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By *dfab OP Man 52 weeks ago
Dunboyne |
Just curious.
I know anal can be enjoyable.
I know there's 1000 plus nerve endings in the area.
However my question is do women feel its now a part of the sexual copulation requirement?
Do you feel pressure to have it on your Interests?
Despite the fact many may not have tried/enjoyed but, due to it's apparent social norm nowadays, you feel you should have it as an Interest.
Curious to know and probably have not worded the question exactly as intended but I hope you get my meaning. |
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By *og-ManMan 52 weeks ago
somewhere |
Porn has a lot to answer for doesnt it the way it helps push sexual acts into the main stream
Anal is definitely one of those things that went mainstream and into normal conversations in films and TV programmes
Whats next I wonder
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Here’s the thing - when you meet guys who are well verified and know that this isn’t a dial a ride site then there are less issues regarding expectations.
I find expectations belong to the inexperienced members. People who push tend to find their time on fab short lived. I’ve had people push certain things before- for safety depending on the stage they might get the harry met sally treatment after 2 minutes then hoofed out but generally the conversation before hooking up will let me know if they are someone I will allow into my personal space.
Proper swinging is getting to know people and finding these things out. Parties, socials and events are great for this in a more casual format than coffee and meeting one to one. So again this is how I choose to meet people and feel there’s less pressure in these environments because someone always has your back if a pressure problem arises. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Don't get that many messages now because my filters and extensive block list. But back in the day I would get one line messages off randomers with such romantic messages including can I fuck your ass and nice ass can I come in it. Of course hun pop up to Junction 14 and I'll be bent over the bonnet with my cheeks spread. I think the prevalence of porn might be a reason for these types of messages. Anyway lads hurry on up to Junction 14 my ass is getting awful chilly waiting |
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I can't really be arsed with anal so it never really comes up
I've definitely been asked by more women if they could peg me. That's a polite no from me. Can't imagine being pressured.
I have friends who told me about lads who, after doing anal once, pestered them about it constantly.
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"Don't get that many messages now because my filters and extensive block list. But back in the day I would get one line messages off randomers with such romantic messages including can I fuck your ass and nice ass can I come in it. Of course hun pop up to Junction 14 and I'll be bent over the bonnet with my cheeks spread. I think the prevalence of porn might be a reason for these types of messages. Anyway lads hurry on up to Junction 14 my ass is getting awful chilly waiting "
Brilliant as always  |
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By *ilderMan 52 weeks ago
dublin |
"In unrelated news AA roadwatch are reporting a large line of traffic backed up on the M7 from kildare village heading south
AA stands for All Anal  "
And 'roadwatch' means 'watching you getting riden', right?....   |
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"Just curious.
I know anal can be enjoyable.
I know there's 1000 plus nerve endings in the area.
However my question is do women feel its now a part of the sexual copulation requirement?
Do you feel pressure to have it on your Interests?
Despite the fact many may not have tried/enjoyed but, due to it's apparent social norm nowadays, you feel you should have it as an Interest.
Curious to know and probably have not worded the question exactly as intended but I hope you get my meaning."
Nope. Never felt pressure or expectation or the like.
Not an issue |
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By *1CorkCouple 51 weeks ago
Cork |
Nothing worse than, and as self defeating as, a man pushing for anal on a meet, or before a meet in messages. For me, it’s something to be earned / built up to - and sometimes (more often than not) it won’t happen regardless of male’s input for myriad of reasons, therefore no reflection on his performance either. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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The anticipation is generally better than the act and it tends to get boring quickly.
I'm a fan of teasing and playing around the area as once it gets popped it quickly gets repetitive. In saying that , someone asking me to do it for them will instantly turn me on |
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Great line of discussion and thankfully the responses are more than acceptable to me. I did worry that in any group scenario it was expected. Happy to hear others saying it’s not. Everyone has a choice. And agree in pre chat messages you should know what the other person is hoping for during any meeting.
Good to hear from other ladies too on here. |
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"All depends on the person but my "rule" is if you want to fuck my ass, I can fuck yours. "
That's the opposite to my rule. A lady can peg my ass without any expectations of me getting anal in return. I love the power role it puts a woman in and the feeling of a woman inside of me. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 51 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
"Great line of discussion and thankfully the responses are more than acceptable to me. I did worry that in any group scenario it was expected. Happy to hear others saying it’s not. Everyone has a choice. And agree in pre chat messages you should know what the other person is hoping for during any meeting.
Good to hear from other ladies too on here. "
You always have the right to say no,to anything, at any time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Oh gosh, I think once again I’m in the minority, but it’s my favourite thing to do. Maybe I have just been lucky with my partners and my current partner, who are so good at it. I can’t explain how good it feels. To any ladies who may be nervous, try some butt plugs first start small and work your way up in sizes and some silicone lube, (some people prefer coconut oil). Preparation is key though, a good anal douche before is essential Playblue sex shop has a good range of anal toys and accessories (I don’t work for them lol!) |
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"Who told you it was a social norm to have anal sex? Who do you socialise with lol"
To be fair it has been somewhat normalised in recent years. Having said that, as with all sex acts it's something that shouldn't ever be assumed, and is something that two consenting adults agree on, otherwise it shouldn't happen. |
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By *oghunter33Woman 51 weeks ago
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I can imagine that there's a higher expectancy of having anal with the widespread of porn. However never do something that doesn't sits with you
Based on my experience the lads who shout the loudest for it, can't deliver eventually for various reasons. So it's only the special few you'd go there, the reliable and trustworthy ones.  |
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