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How many repeat meets do you have with someone?
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Go with the flow. Unless it’s specified in the chats before the meet it is what it is. But if that changes and evolves then that is human behaviour but all parties need to be of the same opinion. Life is too short not to have fun if you get on. |
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"Just wondering do you either feel done, get bored, or limit repeat meets so it doesn't turn into something more than what was intended at the outset? "
generally meet a few times then mutually agree to call it a day |
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Depends on the individual situation. I wouldn't limit anything. Personally I'm open to whatever develops if the chemistry is there so I wouldn't stop myself from repeat meets if we got along.
I definitely get bored sometimes and don't really want to repeat meets even if the sex is really good
I've had less good play fun with people I'd prefer to meet more often based on general connection |
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Some members feel that fabs is the perfect method to have regular new one off lovers.
Whilst I do get that kink, as others have hinted here, the repeat meets and play brings a very different and special dynamic.
But if you're bored or "taking one for the team" this will dramatically effect the longevity of the lifestyle experience.... And most probably you're drift away very rapidly. |
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I prefer repeat meets and would seek out connections with a bit of longevity.
Sometimes that could be every couple of weeks or it could be a couple of times a year depending on distance.
I do prefer to let things go sooner rather than later if I feel like the kind of connection I like to have isn't there. |
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I'm with my lady friend for the last 6 years.
And everytime we meet is as good as the first time we had fun.
If you find a lady that's a definite repeat meet, hold on to her, and not only will she be a friend, but a lover  |
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Just depends on the person or the couple with me and if the vibe continues. Happy to keep going as long as everyone is happy and getting what we want with no drama. |
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By *ealmc1973Man 49 weeks ago
Limerick, Clare, Tipperary |
ONS is never the aim, personally. That's for teenagers, mind you, if there is no other way and needs must 
how can one exploit all the possibilities without repeated meets?
FWB is ideal scenario for me, just keeping it simple and making sure, that all involved do know that. |
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It's difficult to quantify. It's not something I'm necessarily looking for but neither is it something I'd rule out if I particularly clicked with someone, in which case I'd take it as it comes rather than putting a definitive number on it. |
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"Why did you feel the need to post twice? "
If you're going to insist on nitpicking, it was three times.
When I see that happen I automatically think there's been a technical hiccup.
Why do you feel the need to call the duplicate post out?
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By *runchMan 49 weeks ago
Dublin |
"Why did you feel the need to post twice?
If you're going to insist on nitpicking, it was three times.
When I see that happen I automatically think there's been a technical hiccup.
Why do you feel the need to call the duplicate post out?
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Not fond of echo chambers,no pun intended. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"Why did you feel the need to post twice?
If you're going to insist on nitpicking, it was three times.
When I see that happen I automatically think there's been a technical hiccup.
Why do you feel the need to call the duplicate post out?
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She posted once. The other two were echos |
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By *ustBoWoman 49 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I would never put a number on it.
I've met some people once, some 3 times and one person every week for the last 4 years.(Apart from when I'm ghosting her that is
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Yes Casper |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago
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"I have been meeting with a couple from here monthly when I’m over on business for around 20yrs. We just enjoy each others company and of course the fun "
Longer than most marriages!! A throuple made in heaven. |
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Repeat meets are the best! We had this for quite a good few years with someone. As long as there is trust then you can push few boundaries
As long as they are part of your social life it makes it better in our own experience |
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I find time sex is always a bit awkward I think sex with someone new only really gets really great by the third time,l. It takes time to figure out someone's vibe and preferences.
So unless things go bad the first times were usually looking to do another meet.
You can't get bored of someone if you only see them every few months, instead the anticipation of seeing them again makes it kind of explosive! |
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"I find time sex is always a bit awkward I think sex with someone new only really gets really great by the third time,l. It takes time to figure out someone's vibe and preferences.
So unless things go bad the first times were usually looking to do another meet.
You can't get bored of someone if you only see them every few months, instead the anticipation of seeing them again makes it kind of explosive!"
. That's just the perfect answer  |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I think it gets better each time, you know what each like. Being comfortable with each other is so important to the enjoyment and that truly only comes from spending time together naked.  |
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By *s LollyWoman 49 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"I think it gets better each time, you know what each like. Being comfortable with each other is so important to the enjoyment and that truly only comes from spending time together naked. "
This 100% |
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I think repeat meets can be good, but everyone needs to be on the same page The more you meet, the better you know what the other likes.
Disclaimer: I seldom do repeat meets lol don't know if that says more about me or the guys/girls I've met  |
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"I think repeat meets can be good, but everyone needs to be on the same page The more you meet, the better you know what the other likes.
Disclaimer: I seldom do repeat meets lol don't know if that says more about me or the guys/girls I've met "
Same here |
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We started as a one off, progressed to “scratching an itch” and here we are quite a few months later still scratching that itch but as a couple now. Definitely more satisfying than random one off meets
Jo x |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I must be in my own with this but I never liked repeats for a long time. I put that down to going through a divorce though. But 8/9 months ago I met someone on Fab who changed my mind on that, and he still rocks my world. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago
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"I must be in my own with this but I never liked repeats for a long time. I put that down to going through a divorce though. But 8/9 months ago I met someone on Fab who changed my mind on that, and he still rocks my world. "
Very sweet..... Think you are similar to me.
But I ld (usually) meet a handful of times and then move on. It feels weird to me if I m not drifting on after 5 or 6 times. |
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I agree with alot of the points made. I love the thrill of the hubby too, the flirting and the actual challenge of getting someone into bed.
It's a real boost when they want to meet again, and the sex is usually better the more you know what each other likes!
But I couldn't meet the same person every week no matter how well we got along unless it was more than sex. A few times in a year for sex sure but it is a bit of a turn off if someone is always looking to meet
Not that I've anyone breaking down my door, mind you |
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"We started as a one off, progressed to “scratching an itch” and here we are quite a few months later still scratching that itch but as a couple now. Definitely more satisfying than random one off meets
Jo x"
And I'll second that much more comfortable with each other privately and exploring together. Have developed a very close bond where we can sound ideas off each other in a free and no judgement way. |
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"I find time sex is always a bit awkward I think sex with someone new only really gets really great by the third time,l. It takes time to figure out someone's vibe and preferences.
So unless things go bad the first times were usually looking to do another meet. We totally agree with this.
You can't get bored of someone if you only see them every few months, instead the anticipation of seeing them again makes it kind of explosive!"
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With repeat meets you can be casually undressing each other while catching up with each others news or or discussing the rugby or the hurling. I’ve had one lady call me over for an opinion on an outfit to wear on her next meet! |
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By *eijaWoman 48 weeks ago
City Centre |
Repeat meets are my absolute favourite with the right person. I don't see an issue if you are both open, honest and on the same page. The fun just gets better and better in my opinion.
I have had some amazing fwbs that I have met for years and we still gravitate back towards each other.
B x |
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