accommodation and no experience profile, switch that up to willing to pay for hotels and willing, eager and excited to learn and explore. "
Great advice!
Lina. |
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By *om TangoMan 28 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man. |
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"Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man."
Could a man not offer the same? |
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By *ACOLCouple 28 weeks ago
limerick |
"Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man."
This is sounding abit pushy not gonna lie.
Social is where he needs to go, can't push a person by guilt tripping them into meeting...
Lina. |
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By *ACOLCouple 28 weeks ago
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"Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man.
Could a man not offer the same? "
Correct. 
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"Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man."
It's a bit naive to assume that someone giving him a veri is going to change anything about his situation except increasing both his expectations and his disappointment.
Getting verified doesn't get you laid. Being the person someone else is attracted to gets you laid.
OP the best advice is to make an effort. Be present and available and pro active be very patient.
And good luck |
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By *affa31Woman 28 weeks ago
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I don’t think you should be relying on changing up your profile to improve your chances.
Since you’ve already been active on the forum, your best bet is to stop posting threads asking how to get a meet and start engaging on the fun threads, show your personality, get to know people on here and make people want to meet you, even if it’s just for a coffee and a laugh.
If you’re free on the 26th and can come to cork, you’re more than welcome to attend my social. You’ll get verified there but also show people that you have the balls to get out and meet people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 28 weeks ago
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I was thinking about going to it but I'm working that day unfortunately. The few social meets I've seen on here that let unverified people can go to are all on days I'm working  |
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"I was thinking about going to it but I'm working that day unfortunately. The few social meets I've seen on here that let unverified people can go to are all on days I'm working "
You're going to have to make some kind of effort if you're looking for things to change. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 28 weeks ago
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I want to go to some meets but the problem with work is I've only started in a new job and can't get most days off in the summer because other people on the shift have them booked off. I am keeping an eye fir socials that are on days that work for me |
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"I'm messaging a lot of people on here and I usually end up getting left on read. I'm gonna try and be more active in some of the forums"
Messaging is like pissing in the wind except the wind is a howling gale of ten thousand rabid penis's. |
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"I want to go to some meets but the problem with work is I've only started in a new job and can't get most days off in the summer because other people on the shift have them booked off. I am keeping an eye fir socials that are on days that work for me"
If you can't make socials then how are you gonna me able to meet anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago
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Don't expect it to be easy.
Most of the ladies on here have a huge choice, as do the couples. Single horny guys are 300plus all the time. I can't really give you any advice except you get back what you give out.
Maybe get yourself a pair of Snickers work pants as for some reason they have the effect yoga pants have on men , on women.
Don't ever think someone has to respond to you, it's ladies night every night as it should be.
Go to a social meet some people, break into the clique and you'll be drowning in squirt in no time.
Good luck with it  |
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"Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man."
If you think it’s awful that no woman or couple is meeting this young man, wait til you hear about the thousands of other men who aren’t getting meets either |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 28 weeks ago
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"I like that analogy
If you use the reply quite button then people will know who your are replying to"
Ah shit, I thought I was pressing the reply one My bad |
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"Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man."
Awful, that you won't meet him, give him your guidance, be his wing man, get some action lined up for him, or offer to take it up the arse, so at least he could experience anal if he wished, or offer him a BJ, to get so e experience. Quite selfish of you in fact..... Just awful.... What's the world coming to? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 28 weeks ago
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"Awful that no female or couples would offer to meet this young man for a coffee and give him some guidance and confidence to help him on his journey. The young man has been honest from his pass forum post and this one. Surely there has to be some kind heart person/people that would help this young man."
Jesus lad I don't know where you were going with this at all. It seems like you're trying to guilt people on behalf of me. I don't like that at all. I only made this forum post to ask advice from people on my profile not guilt them into meeting me. |
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