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It doesn't and never has done because I'm teetotal but I've no interest in meeting anyone who needs it before sex.
Again I've never had a hangover and only had one e_perience with a woman who was suffering from hangover horn.
It wasn't an e_perience I'm in a hurry to repeat. |
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Personally I prefer sober sex, it's less hazy, partners are more likely to be tuned in and sensitive to each other, and communication is clearer. I've more stamina too.
Hangovers do not make me horny at all, in fact they remove my desire   |
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I rarely have hangovers because I rarely drink alcohol, and when I do I'm now more aware of my limits and what is likely to make me feel ill...and thus avoid it.
I've never ever e_perienced hangover horn; anytime I've had a hangover I've just wanted to die quietly in a dark room.
I'm also not a fan of sex with alcohol on board. I prefer to be fully aware of what's going, on plus alcohol dulls sensation for me. I prefer my sexual partners to be sober too. |
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I've not had a drink for two months, not that I'm a heavy drinker more social drinker.
It is more fun and intimate when both parties are sober and want to be with one another. I'm more passionate when sober. |
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By *panishRebelMan 33 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
Generally prefer sex clear headed. Having said that I met someone a few years back on a night out with my brother, and we drank a lot, there were shrooms and m d m a etc.... we hit it off and played through the night. I brought her breakfast the next day before I went away.
She drove up to see me before I flew back to Spain. We had a beautiful long distance back and forth for 20ish months. All from a d*unken night out with no aftershave etc.
So I would never knock anyone on d*unken sex. Cause in the end who knows. |
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I love how so many swingers are not heavy drinkers.
Sober sex is great, we should all be comfortable staying sober.
Alcohol makes me sleepy, I ll have relaxed sex when d*unk, can be horny when hung over.
Love when my body is healthy and want to get back to that. Cranky hungover heads, and poor alcoholic judgment and bodies is a turn off, of course. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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D*unk sex doesn't do much for me but a horny hangover skin to skin is always welcome  I'm more inclined not to drink since joining fab, always fun to meet someone during or after a sober night out. |
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By *og-ManMan 33 weeks ago
somewhere |
Normally at socials I don't drink at all as sometimes I'm driving back to our hotel
If its the same hotel I might or might not have a few beers or shorts ...I can take it either way
Gave up heavy drinking once the kids came and it was my turn to get up at weekends with them
Haven't had a hangover in decades but know that not once when I had one did I wake up and think ....I know I'll have sex ...that'll shift it ....always a hot cup of tea with a fry up |
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I find a desensitisation with too much alcohol and I wont reach those heady heights compared to say, a more sober e_perience.
I like hangover sex, a lot.
I enjoy a drink with good company but excessive drinking turns me off. I'm not a fan of overloaded inebriated people at socials either  |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Only ever had 1 hangover in my life when I was in my early 20's and would never repeat it.
Since then, I always stick to one or two drinks and not that often as I usually drive on nights out.
I would probably have a drink on a night out with a fb of staying overnight  |
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By *ustBoWoman 33 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
It doesn't as I don't drink anymore. I've had two hangovers in my life the last one was when I was in my 20s and it made me realise it wasn't worth it.
I also never found a drink that I particularly like either.
I have had d*unk sex though and it was never great and the two hangovers I had I would not have been able to have sex because any movement caused me to boke those times. Not a sexy look.
I'm not keen on having sex with anyone who is d*unk or being around a load of d*unk people.
One of the socials I was at I was hassled a lot by a male half of a couple who was getting pretty d*unk and it was a horrible e_perience and I ended up having to leave early with a friend I went with as he would not go away or take no as an answer. |
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Used to drink and get very very horny hungover but it was purely physical
Haven't drank in years and find it far more intense to be able to stare someone straight in the eyes while you have sex dead sober. Very handy to be able to drive here and there too
A little insecurity of mine is that people who are over a certain limit of d*unkenness are interested in me because they are d*unk and wouldn't be if they were dead sober and I find that a real turn off |
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"How does alcohol affect your sex life?
Do hangovers affect your sex life?
Discuss!"
I think when young it helps reduce the inhibitions. But being older and wiser means we know inhibitions can simply be ignored by respecting the limits of willing partners |
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"The comments I am reading on this thread do not represent my e_perience of attending (and organising) events."
I was just thinking there's alot of sobriety on this thread with very few people saying "yeah get a bottle of wine into me and everything is better".
I mean, they're called cock-tails for a reason, right? |
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By *om TangoMan 33 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
I’m kinda into kink playing and I’d much rather both didn’t have any drinks before playing. My fear would be that someone would consent to something d*unk and regret it the next day. Plus if I’ve a few whiskeys in me I can get it up but can’t cum. Drinks can be done during the aftercare once a bottle of water is downed. |
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"The comments I am reading on this thread do not represent my e_perience of attending (and organising) events."
I've written often enough about my e_periences at socials and my reasons for leaving some.
Those were alcohol fuelled but some people are just arseholes regardless of whether they have been drinking or not.
I've seen blazing rows and fights between couples at socials who couldn't stand up so I'm not sure how they were planning on inviting anyone back to their room. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"Oh Jeepers I'm no pioneer when it comes to drinking, don't let me be misinterpreted d*unken sex happens, but my preference would be sober "
Ya I’m the same d*unken sex is like a big effort ha but whatever about when I’m hungover it’s the horniest I ever get only one way to fix it |
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Personally it doesn't affect me but some people find it helps with their inhibitions. One or 2 drinks isn't a bad thing but 10 or 12 and one of you is probably gonna fall asleep or throw up on the other before the fun starts lol |
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Sure. Having a few drinks with a lover is a lovely way to relax of an evening.
I'd say that's pretty normal for a lot of people.
Proper d*unk sex would be really rare for me and probably only ever happens with with someone I'm quite close to but filthy d*unk sex is a lot of fun. |
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I just realised I didn't actually answer the question!
Alcohol doesn't affect my sex life in as much as they don't have a direct relationship. Otherwise it's as above.
Defo get the hangover horn. The remedy is often solo effort! |
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I find it really difficult to orgasm if I've been drinking, so the swinging I've done completely sober has been far more pleasurable.
I think everyone Swinging needs to go easy on the drinks, I've definitely seen couples way too d*unk at play parties.
I heard of one just recently that got ruined by someone new being sick in the playroom. Heavy drinking and vigorous activity are a bad combo. |
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D*unken sex, let's face it, its not much fun as sober sex. But that's more down to the lose of sense and memory.
However nothing wrong with having a few drinks...before, during and after. Just keep yourself well paced.
Any party's iv been to most have been drinking. But just like in vanilla life overly d*unk people are to be avoided |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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Hangover horn is real.
Too much drink defo limits performance so finding the sweet spot is key.
There's also folk that might struggle with confidence who'll have a sip to help the chat flow...
I'm naturally full of shit so I can do without |
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Beard doesn't drink and I only have a couple once in a blue moon and if we're having a play meet I'd only ever have a single drink as many years ago on our first e_perience the guy got hammered and wouldn't leave us girls alone to explore so beard made everything stop and we left |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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I don’t drink so it is not a consideration for me, but I imagine it must be a help in terms of settling nerves and reducing inhibitions especially at a first meet, either social or play. |
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Honestly, I'm a big fan of a few drinks. Definitely getting to know each other,but also between rounds.
The day after a heavy drinking session I'll wake up with "a horn that would bate a jackass out of a quarry", and I'll be gagging for debauchery.
Twice in my life I've had brewers droop, and twice it was due to overindulgence on Whiskey, in my defense, it was more than a bottle each time.
Drink is a great friend but a terrible master, and the ruination of many a good man has been the combination of "the whiskey glass, and the woman's ass". Luckily I've been ruined years ago and am nearly at the aged XO stage now.
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Sober sex is so much better than d*unk sex. I'm always horny in the mornings but the horniness* (not sure if i've just invented a new word) is off the charts when hungover. Also, the endorphins released during sex take the headache away...downside is the banging headache comes rushing back straight after |
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