Sounds a bit cheesy but you could try saying you'd prefer to look at their amazing body while you have sex. Might give them a bit of confidence?
I've had some people ask for dark before but not that often. And some love the sex but not being looked at for their own reasons. But I'd usually have a sexy candle or two at least. Candles or a small lamp, unless in specifically asked for total darkness which I haven't been in a long time |
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I don't think it's got much to do with you if a woman wants it dark then it's more likely her own body or image she doesn't want on display or to be seen. Maybe I'm wrong
Of course some people just want the taboo feeling of anonymity too but I don't think that's what you're talking about
Candles all the way! |
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Sometimes it's to do with body image but other times it's a form of sensory deprivation to allow her to focus on the other four senses. Sometimes the visuals can take from the experience as they dominate the others, in my opinion.
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"Sometimes it's to do with body image but other times it's a form of sensory deprivation to allow her to focus on the other four senses. Sometimes the visuals can take from the experience as they dominate the others, in my opinion.
Mrs "
Good to know, everyones a winner |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"Try having sex in the afternoon ....sorted 
Day sexy is the way forward, but I prefer raw morning sex over plinky plonky afternoon one.  "
If it’s plinky plonks you might need to try a different flavour, maybe a little better aged  |
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Day … night … morning … lunchtime … afternoon …. Lights on … daylight … prefer seeing the person I am with …. Especially looking into their eyes during sex…. Intensifies the whole experience… but that’s just me … |
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By *panishRebelMan 39 weeks ago
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"Day … night … morning … lunchtime … afternoon …. Lights on … daylight … prefer seeing the person I am with …. Especially looking into their eyes during sex…. Intensifies the whole experience… but that’s just me … "
Oh yes ....that intense look eye to eye during sex...I totally agree....it raises the levels. |
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"Sometimes it's to do with body image but other times it's a form of sensory deprivation to allow her to focus on the other four senses. Sometimes the visuals can take from the experience as they dominate the others, in my opinion.
Mrs "
I tend to keep my eyes closed for that reason I think. To focus inward on sensations.
So it doesn't matter to me if it's dark or bright since I put the blinkers on myself  |
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By *dfabMan 39 weeks ago
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"Morning, afternoon- blinds open, curtains open.
Evening, night time- lights for ambience and so I don't stub my toe!"
F me! That guy's hung like a trojan if you're stubbing your toe on it   |
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great phrase, love it like wishy washy
