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By *ilderMan 41 weeks ago
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"Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ?  "
Firstly ask two guys if they would be interested. Preferably ones that have experience but that's not essential as everyone has to start somewhere.
Preferably guys you've played with before so you know you're compatible but at the least have met socialy.
Explain in advance what vision of the experience you have in your head and what your likes and dislikes are (so they'll not be disappointed /surprised).
Then book a venue and arrange. Ensure you get someone reliable as you don't want to be left alone but fingers crossed. Beyond that have the usual safety measures in place, tell a friend where you're going etc etc.
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As someone who recently have started looking for one guy for MFM the best advice we could give you is take your time and eventually it will fall into place. We know finding two guys is even more challenging but do take your time as most guys will claim to be comfortable crossing swords with another guy but when their fantasy becomes reality they bottle it |
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They can be difficult as single girl most men will jump at the chance of FMF but will be reluctant to cross swords with another guy. Ideally get one guy you're comfortable playing with then scout for the other guy. Good luck I love MFM so much fun x |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I done this recently as a single lady and I spoke to the chosen men for weeks coming up to build a good connection . We discussed what was happening and expected and allowed so on the day no nerves and it was an amazing experience |
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Have you considered the M of a very well verified couple who are into MFM? He will be experienced, (probably) safe and can help find the elusive third.
Many single guys are not into MFM or have little experience.
Many couples play separately so don't rule them out i'd suggest. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ? "
Seen that one know fabber and his matte are looking for female to join. I seen few women verifying him and saying they had great MFM organised by him |
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By *s LollyWoman 41 weeks ago
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Check out the the profile of the Gangbang Bulls on here there a bunch of lads think about 6 who are all well verfied and very well experience ive chatting to one there lovely blokes  |
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By *eijaWoman 41 weeks ago
City Centre |
OP there are tons of posts of guys looking for a girl keep an eye on updates.
Personally, I've only had mfm's with two guys I've met before. You then know if the two guys might get on. I find if everyone is more relaxed and comfortable around each other it leads to better fun....it is actually worth the wait to find two suitable guys.
Best of luck...I absolutely love them  
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So this is how I started out. Single and looking for an MFM and I wasn't on Fab - yikes!
My starting point was a FWB who I trusted and was happy to facilitate. Finding a second guy involved a little more legwork! I narrowed it down eventually through chatting to 3 guys who I thought might fit the bill, and met each of them socially to see if I thought they'd be a good addition to the mix. I wanted to make sure that, not only did I get on with them, but that the two guys would gel also.
I found my guy but the threesome never happened but that's another story |
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"I would suggest you look at bi guys first. They would be half way to playing together.?"
I’d second this I’m bi myself but would never put any pressure on couple that purely play Straight. Good luck OP |
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By *og-ManMan 41 weeks ago
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"I would suggest you look at bi guys first. They would be half way to playing together.?
I’d second this I’m bi myself but would never put any pressure on couple that purely play Straight. Good luck OP"
Absolutely not unless thats part of the fantasy for the op
She's looking for an MFM so I dont think she is
Since 90 odd % of the men on fab are really straight and not just fab straight then thats who she needs to find
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Best bet is two guys who are bi and obviously there needs to be chemistry between those two lads and yourself.
When that scenario work's it's absolutely epic, nothing like a guy and a woman running their tongues up the shaft sucking and kissing each other and then sucking you again you kissing them them you, them them lol
If one individual doesn't fancy one it's a no go.
There has to be attraction on all three sides of the triangle in order for it to work.
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Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.
Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Persoanlly its nice to get on with the other guy of course, but doesnt mean we have to be best friends.
If you were to setup a group chat with yourself and the 2 guys, it would be a good start to them getting to know each other if they wanted that extra level of "comfort" |
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"Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.
Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?
They just have to accept your plan to make a straigt 3sum and have do be ok with it could be a close contact if you want a dp
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"Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.
Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?
Better way if they did before and it’s wrote on them vérification they met couple
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I think there is also prob a level of comfort for you and you feeling safer in yourself if you know the guys have at least messaged with you and know each other through messaging.
At the end of the day its about your safey which is paramout. |
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"Check out the the profile of the Gangbang Bulls on here there a bunch of lads think about 6 who are all well verfied and very well experience ive chatting to one there lovely blokes "
Why thank you Ms Lolly |
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By *ngle69Man 40 weeks ago
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"Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.
Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?
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Hi Nat
It's not about guys.. it's about you, guys don't need like each other the point is can they team up and work together with ease to please you I'm talking from my experience well more I've met several couples in past and main key for guys be chilled and relaxed and no cocky.. both should respect each other and concentrate to one goal, you! So it's pretty much same couple or two single guys.. once you trust one yous are just like a couple so just go and find other guy you both comfortable with. |
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"Ask a guy you already know and trust to be the first male."
I totally agree with this . You’re first step is a male you have a connection and trust with . The next will be the hard part . You might have a few socials to find a suitable candidate !!! I wish you lucky and if you get this right you’ll never look back . MFM all the way |
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I did organise a mmmf before. It took a long time organising. I spent months finding the right guys all of whom I'm still in contact with a year later. Finding my 3 stars was much fun and would advise OP to enjoy the journey as well as the destination x |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ?
For me I was interested but didn’t know how I would react if it did happen , I had suggested it to a regular, and then she brought her dildo along one night and added it in with double barrel blow and other scenarios and it was so hot, it’s a great way for a guy to get comfortable if he is just a little shy to the idea, that how it started for me! And was very comfortable and understood in a controlled environment what to do and not to do |
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By *ombikerMan 40 weeks ago
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"Any advice on how to organise a MFM as a single girl and be able to do it safely ? "
I would think your inbox was overwhelmed with messages offering assistance, 5 minutes after you posted that message. |
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"Guess I should invite two guys on here I like for a drink and see how we get on.
Is it important to men for a straight MFM who the other guy is? Like do they have to like each other or am I better off making that introduction ?
Hi Nat
It's not about guys.. it's about you, guys don't need like each other the point is can they team up and work together with ease to please you I'm talking from my experience well more I've met several couples in past and main key for guys be chilled and relaxed and no cocky.. both should respect each other and concentrate to one goal, you! So it's pretty much same couple or two single guys.. once you trust one yous are just like a couple so just go and find other guy you both comfortable with. "
Respectfully disagree. Of course its about the guys too. Sure why would you be there if you didn't want to feel pleasure.
I can only speak from my limited experience but when it's about everyone's pleasure and time is taken that everyone is comfortable with each other, the potential for exceeding expectations goes way up. |
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I guess the main things for me are being able to talk boundaries and finding chemistry with both.
What I like, what I don’t
Safe sex, no anal etc.
And it’s more than just finding two people who will fuck me together. I am a very chemistry person, so it still has to be hot despite my boundary setting. Maybe a night out, have a few drinks and a flirt and a build up
Almost felt like I should have sexual chemistry with both. But also together
I’ve gotten a lot of messages but it’s a lot of “Im in”. if this is something you’d be into, willing to meet up for a social (with me) and eventually another person, are verified with verifications I can read and can send me a photo (of your face) I’d be happy to take applications.
Please tell me a little bit more about you, what you’re like, what you think about when you cum.. a little bit more that “I would be into this”
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"I guess the main things for me are being able to talk boundaries and finding chemistry with both.
What I like, what I don’t
Safe sex, no anal etc.
And it’s more than just finding two people who will fuck me together. I am a very chemistry person, so it still has to be hot despite my boundary setting. Maybe a night out, have a few drinks and a flirt and a build up
Almost felt like I should have sexual chemistry with both. But also together
I’ve gotten a lot of messages but it’s a lot of “Im in”. if this is something you’d be into, willing to meet up for a social (with me) and eventually another person, are verified with verifications I can read and can send me a photo (of your face) I’d be happy to take applications.
Please tell me a little bit more about you, what you’re like, what you think about when you cum.. a little bit more that “I would be into this”
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I can only imagine the usual dreamers saying count me in. It took ages for me to find the second guy for MFM I wanted to have with Fwb. I had a lot of coffees! Was totally worth the effort had such a amazing night. It's worth putting the time in to find the right guys. |
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By *panishRebelMan 40 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
Hey opp. Interesting post.
As a fella who likes the FMF counter part and has had club moments with it, which isn't quite the same as an organised meet, I sympathise. There's not a lot of actual willing participants.
I have joined in a hotwife scenario a few times which I found fun. Being the third, however has definately an outsider feeling.
The posts above saying get two guys who know each other sounds like good advice to me.
If I was any where close I'd offer to buy you a coffee.
Good luck. |
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