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Sexting … yes / no for you
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By *ythen OP Man 41 weeks ago
North Co. Dublin |
Interested to hear people’s views on sexting … yes / no ???
I know some of my fellow fab friends who really enjoy it and others who wouldn’t get into if they were paid to .. I appreciate it does comes down to individual persons circumstances I.e time etc
Personally when time permits I enjoy it from time to time with the right person(s)
Interested to hear others take on it ? |
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Absolutely despise it hate it when randomers slide in with overtly sexual opening lines like can I stick my tongue in your ass. Then there's the guys who want the private pictures and the sexy chat. I'm not Dial a Wank. But I'm good at killing their erections with my replies  |
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Sounds like a lot of people view sexting as being dick pics or sexually aggressive openings.
Personally I've had a few sex buddies before with whom I've sexted, and one sext buddy, and I really enjoyed it. Great for fantasising and roleplay, and given the slightly extra amount of time involved you can really polish some of your sexy/dirty talk. |
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It has it's place.
With the right person, that's more than a friend, I love it. I get tired of "How's your day, did you do anything nice for the weekend?" I've mates for that. A wee smattering of filth every now and again keeps me craving.
Regarding messaging on here, it's never gonna happen. |
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Love a bit of flirty texting but actually sexting (or cyber sex - anyone remember when it was called cyber sex?) is deeply frustrating.
Typical for me:
Woman/couple: I want you to do x, y and Z to my wife/me
Me: sounds great, let's meet and see what happens in person
Them: no. But rest assured if we did then you'd be doing x, y and z
Me: no bother. Coffee to get us introduced?
Them: no we just want to do x, y and z
Like there's sexy teasing and then just time wasting..  |
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By *ythen OP Man 41 weeks ago
North Co. Dublin |
"Absolutely despise it hate it when randomers slide in with overtly sexual opening lines like can I stick my tongue in your ass. Then there's the guys who want the private pictures and the sexy chat. I'm not Dial a Wank. But I'm good at killing their erections with my replies "
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By *ustBoWoman 41 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Nope it does nothing for me. I find it boring as hell and like Casey said above I found a lot that look for it on here are just looking wank material,the same as those who ask for pics all the time.
I agree with Rosy I prefer someone you can have a bit of flirt and banter with, I would take that over sexting any day. |
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By *lueLotusWoman 41 weeks ago
the wilderness |
When I first signed up here I found sexting a fun novelty and a good gauge of the level of filth on here. I got sick of it quickly though, and now I've no patience if someone asks twice for sexting or a phone call I just block.
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"When I first signed up here I found sexting a fun novelty and a good gauge of the level of filth on here. I got sick of it quickly though, and now I've no patience if someone asks twice for sexting or a phone call I just block.
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Oh wow phonecalls for awkward filthy talk really are a whole other level. I find phonecalls bad enough by themselves not to mind pretend phone sex. I know some people love it but not for me at all at all |
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By *alvin.Man 41 weeks ago
Cork/Dublin |
"When I first signed up here I found sexting a fun novelty and a good gauge of the level of filth on here. I got sick of it quickly though, and now I've no patience if someone asks twice for sexting or a phone call I just block.
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Couldent agree more. Was my experience too. These days I can't be arsed. I'd rather take the dog for a walk.  |
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For me sexting is like looking into a river full of trout or seeing a bass smash into a shoal of sandeels or sprat, and your rod isn't in the car. Absolutely pointless. So I always have a few fishing rods in the car now.
Going down the road of sexting for me,I'm speaking for myself is just a waste of time when I could be reading a book, watching a documentary or doing something creative.
My desires don't interfere with my creativity or ability to live normally.
In a nutshell I'm not obsessed with sex, despite being here on fab.
I'd never judge anyone for sexting, I've been there when younger, up until all hours gee eyed going into work and it's just a waste of time. |
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If two people have a good connection, sharing some stories of likes and wants is a great way to build up excitment before a meet... it's akin to slow build up of foreplay before meeting..
I personally think it has its place if you find the right person.....  |
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"I'd rather stick pins in my eyes
Guaranteed turn off"
That's a good metaphorical look at it, anyhow men can get very needy and they start sending question marks like ???
Then the whole, did I say something wrong, or do you not like me anymore malarkey
FFS guy's that stuff really pisses some women off, unless she likes you craving her attention being all wound up and that's her kink and you get turned on by rejection etc some people get off on that, that's cool we're all different
But that craving for instantaneous replies to messages and the 3 question marks lol that's a red flag to some people. As some people like their down time and not to be dealing with guys almost harassing them .
I'm a total bitch, don't I know it lol |
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"If two people have a good connection, sharing some stories of likes and wants is a great way to build up excitment before a meet... it's akin to slow build up of foreplay before meeting..
I personally think it has its place if you find the right person..... "
I agree with this.
When it's someone you know it can be a great build up to a meet but when someone I've just started chatting with tries to pull me into a sex chat it turns me off them. |
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I think it has its place. If someone is away for example and both people are feeling frisky. It’s more personal than watching porn and for me it can be a huge turn on knowing someone is masturbating thinking about me. |
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By *orkguy086Man 41 weeks ago
Happy to travel or get Hotel |
I won't lie, I love it, especially with someone I know and are "seeing".
I find it brings excitement to it all between meets.
I've sexted with past girlfriends. We would say what we wanted to do to eachother when get home and it would get us both so fecking excited during the day that when we would see eachother when we got home we'd want to ravish eachother and made it all very very hot... |
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By *ythen OP Man 41 weeks ago
North Co. Dublin |
"Interested to hear people’s views on sexting … yes / no ???
I know some of my fellow fab friends who really enjoy it and others who wouldn’t get into if they were paid to .. I appreciate it does comes down to individual persons circumstances I.e time etc
Personally when time permits I enjoy it from time to time with the right person(s)
Interested to hear others take on it ? "
At quick glance looks a 50-50 split for those who enjoy and those who don’t .. |
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Hate it, bores the arse off me. Cheeky flirty banter is great, and at a point discussing boundaries and likes/dislikes is fine, but lads looking for wank material is the biggest turn off. If I’m having a convo with someone and they try turn it to all sex talk, and I try steer the convo in a different direction and they don’t take the hint then I stop replying |
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"Hate it, bores the arse off me. Cheeky flirty banter is great, and at a point discussing boundaries and likes/dislikes is fine, but lads looking for wank material is the biggest turn off. If I’m having a convo with someone and they try turn it to all sex talk, and I try steer the convo in a different direction and they don’t take the hint then I stop replying "
I bring out my secret weapon when they ask if I'm stroking my pussy. I have a gorgeous black kitten that I send them unsolicited pictures of |
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By *ickin2Man 41 weeks ago
Kilkenny |
"Hate it, bores the arse off me. Cheeky flirty banter is great, and at a point discussing boundaries and likes/dislikes is fine, but lads looking for wank material is the biggest turn off. If I’m having a convo with someone and they try turn it to all sex talk, and I try steer the convo in a different direction and they don’t take the hint then I stop replying
I bring out my secret weapon when they ask if I'm stroking my pussy. I have a gorgeous black kitten that I send them unsolicited pictures of "
Brilliant. So funny |
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IMHO
Sexting can be amazing.. but I hear the ladies and couples when they get an unexpected filthy message..
that to me isn’t sexting at all though merely Tourette’s or some form of verbal diarrhoea.. best to ignore but if the people that are involved are willing then yes it can be a nice prelude to meeting in the flesh.. |
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Only works for me with a particular lady from work. Builds up massive sexual tension and then when she's on her period she uses me for her pleasure - completely objectifying me. It's crazy sex of the highest quality. |
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By *panishRebelMan 41 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Hate it, bores the arse off me. Cheeky flirty banter is great, and at a point discussing boundaries and likes/dislikes is fine, but lads looking for wank material is the biggest turn off. If I’m having a convo with someone and they try turn it to all sex talk, and I try steer the convo in a different direction and they don’t take the hint then I stop replying
I bring out my secret weapon when they ask if I'm stroking my pussy. I have a gorgeous black kitten that I send them unsolicited pictures of "
And I bet there's a few
Who'll say that will do
If I can't have you
Black pussy is fine
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By *oudicaWoman 41 weeks ago
Kilkenny |
I absolutely LOVE it!!
But……. Only when it’s with someone I am planning to meet or have met already. Absolutely never with a randomer that I don’t know.
This afternoon I had a very, very, hot text exchange with someone I’m meeting at the weekend and we both admitted afterwards that we had to “have a moment” to sort ourselves out because we were so turned on by the conversation  
He literally had my heart racing and my juices flowing texting about what’s going to happen when we meet. I am so turned on already that I think I’ll explode when he eventually touches me. That’s the power of sexting to me  |
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By *ythen OP Man 41 weeks ago
North Co. Dublin |
"I absolutely LOVE it!!
But……. Only when it’s with someone I am planning to meet or have met already. Absolutely never with a randomer that I don’t know.
This afternoon I had a very, very, hot text exchange with someone I’m meeting at the weekend and we both admitted afterwards that we had to “have a moment” to sort ourselves out because we were so turned on by the conversation
He literally had my heart racing and my juices flowing texting about what’s going to happen when we meet. I am so turned on already that I think I’ll explode when he eventually touches me. That’s the power of sexting to me "
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I guess some guys are doing wrong. I ask the lady to set the scene and then I ask her to touch herself the way I describe. Ask her to imagine that I'm the one doing what she's doing to herself, paint a picture, describe how her sighs and pleasure noises turn me on. Then I play with myself as well. Had a few times where we came together. It creates an amazing feeling. The thought of someone coming to your words... Amazing.
Maybe they just played along and didn't really cum, maybe it takes the right lady to enjoy what you're describing? I guess the descriptions and the play are only as good as the imagination of both of you and if only kinks can get you off.... That's hard to achieve on a phone ultimately flying solo with a very horny and engaged cheerleader down the phone. Lol |
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"I think the ladies here will agree we prefer a man with a bit of banter that has the ability to flirt rather than coming in heavy with the nice ass can I fuck it type of sexting messages. "
Yep flirting, craic and a bit of teasing is far more enjoyable. Mrs |
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Sexting, phone sex, FaceTime or cams I've zero interest.
I get flirty exchanges with someone that you're due to meet or are in some type of a physical relationship with already as it's a precursor to some type of fun.
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God no! It's quite cringey for the both of us, especially when guys launch right into the explicit things they're going to do to my wife with no lead up whatsoever..
A bit of foreplay would be nice! |
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I've had a few enjoyable evenings sexting..when it's done properly it doesn't have to be hard-core graphic stuff. But generally with someone I've loaded with or are going to play with. Not random guys, and you can tell when they are just after wanking material. |
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I once met a guy within 24 hours due to his smart, sophisticated sexting. We had each other at boiling point and It was amazing .
That hasnt happened since though, and that was 3 years ago. It was just the right person at the right time with the right vibe.
Generally I don't mind a bit of sexting with someone I know and am sleeping with. I like words, the right words can definitely turn me on.
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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As a couple, absolutely & back and forth to each other! We know what we like!
With anyone else you haven't met then it's totally meaningless drivel! Hype train really. |
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Agree 100% agree with this and Deffo gets the juices flowing , and excited for meet.
"I absolutely LOVE it!!
But……. Only when it’s with someone I am planning to meet or have met already. Absolutely never with a randomer that I don’t know.
This afternoon I had a very, very, hot text exchange with someone I’m meeting at the weekend and we both admitted afterwards that we had to “have a moment” to sort ourselves out because we were so turned on by the conversation
He literally had my heart racing and my juices flowing texting about what’s going to happen when we meet. I am so turned on already that I think I’ll explode when he eventually touches me. That’s the power of sexting to me "
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