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What does attraction feel like for you?
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Do you get flutters or forget how to speak?
I can get really distracted by the urge to kiss someone to the point where I lose track of the conversation.
If I'm crushing on someone I can feel like an awkward teenager again and get quite amused with myself. |
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By *astelloWoman 37 weeks ago
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I get giggly.. I get an incredible urge to rub my hands all over their chest.. Naked one of course..of course highly inappropriate in the wrong situation. Something about neck, chest and shoulders that give me the flutters. |
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I stare and smile like an eejit, especially when they are talking and then I rabbit on and constantly forget my trail of thought so end up just standing there, and if they say something funny I laugh too hard and snort, can never manage to think of anything witty to retort with and yeah, generally become the most unfanciable female on the planet! Oh and chance are I’ll either fall in front of them or spill my drink, or spit it out, what ever unattractive qualities you can think of…. That’s me  |
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If I make eye contact and the chemistry is strong I will look everywhere but ur eyes lol lol until we get intimate then I can see into ur soul. and yep the urge to kiss someone u are attracted too is distracting! And such a let down if they aren’t a great kisser, it is dead in the water. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I smile a lot and can’t look away, it usually involves a lot of teasing too, sometimes to the point where one woman actually thought I didn’t like her, it’s adolescent like, I know but I genuinely can’t help it. |
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I'm assuming I'm different from most because for me there is no nervous anticipation, no distraction or noticeable tingle.
Everything is in the moment and by the time I lean in for that first kiss it's more of a test to see if the kiss conveys a sense of passion and intensity.
I've had meets with women who would be classed as fab hot and it has been extremely easy to not be attracted to them in person because of their attitude.
I'm rarely attracted to anyone who isn't attracted to me.
One of the joys of anhedonia. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 37 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more."
Snap 
Hearts of stone  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.
Snap
Hearts of stone "
Sorry I’m not going to believe you or Caseylee, attraction is defined as the action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something. That to me means emotion of some kind so I can’t believe you guys,  |
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By *aseylee324Couple 37 weeks ago
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"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.
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Hearts of stone
Sorry I’m not going to believe you or Caseylee, attraction is defined as the action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something. That to me means emotion of some kind so I can’t believe you guys, "
Liking someone and wanting to have sex with them are two different things |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.
Snap
Hearts of stone
Sorry I’m not going to believe you or Caseylee, attraction is defined as the action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something. That to me means emotion of some kind so I can’t believe you guys, "
I don't even like myself |
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I was at a fab social recently and was introduced to someone who was so outrageously attractive to me I think all I managed was a single 'hi' and then I just stood there until I could escape.
I would have found this very embarrassing as a younger guy but these days it's quite funny and I just laugh at myself. In fact I'm sure I'll tell them what happened the next time we meet! |
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By *og-ManMan 37 weeks ago
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"I was at a fab social recently and was introduced to someone who was so outrageously attractive to me I think all I managed was a single 'hi' and then I just stood there until I could escape.
I would have found this very embarrassing as a younger guy but these days it's quite funny and I just laugh at myself. In fact I'm sure I'll tell them what happened the next time we meet!"
Its ok I knew  |
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By *j47Man 37 weeks ago
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"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.
Snap
Hearts of stone "
Old age more like |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.
Snap
Hearts of stone
Old age more like "
Ah how timely of you to appear
Now I remember I do get a bit of a twitch from the thoughts of pegging you  |
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By *j47Man 37 weeks ago
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"I don't get any of the above, it's almost more of a conscious decision to find the person attractive, the flutters/nerves etc are things I would have experienced decades ago but not any more.
Snap
Hearts of stone
Old age more like
Ah how timely of you to appear
Now I remember I do get a bit of a twitch from the thoughts of pegging you "
Reminds me to wear my galvanized undies when meeting u |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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It really depends on a few things. If it's unexpected then I can stumble and get taken aback. If it's in a situation where I'm already heightened I'll be extremely calm and intense. If I can I'll be in control, unless I'm surprised, then it's lust. I love it when this happens. |
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I get efficient, it drives me nuts but I just start trying to organise and arrange things or tidy stuff. Its like subconsciously I want to show off or something, then I realise I'm doing it and overcompensate by trying to look paid back and then realise I look like a complete spa! I really shouldn't be let out in public at all |
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