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Why does anyone worry about anything?
No matter what your shape or size, most people will have some insecurities. "Fixing" those insecurities is not as simple as someone saying "I don't know what the problem is, I think xyz is great". It's almost akin to telling someone with clinical depression to just cheer up |
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"Why does anyone worry about anything?
No matter what your shape or size, most people will have some insecurities. "Fixing" those insecurities is not as simple as someone saying "I don't know what the problem is, I think xyz is great". It's almost akin to telling someone with clinical depression to just cheer up"
I totally agree |
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I'm a curvy women and proud of it in fact I work hard at the gym to keep those curves and get those thighs thicker. I don't feel the need to compare myself to anyone. Women come in all different sizes and shapes we should all be celebrated. |
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"Why does anyone worry about anything?
No matter what your shape or size, most people will have some insecurities. "Fixing" those insecurities is not as simple as someone saying "I don't know what the problem is, I think xyz is great". It's almost akin to telling someone with clinical depression to just cheer up I totally agree "
Ummmm so was it a rhetorical question? |
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"I absolutely love a woman with curves why are they worried about how they look or compare themselves to skinny women
That's a big generalisation. Not all curly girls are worried about that."
sorry I should of said some didn't mean all of them |
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By *ano53Man 43 weeks ago
Wicklow |
"I'm a curvy women and proud of it in fact I work hard at the gym to keep those curves and get those thighs thicker. I don't feel the need to compare myself to anyone. Women come in all different sizes and shapes we should all be celebrated. "
well ur profile is hot as hell ..
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"Skinny girl here. And trying to grow this as like my life depended on it lol on your profile it says your preference is people that are in good shape "
You saying curvy women aren't in good shape? |
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"Skinny girl here. And trying to grow this as like my life depended on it lol on your profile it says your preference is people that are in good shape
You saying curvy women aren't in good shape? "
I never said that |
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By *panishRebelMan 42 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
This topic comes up again and again in one form or another. Personally I love all types of shapes and sizes, but it's the attitude and way a woman holds herself that is the hook for me. However everyone will have their own type and prefence, which may change over time.
The main thing is to treat people with care and not dismiss them. Everyone can be sexy in one way or another or in many ways. It's not a competition.
Feck it. Just be free. Don't be bound by fear or standards imposed or picked up.
Be sexy whether, thin, flat, round, fat, curvy, ample, tall, short, 3 inches or ten inches (yeah fellas).
Be free. Be yourself. Nothing more sexy than that! |
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By *panishRebelMan 42 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"I'm a curvy women and proud of it in fact I work hard at the gym to keep those curves and get those thighs thicker. I don't feel the need to compare myself to anyone. Women come in all different sizes and shapes we should all be celebrated. "
Applause from me.
You might not need it, but I like to hammer home positive stuff. |
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I prefer curvy people too but it's easy to compare yourself when a lot media shows the beauty standard as for women to be as skinny as possible or to have a tiny waist and be a little curvy. And to have fat shouted at you constantly and to be told you need to loose weight to be attractive, just trying to show some reasons why curvy women can feel bad about themselves even though they shouldn't |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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I’ve more curves than a Curlywurly, and I say it in my profile, but not because I’ve an issue with it, but it’s not for everyone, and I’m okay with that. I have and arse, belly and round bottom, and I like them, and so does my Mr Meath  |
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"This topic comes up again and again in one form or another. Personally I love all types of shapes and sizes, but it's the attitude and way a woman holds herself that is the hook for me. However everyone will have their own type and prefence, which may change over time.
The main thing is to treat people with care and not dismiss them. Everyone can be sexy in one way or another or in many ways. It's not a competition.
Feck it. Just be free. Don't be bound by fear or standards imposed or picked up.
Be sexy whether, thin, flat, round, fat, curvy, ample, tall, short, 3 inches or ten inches (yeah fellas).
Be free. Be yourself. Nothing more sexy than that! "
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"I absolutely love a woman with curves why are they worried about how they look or compare themselves to skinny women "
word curvy gets used to much to explain some women's body were as guy is just fat lol
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"I absolutely love a woman with curves why are they worried about how they look or compare themselves to skinny women word curvy gets used to much to explain some women's body were as guy is just fat lol "
What about mens bodies? Does the same apply? Just call fat men fat is it? |
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"I absolutely love a woman with curves why are they worried about how they look or compare themselves to skinny women word curvy gets used to much to explain some women's body were as guy is just fat lol "
I've no issue with calling myself fat. I even say so in my profile. The people who seem to take most offence at it are the men who message me "You're not fat, you're gorgeous" like the two things must be must be mutually exclusive  |
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By *iscuits8Man 42 weeks ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"Any curvy women wants to verify me??  
Cause that's how it works 
Cause nobody except males for sex want to meet me as I'm not verified  "
There's a Help a Fabber thread set up each month with people generously giving their time to have a cuppa/verify, have a look |
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"Any curvy women wants to verify me??
Cause that's how it works
Cause nobody except males for sex want to meet me as I'm not verified
There's a Help a Fabber thread set up each month with people generously giving their time to have a cuppa/verify, have a look"
Thanks, I've tried it sometimes without success |
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"I absolutely love a woman with curves why are they worried about how they look or compare themselves to skinny women "
Actually we don't. I certainly don't and my friends certainly don't go on like that either.
Women may say they'd like to get healthier, fitter or lose a few pounds but comparing ourselves to skinny women or other women is nonsense.
As for looks, we all carry insecurities or feel less confident about things we deem to be less attractive to ourselves or to those we want to attract. It's a total headf*ck really and I'd safely say men go through this too. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Not sure what the meaning of curvy is here , maybe plus size or maybe hourglass , who knows but as a plus size lady I’m often called curvy in some way to flatter my lumps and bumps and that awful BBW which I hate anyway . But as for comparing or worrying about anyone else well I love women of all shapes and sizes and we should all be celebrated. I often get “ I hate thin women “ from men in my inbox who have meet verified the very women they claim to hate . I’d say most on here would say mass to get their own way . So live and let live I say . |
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By *astelloWoman 42 weeks ago
Far far away |
"We all have preferences. Op has his. No one is here to judge. I say on my profile l like chunky guys, it's my preference.
So Six Nations... Is my poxn of choice.
Your 100% right, in that.
Personally speaking I'd NEVER put. Meself as Chunky(I am Chunky, so to speak alright & I WOULDN'T put in a good way either) & the Six Nations, together in anyway. More like FAR from it, REALLY.      "
Therein is the challenge.. labels.. Curvy, hourglass, bbw, chunky, dad bod, bbm... Each label gets interpreted differently.
Maybe l should say l like rugby build... Or will l find myself inundated with Peter Stringer lookalikes... |
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By *og-ManMan 42 weeks ago
somewhere |
"I absolutely love a woman with curves why are they worried about how they look or compare themselves to skinny women
Actually we don't. I certainly don't and my friends certainly don't go on like that either.
Women may say they'd like to get healthier, fitter or lose a few pounds but comparing ourselves to skinny women or other women is nonsense.
As for looks, we all carry insecurities or feel less confident about things we deem to be less attractive to ourselves or to those we want to attract. It's a total headf*ck really and I'd safely say men go through this too. "
Definitely agreed with your last line ....it can be hard for men too when you see such perfection on here sometimes to be honest
But we're all different and what you might think as perfect then someone else can see as imperfect
Sure the fun is in the finding out |
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By *etergemmaCouple 42 weeks ago
South Dublin Area |
"We all have preferences. Op has his. No one is here to judge. I say on my profile l like chunky guys, it's my preference.
So Six Nations... Is my poxn of choice.
Your 100% right, in that.
Personally speaking I'd NEVER put. Meself as Chunky(I am Chunky, so to speak alright & I WOULDN'T put in a good way either) & the Six Nations, together in anyway. More like FAR from it, REALLY.
Therein is the challenge.. labels.. Curvy, hourglass, bbw, chunky, dad bod, bbm... Each label gets interpreted differently.
Maybe l should say l like rugby build... Or will l find myself inundated with Peter Stringer lookalikes... "
Curvy and hourglass are pretty much the same thing.
The most desirable of women's figures.
Unfortunately it's completely skewed on here when used to describe a figure. |
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By *etergemmaCouple 42 weeks ago
South Dublin Area |
"Not sure what the meaning of curvy is here , maybe plus size or maybe hourglass , who knows but as a plus size lady I’m often called curvy in some way to flatter my lumps and bumps and that awful BBW which I hate anyway . But as for comparing or worrying about anyone else well I love women of all shapes and sizes and we should all be celebrated. I often get “ I hate thin women “ from men in my inbox who have meet verified the very women they claim to hate . I’d say most on here would say mass to get their own way . So live and let live I say . "
There are plenty of sites and content available online to show what an actual curvy figure should look like.
Put simply if your waist is around 30% smaller than your hips and boobs, chances are you are curvy.
This is why you can have a woman who
Is like a size 18 and she can be considered curvy. |
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"I absolutely love a woman with curves why are they worried about how they look or compare themselves to skinny women
Actually we don't. I certainly don't and my friends certainly don't go on like that either.
Women may say they'd like to get healthier, fitter or lose a few pounds but comparing ourselves to skinny women or other women is nonsense.
As for looks, we all carry insecurities or feel less confident about things we deem to be less attractive to ourselves or to those we want to attract. It's a total headf*ck really and I'd safely say men go through this too.
Definitely agreed with your last line ....it can be hard for men too when you see such perfection on here sometimes to be honest
But we're all different and what you might think as perfect then someone else can see as imperfect
Sure the fun is in the finding out "
Yes, it sure is.
Thankfully we are attracted by many different attributes of a person. Does perfection even exist? I think I had the perfect pizza once
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By *indenMan 42 weeks ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
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Thankfully we are attracted by many different attributes of a person. Does perfection even exist? I think I had the perfect pizza once
I need to know more..
What was on the perfect pizza  "
That’s going to cause more problems than the interpretation of curvy, and it may even come down to one single topping…..  |
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By *og-ManMan 42 weeks ago
somewhere |
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Thankfully we are attracted by many different attributes of a person. Does perfection even exist? I think I had the perfect pizza once
I need to know more..
What was on the perfect pizza
That’s going to cause more problems than the interpretation of curvy, and it may even come down to one single topping….. "
Was thinking the same thing but we have to know
Was there pineapple on the pizza |
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By *affa31Woman 42 weeks ago
Galway |
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Thankfully we are attracted by many different attributes of a person. Does perfection even exist? I think I had the perfect pizza once
I need to know more..
What was on the perfect pizza
That’s going to cause more problems than the interpretation of curvy, and it may even come down to one single topping…..
Was thinking the same thing but we have to know
Was there pineapple on the pizza "
Can’t have been perfect without it! |
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Thankfully we are attracted by many different attributes of a person. Does perfection even exist? I think I had the perfect pizza once
I need to know more..
What was on the perfect pizza
Aww lads
Pineapple is not for pizzas lol
That’s going to cause more problems than the interpretation of curvy, and it may even come down to one single topping…..
Was thinking the same thing but we have to know
Was there pineapple on the pizza
Can’t have been perfect without it!"
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By *indenMan 42 weeks ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
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Thankfully we are attracted by many different attributes of a person. Does perfection even exist? I think I had the perfect pizza once
I need to know more..
What was on the perfect pizza
That’s going to cause more problems than the interpretation of curvy, and it may even come down to one single topping…..
Was thinking the same thing but we have to know
Was there pineapple on the pizza
Can’t have been perfect without it!"
Anyone who finished their popcorn before things turned to pizza, you peaked to early, now the drama starts…..
OP, apologies for the thread derailment……  |
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Isn't the whole thread just a red herring really.
It pains me to say that there are guys who start and comment on threads about women's bodies that attempt to prey on their insecurity but I've seen it so many times here now.
The net effect in my opinion is the overall erosion of trust in men's sincerity.
It reminds me of a woman once saying 'You don't have to say that, I'm already naked'.
Guys going around saying bigger is better or slender is sexier are really just displaying a lack of sophistication and subtlety.
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Thankfully we are attracted by many different attributes of a person. Does perfection even exist? I think I had the perfect pizza once
I need to know more..
What was on the perfect pizza
That’s going to cause more problems than the interpretation of curvy, and it may even come down to one single topping…..
Was thinking the same thing but we have to know
Was there pineapple on the pizza "
In all seriousness, those who eat pizza with pineapple on it are committing a crime against humanity  |
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"Isn't the whole thread just a red herring really.
It pains me to say that there are guys who start and comment on threads about women's bodies that attempt to prey on their insecurity but I've seen it so many times here now.
The net effect in my opinion is the overall erosion of trust in men's sincerity.
It reminds me of a woman once saying 'You don't have to say that, I'm already naked'.
Guys going around saying bigger is better or slender is sexier are really just displaying a lack of sophistication and subtlety.
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Nail on the head as usual! |
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Society is fooked social media ect...
The best women I have ever had the pleasure of being with are bbw busty all that some are so fooked by Society they won't call thereself any of the above and call thereself fat but hey I love some that big butt who don't |
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By *panishRebelMan 42 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Isn't the whole thread just a red herring really.
It pains me to say that there are guys who start and comment on threads about women's bodies that attempt to prey on their insecurity but I've seen it so many times here now.
The net effect in my opinion is the overall erosion of trust in men's sincerity.
It reminds me of a woman once saying 'You don't have to say that, I'm already naked'.
Guys going around saying bigger is better or slender is sexier are really just displaying a lack of sophistication and subtlety.
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Well said. |
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"are we the only animal/species on the planet that get sex and looks mixed up?? ie 1 human "needs to look like this or that then maybe sex 2 monkey "we horny we shag""
I base everything on Koinophilia!!
Koinophilia is an evolutionary hypothesis proposing that during sexual selection, animals preferentially seek mates with a minimum of unusual or mutant features, including functionality, appearance and behavior.
Anyone out there with a minimum of unusual or mutant features please get in touch |
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"are we the only animal/species on the planet that get sex and looks mixed up?? ie 1 human "needs to look like this or that then maybe sex 2 monkey "we horny we shag""
Yeah, isn't it a crazy notion to need attraction in order to have sex |
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"are we the only animal/species on the planet that get sex and looks mixed up?? ie 1 human "needs to look like this or that then maybe sex 2 monkey "we horny we shag"
I base everything on Koinophilia!!
Koinophilia is an evolutionary hypothesis proposing that during sexual selection, animals preferentially seek mates with a minimum of unusual or mutant features, including functionality, appearance and behavior.
Anyone out there with a minimum of unusual or mutant features please get in touch "
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not really what i mint, not sure how to explain, ok she/he is just feeling horn, look across bar see a person thinks "he/she/they/etc, are cute" than a stunner walks in and its bye bye cute. not sure if that explains what i mean |
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Like other animals we want to have healthy offspring with desirable genetic traits and so we pick mates who show signs of this. Strength, no signs of disease, even facial features, healthy looking hair / shin. In times gone by is was considered that larger body types are a sign that they are not short on food and so have the resources to feed any children. We mostly process all this when we meet a potential mate instinctually and don't even consciously think about it. It's an interesting topic. |
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The curves is lovely and I assume I am not the only one who adores it. Last time I was out for drinks with my friend couple, she is curvy. In the end of the evening I told her: look around and see how many slim or athletic lady stay alone , you you will leave the bar with 2 nice fella |
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"Society is fooked social media ect...
The best women I have ever had the pleasure of being with are bbw busty all that some are so fooked by Society they won't call thereself any of the above and call thereself fat but hey I love some that big butt who don't "
For me there's nothing wrong with calling myself fat. Not because of societal pressures but because it is simply a descriptor. I'm not degrading myself, or putting myself down. Similarly I've no issue with someone else describing me as fat. I am fat and I don't need it sugar coated. The problem lies with the intent behind the word. If it's used in an attempt to cause hurt, or to shame or insult me, that's not ok. |
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By *astelloWoman 42 weeks ago
Far far away |
I had a conversation on this recently and tbh it's still actually bothering me. Asked the question re surgery or injection for weight loss..I'm sure it was well intentioned but got me thinking..ffs..I live in this body, dont l know it's issues... being hung up on perceived imperfections by others...l know, arrhythmia forget them..but judgement is everywhere |
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"are we the only animal/species on the planet that get sex and looks mixed up?? ie 1 human "needs to look like this or that then maybe sex 2 monkey "we horny we shag"
Yeah, isn't it a crazy notion to need attraction in order to have sex "
Madness I tell ya! |
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