being new here what are we supposed to do if people just send invites but you have never spoke to them by message or in chat or even the forum is it not rude just to delete them or just accept we have sent out messages but rarely get a response and they are polite and non pushy any tips please  |
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Personally for me if I excepted all friend requests I would have far to many . I have stated in my profile don't send a friend request if we have not chatted.
So unfortunately I end up deleting them
I think some people send request to see friend only pics. And the people u except probably would not end chatting anyway if not before hand...
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"Personally for me if I excepted all friend requests I would have far to many . I have stated in my profile don't send a friend request if we have not chatted.
So unfortunately I end up deleting them
I think some people send request to see friend only pics. And the people u except probably would not end chatting anyway if not before hand...
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I totally agree I do the same |
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Don't accept them unless you have chatted to them, I don't and I get random friendship requests all the time, thing is if you leave them sitting there, they cannot request again nor can they see your pictures which is probably why they have done it. |
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"Personally for me if I excepted all friend requests I would have far to many . I have stated in my profile don't send a friend request if we have not chatted.
So unfortunately I end up deleting them
I think some people send request to see friend only pics. And the people u except probably would not end chatting anyway if not before hand...
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 ditto |
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"being new here what are we supposed to do if people just send invites but you have never spoke to them by message or in chat or even the forum is it not rude just to delete them or just accept we have sent out messages but rarely get a response and they are polite and non pushy any tips please "
i usually dont accept invtes unless ive spoken to them first,unless i think the guy is fit,il accept when hes offline to have a luk at the pics if i like il keep as a friend if not just delete  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I first joined I had a few message and friend invites and like a typical noob I accepted them all. Cue a load of emails from single gay and bi males with various requests for photos and meets and it took me a while to work out that maybe I should not have done that 
Anyway, as mentioned already you can block single males (although if you do I don't know of that works in the forum?) Some of them can be really pushy and rude and make the single males on here that are genuine have an even more difficult time getting anywhere 
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"being new here what are we supposed to do if people just send invites but you have never spoke to them by message or in chat or even the forum is it not rude just to delete them or just accept we have sent out messages but rarely get a response and they are polite and non pushy any tips please
i usually dont accept invtes unless ive spoken to them first,unless i think the guy is fit,il accept when hes offline to have a luk at the pics if i like il keep as a friend if not just delete "
Clever girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have tons of friend invites i just don't accept them now unless i have chatted or have interest in them.. They just want to see pvt pics is all..."
yours are scary tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I put a notice on my profile about people sending them without mailing at least. Women and couples complain about men sending them without asking but some (a small few) will do just this. Usually mail explaining i don't accept them without a mail at least. Just manners really. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Have had this happen invites from peeps I have never met or chatted with my friends are usually peeps id like to stay in contact withusually delete them some from as far away as England ffs we are never going to meet
But I like the sneaky suggestion of waiting till their off line have a perve and delete 
typically cj lolnaughty naughty "
Mmmm its ur fault U bring out the naughty cj |
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