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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Is there any cool guys on fab that want to meet for socials before actually expecting to have a ride!
We know it’s a shagging site but come on!
You’d hardly promise to ride someone you never met
So that aside, if any cool person wants to message us without an expectation of a ride on first site. Then we’d love to hear from you 
For sure people will message this and say they are blocked. But if that’s the case there is a reason for it. We have interests and we look for people who are similar |
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I prefer to meet socially first. And the more social events I attend the more I feel that's the way to go.
It's nice to meet like minded people and not necessarily having screwing top of the agenda but still have it there as a fun thing than can happen if it all lines up
I've definitely made more casual friends on fab than I have casual lovers. |
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I agree that a social meet is usually good first, but we all have different tastes and what is cool to one person may not be to the next. but yea I agree too many expect a one liner email to result in a quick shag |
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I'm half Cool by my profile ha ha. Yes i agree a social meet for a drink or a coffee is always a must. See how everyone gets on and there is a little connection with each other . Hav made alot of friends through socials . Widened the circle of friends |
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By *eijaWoman 38 weeks ago
City Centre |
I agree all the cool guys on here always meet for a social first  but definitely much easier to meet guys and get a 'feel' for someone at a social! And I don't mean 'a feel' literally 
There are socials on a couple of times a month and plenty of posts about them in Forums.
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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I must admit that both appeal to me , and a mixture of both as in meet , fuck, chat and get to know each other, then fuck again and repeat.
It's nice to get to know someone but it's also very nice not to know someone.
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By *iSi74Man 38 weeks ago
Drogheda, Meath, Dublin |
"Is there any cool guys on fab that want to meet for socials before actually expecting to have a ride!
We know it’s a shagging site but come on!
You’d hardly promise to ride someone you never met
So that aside, if any cool person wants to message us without an expectation of a ride on first site. Then we’d love to hear from you
For sure people will message this and say they are blocked. But if that’s the case there is a reason for it. We have interests and we look for people who are similar "
Always prefer some sort of socail meet 1st, no brain connection no physical connection.
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Has to be a social side to swinging not always about the ride
For me - meeting like minded peeps having the chat, the laugh and building connections and hopefully chemistry to go further
If it doesn’t what harm - none if it doesn’t. At the end of the day your getting to chat to like minded people on here |
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I have occasionally had meets that went straight to play but generally I’ve found that having a social first is a good rule. It allows either party to gently let the other person down if they don’t want things to go any further and also, if the chemistry works, builds anticipation for the eventual play meet. |
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"Is there any cool guys on fab that want to meet for socials before actually expecting to have a ride!
We know it’s a shagging site but come on!
You’d hardly promise to ride someone you never met
So that aside, if any cool person wants to message us without an expectation of a ride on first site. Then we’d love to hear from you
For sure people will message this and say they are blocked. But if that’s the case there is a reason for it. We have interests and we look for people who are similar "
Hopefully u find what ur looking for.There are plenty of decent guys on site .A social would be a good idea for ye .gives the chance to see if there is any chemistry then.
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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I'm happy to meet for coffee, to make a good connection, before anything else happens. Makes the fun all the better later on, takes away the awkwardness. A good conversation in a social setting can really tell alot. |
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By *alvin.Man 37 weeks ago
Cork/Dublin |
I'm generally grumpy. Is there a thread that applies to the likes of me. These happy threads are a pain in the arse.
See what I did there...Grumpy. 
Good luck OP. Reaching out is brave. Go catch a few Nice guys. |
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By *itlbeeCouple 37 weeks ago
Ireland |
I think it's pretty normal!
First, it makes sense from a safety point of view -something that's a concern for all women when meeting men.
Second, if you're meeting people as a couple, I need to be able to go away and discuss with my partner how we feel about someone. I wouldn't want to put them on the spot if I was keen and they weren't. |
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"If you find any cool guy's send them my way cause all mine ghost or cancel on me  "
How could anyone cool or otherwise ghost you? I only said a couple of words to you yesterday at LadynRed's but clearly you are a force of nature. Maybe you are too cool for them. |
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By *s LollyWoman 37 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"If you find any cool guy's send them my way cause all mine ghost or cancel on me
How could anyone cool or otherwise ghost you? I only said a couple of words to you yesterday at LadynRed's but clearly you are a force of nature. Maybe you are too cool for them."
Awwwwww thanks |
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