I'd give myself a C- on this one.
My arm gets tired, the angles feel unnatural and I only realised recently that lube could be used 
Im an enthusiastic audience and rather encourage my partner while they do it themselves   |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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On yourself, you can have an opinion. On others it really is theirs alone. It ain't like opening a bottle or carton of milk, they are all different shapes and sizes . Therefore I suggest a "wank off ".
I believe 6 of each gender will be required (all genders accepted). And then once we fill the ARK, then we get the contestants.
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"Every hand job requires some instruction from the receiver. So l prefer to observe and follow suit. But its nice when you hit that perfect spot.. Boom shake shakdme da room. "
1000% this. Sex acts aren't a test of skill. If something isn't working then give feedback. What worked for a previous partner may well be an instant turnoff for the next. Good sex is about giving and taking feedback. |
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I feel like every time I meet someone new there's a discovery phase in exploring new sensations.
I've definitely learned to share and communicate how I like to be touched rather than suffer through for fear of hurting feelings or just regretting own bad communication skills.
So I feel like I am more confident to share what makes me tick. Of course I'm often surprised to too and my own self service routines need blown up every now and again.
I've also learned to ask multiple choice questions that don't cause awkward answers. Some people are kind or shy and might not want to say 'no that's not good, 5mm higher and clockwise please'
But asking 'This, or this?' works quite well for me.
And there's nothing quite like uttering or hearing that phrase 'wow, no one has ever done that to me before' |
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I thought "usually my cock" would be the answer to that question.
I remember once having to think outside the box and grab some hair gel when the hand and aforementioned cock were too dry
Oddly enough ive had loads of non lubricated handjobs in more recent years without a problem |
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By *runchMan 49 weeks ago
Dublin |
"Every hand job requires some instruction from the receiver. So l prefer to observe and follow suit. But its nice when you hit that perfect spot.. Boom shake shakdme da room. "
..and the winner is! |
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By *runchMan 49 weeks ago
Dublin |
"I'd give myself a C- on this one.
My arm gets tired, the angles feel unnatural and I only realised recently that lube could be used
Im an enthusiastic audience and rather encourage my partner while they do it themselves "
An enthusiastic audience |
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"I'd give myself a C- on this one.
My arm gets tired, the angles feel unnatural and I only realised recently that lube could be used
Im an enthusiastic audience and rather encourage my partner while they do it themselves "
now theres sense talking. nothing like onesself for kniwing where ones chemical levels are for climaxing... |
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"I can honestly say I don’t remember the last time I was asked for or I initiated a hand job, apart from a quick stroke before it being placed elsewhere! "
Yeah I gotta say, hands are great and all, but if there are better options available then why bother  |
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"I can honestly say I don’t remember the last time I was asked for or I initiated a hand job, apart from a quick stroke before it being placed elsewhere!
Yeah I gotta say, hands are great and all, but if there are better options available then why bother "
Agreed although I take that thought process to the extreme and once the kiss is good then I skip foreplay completely |
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"Are you confident in your hand job/finger skills?
Or do you feel like every body is different and it's new every time?"
No handjob experience per se but as far as fingers go, every body is different for sure |
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Love giving handjobs. Love the control learning his pressure points and edging him over and over. Handjobs can be just amazing so many techniques to be used it's definitely a skill worth learning. It's so not just pump pump and done |
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By *panishRebelMan 49 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
I don't normally hand job myself. It's nice when others do it. But it never brings me to the edge. I have enjoyed watching people try....and try....and try....
I need the real deal or simulation when on my own.  |
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