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Definitely some picture - not dick pic, like yours...dressed is good, especiallydressed nicely. Other than that I don't mind. Some body pics are good but not essential, face pics not essential for us. I think people will ask for what they want. |
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"Definitely some picture - not dick pic, like yours...dressed is good, especiallydressed nicely. Other than that I don't mind. Some body pics are good but not essential, face pics not essential for us. I think people will ask for what they want."
Awh shucks you'll have me blushin lol  |
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"Definitely some picture - not dick pic, like yours...dressed is good, especiallydressed nicely. Other than that I don't mind. Some body pics are good but not essential, face pics not essential for us. I think people will ask for what they want."
You guys are really unique on fab. That criteria is very rare to find |
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A list of fuck off’s and don’t contact me unless your 22 inch’s long and 5 inch’s wide. As well as the rest of the essay of don’t like send a face pic even though they don’t have any profile pics at all. Profile's like this cut out 99.999 % of people and even if I was in the .001% of who was able to contact them I wouldn’t. Their attitude would be the biggest turn off. |
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Bum hole pics.
Cum 'splattered all over/oozing out of' pics.
Ladies face pics where their privacy is clearly not being respected.
Dick pics with their jocks just dropped to the ground. Leave a little to the imagination, less is more!
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""r" instead of "our" or "are"
"Ur" instead of "you're"
"youse" instead of you
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Ah come on now, the first two are abbreviations developed back in they mid 90ies by people chatting on IRC.
The third one, ok, yeah, I agree... |
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"Bum hole pics.
Cum 'splattered all over/oozing out of' pics.
Ladies face pics where their privacy is clearly not being respected.
Dick pics with their jocks just dropped to the ground. Leave a little to the imagination, less is more!
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Definately hate the explicit pics |
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"Any kind of negativity or whinging. Any mention of narcotics. Any sense of entitlement. Boring pictures or ones that have fab for such or such. "
Totally agree with you on all those. Don't mind if people wanna do drugs and stuff but no need to publicise it lol |
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"Bum hole pics.
Cum 'splattered all over/oozing out of' pics.
Ladies face pics where their privacy is clearly not being respected.
Dick pics with their jocks just dropped to the ground. Leave a little to the imagination, less is more!
Definately hate the explicit pics"
Turn me right off! |
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We definitely do some of the things posters on here have mentioned.
-long
-list of things we like and don't like.
But we get complimented on our profile all the time, so it works for the type of people we're looking for!
For me, I don't need a lot of play pics. We don't post any and rarely take pictures with others
We often don't respond to people with no bio, or zero pictures of the man. It's hard enough to give interest through a profile and a few pictures. So I want plenty to work with so I have an idea if we want to meet or not. |
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Anything too explicit.. those belong in friends only and even there they shouldn't be super close-up
Toilet pics
Socks but no other clothes 
Profiles that show contradicting info between details, bio and pics
Those are the things at the top of my head. Definitely, more though that would turn us off a profile
Mrs |
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"Gyno shots
Wall of text
Long lists of don'ts and won'ts"
I feel like I should clarify this a bit.
Wall of text. No punctuation or paragraphs is a chore to read.
Long lists of don'ts and won'ts with no positivity to balance it.
I'll add the implication that pubes are dirty when people describe being shaved as 'clean and expect same'. |
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Single profiles where there is no mention of a wife/husband/partner etc much less here with his/her permission but then come on the forums looking for advise on where to take him/her for a romantic break etc. Gives me all the icks. |
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By *og-ManMan 30 weeks ago
somewhere |
Just in connection with the spelling and grammar mistakes on profiles
It can be very hard for someone that's dyslexic to get everything correct in their bio and in their posts on the forums
Then other's just find it difficult to get it right but can hold a conversation
So it's embarrassing to admit it
I've admitted it often enough and don't mind so be kind please to those who suffer in silence |
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By *s 2 xCouple 30 weeks ago
Clare, London, Manchester |
Rude profiles
We won’t meet any bi-curious men… (just because a guy is bi-curious doesn’t mean they will jump on every man they meet  )
Profiles with no pics saying don’t message unless you send a face pic…
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The profiles which instantly turn us off are ones that have "good looking couple who are looking for a similar good looking couple" as that says to us (rightly or wrongly) the couple are shallow will have nothing in common with us. The profiles with mostly male or cocks in its profile pics as that says to us more than likely a fake profile run by a single man. The profiles here long term that simple say "will fill in later". That's our turn offs. |
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By *ulu00Woman 30 weeks ago
Donegal |
"Bum hole pics.
Cum 'splattered all over/oozing out of' pics.
Ladies face pics where their privacy is clearly not being respected.
Dick pics with their jocks just dropped to the ground. Leave a little to the imagination, less is more!
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This! No respect for the women on show and jocks littered with skid marks |
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List of negatives, restrictive terms and conditions. Poor attitude, Poor quality pics.
Other than that, I couldn’t give a hoot. It’s a swing site.
Hair pulling, red arse, oral, anal, doggy style, heavy breathing, hard fucking, lingerie, suspenders & stockings - naaaaa just described my profile pic- LOVE IT!!
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By *alroc80Man 30 weeks ago
between Galway, Dublin and Mayo |
"We definitely do some of the things posters on here have mentioned.
-long
-list of things we like and don't like.
But we get complimented on our profile all the time, so it works for the type of people we're looking for!
For me, I don't need a lot of play pics. We don't post any and rarely take pictures with others
We often don't respond to people with no bio, or zero pictures of the man. It's hard enough to give interest through a profile and a few pictures. So I want plenty to work with so I have an idea if we want to meet or not. "
100% agree with you. Long profile is a turn on for me. Gives me a good idea of who you are and what your like. I also believe, if your not willing to put some effort into your profile, chances are you won't put much effort into getting to know me and in our meets. Quality trumps quantity. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 30 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
"Whats all this negativity towards socks? It’s a proven scientific fact that socks on gives extra traction. Shur don’t we love it when women leave on their stockings
#sockequalityforall"
Quiet you or I'll send a pic of my fluffy Penneys ones on Lee |
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"Whats all this negativity towards socks? It’s a proven scientific fact that socks on gives extra traction. Shur don’t we love it when women leave on their stockings
#sockequalityforall
Quiet you or I'll send a pic of my fluffy Penneys ones on Lee"
Be still my beating heart  |
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I'm pretty easy going but negativity is annoying on a profile. "Fab is terrible, can't meet anyone, everyone's terrible"
Bitchiness or snide comments about other types of fabbers
200 photos of the same thing. Bitta variety is good.
Also I'd prefer no photos to blurry bad quality ones. Phones have great cameras these days. Blurry, poor quality photos make me suspicious they've been screenshotted and the quality reduced. I don't mind someone with no pics for discretion by comparison
I also have no issue with very long profiles or lists of do's, don'ts, wills, won'ts, must haves and shouldn't haves. Saves time, specific is grand, I'm not for everyone so handy not to waste others' time about it with my equal opportunities messaging  |
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Cum oozing out of a pussy,"fab for friend request acceptance" on pics and the one that gives me the ick...she's on all fours butt naked ( which I love to see) but the soles of her feet are filthy!! I couldn't count the number of times I've seen those!! |
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By *og-ManMan 30 weeks ago
somewhere |
"Cum oozing out of a pussy,"fab for friend request acceptance" on pics and the one that gives me the ick...she's on all fours butt naked ( which I love to see) but the soles of her feet are filthy!! I couldn't count the number of times I've seen those!!"
I've never noticed dirty feet and now I reckon thats all I'll see  |
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"Cum oozing out of a pussy,"fab for friend request acceptance" on pics and the one that gives me the ick...she's on all fours butt naked ( which I love to see) but the soles of her feet are filthy!! I couldn't count the number of times I've seen those!!
I've never noticed dirty feet and now I reckon thats all I'll see "
I notice because I'm not a feet fan... disgusting things |
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Turn offs:
Pics of unprotected sex of any kind - well, not my thing
No pics or single dick pic, or just dick/tit pics. No full body pics, doesn't need to be naked, but pretty sure you're not just a pair of tits or a cock.
Straight men with verification from other men. ( you're straight but had sex with other men ?!)
Toilet pictures - Are you asking for help, what are you saying? Are you saying you're big enough to use a toilet?!
Pictures with sperm, again unprotected sex, not my thing.
Pics where it's not clear that the person knows is being photographed
Couples with hot straight men - well... it sucks that the guy is straight
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I love long profiles (have one myself) - it saves time to know if you’re on the same page.
I don’t like dick pics but if it’s part of a full body pic then it’s not as bad. Dick pics as profile pics are a turn off.
I don’t like seeing bareback sex pics either.
And a load of negativity giving out about women on fab doesn’t help either |
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Bareback pics...it's a block straight off for both male and female accounts.
Dirty toilet dick pics with mad over grown bushes, just gross!!
Been here before, know the score...
Obviously, blank profiles, drug references in status updates and the whingy ones too...they seem to have become more common |
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"Bareback pics
Bad lingerie lol
Is there such a thing as bad lingerie or is it a matter of taste?
I should say that that certain lingerie suits certain people
That make sense ?"
Do you need a bigger shovel? |
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"Bareback pics
Bad lingerie lol
Is there such a thing as bad lingerie or is it a matter of taste?
I should say that that certain lingerie suits certain people
That make sense ?
Do you need a bigger shovel? "
Think u got few fabs there missy |
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"Bareback pics
Bad lingerie lol
Is there such a thing as bad lingerie or is it a matter of taste?
I should say that that certain lingerie suits certain people
That make sense ?
Do you need a bigger shovel?
Think u got few fabs there missy "
I ll repay the compliment xx |
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By *eijaWoman 30 weeks ago
City Centre |
Oh where to start
No profile pic or bio/huge lack of effort
A million dick pics
Bareback pics
Couples looking for 'Unicorns'
Couples with only the pic of the female
Any profile mentioning drugs
Negative profiles
Snicker pics (yes not a fan)
Pics which have a lot of clutter (messy rooms)
Deodorant bottles/sky remotes
Guys that mention the size of their dick/heavy cummers etc
Profiles that mention if you have read my profile put the word xxx in your message
Syndey University...
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"The biggest let down on a hot couples profile is the words “not looking for single guys”. Where’s the couples looking for single guy? "
That automated note appears when people block single guys from messaging, it doesn't mean that they are not looking for them. Those who are sick of the incessant 'hi', 'how r u', 'wanna meet now' and cock pic messages have set up the filter and do their own searching for guys.
It's annoying that the note appears, when often it's simply not the case  |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Cum photos, gyne photos, 1970s bush photos, really spotty arses and very red arse cracks- wash yourselves! Filthy feet-vom! Picks in toilets and messy room with beds with no bed linen and mess everywhere. Dick pics where the pants are still around the ankles lol. |
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Some of ours but they aren’t all hard limits….
-Too much stuff in the background of pics, distracts us
-No male pics on couple profile or a really really small ratio or no recent ones (us ladies need some visuals to get us excited too)
-Request of face pic in first message
-Smokers (just not our cup of tea). Especially those who still message and when we politely say no get annoyed
-Drugs
-Bareback on single profiles or not your partner on cpl
-Pics of other people. Some people put their username on the pic which is a bit better
We are neuro-spicy so misspellings and random wrong words in sentences happens a bit with us. Because of this we do have a bit of patience for others but we don’t like lots/full sentences in shorthand…tbh it takes too much of my brain power to deceiver them lol |
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"Some of ours but they aren’t all hard limits….
-Too much stuff in the background of pics, distracts us
-No male pics on couple profile or a really really small ratio or no recent ones (us ladies need some visuals to get us excited too)
-Request of face pic in first message
-Smokers (just not our cup of tea). Especially those who still message and when we politely say no get annoyed
-Drugs
-Bareback on single profiles or not your partner on cpl
-Pics of other people. Some people put their username on the pic which is a bit better
We are neuro-spicy so misspellings and random wrong words in sentences happens a bit with us. Because of this we do have a bit of patience for others but we don’t like lots/full sentences in shorthand…tbh it takes too much of my brain power to deceiver them lol"
Pretty much same list here. |
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Girls who state no cock pics on their profile and they have one pic of their pussy on profile. Also guys who post cock pics beside can of or sky remote. Guys with one photo of their waste, clothes on. how is a trousers pic gona grab attention. I’d prefer a dick pic. |
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"The biggest let down on a hot couples profile is the words “not looking for single guys”. Where’s the couples looking for single guy? "
We were flooded with messages from single guys when we first set up our profile. So we just had to block them messaging. We do chat to single guys at events and we message them so they can message us back if they want to . |
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Cock pics if especially need to see a doctor...if we wanna see a cock pic I'll ask thanks instant turn off...even pics of your cock hanging out of other women instant turn off...
I like pics that leave something to the imagination and face pics..
Poor personal hygiene..
Super hairy private areas is a turn off maybe just for me! Sure don't want to be choking on pubic hairs thanks but no thanks ...
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Profiles that project hyperbole in their text with evidence of double standards: they insist on people being articulate and able to hold a conversation and yet, when they send the first message, they can only manage monosyllabic responses or juvenile 'text speak'.
This is based on my experiences on a number of occasions. |
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By *ACOLCouple 29 weeks ago
limerick |
Over explicit pictures, bareback, when the pic shows poor hygiene.
I have seen profiles where they are holding their dick but their nails show that they have been digging in the garden. 
Lina. |
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By *runchMan 29 weeks ago
Dublin |
"Over explicit pictures, bareback, when the pic shows poor hygiene.
I have seen profiles where they are holding their dick but their nails show that they have been digging in the garden.
Lina."
On a related note, women who should probably be using Clearasil on their bum, not showcasing a spotty arse. Gross! |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Close-up vadge or asshole pics and nothing else-i appreciate thebwider picture, literally. Anything drug related, though that's maybe more status related than profiles, but I've noticed a lot more people basically looking for people to "bring stuff" lately |
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Single guys who magically have a friend who can join them or are they actually in a relationship but she’s not on fab or isn’t mentioned in the profile at all and only come up when the realise they can’t charm you into bed
Ella
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