This is inspired by the why you joined thread… lot of people talk about pushing boundaries when they join. I’d love to hear if/how people feel they’ve been shaped by the experiences they’ve had on here. Whether they’ve found out things about themselves they hadn’t expected, changed, etc. |
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I think it has changed me a little, I now recognise that reality and perception are a lot further apart than I previously imagined.
Also I'm not gods gift to women, which has been a slight surprise  some maybe I've gained a little humility along the way. |
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Sexually yes I'm more open minded.
I listen more to what the other person likes and dislikes.
I wouldn't say outside of that i have changed. But It could destroy your confidence if you take it too seriously. |
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By *panishRebelMan 29 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
I think fab has more allowed an expression of myself out of the mainstream societal box. Has it changed me? Yes, but everything changes everything, how much, I feel, needs time to ponder |
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By *panishRebelMan 29 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"I think fab has more allowed an expression of myself out of the mainstream societal box. Has it changed me? Yes, but everything changes everything, how much, I feel, needs time to ponder "
One change is,...I would never play those silly games on a forum thread before...  |
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I'm more cynical since joining though and seeing the lengths that grown adults will go to in order to remain relevant.
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Jeepers you don't need to be on Fab to see that though!!
Also it seems to me that cynicism is a symptom of life experience in general for many.  |
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Has Fab changed me. Yes I've learned a lot about myself that I wouldn't have otherwise.
Eg: When I joined I felt bad for not replying to messages, now I realise I have the right to boundaries and I don't need to share my time or energy unless I want to.
This has helped me in many other situations.
And sex obviously! Oh its changed me  |
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By *ustBoWoman 29 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
No I don't think it's changed me. I've done a few things that I had thought about but not acted on before. It's opened my eyes to how people think and see others. And that has sometimes surprised me and not always in a good way.
But I think I'm the same old grouchy self that I was before I joined. Just have less guilt now if I ignore messages etc than I did at the start.I realise I don't owe anyone on here a reply or a chat anymore. |
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Sexually, yes. It's opened my mind by trying new things and my experiences with singles, couples and events.
It has also opened my eyes to how controlling, manipulative and negative some can be on here so I've learned to spot and stay away from the poisoned ones and just enjoy my fab journey. |
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