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Very Awkard situation I went to drop in a parcel that was delivered to our house. Obviously they were expecting someone else but the neighbours opened the door well let’s say she wasn’t dressed for going out and they certainly didn’t expect me. Was all a bit red faced situation. I also copped another couple I had met years ago were there. They were obviously having a mini party as I was going another couple arrived. |
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By *ano53Man 50 weeks ago
Wicklow |
"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird  "
Sounds like .... U are gonna b in for lots of fun now ... |
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By *erry cMan 50 weeks ago
Longford westmeath |
"op don't let it be awkward I've 3 people from my estate on here, we just wave if walking by, all adults, met another in our local shop just act normal  "
portlaoise must b a small world |
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Seen neighbour at house party before and left quickly before she seen me.
Always regretted it we were both there for same reasons.
Was in club in London years ago and also met cpl I knew we chatted and laughed it off. |
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My neighbour defo feels awkward not as chatty as usual. Probably wondering what I am thinking, or embarrassed as to what I saw. All I can say is what I saw turned me on ??. Not sure if I should say something as feel the may be worried I might talk. Which I’m not!!! |
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By *og-ManMan 50 weeks ago
somewhere |
"My neighbour defo feels awkward not as chatty as usual. Probably wondering what I am thinking, or embarrassed as to what I saw. All I can say is what I saw turned me on ??. Not sure if I should say something as feel the may be worried I might talk. Which I’m not!!!"
But you are by posting this on the forums if they are on fab |
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"My neighbour defo feels awkward not as chatty as usual. Probably wondering what I am thinking, or embarrassed as to what I saw. All I can say is what I saw turned me on ??. Not sure if I should say something as feel the may be worried I might talk. Which I’m not!!!"
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"My neighbour defo feels awkward not as chatty as usual. Probably wondering what I am thinking, or embarrassed as to what I saw. All I can say is what I saw turned me on ??. Not sure if I should say something as feel the may be worried I might talk. Which I’m not!!!"
I can only imagine!! Maybe they’re unaware that you swing too and are just embarrassed by how they were dressed? You say you’re married on your profile so I guess if the Mrs doesn’t know you may need to tread lightly with it being a neighbour…. |
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"My neighbour defo feels awkward not as chatty as usual. Probably wondering what I am thinking, or embarrassed as to what I saw. All I can say is what I saw turned me on ??. Not sure if I should say something as feel the may be worried I might talk. Which I’m not!!!
I can only imagine!! Maybe they’re unaware that you swing too and are just embarrassed by how they were dressed? You say you’re married on your profile so I guess if the Mrs doesn’t know you may need to tread lightly with it being a neighbour…."
Yea defo I’m not sure if the other couple in the back ground I knew from the past saw or recognised me. Can’t be sure, some how I don’t think so, was through a glass door. |
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By *andytownMan 50 weeks ago
Gods Own Country |
"My neighbour defo feels awkward not as chatty as usual. Probably wondering what I am thinking, or embarrassed as to what I saw. All I can say is what I saw turned me on ??. Not sure if I should say something as feel the may be worried I might talk. Which I’m not!!!
I can only imagine!! Maybe they’re unaware that you swing too and are just embarrassed by how they were dressed? You say you’re married on your profile so I guess if the Mrs doesn’t know you may need to tread lightly with it being a neighbour….
Yea defo I’m not sure if the other couple in the back ground I knew from the past saw or recognised me. Can’t be sure, some how I don’t think so, was through a glass door."
Ahhhh the looking-glass |
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You should probably reassure them that their secret is safe with you and they have nothing at all to worry about. Don't mention meeting immediately as reassurance is probably what they are looking for first. Then you can contact them privately and propose something once everyone is reassured and happy and comfortable. |
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"You should probably reassure them that their secret is safe with you and they have nothing at all to worry about. Don't mention meeting immediately as reassurance is probably what they are looking for first. Then you can contact them privately and propose something once everyone is reassured and happy and comfortable."
Playing away from home normally means not propositioning your neighbours  |
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"You should probably reassure them that their secret is safe with you and they have nothing at all to worry about. Don't mention meeting immediately as reassurance is probably what they are looking for first. Then you can contact them privately and propose something once everyone is reassured and happy and comfortable."
Is it safe? Considering the secret keeper has come onto here to tell the entire community. Even though details are few it's still enough....
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"You should probably reassure them that their secret is safe with you and they have nothing at all to worry about. Don't mention meeting immediately as reassurance is probably what they are looking for first. Then you can contact them privately and propose something once everyone is reassured and happy and comfortable.
Playing away from home normally means not propositioning your neighbours "
I'm pretty vocal with my thoughts on cheating on here so I probably don't need to restate that lol
But even still this couple might be panicking as for some people it's a big big secret, and they could do with a little no pressure reassurance. |
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"You should probably reassure them that their secret is safe with you and they have nothing at all to worry about. Don't mention meeting immediately as reassurance is probably what they are looking for first. Then you can contact them privately and propose something once everyone is reassured and happy and comfortable.
Playing away from home normally means not propositioning your neighbours
I'm pretty vocal with my thoughts on cheating on here so I probably don't need to restate that lol
But even still this couple might be panicking as for some people it's a big big secret, and they could do with a little no pressure reassurance."
Yeah I figured you hadn't realised he was attached |
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I guess my thoughts were with the couple and the worries they might have about being found out, but it's true that the attached man looking to proposition the couple next door despite the fact that they undoubtedly know he is attached, makes the whole story have a whiff of either total stupidity or utter bullshit. |
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By *ustBoWoman 50 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I find it odd that you find it awkward that your neighbours are swingers,I don't see why it should be an issue really.
I also don't think you should even consider having any swinging fun with them if they were interested and know you are on here then they would approach you. Which to be fair is highly unlikely a bit like this whole story .
And to be fair if you are attached then you have a hell of a lot more to lose by it getting out or making it awkward. |
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I guess my thoughts were with the couple and the worries they might have about being found out, but it's true that the attached man looking to proposition the couple next door despite the fact that they undoubtedly know he is attached, makes the whole story have a whiff of either total stupidity or utter bullshit."
All sounds like a porn scenario. Talking through his hat |
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"You should probably reassure them that their secret is safe with you and they have nothing at all to worry about. Don't mention meeting immediately as reassurance is probably what they are looking for first. Then you can contact them privately and propose something once everyone is reassured and happy and comfortable.
Is it safe? Considering the secret keeper has come onto here to tell the entire community. Even though details are few it's still enough....
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exactly my first thoughts. How can they trust the op when he was quick to blab on here. What if they're on here and are reading this? |
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"op don't let it be awkward I've 3 people from my estate on here, we just wave if walking by, all adults, met another in our local shop just act normal portlaoise must b a small world "
It is,everyone knows everyone's business. |
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Who cares anyway? It's not like they are murderers or criminals so you all should keep it to yourselves and that's about it. That's the adult thing to do. Nothing awkward about it, mostly because you are on fabswingers, therefore, you should know the drill. I have met people I know on here and we still act "normal" when we pass each other. |
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"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird "
Where you up late last night watching pornographic material? Certainly seems a bit sussy. Think I've watched that movie before. |
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"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird
Where you up late last night watching pornographic material? Certainly seems a bit sussy. Think I've watched that movie before."
It's absolutely none of your business.
You are indiscreet and not to be trusted.
You should have the common sense to know never shxt in your own backyard.
Walk away, and stop stirring the shxt in a small town.
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Thanks to every one for the genuine response and good advice
First off for those of you who think I was about getting with the that was never the case,to close to home and would never happen and I wouldn’t want it too, never suggested that.
Secondly it has all been dealt with like adults should, and is history now. And all are comfortable.
I still have to say was taken back. All is good that ends well. |
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"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird
Where you up late last night watching pornographic material? Certainly seems a bit sussy. Think I've watched that movie before.
It's absolutely none of your business.
You are indiscreet and not to be trusted.
You should have the common sense to know never shxt in your own backyard.
Walk away, and stop stirring the shxt in a small town.
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Be careful or you will be banned again |
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"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird
Where you up late last night watching pornographic material? Certainly seems a bit sussy. Think I've watched that movie before.
It's absolutely none of your business.
You are indiscreet and not to be trusted.
You should have the common sense to know never shxt in your own backyard.
Walk away, and stop stirring the shxt in a small town.
Be careful or you will be banned again"
It's a badge of honour  |
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Ive bumped into so far : neighbours, relatives, school mates, a teacher from my school days, customers from my job , colleagues, teammates through out the years on different profiles on Fab. Awkward at first but I just carry on as normal and dont judge and keep it to myself, discretion asssured as we say |
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By *igertigerCouple (MM) 49 weeks ago
nr Letterkenny |
"OMG just found out by accident that my neighbours are avid swingers. Has this happened anyone else. It a bit awkward how I found but it feels all” a bit weird "
I really don't see why you're posting discretion is always key. I'd say you're in fantasy land. |
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