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A little bit early alright, as the header says. This is a thread for unverified Fabers to get meet verified, by Fabers already meet verified. Over a cuppa, nothing else guys. That can sorted out later.
Single guy's, DON'T be afraid to get verified by another guy, it's only over a cuppa & shows other Fabers that your REAL, as it'll say it on the verification.
So, say where you from, ask another Faber in or near your area to help you out. Enjoy & good luck. 
So, I'm in Mayo & willing to help anybody get verified, if ye want me to help ye, contact me.   |
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I was helped to get started on my fab journey by a fab angel so I'm always happy to do the same for others in the Munster area........male or female.
Its only a coffee to confirm you exist and it might be the first step on your journey.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Looking for someone to verify me around Kilkenny. Preferably a female or couple, I've been verified by a man and because of that I've received many no for couples thinking that I'm bi  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Looking for help.
I would like to attend socials and events. But I’m thinking it would be nice to discuss a few things with someone experienced beforehand.
Someone who is willing to share their experience and advice, a woman or a man please feel free to pm me.
Thanks
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"A little bit early alright, as the header says. This is a thread for unverified Fabers to get meet verified, by Fabers already meet verified. Over a cuppa, nothing else guys. That can sorted out later.
Single guy's, DON'T be afraid to get verified by another guy, it's only over a cuppa & shows other Fabers that your REAL, as it'll say it on the verification.
So, say where you from, ask another Faber in or near your area to help you out. Enjoy & good luck.
So, I'm in Mayo & willing to help anybody get verified, if ye want me to help ye, contact me. "
I know this type of meet counts as a Green tick on your profile, But is it considered a genuine meet ? Depends on your interpretation of a meet I suppose.
For me it would involve more than a cup of coffee. |
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"A little bit early alright, as the header says. This is a thread for unverified Fabers to get meet verified, by Fabers already meet verified. Over a cuppa, nothing else guys. That can sorted out later.
Single guy's, DON'T be afraid to get verified by another guy, it's only over a cuppa & shows other Fabers that your REAL, as it'll say it on the verification.
So, say where you from, ask another Faber in or near your area to help you out. Enjoy & good luck.
So, I'm in Mayo & willing to help anybody get verified, if ye want me to help ye, contact me.
I know this type of meet counts as a Green tick on your profile, But is it considered a genuine meet ? Depends on your interpretation of a meet I suppose.
For me it would involve more than a cup of coffee. "
What's to say that it's not considered as a genuine meet?
It's to confirm that your real, the other person/couple actually meetup with you & had a chat with you. Aswell as you saying you'll meet them at a certain time & you were on time for that meet.
What do you actually consider to be a genuine meet? |
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"A little bit early alright, as the header says. This is a thread for unverified Fabers to get meet verified, by Fabers already meet verified. Over a cuppa, nothing else guys. That can sorted out later.
Single guy's, DON'T be afraid to get verified by another guy, it's only over a cuppa & shows other Fabers that your REAL, as it'll say it on the verification.
So, say where you from, ask another Faber in or near your area to help you out. Enjoy & good luck.
So, I'm in Mayo & willing to help anybody get verified, if ye want me to help ye, contact me.
I know this type of meet counts as a Green tick on your profile, But is it considered a genuine meet ? Depends on your interpretation of a meet I suppose.
For me it would involve more than a cup of coffee. "
What, like a donut or something? Maybe if all going well, a 2nd coffee will be ordered!! Coffee meets can sometimes go on for 2 hours if the chat is good!! But, if there's too much silence then it will be just the one coffee and not much of a veri! |
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Lads, anybody wanting to meet me to get verified, message on this thread and I'll message you then! However if all your photos are in friends or have 1 or 2 lines long, I'm not going to meet you! If you're not bothering much about your profile, it's likely you're not going to make much effort at the coffee meet or you'll stand me me up! |
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"Lads, anybody wanting to meet me to get verified, message on this thread and I'll message you then! However if all your photos are in friends or have 1 or 2 lines long, I'm not going to meet you! If you're not bothering much about your profile, it's likely you're not going to make much effort at the coffee meet or you'll stand me me up! "
**or you have only one or two lines of a bio..... |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Does anyone actually succeed getting verified by posting in this thread? I messaged someone asking if they could help me getting verified which left me hanging. I understand that I can't be everyone's cup of tea but it's just so frustrating... |
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"Does anyone actually succeed getting verified by posting in this thread? I messaged someone asking if they could help me getting verified which left me hanging. I understand that I can't be everyone's cup of tea but it's just so frustrating... "
Not sure have never tried. Ive seen a few post about Carlow. I might drive down that far to the supermaxs for a burger this weekend if someone wants to meet for a chat |
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"Does anyone actually succeed getting verified by posting in this thread? I messaged someone asking if they could help me getting verified which left me hanging. I understand that I can't be everyone's cup of tea but it's just so frustrating... "
I got my first verification through this thread.
I did a survey in the forum once too and a good few guys responded saying that they got verified through the Help a fabber out thread. It does work.
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"Does anyone actually succeed getting verified by posting in this thread? I messaged someone asking if they could help me getting verified which left me hanging. I understand that I can't be everyone's cup of tea but it's just so frustrating... "
It has been successful for others perhaps you asked someone who was busy with other things. Remember that anyone offering to help verify is doing it as a choice to help people, things can happen in real life and plans may have to change and its not like anyone will drop everything there doing on a whim it can take weeks of planning |
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"Looking for help.
I would like to attend socials and events. But I’m thinking it would be nice to discuss a few things with someone experienced beforehand.
Someone who is willing to share their experience and advice, a woman or a man
please feel free to pm
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If u want to contact me and we can chat op |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Does anyone actually succeed getting verified by posting in this thread? I messaged someone asking if they could help me getting verified which left me hanging. I understand that I can't be everyone's cup of tea but it's just so frustrating...
It has been successful for others perhaps you asked someone who was busy with other things. Remember that anyone offering to help verify is doing it as a choice to help people, things can happen in real life and plans may have to change and its not like anyone will drop everything there doing on a whim it can take weeks of planning "
Yeah I totally understand that but in my case was the first initial message that the person decided to ignore.
I actually been thinking about organising a "verify meetup" at some point. It might be risky and people might not feel safe as someone that isn't verifying is organising it but it would somewhere public. Might worth the shot.
In the meantime if anyone wants to verify me in Belfast I will be extremely glad.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Does anyone actually succeed getting verified by posting in this thread? I messaged someone asking if they could help me getting verified which left me hanging. I understand that I can't be everyone's cup of tea but it's just so frustrating...
It has been successful for others perhaps you asked someone who was busy with other things. Remember that anyone offering to help verify is doing it as a choice to help people, things can happen in real life and plans may have to change and its not like anyone will drop everything there doing on a whim it can take weeks of planning
Yeah I totally understand that but in my case was the first initial message that the person decided to ignore.
I actually been thinking about organising a "verify meetup" at some point. It might be risky and people might not feel safe as someone that isn't verifying is organising it but it would somewhere public. Might worth the shot.
In the meantime if anyone wants to verify me in Belfast I will be extremely glad. "
I had actually reached out to someone in a recent help Fabber thread as he had specifically asked for me to help. Messaged him to see did he get sorted for verify he read it and never responded but sure that's Fab all over! |
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By *eijaWoman 52 weeks ago
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"A little bit early alright, as the header says. This is a thread for unverified Fabers to get meet verified, by Fabers already meet verified. Over a cuppa, nothing else guys. That can sorted out later.
Single guy's, DON'T be afraid to get verified by another guy, it's only over a cuppa & shows other Fabers that your REAL, as it'll say it on the verification.
So, say where you from, ask another Faber in or near your area to help you out. Enjoy & good luck.
So, I'm in Mayo & willing to help anybody get verified, if ye want me to help ye, contact me.
I know this type of meet counts as a Green tick on your profile, But is it considered a genuine meet ? Depends on your interpretation of a meet I suppose.
For me it would involve more than a cup of coffee. "
I think the fact that someone made an effort to actually take time out of their day to meet you for a coffee proves they are genuine. You do not have to have sex for it to be a meet. What if there's no connection?
Social meets are the best way of gauging if there will be future fun.
This thread (as are the newbie organised socials) are a great way to get verified and start your journey in the scene.
More people should take up these kind offers in my opinion.
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"Does anyone actually succeed getting verified by posting in this thread? I messaged someone asking if they could help me getting verified which left me hanging. I understand that I can't be everyone's cup of tea but it's just so frustrating...
It has been successful for others perhaps you asked someone who was busy with other things. Remember that anyone offering to help verify is doing it as a choice to help people, things can happen in real life and plans may have to change and its not like anyone will drop everything there doing on a whim it can take weeks of planning "
In fairness, if someone is offering to verify and a guy messages them to ask, then they should reply out of courtesy. It's not exactly an unsolicited message so I don't think it's nice to ignore requests. |
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"Does anyone actually succeed getting verified by posting in this thread? I messaged someone asking if they could help me getting verified which left me hanging. I understand that I can't be everyone's cup of tea but it's just so frustrating...
It has been successful for others perhaps you asked someone who was busy with other things. Remember that anyone offering to help verify is doing it as a choice to help people, things can happen in real life and plans may have to change and its not like anyone will drop everything there doing on a whim it can take weeks of planning
In fairness, if someone is offering to verify and a guy messages them to ask, then they should reply out of courtesy. It's not exactly an unsolicited message so I don't think it's nice to ignore requests."
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Iv got one veri a a while ago, back after a break so wouldn't mind getting a few more in or help someone get a verification.
Based in the southeast and available most weekends or for a while during the day on week days |
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"Iv got one veri a a while ago, back after a break so wouldn't mind getting a few more in or help someone get a verification.
Based in the southeast and available most weekends or for a while during the day on week days"
This thread is aimed at those with no verifications not for those that just want a few more dude you should be like the rest of us and put the work in yourself |
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"Does anyone actually succeed getting verified by posting in this thread? I messaged someone asking if they could help me getting verified which left me hanging. I understand that I can't be everyone's cup of tea but it's just so frustrating...
It has been successful for others perhaps you asked someone who was busy with other things. Remember that anyone offering to help verify is doing it as a choice to help people, things can happen in real life and plans may have to change and its not like anyone will drop everything there doing on a whim it can take weeks of planning
In fairness, if someone is offering to verify and a guy messages them to ask, then they should reply out of courtesy. It's not exactly an unsolicited message so I don't think it's nice to ignore requests."
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"DV8's Sunday Social Club really seems ideal for anyone who can make it there to both meet people in a friendly social setting and get verified
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1557371"
Id end up at the bar alone drinking rum hahaha. Is it just walk in or need tickets? |
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"DV8's Sunday Social Club really seems ideal for anyone who can make it there to both meet people in a friendly social setting and get verified
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1557371
Id end up at the bar alone drinking rum hahaha. Is it just walk in or need tickets?"
Dude if you can't even read the info I linked you to.... |
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"DV8's Sunday Social Club really seems ideal for anyone who can make it there to both meet people in a friendly social setting and get verified
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1557371
Id end up at the bar alone drinking rum hahaha. Is it just walk in or need tickets?
Dude if you can't even read the info I linked you to...."
Grand thanks, was on phone couldn't click link. Thanks, got the info |
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"Iv got one veri a a while ago, back after a break so wouldn't mind getting a few more in or help someone get a verification.
Based in the southeast and available most weekends or for a while during the day on week days
This thread is aimed at those with no verifications not for those that just want a few more dude you should be like the rest of us and put the work in yourself "
You must of missed the "help someone" get a verification bit ?? |
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By *og-ManMan 52 weeks ago
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"Iv got one veri a a while ago, back after a break so wouldn't mind getting a few more in or help someone get a verification.
Based in the southeast and available most weekends or for a while during the day on week days
This thread is aimed at those with no verifications not for those that just want a few more dude you should be like the rest of us and put the work in yourself
You must of missed the "help someone" get a verification bit ??"
The whole point of the thread is for unverified men and women |
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"Iv got one veri a a while ago, back after a break so wouldn't mind getting a few more in or help someone get a verification.
Based in the southeast and available most weekends or for a while during the day on week days
This thread is aimed at those with no verifications not for those that just want a few more dude you should be like the rest of us and put the work in yourself
You must of missed the "help someone" get a verification bit ??"
You must have missed the original post. |
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"Iv got one veri a a while ago, back after a break so wouldn't mind getting a few more in or help someone get a verification.
Based in the southeast and available most weekends or for a while during the day on week days
This thread is aimed at those with no verifications not for those that just want a few more dude you should be like the rest of us and put the work in yourself
You must of missed the "help someone" get a verification bit ??
You must have missed the original post. "
It's a monthly post started by different people every month and it's aim is to help those who have zero verifications get 1 social o1 to help them begin there journey on the site. So honestly don't think anyone who has replied to your comments has missed anything important lol. Hope you have all the success on the site you desire good luck and happy fabbing |
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"Iv got one veri a a while ago, back after a break so wouldn't mind getting a few more in or help someone get a verification.
Based in the southeast and available most weekends or for a while during the day on week days
This thread is aimed at those with no verifications not for those that just want a few more dude you should be like the rest of us and put the work in yourself
You must have missed the "help someone" get a verification bit ??"
Quite a few people appear to have missed it 
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"Iv got one veri a a while ago, back after a break so wouldn't mind getting a few more in or help someone get a verification.
Based in the southeast and available most weekends or for a while during the day on week days
This thread is aimed at those with no verifications not for those that just want a few more dude you should be like the rest of us and put the work in yourself
You must have missed the "help someone" get a verification bit ??
Quite a few people appear to have missed it
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Well thank feck I'm not the only one to notice it, I was beginning to think that sentence was a mirage or something ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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Hi. Im based in longford but will travel to get verified over a cuppa....so if there is anyone about I'm up for it. Social that is  is there any one around tomorrow
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Bumping this, as there's only a few more day's left in this Month. Common people keep looking for help & offering help to get verified.
Talk to eachother on here before dming each other.
Let's keep up the good work, people. |
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"Lads, anybody wanting to meet me to get verified, message on this thread and I'll message you then! However if all your photos are in friends or have 1 or 2 lines long, I'm not going to meet you! If you're not bothering much about your profile, it's likely you're not going to make much effort at the coffee meet or you'll stand me me up! "
Totally agree. Effort put into your profile, public photos, some details in bio not just a line or two. Profile photo up etc. I have to say though I'm loving the dv8 Sunday socials. Meeting lots of new people there each week the last while & verified each of them as felt they'd made an effort to me. For me, it's easier meeting few people at once (time wise etc) but we all approach things our own ways really. Just my perspective feel free to message for info about meeting you at the Sunday socials. |
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"Lads, anybody wanting to meet me to get verified, message on this thread and I'll message you then! However if all your photos are in friends or have 1 or 2 lines long, I'm not going to meet you! If you're not bothering much about your profile, it's likely you're not going to make much effort at the coffee meet or you'll stand me me up!
Totally agree. Effort put into your profile, public photos, some details in bio not just a line or two. Profile photo up etc. I have to say though I'm loving the dv8 Sunday socials. Meeting lots of new people there each week the last while & verified each of them as felt they'd made an effort to me. For me, it's easier meeting few people at once (time wise etc) but we all approach things our own ways really. Just my perspective feel free to message for info about meeting you at the Sunday socials. "
It's far for me to be going to a coffee social though!! |
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By *aelegoMan 49 weeks ago
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Is there any way to give a verification and then revoke it? I met a lovely couple from here that I'd like to verify but can't as I'm unverified and so are they. So if I could even get a temporary verification it would be greatly appreciated |
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"Is there any way to give a verification and then revoke it? I met a lovely couple from here that I'd like to verify but can't as I'm unverified and so are they. So if I could even get a temporary verification it would be greatly appreciated "
No unverified can't verify |
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"Lads, anybody wanting to meet me to get verified, message on this thread and I'll message you then! However if all your photos are in friends or have 1 or 2 lines long, I'm not going to meet you! If you're not bothering much about your profile, it's likely you're not going to make much effort at the coffee meet or you'll stand me me up!
Totally agree. Effort put into your profile, public photos, some details in bio not just a line or two. Profile photo up etc. I have to say though I'm loving the dv8 Sunday socials. Meeting lots of new people there each week the last while & verified each of them as felt they'd made an effort to me. For me, it's easier meeting few people at once (time wise etc) but we all approach things our own ways really. Just my perspective feel free to message for info about meeting you at the Sunday socials. "
Where can one get info on this Dv 8 meet? |
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"Lads, anybody wanting to meet me to get verified, message on this thread and I'll message you then! However if all your photos are in friends or have 1 or 2 lines long, I'm not going to meet you! If you're not bothering much about your profile, it's likely you're not going to make much effort at the coffee meet or you'll stand me me up!
Totally agree. Effort put into your profile, public photos, some details in bio not just a line or two. Profile photo up etc. I have to say though I'm loving the dv8 Sunday socials. Meeting lots of new people there each week the last while & verified each of them as felt they'd made an effort to me. For me, it's easier meeting few people at once (time wise etc) but we all approach things our own ways really. Just my perspective feel free to message for info about meeting you at the Sunday socials.
Where can one get info on this Dv 8 meet?"
They'll have a thread about it, as it comes near the time for the next social. It might also be on the Fab event's for 2024 thread aswll. |
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"Lads, anybody wanting to meet me to get verified, message on this thread and I'll message you then! However if all your photos are in friends or have 1 or 2 lines long, I'm not going to meet you! If you're not bothering much about your profile, it's likely you're not going to make much effort at the coffee meet or you'll stand me me up!
Totally agree. Effort put into your profile, public photos, some details in bio not just a line or two. Profile photo up etc. I have to say though I'm loving the dv8 Sunday socials. Meeting lots of new people there each week the last while & verified each of them as felt they'd made an effort to me. For me, it's easier meeting few people at once (time wise etc) but we all approach things our own ways really. Just my perspective feel free to message for info about meeting you at the Sunday socials.
Where can one get info on this Dv 8 meet?
They'll have a thread about it, as it comes near the time for the next social. It might also be on the Fab event's for 2024 thread aswll."
Great! I'll be on the look out for it so! |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Very little to do tomorrow. Full of beer right now , but if I say I will I will.
Absolutely able to non-judgmental-ly verify someone.
Warning!!! If you're a freak , I'll tell everyone.
That could work in your benefit
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