Follow him to the supermarket, when he’s lifting items of the shelf, accidentally bump into him, then get down and help him pick them up, then make eye contact while apologising, then go in for a kiss. It’s bound to work. |
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"Yes I did that thanks. I'm asking if, assuming there was interest, 99.9% sure there is, what would you do? "
Well then just go for it. Ask him if he'd be interested in going for a drink sometime. If he's not interested then so what, at least you'll know for sure. The poster above is right, life's too short to let opportunities like this pass you by. Let us know how it goes. Mrs  |
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By *lueLotus OP Woman 47 weeks ago
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"Yes I did that thanks. I'm asking if, assuming there was interest, 99.9% sure there is, what would you do?
Well then just go for it. Ask him if he'd be interested in going for a drink sometime. If he's not interested then so what, at least you'll know for sure. The poster above is right, life's too short to let opportunities like this pass you by. Let us know how it goes. Mrs "
Thanks I might just do that tmrw  |
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"Yes I did that thanks. I'm asking if, assuming there was interest, 99.9% sure there is, what would you do?
Well then just go for it. Ask him if he'd be interested in going for a drink sometime. If he's not interested then so what, at least you'll know for sure. The poster above is right, life's too short to let opportunities like this pass you by. Let us know how it goes. Mrs
Thanks I might just do that tmrw "
go for it girl nowt to loose and everything to gain hope it works out for you |
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"I'd have to be straight up about being a swinger. Oh but I'd love to have an fwb just down the road 
But if it all goes tits up I'll probably die  "
Perhaps he is on here but you don't know?
It's Christmas, bring over a bottle of whiskey, say you never saw him locally before and wanted to welcome him to the area. You'll see what vibe he gives back.
If you never noticed him before he might just introduce you to his wife etc who also lives with him, that would solve a good chunk of your query.
But if you start getting good vibes, just see where it goes. He might also have a shit personality |
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"I agree with everyone above. You've met, chatted, felt a little spark. Sure what more do you need. Ask him to join you!"
Fact. Talk to him. If he’s interested he’s interested if he’s not move on to the next nice looker. Don’t say anything about swinging shite until you know him better after meeting him a few times. A lot of men don’t like to share just like a lot of ladies don’t like to share either. Feel it out.
Nothing ventured nothing gained. Go for it …or hold your peace till the grave (with regret). |
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"I've had a nice hot builder guy proposition me while working in my house recently.....I gave him signs that I would partake in what ever he wanted...but I think I scared him off!! The jobs finished and he hasn't called back....little did he know!!
Fantasy Vs reality must have spooked him  "
You maybe came across as too easy. Flirty but not slutty |
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First decide you want from him.
a relationship or just good ol shagging.
Ask him out and just let him know ur interested in him and possible looking for a fwb.
I would be surprised if he didn't take you up on the offer |
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By *lueLotus OP Woman 47 weeks ago
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"I've had a nice hot builder guy proposition me while working in my house recently.....I gave him signs that I would partake in what ever he wanted...but I think I scared him off!! The jobs finished and he hasn't called back....little did he know!!
Fantasy Vs reality must have spooked him "
Should have been sluttier he probably wasn't sure if it was okay! Now he can't call back because that would be too creepy of him if you weren't 100% on board, which he's not sure about?
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By *lueLotus OP Woman 47 weeks ago
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"First decide you want from him.
a relationship or just good ol shagging.
Ask him out and just let him know ur interested in him and possible looking for a fwb.
I would be surprised if he didn't take you up on the offer"
Thanks yes definitely not a relationship a regular shagging with no strings would be amazing I think the whole place would know what we were up to though... The more rural the area the nosier the neighbours lol it's comforting to know they be clocking everything but also restrictive  |
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"Just recently became super aware of a red hot single guy living literally a minutes walk from my house in a very rural area.... He's not on fab. What would you do? "
Bump in to him smile ask you new round here , just ask .See if smiles what feed back then suggest coffee some time . |
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"I've had a nice hot builder guy proposition me while working in my house recently.....I gave him signs that I would partake in what ever he wanted...but I think I scared him off!! The jobs finished and he hasn't called back....little did he know!!
Fantasy Vs reality must have spooked him
Should have been sluttier he probably wasn't sure if it was okay! Now he can't call back because that would be too creepy of him if you weren't 100% on board, which he's not sure about?
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What's meant for ya won't pass ya....as they say!! |
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By *alvin.Man 47 weeks ago
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Just ask him to go for a coffee with you. He won't say no. Politeness and curiosity will prevail. Just like a cute-meet right out of a Bridget Jones film. (be the star of your own movie)
Be brave and maybe fortune will come. Food luck and happy new year to you. |
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"Just ask him to go for a coffee with you. He won't say no. Politeness and curiosity will prevail. Just like a cute-meet right out of a Bridget Jones film. (be the star of your own movie)
Be brave and maybe fortune will come. Food luck and happy new year to you. "
I have a drill any shelving you need putting up ! |
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"Just ask him to go for a coffee with you. He won't say no. Politeness and curiosity will prevail. Just like a cute-meet right out of a Bridget Jones film. (be the star of your own movie)
Be brave and maybe fortune will come. Food luck and happy new year to you. "
Don't think auld Bridget is the best gal to taking advice from Lol |
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