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One reason could be that trans women are women but xdressers are not? So a straight man could very easily find a woman attractive as a woman regardless of what type of body she has or how she was born but would not find a man dressing as a woman attractive.
For couples, each have their own dynamic so I'd say there's loads of reasons for that. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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What is sexy or arousing to you ? For some it's smooth curves , stockings and lingerie. For others it can be the complete opposite. Femininity and hard cocks don't seem to be similar at first glance , but to some they can be. Who cares really though? It's a sex hook up site and isn't it great that so many women are open about their specialities.
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Yes but their profiles never mention trans they specifically mention tvs and cds which are both men dressed as women but yet they say no single males!! If they are having sex with tvs or cds they are definitely not straight!! |
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"Yes but their profiles never mention trans they specifically mention tvs and cds which are both men dressed as women but yet they say no single males!! If they are having sex with tvs or cds they are definitely not straight!! "
Does it really matter what other people are doing? Jeez  |
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By *adbobbilMan 40 weeks ago
Wicklow, Carlow, Wexford, Kilkenny |
"Yes but their profiles never mention trans they specifically mention tvs and cds which are both men dressed as women but yet they say no single males!! If they are having sex with tvs or cds they are definitely not straight!!
Does it really matter what other people are doing? Jeez "
What she said. At the end of the day it's their choice |
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Your the one who is getting worked up suggesting there was an issue to start with when it was a simple question nothing more nothing less. Now you need to re check your previous posts and you'll see you didn't actually ask me a question in reply to my original question at all. Now if your not happy with this thread then remove yourself from this post and get yourself offended by one of the other threads on here I'm sure it won't take you long to find one to get upset by!! |
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By *og-ManMan 40 weeks ago
somewhere |
Personally I think the whole bi parter and straight partner is very much overstated on fab
I think bi men with straight female partner is very much a very small percentage and a bi woman with a straight male parter is still a very small percentage of couples on fab
I dont care about labels but I do
wonder about all the straight men who have had sex with a person with a cock and yet complain when men offer a blow job |
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By *adbobbilMan 40 weeks ago
Wicklow, Carlow, Wexford, Kilkenny |
"Your the one who is getting worked up suggesting there was an issue to start with when it was a simple question nothing more nothing less. Now you need to re check your previous posts and you'll see you didn't actually ask me a question in reply to my original question at all. Now if your not happy with this thread then remove yourself from this post and get yourself offended by one of the other threads on here I'm sure it won't take you long to find one to get upset by!! "
I'm simply asking why does it matter? You wanted to start a discussion and when someone voiced a different opinion to yours you attacked them. I also noticed you didn't jump down the throat of the female that said the same thing as me. Wonder why that was  |
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And for your information I did reply to the female who said the Same thing as you but you were more interested in starting a argument to read that response as it's clearly on here, but no apology needed |
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"How straight is a guy/couple who put no single male on his/their post but includes looking for tvs/cds!!! And why do most if not all couples have a bi woman and straight male??? "
I wish I had a bi woman to include on my profile.
For a weird moment, I thought I was on Fabguys!!
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By *eijaWoman 40 weeks ago
City Centre |
"Yes but their profiles never mention trans they specifically mention tvs and cds which are both men dressed as women but yet they say no single males!! If they are having sex with tvs or cds they are definitely not straight!! "
OP I think you will find that unfortunately there is not an option for Trans on Fab when completing your profile. It has been discussed many times over the years. Hopefully this will change.
Why does it bother you so much? Each to their own. It may not be your preference but it is someone elses
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"How straight is a guy/couple who put no single male on his/their post but includes looking for tvs/cds!!!
I would estimate 80% straight  "
See look I knew there was a straightforward answer without the thread going on about men jumping down each others throats and women all being straight for wanting a woman with a dick Thanks Eileen xx  |
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That's also no category for 'I just like to suck dick sometimes' or 'Straight until wet'
I think some people really are situationally bi /pansexual or just don't really mind a same sex hand job.
Fabs categories for gender and sexuality are a bit behind times.
Not having a category for trans that is seperate from tv/cd is pretty egregious on this day anf and age. In my opinion. |
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I think for the bi women it's the group play, that fuzzes the boundary line. What does it matter if you are kissing a guy or girl, sometimes it's nice to suck a breast, while being fucked. What's with all the labels? Maybe the categorisation are fuzzy in real life. |
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I would imagine when joining fab people pick the descriptions that most match to what they are looking for or how they perceive themselves. There are many grey areas in the pleasure seeking on fab. As long as there's open communication involved in the play participants really it's nobody else's business. If the profile is not for you move along. Simple. Live and let live x |
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"How straight is a guy/couple who put no single male on his/their post but includes looking for tvs/cds!!! And why do most if not all couples have a bi woman and straight male??? "
You are looking at it as a all or nothing issue.
Straight folk may be curious. And occasionally people want something different. I consider myself straight but I like a woman with a strap on to ride the arse off me from time to time. On a limited number of occasions my curiosity wondered if a dick would be better/worse/same as a strap on. So I tried it. But i don't see guys as attractive,not do I want a relationship with a guy.
So if you can see it as a fluid matter of interest. It's like a drink, sometimes you want a hot beverage and sometimes you want a sparkling beverage.
Let yourself go and try a Willie, you might like it |
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Doubt I'll cone back in to this but I am a transwoman. A woman not a man so sometimes couples have tvts open due to ts not the tv part which getting with ts doesnt make a man gay or bi.
People get curious and want to try stuff so their tastes or curiosities change with time.
Anyone taking issue in what others are seeking is maybe a bit insecure and needs reevaluate things.
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Sexuality is a spectrum. Always changing never the same tbh. No matter who you think it could be.
It’s all donuts and sausages just different sizes lol
Cross dresser/ TV are not woman and never will be (bomb dropped!) and could never come close to trans people who go out into the real world and sacrifice everything because of who we are on the inside and showing it all on the outside by being assessed and take LASER/medical/surgical steps in there transitioning to become UNCLOCKABLE!!!
Also quite annoying that this app makes money off most of us and still can’t separate trans from tvs and cds it’s not right and is offensive and fucks it up for the lot of us. I think it’s obvious there’s a big difference between cds/tvs and trans in this (no shade)  |
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"As long as their happy who really cares
Yes but what is happiness ? "
if you don't know what happiness is you lead a sad life and I'm not going to explain it to you because what makes me happy is totally different than the next person |
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By *inxySTV/TS 40 weeks ago
dublin |
"Sexuality is a spectrum. Always changing never the same tbh. No matter who you think it could be.
It’s all donuts and sausages just different sizes lol
Cross dresser/ TV are not woman and never will be (bomb dropped!) and could never come close to trans people who go out into the real world and sacrifice everything because of who we are on the inside and showing it all on the outside by being assessed and take LASER/medical/surgical steps in there transitioning to become UNCLOCKABLE!!!
Also quite annoying that this app makes money off most of us and still can’t separate trans from tvs and cds it’s not right and is offensive and fucks it up for the lot of us. I think it’s obvious there’s a big difference between cds/tvs and trans in this (no shade) "
Ah yes, the hate towards cds/tvs raises its ugly head. I've spoken about this countless times here before about why we as TVs feel far more threatened going out in the real world, simply put because society fears us, couples don't know what to expect and that's okay but trans people hate us and I've lost count of the amount of times it has been made clear to me from trans girls. We don't want your crown but we also don't want or need your disrespectful opinion on our lifestyle choice. Almost every cd/TV I have had the pleasure of meeting has at some point taken the really stressful step of venturing out with the goal of doing it regularly. Our biggest fear isn't rejection from society, its rejection from the  community, something you reinforce. |
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"Sexuality is a spectrum. Always changing never the same tbh. No matter who you think it could be.
It’s all donuts and sausages just different sizes lol
Cross dresser/ TV are not woman and never will be (bomb dropped!) and could never come close to trans people who go out into the real world and sacrifice everything because of who we are on the inside and showing it all on the outside by being assessed and take LASER/medical/surgical steps in there transitioning to become UNCLOCKABLE!!!
Also quite annoying that this app makes money off most of us and still can’t separate trans from tvs and cds it’s not right and is offensive and fucks it up for the lot of us. I think it’s obvious there’s a big difference between cds/tvs and trans in this (no shade)
Ah yes, the hate towards cds/tvs raises its ugly head. I've spoken about this countless times here before about why we as TVs feel far more threatened going out in the real world, simply put because society fears us, couples don't know what to expect and that's okay but trans people hate us and I've lost count of the amount of times it has been made clear to me from trans girls. We don't want your crown but we also don't want or need your disrespectful opinion on our lifestyle choice. Almost every cd/TV I have had the pleasure of meeting has at some point taken the really stressful step of venturing out with the goal of doing it regularly. Our biggest fear isn't rejection from society, its rejection from the community, something you reinforce. "
As I've often said that I'm man enough to wear a dress and quite confident about it too.
I don't align myself with the alphabet mafia, or seek validation from them.
I'm a lone wolf who's free to roam wherever needs be, I roam alone not in packs.
There's no hierarchy in my domain or anyone to look down on or up to. But I have to say I am what I am a cross dresser.
And so what if I love each sparkle and each bangle?
Why not try to see things from a different angle?
Your life is a sham
'Til you can shout out, I am what I am
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By *inxySTV/TS 40 weeks ago
dublin |
"Sexuality is a spectrum. Always changing never the same tbh. No matter who you think it could be.
It’s all donuts and sausages just different sizes lol
Cross dresser/ TV are not woman and never will be (bomb dropped!) and could never come close to trans people who go out into the real world and sacrifice everything because of who we are on the inside and showing it all on the outside by being assessed and take LASER/medical/surgical steps in there transitioning to become UNCLOCKABLE!!!
Also quite annoying that this app makes money off most of us and still can’t separate trans from tvs and cds it’s not right and is offensive and fucks it up for the lot of us. I think it’s obvious there’s a big difference between cds/tvs and trans in this (no shade)
Ah yes, the hate towards cds/tvs raises its ugly head. I've spoken about this countless times here before about why we as TVs feel far more threatened going out in the real world, simply put because society fears us, couples don't know what to expect and that's okay but trans people hate us and I've lost count of the amount of times it has been made clear to me from trans girls. We don't want your crown but we also don't want or need your disrespectful opinion on our lifestyle choice. Almost every cd/TV I have had the pleasure of meeting has at some point taken the really stressful step of venturing out with the goal of doing it regularly. Our biggest fear isn't rejection from society, its rejection from the community, something you reinforce.
As I've often said that I'm man enough to wear a dress and quite confident about it too.
I don't align myself with the alphabet mafia, or seek validation from them.
I'm a lone wolf who's free to roam wherever needs be, I roam alone not in packs.
There's no hierarchy in my domain or anyone to look down on or up to. But I have to say I am what I am a cross dresser.
And so what if I love each sparkle and each bangle?
Why not try to see things from a different angle?
Your life is a sham
'Til you can shout out, I am what I am
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And what a wonderful outlook to have. I think tolerance might come with age, purely speaking for myself here lol but the hate directed at TV/CDs fron the trans community is almost militant. It's sad that some trans folk blame us for others viewing us as one in the same when I really dont care for brackets pronouns or gender wars. Respect is often talked about but rarely practiced |
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"Sexuality is a spectrum. Always changing never the same tbh. No matter who you think it could be.
It’s all donuts and sausages just different sizes lol
Cross dresser/ TV are not woman and never will be (bomb dropped!) and could never come close to trans people who go out into the real world and sacrifice everything because of who we are on the inside and showing it all on the outside by being assessed and take LASER/medical/surgical steps in there transitioning to become UNCLOCKABLE!!!
Also quite annoying that this app makes money off most of us and still can’t separate trans from tvs and cds it’s not right and is offensive and fucks it up for the lot of us. I think it’s obvious there’s a big difference between cds/tvs and trans in this (no shade)
Ah yes, the hate towards cds/tvs raises its ugly head. I've spoken about this countless times here before about why we as TVs feel far more threatened going out in the real world, simply put because society fears us, couples don't know what to expect and that's okay but trans people hate us and I've lost count of the amount of times it has been made clear to me from trans girls. We don't want your crown but we also don't want or need your disrespectful opinion on our lifestyle choice. Almost every cd/TV I have had the pleasure of meeting has at some point taken the really stressful step of venturing out with the goal of doing it regularly. Our biggest fear isn't rejection from society, its rejection from the community, something you reinforce.
As I've often said that I'm man enough to wear a dress and quite confident about it too.
I don't align myself with the alphabet mafia, or seek validation from them.
I'm a lone wolf who's free to roam wherever needs be, I roam alone not in packs.
There's no hierarchy in my domain or anyone to look down on or up to. But I have to say I am what I am a cross dresser.
And so what if I love each sparkle and each bangle?
Why not try to see things from a different angle?
Your life is a sham
'Til you can shout out, I am what I am
And what a wonderful outlook to have. I think tolerance might come with age, purely speaking for myself here lol but the hate directed at TV/CDs fron the trans community is almost militant. It's sad that some trans folk blame us for others viewing us as one in the same when I really dont care for brackets pronouns or gender wars. Respect is often talked about but rarely practiced "
Yeah respect can be a paradox, especially when people are contradicting themselves.
But I wouldn't give a dam what tribe say's what, I know that I'm quite content with Danú lol she's out on her own most of the time.
I'm going to head to dv8 sometime, a few dressers here have suggested that I come up and join them for a night out. It'll be nice to mingle with people, I don't care who's what or whether someone identifies as male or female or inbetween. I think it's all about people who are different sharing the atmosphere and respecting each other and not starting a debate about us and then lol I couldn't be arsed with that kind of atmosphere |
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I'm going to head to dv8 sometime, a few dressers here have suggested that I come up and join them for a night out. It'll be nice to mingle with people, I don't care who's what or whether someone identifies as male or female or inbetween. I think it's all about people who are different sharing the atmosphere and respecting each other and not starting a debate about us and then lol I couldn't be arsed with that kind of atmosphere "
If you have questions about DV8 Tgirl Nights, please do not hesitate to contact me with any questions. Accidentally, there is a party in DV8 this Friday . Come and say hello to me |
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"How straight is a guy/couple who put no single male on his/their post but includes looking for tvs/cds!!! And why do most if not all couples have a bi woman and straight male??? "
Why does it matter
Do your own thing ,don't worry about what others do or have on their profile |
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By *liviacdTV/TS 40 weeks ago
Greystones, Galway |
Didn't ever experience hate from the trans community, and I don't understand why there should be! Most trans girls are perceptive enough to know that many cd/tvs might well in an ideal situation be trans, but life has roles and responsibilities that dictate otherwise. I look forward to and enjoy being me, a tv,as often as I can, and that's as far as I'll ever get, and am happy at that!! Live and let live!! |
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"I'm straight. Born a guy. Not attracted to guys. But I am attracted to sexy hot TVs/CDs/femboys/sissies/tw etc. Am I gay/bi?
Who cares. "
This!!! Everyone here is experiencing sexual interests, and whatever they decide to try should be non judgemental. I've never considered myself bi but I've found myself in situations with couples and TV/TS and just went with the flow. There's absolutely no need for the questioning of anyone's decisions on what they experience. |
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"I'm straight. Born a guy. Not attracted to guys. But I am attracted to sexy hot TVs/CDs/femboys/sissies/tw etc. Am I gay/bi?
Who cares.
This!!! Everyone here is experiencing sexual interests, and whatever they decide to try should be non judgemental. I've never considered myself bi but I've found myself in situations with couples and TV/TS and just went with the flow. There's absolutely no need for the questioning of anyone's decisions on what they experience."
Absolutely...
I get a lot of straight guys who are very interested in me. I present as female and I prefer to leave my cock out of things (as much as I can lol). I'm not even sure what bucket I fit into regarding trans/cd/TV but men who like feminine women seem to be happy, and I love being seen as a feminine women. I've met women who also deffo see me as a lady...
Strangely, for me it's more interesting if the guy identies as straight, as I feel they're going to want to treat me more like their girl....
Everyone has their thing! |
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