"Thoughts on folks posting bareback videos on here when they've verifications coming out there ears...not smart carry on IMHO."
Maybe the bareback videos are with they're hubby's or partners but use protection during meets? |
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"Thoughts on folks posting bareback videos on here when they've verifications coming out there ears...not smart carry on IMHO.
Maybe the bareback videos are with they're hubby's or partners but use protection during meets?"
That's fair but some I've seen lately are known singles |
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By *affa31Woman 37 weeks ago
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"Thoughts on folks posting bareback videos on here when they've verifications coming out there ears...not smart carry on IMHO.
Maybe the bareback videos are with they're hubby's or partners but use protection during meets?
That's fair but some I've seen lately are known singles "
Keep a note on their profile and the profiles of those who veri them re playing bareback and move on with your life.
Block them if you don’t want to see their vids in your updates.
You can’t control what they do but you can control how you interact with them. |
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"Thoughts on folks posting bareback videos on here when they've verifications coming out there ears...not smart carry on IMHO.
Maybe the bareback videos are with they're hubby's or partners but use protection during meets?
That's fair but some I've seen lately are known singles
Keep a note on their profile and the profiles of those who veri them re playing bareback and move on with your life.
Block them if you don’t want to see their vids in your updates.
You can’t control what they do but you can control how you interact with them. "
Sense talk  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally I don't care if other people go bareback or safe, it wouldn't affect or decision making. It's just an observation that so many say safesex only but assume that sex will be bareback"
For some safe sex is regular sti testing and prep for men |
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"Thoughts on folks posting bareback videos on here when they've verifications coming out there ears...not smart carry on IMHO.
Maybe the bareback videos are with they're hubby's or partners but use protection during meets?"
Well said |
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"Personally I don't care if other people go bareback or safe, it wouldn't affect or decision making. It's just an observation that so many say safesex only but assume that sex will be bareback
For some safe sex is regular sti testing and prep for men "
Someone who tests regularly is surely safer than solely relying on condoms! |
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By *dfabMan 37 weeks ago
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Saw a single Leeds lady with Safe Sex on profile last night where there was definitely unsafe sex and spunk and further penetration after.
Said to her it clashed with her interests and she asked what did I mean.
Seems clarification is needed on the definition alright. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Is there such a thing as "safe sex"? What's the definition of it as technically any sexual activity could be deemed unsafe.. foreplay to full sex wearing a condom for penetrative sex technically voids if oral isn't done the same on both parties. |
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By *inxySTV/TS 36 weeks ago
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"Personally I don't care if other people go bareback or safe, it wouldn't affect or decision making. It's just an observation that so many say safesex only but assume that sex will be bareback
For some safe sex is regular sti testing and prep for men "
Eh, I'm not sure a doctor would agree with you that testing equates to safe sex. It's like having an insurance assessor tell you your can is written off and you crashed it. Sure testing is always welcome buy classing it as safe sex it at best poor judgement |
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By *DLGirlCouple 36 weeks ago
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"Saw a single Leeds lady with Safe Sex on profile last night where there was definitely unsafe sex and spunk and further penetration after.
Said to her it clashed with her interests and she asked what did I mean.
Seems clarification is needed on the definition alright."
You have anal, dp, and separate room on your profile. So by your logic you won’t meet a couple who want same room vaginal only sex?
Of course not.
Most people are open to bareback sex and most people are happy to play safe.
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I’d never bareback but I’ve had a few men say no to condoms for oral sex and it’s always a “take your word for it” that you get tested
Curious how many people here actually ask to see a test if they’re going to not bare back fuck but atleast indulge in oral sex (which carries the same STI risks) |
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By *dfabMan 36 weeks ago
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"Saw a single Leeds lady with Safe Sex on profile last night where there was definitely unsafe sex and spunk and further penetration after.
Said to her it clashed with her interests and she asked what did I mean.
Seems clarification is needed on the definition alright.
You have anal, dp, and separate room on your profile. So by your logic you won’t meet a couple who want same room vaginal only sex?
Of course not.
Most people are open to bareback sex and most people are happy to play safe.
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I don't see the relevance of my profile to this thread subject matter. That was not my intended logic either.
Also I see you say most people are open to bareback and playing safe. Sorry but my opinion is that they can only be combined with monogamous couples for that to make sense. |
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By *DLGirlCouple 36 weeks ago
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We’ll make it simple for you
You said ‘her profile said her interest was safe sex but she was having unsafe sex’
Your profile says ‘anal sex’ but no doubt you’re happy with vaginal-only sex. Hell you’re probably happy with just a blow job.
Because someone has safe sex on their interests doesn’t mean they only want safe sex. Life isn’t binary, most people are on a sliding scale. A great many couples on this site list safe sex as an interest but quickly say they want bareback. Sure if a profile’s text says ‘we only ever play safe’ that is one thing but simply because an ‘interest’ says ‘safe sex’ dosent mean they don’t also bareback. Same way you don’t always have anal sex.
Probably best you don’t message strangers chiding them on their sexual choices too. |
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By *dfabMan 36 weeks ago
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"We’ll make it simple for you
You said ‘her profile said her interest was safe sex but she was having unsafe sex’
Your profile says ‘anal sex’ but no doubt you’re happy with vaginal-only sex. Hell you’re probably happy with just a blow job.
Because someone has safe sex on their interests doesn’t mean they only want safe sex. Life isn’t binary, most people are on a sliding scale. A great many couples on this site list safe sex as an interest but quickly say they want bareback. Sure if a profile’s text says ‘we only ever play safe’ that is one thing but simply because an ‘interest’ says ‘safe sex’ dosent mean they don’t also bareback. Same way you don’t always have anal sex.
Probably best you don’t message strangers chiding them on their sexual choices too. "
Got ya. Thanks |
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"Thoughts on folks posting bareback videos on here when they've verifications coming out there ears...not smart carry on IMHO.
Maybe the bareback videos are with they're hubby's or partners but use protection during meets?"
Exactly |
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