It would depend. Is it a coffee meet or meeting for sex? It's highly unlikely I'd kiss someone on the mouth on a coffee meet unless the attraction was very strong. If we were meeting for sex then attraction would have already been established.
Some people see kissing as just too intimate for Fab activities, and that's fine. Everyone has their boundaries and limits. The trick is finding someone who matches yours without berating those who don't. |
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"It would depend. Is it a coffee meet or meeting for sex? It's highly unlikely I'd kiss someone on the mouth on a coffee meet unless the attraction was very strong. If we were meeting for sex then attraction would have already been established.
Some people see kissing as just too intimate for Fab activities, and that's fine. Everyone has their boundaries and limits. The trick is finding someone who matches yours without berating those who don't."
I know it might sound weird, but kissing is just for us, having sex with someone else is different.. we like to keep kissing just for us. If that makes sense to anyone.. |
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"It would depend. Is it a coffee meet or meeting for sex? It's highly unlikely I'd kiss someone on the mouth on a coffee meet unless the attraction was very strong. If we were meeting for sex then attraction would have already been established.
Some people see kissing as just too intimate for Fab activities, and that's fine. Everyone has their boundaries and limits. The trick is finding someone who matches yours without berating those who don't.
I know it might sound weird, but kissing is just for us, having sex with someone else is different.. we like to keep kissing just for us. If that makes sense to anyone.."
Makes perfect sense to me. Similar when I was with my partner. I just didn't want to kiss anyone other than him and it was an intimacy I only wanted to share with him |
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"It would depend. Is it a coffee meet or meeting for sex? It's highly unlikely I'd kiss someone on the mouth on a coffee meet unless the attraction was very strong. If we were meeting for sex then attraction would have already been established.
Some people see kissing as just too intimate for Fab activities, and that's fine. Everyone has their boundaries and limits. The trick is finding someone who matches yours without berating those who don't.
I know it might sound weird, but kissing is just for us, having sex with someone else is different.. we like to keep kissing just for us. If that makes sense to anyone..
Makes perfect sense to me. Similar when I was with my partner. I just didn't want to kiss anyone other than him and it was an intimacy I only wanted to share with him"
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"It would depend. Is it a coffee meet or meeting for sex? It's highly unlikely I'd kiss someone on the mouth on a coffee meet unless the attraction was very strong. If we were meeting for sex then attraction would have already been established.
Some people see kissing as just too intimate for Fab activities, and that's fine. Everyone has their boundaries and limits. The trick is finding someone who matches yours without berating those who don't.
I know it might sound weird, but kissing is just for us, having sex with someone else is different.. we like to keep kissing just for us. If that makes sense to anyone..
Makes perfect sense to me. Similar when I was with my partner. I just didn't want to kiss anyone other than him and it was an intimacy I only wanted to share with him
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I can’t imagine having sex with anyone without kissing them 1st.
Stop looking at sex as a transaction and more towards an experience with the said person/people you will enjoy it way more. That’s my opinion anyways. |
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If you're asking about people having a "no kissing" rule, they exist but they are rare.
I hear there more common among newbie couples and it's one of the first things to get dropped.
Being sexual without kissing feels weird to us. Sex is inherently intimate.
I think for couples who do this they warm things up with their own partner before swapping for sex. |
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Kissing is an important part of a meet to me. It shows how powerful it is if people think a situation is not intimate and can detach themselves by removing it.
It is the most personal part of sex and I need to feel that connection with someone. |
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Kissing for me (male) is my way to ascertain sexual Attraction. I can see someone and think “yes you are attractive” but that could be the same as looking at a pretty flower or a nice looking car. For there to be sexual attraction, the kiss has to be had and if it isn’t for me in the kiss, they aren’t for me in the bedroom.
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By *ingpot!Man
over a year ago
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"If they're no kissing we won't be meeting. We use it as a way to ascertain chemistry "
Absolutely ^^
To each their own of course and absolutely understand why some people don't allow it during extramarital play but sex without kissing is pointless imo |
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