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Things people say which make you run a mile off
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By *anUTV/TS 51 weeks ago
Rural |
"Straight lads sending messages to other men  "
Don't I know it I'm man enough to wear a dress, some guys crack me up lol
I've read it all here, guys telling me they won't put looking for TVs CDs or trans on their profile in case it puts off women...
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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'Your loss.'
Well, no. If it was truly my loss and you were truly that amazing, then I would not have turned you down, would I? The childish 'your loss' kind of vindicates my feeling that it really is actually a good thing for me. Dodged a bullet so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"“Not here to fuck the whole site.”
And people who think there’s some kind of number that is too many people for women to have had sex with."
Then they have no verifications for 4-5 years, so apparently they are not here to fuck ANYONE on the site either . |
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I’m seeing this on male dating profiles a lot lately “if your vaxxed swipe left” - why is it only the anti Covid’s are still banging on about it when everyone else has moved on? But it’s also good to see on the profile coz I absolute will swipe left thanks! |
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"I’m seeing this on male dating profiles a lot lately “if your vaxxed swipe left” - why is it only the anti Covid’s are still banging on about it when everyone else has moved on? But it’s also good to see on the profile coz I absolute will swipe left thanks! "
It's very useful information to know so you know to avoid those type of conspiracy nuts. |
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Any mention of narcotics 
One word mails 
Calling people woke as a way to try insult (I'll take that as a compliment thanks)
General idiotic statements about other users
Hashtags and @s in their status (it's not twitter and the site doesn't support hashtags) |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Anything Trump ey at all.
Anyone trying to coerce you into anything:
"are you wild enough to do xxx?"
Believe me mate, I do whatever the fuck I want and also don't do what I don't want to do.
Anyone trying to manipulate me.
I ve got the horn, what are YOU gonna do about it? Eh, nothing, your sexual frustration is your issue, it's not for me to sort out.
Drug takers and very heavy drinkers.
I m a Dom.... (sad bastards). |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Anything Trump ey at all.
Anyone trying to coerce you into anything:
"are you wild enough to do xxx?"
Believe me mate, I do whatever the fuck I want and also don't do what I don't want to do.
Anyone trying to manipulate me.
I ve got the horn, what are YOU gonna do about it? Eh, nothing, your sexual frustration is your issue, it's not for me to sort out.
Drug takers and very heavy drinkers.
I m a Dom.... (sad bastards). |
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By *iscuits8Man 51 weeks ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"Any mention of narcotics
One word mails
Calling people woke as a way to try insult (I'll take that as a compliment thanks)
General idiotic statements about other users
Hashtags and @s in their status (it's not twitter and the site doesn't support hashtags)"
These are all really good shouts |
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"Anything Trump ey at all.
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Is that an American thing on fab? Your profile says New York and Shannon so just curious have you come across that in Ireland?
I'd love to get a message asking if I'm a red blooded MAGA man, just for the craic |
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By *og-ManMan 51 weeks ago
somewhere |
All the woman on fab are gorgeous
Why can't I get a meet
Fab my wide open vagina if you want to fuck me *
* terms and conditions apply and when I say some random bloke who fabs my picture will get a chance to fuck said vagina I didn't really mean it
I'm different to all the other men that are sad fuckers who will let you down
Hi,do you want to be my sugar daddy
Hi if you're staying in the hotel I can have sex with you as long as you let me stay in your room with my boyfriend overnight and when you leave in the morning you let us stay on in the room
Last 2 are real  |
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But... All the women on fab ARE gorgeous. Isn't that right ladies?
All the real ones anyway. Those "fab my pic to fuck me/fab my pic for a friend invite" ones are often guys with fake profiles pretending to be women for kicks. I mean I don't kinkshame but kindly get fucked |
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By *og-ManMan 51 weeks ago
somewhere |
"But... All the women on fab ARE gorgeous. Isn't that right ladies?
All the real ones anyway. Those "fab my pic to fuck me/fab my pic for a friend invite" ones are often guys with fake profiles pretending to be women for kicks. I mean I don't kinkshame but kindly get fucked"
So I'm wanking to blokes wanking thinking someone is wanking while looking at their fake pictures |
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By *ustBoWoman 51 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
People who look for or give other people's info freely.
Acting like two different people in public and in private.
And the 'I'm in your area' or I can treat you to a night away in a hotel as long as you fuck me crowd |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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""They come over here and they just get given houses and cars"
"Which one of you is on?"
"Can I just ask you something?"
"This country is full"
"How are you finding the site?"
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Yeah but how are you finding the site? |
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"I'd like to apologise to all the fab ladies on behalf of all the men on fab because of some random bloke who sent you a picture of his knob
Its no wonder single men find it hard on here "
guys still do that ?? Lol |
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What you into..
I'm in your area
Had any fun lately.
Can meet tonight or I have the house free.
What you into.......look at profile most interests state it .
I'm in your area. How you know where I am? you might be in county but not on my area,
Had any fun lately..none of your business if I have or haven't
Can meet tonight have house free
Firstly I'm not going to your house you don't know me and I'm not going to your house either. Safety on both parties is vital. |
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Fab related it would be the classy "Wanna watch me wank?"
I'm all good for penile ejaculations today thanks
In RL, buzz words, especially narcissist, which is banded about when anyone feels merely slighted. Karma too, I'm not sure half know what it actually means.
Lastly pet names like hun, babe, sweetie etc. It grinds my gears.
I'm a little ray of sunshine, honestly |
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By *og-ManMan 51 weeks ago
somewhere |
"Men messaging me:
“Nice cock! I want it sucked?”
Take a little time to read the profile, especially the part that says ‘straight’ and save your breath."
You can also filter out men from messaging you |
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"Men messaging me:
“Nice cock! I want it sucked?”
Take a little time to read the profile, especially the part that says ‘straight’ and save your breath.
You can also filter out men from messaging you "
He shouldn't have to Bog and that's the problem here. |
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By *asual777 OP Man 51 weeks ago
i travel all over |
I am not against the immigrants , I am in the blockade because we don’t have enough amenities in the area
Although I have never protested about the amenities or written to anyone about them before the plan for the immigrants was revealed |
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"Men messaging me:
“Nice cock! I want it sucked?”
Take a little time to read the profile, especially the part that says ‘straight’ and save your breath.
You can also filter out men from messaging you
He shouldn't have to Bog and that's the problem here. "
Just filter them out and do your own searching/messaging. Problem solved  |
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One word messages.
Anything related to narcotics.
"I know your are not meeting single guys but hear me out.. "
Dominant bull stuff
Any right wing/conspiracy stuff.
I'm not racist but...
How are you finding the site?
I have a hotel room booked, wanna join??
Any initial message/conversation completely ignoring M - sry but we are here as a couple..
The list goes on
M |
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By *og-ManMan 51 weeks ago
somewhere |
"Men messaging me:
“Nice cock! I want it sucked?”
Take a little time to read the profile, especially the part that says ‘straight’ and save your breath.
You can also filter out men from messaging you
He shouldn't have to Bog and that's the problem here. "
Just letting him know if he didnt already |
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Damn, I asked another fairly new fabber after a couple of messages how they were finding it so far? I was genuinely curious. No wonder they never replied, everyone on this thread hates that question!
Lesson learned.  |
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"Damn, I asked another fairly new fabber after a couple of messages how they were finding it so far? I was genuinely curious. No wonder they never replied, everyone on this thread hates that question!
Lesson learned. "
It's not so bad as a genuine interest chit-chat after a few messages... but a totally bland thoughtless single line first message. |
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"Damn, I asked another fairly new fabber after a couple of messages how they were finding it so far? I was genuinely curious. No wonder they never replied, everyone on this thread hates that question!
Lesson learned.
It's not so bad as a genuine interest chit-chat after a few messages... but a totally bland thoughtless single line first message."
Phew! Thought I was just short of a cardinal sin there! |
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So I'm wanking to blokes wanking thinking someone is wanking while looking at their fake pictures "
Quite likely. Wankception!!
There's a good few couples profiles too even verified ones where the woman is no longer on the scene for whatever reason and it's just the guy pretending. |
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By *og-ManMan 51 weeks ago
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So I'm wanking to blokes wanking thinking someone is wanking while looking at their fake pictures
Quite likely. Wankception!!
There's a good few couples profiles too even verified ones where the woman is no longer on the scene for whatever reason and it's just the guy pretending. "
Was also looking at a couple's profile yesterday where it looks like the woman doesn't know the man is taking the pictures |
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"I'm passing by fancy a fuck"
Yeah like I'll drop my life kids and work to go fuck you.
"jeeze ide cum all over your tits" first message
"do meet alone I'm free this week"
In fairness valid question but if said mailer had read our profile he would have found out Tina doesn't.
The list is endless x |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Can you accommodate my fwb ( never said if the fwb was male or female) and I would be interested in meeting, of course you can join in. Single male profile, 1 dick pic on his profile, what an offer |
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The ones that assume they are talking to Dee. 70% of the time it's jay online looking at forum threads or perving profiles but you will always get ones that assume it's Dee and will mail just addressing her. |
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By *og-ManMan 51 weeks ago
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"The ones that assume they are talking to Dee. 70% of the time it's jay online looking at forum threads or perving profiles but you will always get ones that assume it's Dee and will mail just addressing her. "
Thanks for clearing that up Dee |
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By *aseylee324Couple 51 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
"The ones that assume they are talking to Dee. 70% of the time it's jay online looking at forum threads or perving profiles but you will always get ones that assume it's Dee and will mail just addressing her. "
Happens to us pretty much all the time. It's a no brainer how considering the couple in the contact will set them apart from others who just assume there's just the female half here. It's a common courtesy, but it appears that it's not all that common.
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Oh there are many!
The one word message; hi, hey, howya. Usually accompanied with X
How are you finding fab/ the site/ it on here ?
Any fun lately?
Sending friends requests when we have never met or chatted.
Calling me babe, hun, gorgeous, darling.
Ella
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"Males saying ‘I’ll pay’.
I get that being bi and allowing males to msg means this is par for the course. Just doesn’t leave a great feeling."
I report every single profile that asks to pay me for sex.
If everyone did I’m sure they would quit making new profiles. |
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By *astelloWoman 51 weeks ago
Far far away |
Can l see your friend pics
Ive a hotel booked
One word messages
Cock pics
Can l ask you a question
Im in your area
Copy and paste messages that they sent you already
Hello baby, doll, love, sexy, etc |
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Women who I've just met warning me off or criticising other women.
Being told 'I wouldn't have met you if you met her'.
Couple's where the male half gets away with taking liberties in chat groups and events that would get a single guy blacklisted.
Couple's that treat single men like meat puppets.
Guys who play on the forum like butter wouldn't melt but pester women privately and know the site rules mean they can't be called out in public.
'Messages without a face pic will be deleted'
General bigotry, racists, anti immigrant, anti trans, classists.
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Status updates of "need my balls drained" - eeeeeeeeeeeew
People who assume that it's Dirk online and only talk about me as if I'm some kind of parcel to be shared around.
People who describe their looks instead of sending a pic.
The OF brigade looking for content 
Ones who can't comprehend the word "social" and everything fab related must be only the sexy sex with sexy sexies sex sex. Then they're greatly offended that not everyone else is so full on obsessed with the genital action.
Just naming a few  |
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By *og-ManMan 51 weeks ago
somewhere |
Text speak although it seems to be dying out on here
Messages that say " Hi "
Messages that say " I'll pay you "
Messages that tell me I can't be friends with someone or they won't be friends with me
Fuck off so |
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When I get told I'm being unfair because they don't like my preferences!
When a married guy first of all deceives me by not telling me he's married and then when they eventually do admit they are in fact married, I get the 'but why it's a sex site, that's all it is'...... first of all I state clearly on my profile I don't want to be with married men....any decent guy would respect that! Secondly I'm entitled to have preferences!! am I expected to open my legs wide to everyone and anyone?
In first message I get asked from a married guy or couple if I would meet them or him at a hotel, they're staying in Waterford in 2 days time or something!! ..... A bit of chatting for a while first wouldn't go amiss!! |
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"Describing having no pubes as being 'clean'.
Pubist ideology is not a hygienic consideration."
Same with people who describe themselves as “clean” if their last STI test was negative.
You’re not dirty if you have an STI, you’re ill. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Text speak although it seems to be dying out on here
Messages that say " Hi "
Messages that say " I'll pay you "
Messages that tell me I can't be friends with someone or they won't be friends with me
Fuck off so "
How much we talking? (asking for a friend) |
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"Text speak although it seems to be dying out on here
Messages that say " Hi "
Messages that say " I'll pay you "
Messages that tell me I can't be friends with someone or they won't be friends with me
Fuck off so
How much we talking? (asking for a friend)"
You provide the PPE |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Text speak although it seems to be dying out on here
Messages that say " Hi "
Messages that say " I'll pay you "
Messages that tell me I can't be friends with someone or they won't be friends with me
Fuck off so
How much we talking? (asking for a friend)
You provide the PPE "
By far the wierdest
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Text speak although it seems to be dying out on here
Messages that say " Hi "
Messages that say " I'll pay you "
Messages that tell me I can't be friends with someone or they won't be friends with me
Fuck off so
How much we talking? (asking for a friend)
You provide the PPE "
Omg there's no escaping |
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By *og-ManMan 51 weeks ago
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"Text speak although it seems to be dying out on here
Messages that say " Hi "
Messages that say " I'll pay you "
Messages that tell me I can't be friends with someone or they won't be friends with me
Fuck off so
How much we talking? (asking for a friend)
You provide the PPE
Omg there's no escaping "
Get a room ye 4 |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Text speak although it seems to be dying out on here
Messages that say " Hi "
Messages that say " I'll pay you "
Messages that tell me I can't be friends with someone or they won't be friends with me
Fuck off so
How much we talking? (asking for a friend)
You provide the PPE
Omg there's no escaping
Get a room ye 4 "
Working on it |
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Your so hot lol really? Aww thanks until they see my face pic ... They go quiet ..or maybe it's the fact they don't read my profile even the title of my profile that bugs me....
Or better still won't show a face pic early on in chat for whatever reason..am not here to waste anyone's time...I need to know am attracted to you and vice versa...
Usually what puts me off straight away is the fact they are married and wife has no idea they are online looking and talking to a multiple women |
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"Straight lads sending messages to other men
Don't I know it I'm man enough to wear a dress, some guys crack me up lol
I've read it all here, guys telling me they won't put looking for TVs CDs or trans on their profile in case it puts off women...
Blocked next blocked "
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A twist on "How you finding the site.." that does our head in is "Having any luck here?"
Also, when Mr travels for work he will always browse fab and puts a status up saying its just him in the area for work, or words to that effect. But he still gets asked if I'm with him, or if I want company in the hotel while he's at work. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"The sexualised use of the word ‘daddy’"
I remember there was a whole thread about this a while ago
Not sure if there is 1 thing that's an immediate no, but lack of chats about safe sex / testing always sets alarm bells |
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Totally fine for people to find the use of that word a turnoff. Many times people don't really understand the dynamic though and think it means something it doesn't. It's usually not worth explaining that though as it triggers such an extreme reaction that they aren't likely to listen even if you do try and explain. |
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"Totally fine for people to find the use of that word a turnoff. Many times people don't really understand the dynamic though and think it means something it doesn't. It's usually not worth explaining that though as it triggers such an extreme reaction that they aren't likely to listen even if you do try and explain."
I think one of the main problems is the sheer amount of men who use the words daddy and mummy without the other persons consent. It is a kink, it does require consent.
I’m not saying you can’t put it on your profile, but I do get a fair few men introducing both daddy and mummy play early into conversations and I’m sure I’m not the only person who gets it. |
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"Totally fine for people to find the use of that word a turnoff. Many times people don't really understand the dynamic though and think it means something it doesn't. It's usually not worth explaining that though as it triggers such an extreme reaction that they aren't likely to listen even if you do try and explain.
I think one of the main problems is the sheer amount of men who use the words daddy and mummy without the other persons consent. It is a kink, it does require consent.
I’m not saying you can’t put it on your profile, but I do get a fair few men introducing both daddy and mummy play early into conversations and I’m sure I’m not the only person who gets it."
100%. Just slipping into your own kinkmode without prior discussion is always a bad idea. Nobody knows someone else's prior trauma for example so this can be really damaging. |
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