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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Judging by the messages i get it seems a lot of guys wud meet without seeing a face pic?so would u guys?or if the lady refused to send a face pic would u still meet her?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Judging by the messages i get it seems a lot of guys wud meet without seeing a face pic?so would u guys?or if the lady refused to send a face pic would u still meet her?
interested in hearing yur comments "
I think it's incredibly silly to meet without knowing what the person looks like, what if it was your long lost uncle  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bloody madness it ain't blind date.
If someone asked to meet without sending a pic first alarms bells woukd ring. "
i know,but sum men dont seem to mind,i cud luk like the bak of a bus for all they know lol,i wud never meet a man without seeing a face pic no way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody madness it ain't blind date.
If someone asked to meet without sending a pic first alarms bells woukd ring.
i know,but sum men dont seem to mind,i cud luk like the bak of a bus for all they know lol,i wud never meet a man without seeing a face pic no way!"
I'd never believe that sugarplum. That said, I'd love to see your face, oh mysterious lovely one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bloody madness it ain't blind date.
If someone asked to meet without sending a pic first alarms bells woukd ring.
i know,but sum men dont seem to mind,i cud luk like the bak of a bus for all they know lol,i wud never meet a man without seeing a face pic no way!
I'd never believe that sugarplum. That said, I'd love to see your face, oh mysterious lovely one. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive had a few ask to meet with out seeing my pic. and i wouldnt entertain meeting with out seeing them on cam or a face picture. could be someone you know or worse still a family member would rather be safe rather than sorry x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never, face pics are a must! I have had two couples (one yesterday and one today) both were looking for a male, they asked me for pics, i sent them, i replied with "may i see urs" and one couple said they dont show theyre faces so when i stated i wouldnt meet without seeing face pics i got a mail back literally saying "blocked for being a fool" and these two btw are a pretty popular couple here with good feedback
The other couple replied "we dont have face pics" and that was the last i heard!!
I think some people too are low in self confidence and are nervous about sharing face pics because it can make or break a meet!!
I always show my face to people that ask and if they dont like what they see thats fine, No matter how "hot you are" your not gonna be for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet one women years ago with no pic but she told me she looked like Anastasia the singer turned out she didn't she looked like Shrek ????????????????????????
Lesson learned
Everydays a learning day folks ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet one women years ago with no pic but she told me she looked like Anastasia the singer turned out she didn't she looked like Shrek ????????????????????????
Lesson learned
Everydays a learning day folks ?? "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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I would always ask to see a face pic just I case its a relative or a friend having said that its not going to infulance weather we meet or not because we would already have had a few mails and I would have decided to meet before I ask for a face pic its not all about looks its personality
Although it is for some on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody madness it ain't blind date.
If someone asked to meet without sending a pic first alarms bells woukd ring.
i know,but sum men dont seem to mind,i cud luk like the bak of a bus for all they know lol,i wud never meet a man without seeing a face pic no way!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely need to see the face pic first. Could you imagine arranging to meet for a coffee and its your neighbour or worse still your sister. Awkward!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree on the face pics but we know someone who when they asked for face pics from a couple, the couple sent them their own pics..!! So, as a rule they now no longer send pics..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Agree on the face pics but we know someone who when they asked for face pics from a couple, the couple sent them their own pics..!! So, as a rule they now no longer send pics..... "
really,thts mad!didnt think u cud save a pic tht u sent privately on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree on the face pics but we know someone who when they asked for face pics from a couple, the couple sent them their own pics..!! So, as a rule they now no longer send pics.....
really,thts mad!didnt think u cud save a pic tht u sent privately on here "
People can take screen shots and save them, there is many ways hun. That's why people are cautious about it. I found pics on a profile here of a very good friend of mine and trust me, she's not on this site. I had to tell her...! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Agree on the face pics but we know someone who when they asked for face pics from a couple, the couple sent them their own pics..!! So, as a rule they now no longer send pics.....
really,thts mad!didnt think u cud save a pic tht u sent privately on here
People can take screen shots and save them, there is many ways hun. That's why people are cautious about it. I found pics on a profile here of a very good friend of mine and trust me, she's not on this site. I had to tell her...! "
yea i just tryed it on a pic i had send to sumone ,it was very blurry but still makes u think ,will have to be more careful! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree on the face pics but we know someone who when they asked for face pics from a couple, the couple sent them their own pics..!! So, as a rule they now no longer send pics.....
really,thts mad!didnt think u cud save a pic tht u sent privately on here
People can take screen shots and save them, there is many ways hun. That's why people are cautious about it. I found pics on a profile here of a very good friend of mine and trust me, she's not on this site. I had to tell her...!
yea i just tryed it on a pic i had send to sumone ,it was very blurry but still makes u think ,will have to be more careful!"
But if u are using an iPhone sugar all u have to do is click and hold on it and the option comes up to save direct to ur phone the exact pic no blurriness nothing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Agree on the face pics but we know someone who when they asked for face pics from a couple, the couple sent them their own pics..!! So, as a rule they now no longer send pics.....
really,thts mad!didnt think u cud save a pic tht u sent privately on here
People can take screen shots and save them, there is many ways hun. That's why people are cautious about it. I found pics on a profile here of a very good friend of mine and trust me, she's not on this site. I had to tell her...!
yea i just tryed it on a pic i had send to sumone ,it was very blurry but still makes u think ,will have to be more careful!
But if u are using an iPhone sugar all u have to do is click and hold on it and the option comes up to save direct to ur phone the exact pic no blurriness nothing "
i normally just use my laptop when im on the internet,i just thought u cud save pics on sites like facebook thanks for letting me know anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree on the face pics but we know someone who when they asked for face pics from a couple, the couple sent them their own pics..!! So, as a rule they now no longer send pics.....
really,thts mad!didnt think u cud save a pic tht u sent privately on here
People can take screen shots and save them, there is many ways hun. That's why people are cautious about it. I found pics on a profile here of a very good friend of mine and trust me, she's not on this site. I had to tell her...!
yea i just tryed it on a pic i had send to sumone ,it was very blurry but still makes u think ,will have to be more careful!
But if u are using an iPhone sugar all u have to do is click and hold on it and the option comes up to save direct to ur phone the exact pic no blurriness nothing
i normally just use my laptop when im on the internet,i just thought u cud save pics on sites like facebook thanks for letting me know anyway"
A lot of people are using phones browsing here so leaves people wide open to havin their pics poached. Also in chat rooms on cam u can be recorded and also stills can be taken ad used for whatever the individual desires. Believe me I know so always think twice before allowing anyone past ur defences sounds paranoid but sometimes when dealing with the Internet a teaspoon of caution doesnt go astray |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree on the face pics but we know someone who when they asked for face pics from a couple, the couple sent them their own pics..!! So, as a rule they now no longer send pics.....
really,thts mad!didnt think u cud save a pic tht u sent privately on here
People can take screen shots and save them, there is many ways hun. That's why people are cautious about it. I found pics on a profile here of a very good friend of mine and trust me, she's not on this site. I had to tell her...!
yea i just tryed it on a pic i had send to sumone ,it was very blurry but still makes u think ,will have to be more careful!
But if u are using an iPhone sugar all u have to do is click and hold on it and the option comes up to save direct to ur phone the exact pic no blurriness nothing
i normally just use my laptop when im on the internet,i just thought u cud save pics on sites like facebook thanks for letting me know anyway
A lot of people are using phones browsing here so leaves people wide open to havin their pics poached. Also in chat rooms on cam u can be recorded and also stills can be taken ad used for whatever the individual desires. Believe me I know so always think twice before allowing anyone past ur defences sounds paranoid but sometimes when dealing with the Internet a teaspoon of caution doesnt go astray "
too true sweet it's a world out there that can lead to sick situations caution is a must, but it goes across the Internet in general but in this site that bit more goes without saying... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i met a woman once after exchanging face pics.....although the pics she sent where her, they had been taken a good 20 years earlier !!!
so just because a face pic is sent, you got no gaurantee its them or if it is them how long ago it was sent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Judging by the messages i get it seems a lot of guys wud meet without seeing a face pic?so would u guys?or if the lady refused to send a face pic would u still meet her?
interested in hearing yur comments "
Dom here....there are those of us that believe that attractiveness comes from the inside out. to me the body is nothing but a tool. without the mind it's useless. it is the mind that decides to give you that smile, that caress, that hug, that kiss. the ultimate flattery is a woman allowing you to enjoy her prize possession with her. ok..there are those that base things on looks..but that makes thing more mechanical than mental arousal. in that case i'd rather stay home and wank. |
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By *acykateWoman
over a year ago
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I won't send face pics cos I value my privacy. There's always the chance I might meet someone I know but then we're here for the same reason so can laugh about it I prefer a coffee meet first so if there's no attraction no harm done |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i met a woman once after exchanging face pics.....although the pics she sent where her, they had been taken a good 20 years earlier !!!
so just because a face pic is sent, you got no gaurantee its them or if it is them how long ago it was sent"
thts true,same thing happened to me b4 with a guy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Judging by the messages i get it seems a lot of guys wud meet without seeing a face pic?so would u guys?or if the lady refused to send a face pic would u still meet her?
interested in hearing yur comments
Dom here....there are those of us that believe that attractiveness comes from the inside out. to me the body is nothing but a tool. without the mind it's useless. it is the mind that decides to give you that smile, that caress, that hug, that kiss. the ultimate flattery is a woman allowing you to enjoy her prize possession with her. ok..there are those that base things on looks..but that makes thing more mechanical than mental arousal. in that case i'd rather stay home and wank. "
looks are important to me,if i am not pysically attracted to sumone i just cudnt have sex with them full stop! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks ain't it all folks is dis a swing site or dating site cum on "
Ok so then if looks aren't an issue...hi I'm Jane I'm a face double for Hannibal lector have size 44gg boobs and a size six waist
Wanna fuck
In essence u are saying if u saw a woman willing to have sex with u regardless of what she looks like u would quite happily climb aboard and have a go.? Ewwwww two words no way !!! May as well have a wet sponge an just bang away at that same result in the end.
If I don't want to have sex with someone for whatever reason that may be I will not be having sex with them. Sex site swing site or dating site no difference. Quality over quantity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha yeah I was warned bout you "
Warned about me?? Fair enough but were u warned about everyone else here who has an opinion to which they are entitled. In case u hadnt noticed the topic in question was in relation to face pics not about whether u were willing to stick ur cock into any convenient hole because u are on a swinging site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Judging by the messages i get it seems a lot of guys wud meet without seeing a face pic?so would u guys?or if the lady refused to send a face pic would u still meet her?
interested in hearing yur comments "
Maybe just refresh ur memory as to what is open to discussion. Yes I am opinionated but then isn't everyone entitled to their opinions. Here's mine
I would never meet without a face pic,and I would never have sex with someone I'm not attracted to. If that makes me a bitch so be it I genuinely couldn't care less those are my feelings with regard to the op topic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most... but thankfuly not all guys on this site would ride anyone that offered.. the old adage of not looking at the mantlepiece while stoking the fire comes to mind...
and whilst looks shouldn't be everything, and are by no means a deal breaker, the sex is sooooooooooo much better if there is an attraction..
So in answer to the original question, no face pic no meet.. thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So anyway to everyone else my opinion was dat too much emphasis is put on looks !!! Take it for wat it is or no ...peace "
Looks are the first thing that u see and the first thing ur nervous receptors respond to. Some people like blondes some like brunettes it's no big deal. One person thrash is another persons gold. In other words people perception of beauty is not always in agreement and image differs. But to say that a persons looks will not have an input on whether u meet them and ultimately have sex with them is not just ridiculous but pretty narrowminded.
If I put a cake in front of u and told u it was made of all the best ingredients money can buy, but to you it looked like a pile of dog shit, would u eat it?? No you would not. Same applies to potential partners. If something is not in someway visual arousing well then for most people their brain says no. But as with everything there are always exceptions to the rule. Now excuse me if I have offended ur delicate sensibilities 'my friend' |
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Im guilty of having meets without sending face pic, ever since discovering a pic of myself been used on another profile I decided not to have face picture up , it's written on my profile "no face pic's"..... While face pictures are helpful they can also be fake, I personally prefer meet for a coffee in public place 1st, if the chemistry and attraction is ther then take it to the next step  |
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"Im guilty of having meets without sending face pic, ever since discovering a pic of myself been used on another profile I decided not to have face picture up , it's written on my profile "no face pic's"..... While face pictures are helpful they can also be fake, I personally prefer meet for a coffee in public place 1st, if the chemistry and attraction is ther then take it to the next step "
I agree yummy very risky having facepics floating around which is why I don't exchange face pics until I have built up a rapport with a person and know I can trust them. It may make me seem aloof and suspicious but once bitten twice shy. I also agree with the need for a coffee meets again its safety first as much as making certain of a personal attraction |
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"Im guilty of having meets without sending face pic, ever since discovering a pic of myself been used on another profile I decided not to have face picture up , it's written on my profile "no face pic's"..... While face pictures are helpful they can also be fake, I personally prefer meet for a coffee in public place 1st, if the chemistry and attraction is ther then take it to the next step
I agree yummy very risky having facepics floating around which is why I don't exchange face pics until I have built up a rapport with a person and know I can trust them. It may make me seem aloof and suspicious but once bitten twice shy. I also agree with the need for a coffee meets again its safety first as much as making certain of a personal attraction "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All i'm saying is ouch!
Yes this is a swing site not a dating site but i'll agree people will look for face pics to see if theres an attraction in the first place. When and if a person chooses to give them is up to the person sending them. Hassling someone for one isn't on.
As for the any hole is a goal attiude well whatever works for you. I perfer quality over quanity myself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What makes me laugh is getting a mail from someone who says 'here's my face pic' , not that I have asked for it as I wouldn't ever, but the face pic is actually a shot of them from about half a mile away, can barely see them never mind know if I find them attractive. Then they expect to see one of you. Wiiiiise up! Very rarely have we sent face pics, and we certainly don't store them on here. I prefer showing my face on cam and they should be prepared to do the same, if you can't then SEE YA! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a persons decision to meet isn't affected by the face of the person behind the profile, why then are so many messages that I receive on here "any face pic" if u ask me that is proof in itself that face does influence some peoples decision whether or not to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would meet without seeing any pics. I would need to chat on phone first but then happy to treat it as blind date. Would prefer them to see my pics though so I know they are happy with what they are meeting. |
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