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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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So brothers wife found out I dress and asked me to dress up for her last night when I was over to see what it was like.. she even gave me some of hers to wear as I had nothing with me.. and we hung out both dressed sexy... she was very flirty and suggested we should do this again... what should I do... |
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"So brothers wife found out I dress and asked me to dress up for her last night when I was over to see what it was like.. she even gave me some of hers to wear as I had nothing with me.. and we hung out both dressed sexy... she was very flirty and suggested we should do this again... what should I do... "
Dangerous game,if you have any respect for your brother you should stop. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"So brothers wife found out I dress and asked me to dress up for her last night when I was over to see what it was like.. she even gave me some of hers to wear as I had nothing with me.. and we hung out both dressed sexy... she was very flirty and suggested we should do this again... what should I do...
Dangerous game,if you have any respect for your brother you should stop."
I know but it was such a turn on wearing her clothes and just being touchy freely as a girls night.. the amount of times she touched me during evening and I could tell she was enjoying it.. was just nice being admired dressed |
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"Maybe respect your brother n try this with someone else I did but I know they slep I separate rooms the last few years... I can see she is lonely "
That makes it even worse!! You're clearly aware that you're behaving in a way that your brothers wouldn't like, and justifying it by saying they aren't intimate with each other. That's a scummy way to behave |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"Maybe respect your brother n try this with someone else I did but I know they slep I separate rooms the last few years... I can see she is lonely
That makes it even worse!! You're clearly aware that you're behaving in a way that your brothers wouldn't like, and justifying it by saying they aren't intimate with each other. That's a scummy way to behave "
no I'm just saying that prob why she insisted asking me to dress. She wants excitement |
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By *om TangoMan 42 weeks ago
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If he isn’t nailing her down well of course she’s going to blow away into another garden. But you’re playing with fire to be honest so don’t be surprised if you get burned. I don’t judge so don’t think I’m having a go at you. We all have our needs. Best of luck to you but I’d sit her now and communicate boundaries with her. Bit of dressing up is harmless enough if that’s all it is. Falling for each other is a different story |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"If he isn’t nailing her down well of course she’s going to blow away into another garden. But you’re playing with fire to be honest so don’t be surprised if you get burned. I don’t judge so don’t think I’m having a go at you. We all have our needs. Best of luck to you but I’d sit her now and communicate boundaries with her. Bit of dressing up is harmless enough if that’s all it is. Falling for each other is a different story "
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"If he isn’t nailing her down well of course she’s going to blow away into another garden. But you’re playing with fire to be honest so don’t be surprised if you get burned. I don’t judge so don’t think I’m having a go at you. We all have our needs. Best of luck to you but I’d sit her now and communicate boundaries with her. Bit of dressing up is harmless enough if that’s all it is. Falling for each other is a different story "
.. absolutely... I loved dressing with her abd she has some gorgeous outfits.. nextvtime she said she'd do my make up... but afraid I could end up with her making a move.. I'm happy dressing and flirting
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If your brother and his wife aren't intimate and she needs more thats a conversation they need to have
I realise you enjoy the interaction and it's feeds both of you but you are both betraying him
It's between you and your conscious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"If your brother and his wife aren't intimate and she needs more thats a conversation they need to have
I realise you enjoy the interaction and it's feeds both of you but you are both betraying him
It's between you and your conscious "
thank you it's a females advice I want..I think she is just bored and this is a temporary excitement for her..u are probably right. Shut it down |
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If you or she can't be honest with your brother and you want to keep this part of your life separate, I'd definitely shut down
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned you don't want her outing you when it goes wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"If you or she can't be honest with your brother and you want to keep this part of your life separate, I'd definitely shut down
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned you don't want her outing you when it goes wrong "
I don't think she would ever tell anyone about last night and in fairness there is nothing to shut down yet... just felt she was edging to start something... |
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"If you or she can't be honest with your brother and you want to keep this part of your life separate, I'd definitely shut down
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned you don't want her outing you when it goes wrong I don't think she would ever tell anyone about last night and in fairness there is nothing to shut down yet... just felt she was edging to start something... "
Start what? And do you want to go there? Sounds like a big bomb about to go off, I'd stay well away if I was you |
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"If you or she can't be honest with your brother and you want to keep this part of your life separate, I'd definitely shut down
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned you don't want her outing you when it goes wrong I don't think she would ever tell anyone about last night and in fairness there is nothing to shut down yet... just felt she was edging to start something... "
But there is something to tell as you mentioned that nobody knows that you dress up, so she could out you there |
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"Apart from how utterly messy this can become in a famtosecond, HOW DID SHE FIND YOU OUT, is the part of the story I am interested in.
I came back in to ask exactly this!  "
Yeah, exactly, there is more to this story then what we are being let in to |
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No judgment lord knows I have done mad shit over the years and slightly unrelated but why oh why is it the bolder the kinkier the more risky it is. The better it feels. As on other profile on here says what he doesn’t know. Keeps us out of the divorce courts. I have cn enough pain and hurt and suffering in my 45 here that I feel what ever makes u feel good go for it with discretion and respect. There’s only one shot at life boys and girls make it work for yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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You are having an emotional affair with your brothers wife.
Don't repeat this, it's disrespectful. If their relationship is rocky, they need to sort that out by either working on it or seperating. They need fair, respectful support not game playing.
Your SIL sounds like a sneaky wagon to be honest. Don't repeat this, it ll destroy your whole family. |
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"Apart from how utterly messy this can become in a famtosecond, HOW DID SHE FIND YOU OUT, is the part of the story I am interested in.
I came back in to ask exactly this!
Yeah, exactly, there is more to this story then what we are being let in to"
Or (more likely) there is absolutely nothing in this story, and we are being taken in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"Apart from how utterly messy this can become in a famtosecond, HOW DID SHE FIND YOU OUT, is the part of the story I am interested in.
I came back in to ask exactly this! "
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"Apart from how utterly messy this can become in a famtosecond, HOW DID SHE FIND YOU OUT, is the part of the story I am interested in.
I came back in to ask exactly this!
Yeah, exactly, there is more to this story then what we are being let in to
Or (more likely) there is absolutely nothing in this story, and we are being taken in."
Such a cynic   |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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By the way my two, bored, BILs found out I m on fab and have gossiped about it. Both intrigued etc, am I discussing it with them or sharing details??? NO of course I m not, my sex life is none of their business. Their sexless lives are none of mine.
BAAAAAACK way off, excessive enmeshment amongst families has serious downsides.
Your SIL 8s not supporting you, see is seeking out naughtiness. It's your choice to bavkstab your brother or not. Helpful hint : don't do it. Don't have secrets with her, it's out of order. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"Apart from how utterly messy this can become in a famtosecond, HOW DID SHE FIND YOU OUT, is the part of the story I am interested in.
I came back in to ask exactly this! "
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She called to my house about two weeks ago to get something but I was asleep in front of tv dressed and vack door was unlocked so she came in and saw me |
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"Apart from how utterly messy this can become in a famtosecond, HOW DID SHE FIND YOU OUT, is the part of the story I am interested in.
I came back in to ask exactly this! .
She called to my house about two weeks ago to get something but I was asleep in front of tv dressed and vack door was unlocked so she came in and saw me "
Sorry mate, no disrespect, and I do understand the confusion and mess in the head, however, this does sound more and more like one of them porn stories from the fantasy section of the forums.
Be that as it may, as many ppl already said, the smartest thing to do is to give her a cold shoulder and keep her at a barge's pole away from yourself...
The wildest thing to do, and have an absolutely wild story to tell, is to go after her to the extent of bruising her womb, and then just revel the chaos and mayhem his will set off!
Red pill or the blue pill? Choice is yours. |
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By *eitherMan 42 weeks ago
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"Wasn't it convenient that her clothes fitted you "
We don't actually know that the clothes fitted properly, I have clothes that I wear but they appear to have shrunk dramatically in the wash......
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"If you or she can't be honest with your brother and you want to keep this part of your life separate, I'd definitely shut down
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned you don't want her outing you when it goes wrong I don't think she would ever tell anyone about last night and in fairness there is nothing to shut down yet... just felt she was edging to start something... "
Just going out on a hunch here ok but hear me out.. you're saying "you dont think she would tell anyone!!" I would imagine SHE was expecting the same from you yet here you are telling everyone on this website who wants to read it.. imagine the possibility of someone knowing you from outside fab but just not made it known.. and they see this etc. Maybe its just me but discretion goes both ways. |
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By *exytvlegsTV/TS 41 weeks ago
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I understand having you dressing in front of a woman is something all tvs want and is there biggest fantasy.But you are playing with fire if you don't mind me saying. It's fun but could blow up in your face and everyone might find out about you dressing.
Is it worth it |
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"I understand having you dressing in front of a woman is something all tvs want and is there biggest fantasy.But you are playing with fire if you don't mind me saying. It's fun but could blow up in your face and everyone might find out about you dressing.
Is it worth it "
Sounds like he wants to blow up in her face |
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