Sorry, I am new to this, but I have a question regarding messaging. I understand that if someone doesn't respond to your message, they don't want to talk. Fine, but what happens when the message is left unread? In one case, someone even browsed my profile but still left my message unread. In this case the message is left unread for days. Do I treat this as they don't want to talk? |
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"I could be wrong but if messages are unread then if you try to message again the site warns you that your messages didn't get replied to so not to message again "
Ya, that's true Bog. 
In my experience OP, an unread message, message read, not replied to or deleted. Means they're not interested in replying to you OP. So just forget about it & move on. If they're interested in you, they'll reply to you there & then or sometime in the future again.
Try not to take it serious OP. |
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That's fine, I am very green at this so it was a serious question. I was confused by the nature of the message being left unread. I am not taking this personally, I am happy to move on. I just didn't want to cause offence. |
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"That's fine, I am very green at this so it was a serious question. I was confused by the nature of the message being left unread. I am not taking this personally, I am happy to move on. I just didn't want to cause offence."
Ya, I know what you mean alright OP. It can be a head wrecker at the start. You get used to it over time. Ya, do that, move on OP. Eas off the messages OP, you'll be better off for it, in the end. |
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Ah.... that's where I've been going wrong.
If at first they don't reply, just send more.... 
Was honestly amazed when I joined the site finding out the number of daily messages most ladies received. |
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Could be she’s not interested or undecided.
Up to you after that. Touch base again or move along. If you’ve to touch base more than once- they’re not serious about fun. Move on to the next person. |
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"Could be she’s not interested or undecided.
Up to you after that. Touch base again or move along. If you’ve to touch base more than once- they’re not serious about fun. Move on to the next person. "
Not serious about fun? How about not interested in engaging with the sender? |
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I tend to delete messages that are a first contact after I send them. I generally wouldn't in an ongoing conversation.
Of course people could use the Mark As Unread option to revert them back. Leaves too much double guessing and lift is too short for that  |
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"I could be wrong but if messages are unread then if you try to message again the site warns you that your messages didn't get replied to so not to message again "
They can still read them, so long as they don't reply you'll receive a warning..
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