Curious to hear others opinions on this.
I'm toying (excuse the pun :D) with the idea of purchasing a toy for myself and I'm wondering, could using toys both men and women, could they have a negative effect too! Like the idea that porn can, if you watch too much porn, it can be entrenched in the mind, and become more difficult for performing and climaxing in real life (this probably more so for men). What I mean is reality versus Hollywood type and the expectations of the mind. So regarding toys could the same negative effect, like a Dependency so to speak, occur?
Our brain is our largest sexual organ, so the mind can get lazy or dependent because of excessively using visually stimulating images.
But with a physical feeling through using a toy as an aid to climaxing while still using our minds drawing on previous experiences, could excessive use of toys have a negative effect?
I'm still going to get me a toy anyway
 it's just a thought that popped up.
Any and all insights welcome on recommendations for male toys btw 
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We don't have any. I feel like we might be the only ones  We are thinking about getting something.....
I guess I don't want to have to rely on one and that be the only way I orgasm. Currently I don't always orgasm on meets which is fine for me and I still enjoy aex without it.
As for the male side of things Mr is keen for me to try toys to see if they make a difference
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I love my rabbit still. I have a wand but don't really like it. Maybe I'm using it wrong and a nice woman could show me different  . I also love my spreader bar adds to orgasm experiences big time and my straps to tie me to the bed. Vibrating cock rings are also a great experience. Is that too much information I wonder.
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will investigate further 
Also your experiences, thanks for sharing 