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By *aul 74 OP Man
over a year ago
Donegal |
I’m trying to work out if it’s possible… that every single woman has the ability to squirt. I personally think so, once you’ve learned the technique, results seem consistent. The technique worked on the last 8 women, 5 said it was their first time, have I just had a lucky run and the next woman will prove me wrong? I love squirting, but I respect that some don’t like the idea of it. Curious on everyone’s experiences. |
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I'm afraid you have left those 5 women to a lifetime of extra housework (i.e. bedsheet washing and soaked mattresses) as well as the other inconveniences of squirting. It's not something you should be proud of imo because when you force open those floodgates, they can't be closed again. I'm sorry I ever allowed that guy to fingerblast me. That's just my own experience, but I know that others don't mind and some enjoy it. Porn has a lot to answer for. Mrs  |
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By *oudicaWoman
over a year ago
Kilkenny |
Can I squirt - yes, do I wish that every guy I played with didn’t try to make me squirt - yes times a thousand!
So many guys are obsessed with making girls squirt that they seem to overlook the fact that fingerblasting away at someone can be frankly uncomfortable and a real lady horn killer. Not saying this is the case for you OP but threads such as this give fuel to the “they can all squirt if you blast them right” mentality which turns it into a sport that not every lady wants to participate in.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Ugh absolutely hate it when men tell me they have a magic technique that will make me squirt. No I haven't ever squirted.And I'm not that bothered by the fact I haven't. It's not an orgasm anyhow so I think I'm not missing out on much apart from cleaning up a mess after like said above. |
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"Can I squirt - yes, do I wish that every guy I played with didn’t try to make me squirt - yes times a thousand!
So many guys are obsessed with making girls squirt that they seem to overlook the fact that fingerblasting away at someone can be frankly uncomfortable and a real lady horn killer. Not saying this is the case for you OP but threads such as this give fuel to the “they can all squirt if you blast them right” mentality which turns it into a sport that not every lady wants to participate in.
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This!!! It's an obsession to some and for me personally it fucking hurts being rummaged about in so harshly. I love being played with so much but it really does make me angry when someone just pile drives in there like it's a tombola box! |
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By *aul 74 OP Man
over a year ago
Donegal |
"I'm afraid you have left those 5 women to a lifetime of extra housework (i.e. bedsheet washing and soaked mattresses) as well as the other inconveniences of squirting. It's not something you should be proud of imo because when you force open those floodgates, they can't be closed again. I'm sorry I ever allowed that guy to fingerblast me. That's just my own experience, but I know that others don't mind and some enjoy it. Porn has a lot to answer for. Mrs "
yikes didn’t realise it made the next time more likely. Something to be conscious of. it’s something that should be be given explicitly consent before someone does it. |
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It's not a particularly difficult technique to learn in fairness.
Learning a womans body until you can make her cum with the tip of your finger is something much more to be proud of.
I discovered it at the same time as my ex did a couple of years ago. Sure it's fun of both are into it but it is messy and does need to be prepared for.
In my experience since then if a woman is into and wants it to happen she will say so (and give fair warning) and I go with that and prep accordingly. It's a very aggressive way to treat a vagina so as far as I'm concerned it's invitation only.
I have one friend who brings a waterproof mattress protector with her to meets so she doesn't destroy their mattress as she squirts naturally during penetration.
I wouldn't appreciate having my mattress wrecked without warning.
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"Ugh absolutely hate it when men tell me they have a magic technique that will make me squirt. No I haven't ever squirted.And I'm not that bothered by the fact I haven't. It's not an orgasm anyhow so I think I'm not missing out on much apart from cleaning up a mess after like said above. "
Porn has a lot to answer for!
When will this just get filed under water sports!? |
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By *aul 74 OP Man
over a year ago
Donegal |
"Can I squirt - yes, do I wish that every guy I played with didn’t try to make me squirt - yes times a thousand!
So many guys are obsessed with making girls squirt that they seem to overlook the fact that fingerblasting away at someone can be frankly uncomfortable and a real lady horn killer. Not saying this is the case for you OP but threads such as this give fuel to the “they can all squirt if you blast them right” mentality which turns it into a sport that not every lady wants to participate in.
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yeah I’ve realised that squirting and an orgasm are 2 separate things, Fingerblasting sounds a bit violent. Not necessary at all in my experience. Understand the sport analogy, making women squirt being about ego massaging rather than giving pleasure |
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I suspect most women can be made to squirt with enough effort, although many require very little effort... but its a poor thing to aim for as it can be rather indelicate and is far from the climax. I'd way rather have an intimate seductive meet and tease out a few cums rather than fixating on squirting. |
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By *aul 74 OP Man
over a year ago
Donegal |
"It's not a particularly difficult technique to learn in fairness.
Learning a womans body until you can make her cum with the tip of your finger is something much more to be proud of.
I discovered it at the same time as my ex did a couple of years ago. Sure it's fun of both are into it but it is messy and does need to be prepared for.
In my experience since then if a woman is into and wants it to happen she will say so (and give fair warning) and I go with that and prep accordingly. It's a very aggressive way to treat a vagina so as far as I'm concerned it's invitation only.
I have one friend who brings a waterproof mattress protector with her to meets so she doesn't destroy their mattress as she squirts naturally during penetration.
I wouldn't appreciate having my mattress wrecked without warning.
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yes I agree orgasms are squirting are separate things. your friend with the mattress protector is a considerate squirter. I have experienced someone who squirted without any penetration. Every person is different. |
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It’s a different orgasm than penetration I mainly squirt when fingered but when it comes it comes a lot.
It really can be a pain coz everything get soaked and the clean up is hard when ur legs are still shaking.
We have ruined so many sheets  |
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over a year ago
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"It's not a particularly difficult technique to learn in fairness.
Learning a womans body until you can make her cum with the tip of your finger is something much more to be proud of.
I discovered it at the same time as my ex did a couple of years ago. Sure it's fun of both are into it but it is messy and does need to be prepared for.
In my experience since then if a woman is into and wants it to happen she will say so (and give fair warning) and I go with that and prep accordingly. It's a very aggressive way to treat a vagina so as far as I'm concerned it's invitation only.
I have one friend who brings a waterproof mattress protector with her to meets so she doesn't destroy their mattress as she squirts naturally during penetration.
I wouldn't appreciate having my mattress wrecked without warning.
yes I agree orgasms are squirting are separate things. your friend with the mattress protector is a considerate squirter. I have experienced someone who squirted without any penetration. Every person is different. "
Indeed every person is different, so I don't really have time for talk of a tried and tested technique. Anyone rustling about in my vagina like they're looking for a pen at the bottom of a handbag is likely to get short shrift |
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over a year ago
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"It's not a particularly difficult technique to learn in fairness.
Learning a womans body until you can make her cum with the tip of your finger is something much more to be proud of.
I discovered it at the same time as my ex did a couple of years ago. Sure it's fun of both are into it but it is messy and does need to be prepared for.
In my experience since then if a woman is into and wants it to happen she will say so (and give fair warning) and I go with that and prep accordingly. It's a very aggressive way to treat a vagina so as far as I'm concerned it's invitation only.
I have one friend who brings a waterproof mattress protector with her to meets so she doesn't destroy their mattress as she squirts naturally during penetration.
I wouldn't appreciate having my mattress wrecked without warning.
yes I agree orgasms are squirting are separate things. your friend with the mattress protector is a considerate squirter. I have experienced someone who squirted without any penetration. Every person is different.
Indeed every person is different, so I don't really have time for talk of a tried and tested technique. Anyone rustling about in my vagina like they're looking for a pen at the bottom of a handbag is likely to get short shrift"
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I've been with two women who did it. I didn't put a finger inside either of them nor was the foreplay or sex in any way rough. It's never been a goal of mine. It gives the ego a little boost I guess if such a boost is needed. |
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"Sorry we both think it's pissing many blokes have said they would make her do it but no success yet "
If a woman is not willing to release her bladder during a sexual encounter she's not going to "squirt".
For some, this could happen involuntarily. But for the majority it has to be desired. |
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"Sorry we both think it's pissing many blokes have said they would make her do it but no success yet
If a woman is not willing to release her bladder during a sexual encounter she's not going to "squirt".
For some, this could happen involuntarily. But for the majority it has to be desired."
Absolutely spot on. The woman has to be relaxed once she is relaxed and willing let it go it will get very wet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m trying to work out if it’s possible… that every single woman has the ability to squirt. I personally think so, once you’ve learned the technique, results seem consistent. The technique worked on the last 8 women, 5 said it was their first time, have I just had a lucky run and the next woman will prove me wrong? I love squirting, but I respect that some don’t like the idea of it. Curious on everyone’s experiences. "
The squirt master himself ..line up ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was with an extreme squirter before ..destroyed a mattress ..never again it's the inconvenience of cleaning up afterwards is the problem..nearly better off having sex outside where making a mess won't matter |
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By *aughty MilfCouple
over a year ago
Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland |
"Was with an extreme squirter before ..destroyed a mattress ..never again it's the inconvenience of cleaning up afterwards is the problem..nearly better off having sex outside where making a mess won't matter "
Book a hotel room .....
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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
"Was with an extreme squirter before ..destroyed a mattress ..never again it's the inconvenience of cleaning up afterwards is the problem..nearly better off having sex outside where making a mess won't matter Book a hotel room ....."
That's right book a room.... ??????
Only once been with a squirter. It just happened. I liked the warm feeling and it definitely was during her orgasm.... Lucky for me she orgasmed easily.
We had a few weeks of it.
Mostly twas her sheets so I didn't mind the clean up.... |
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over a year ago
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"I was told I'm not a squirter .. maybe I'm not relaxed enough  Id say guy may not have been experienced enough to say that
He made other ladies squirt so he said .. I'd say its just me  I guarantee my hubby would succeed were he's failed"
It's on my bucket list to try .. but after been told I'm not a squirter.. and I know its me I can't relax and let go .. that's the truth
Anyway it's me
Goodnight x |
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By *aughty MilfCouple
over a year ago
Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland |
"I was told I'm not a squirter .. maybe I'm not relaxed enough Id say guy may not have been experienced enough to say that
He made other ladies squirt so he said .. I'd say its just me I guarantee my hubby would succeed were he's failed
It's on my bucket list to try .. but after been told I'm not a squirter.. and I know its me I can't relax and let go .. that's the truth
Anyway it's me
Goodnight x"
I didn't always squirt so a guy saying that is talking crap lol |
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We know some ladies that can and some that can't and yes I can too .we feel that it's to do with the relaxation state of the lady and how comfortable her partner is making her.we don't actively advertise the fact that I can squirt but if it happens on a meet we will already have had a discussion with the person/persons joining us at the beginning of activities |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
Be warned booking a hotel room without making preparations. Hotels have been known to charge for the price of replacing a soaked mattress!
I do also find that if a woman squirts, it washes out the natural lubrication of the vagina and lube is required. That's when it's real G spot squirt of course, not pissing.
Some don't know the difference.
Just off the grab some popcorn  |
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over a year ago
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"Was with an extreme squirter before ..destroyed a mattress ..never again it's the inconvenience of cleaning up afterwards is the problem..nearly better off having sex outside where making a mess won't matter Book a hotel room ....."
And pay a soiling charge no thanks ..a hotel would claim you urinated all over the mattress so you have to pay up same goes for other damage caused in a hotel room |
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By *aul 74 OP Man
over a year ago
Donegal |
"If only some men put as much effort into the messages they claim don't get them replies, as they do trying to get a woman to squirt... "
you should put that in your bio…might get rid of the “fancy a shag” messages |
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"Be warned booking a hotel room without making preparations. Hotels have been known to charge for the price of replacing a soaked mattress!
I do also find that if a woman squirts, it washes out the natural lubrication of the vagina and lube is required. That's when it's real G spot squirt of course, not pissing.
Some don't know the difference.
Just off the grab some popcorn "
Ahh yes, the notorious "g-spot squirt"  |
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By *aul 74 OP Man
over a year ago
Donegal |
"I was told I'm not a squirter .. maybe I'm not relaxed enough Id say guy may not have been experienced enough to say that
He made other ladies squirt so he said .. I'd say its just me I guarantee my hubby would succeed were he's failed
It's on my bucket list to try .. but after been told I'm not a squirter.. and I know its me I can't relax and let go .. that's the truth
Anyway it's me
Goodnight x"
don’t let one person’s opinion make you feel it’s your fault. He probably couldn’t do it and blamed you because he felt inadequate. |
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I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry at most of this thread. 
Christ almighty, we are now basically trying to work out whose fault it is that some women aren't able to relax enough to piss all over the bed. |
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"I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry at most of this thread.
Christ almighty, we are now basically trying to work out whose fault it is that some women aren't able to relax enough to piss all over the bed. "
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"I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry at most of this thread.
Christ almighty, we are now basically trying to work out whose fault it is that some women aren't able to relax enough to piss all over the bed. "
I'd laugh if it wasn't so tragic. 3/4 of the messages I get are asking if I do |
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"Conclusions. The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.”
I'm still looking for more information on this magical G-Spot squirt.
Also looking for a map to the g-spot |
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"I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry at most of this thread.
Christ almighty, we are now basically trying to work out whose fault it is that some women aren't able to relax enough to piss all over the bed. "
But no. It's nothing to do with how relaxed a woman is - her body can do it or it can't.
I can't roll my tongue, some women can. See.. we're all different - it's not something that's there that we just haven't found a way to do. |
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""Conclusions. The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.”
I'm still looking for more information on this magical G-Spot squirt.
Also looking for a map to the g-spot"
The sad part is, some women just enjoy watersports, and there is nothing wrong with that!
That they've had to create some sort of sexual superman who 'made her do it", that is tragic!
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"I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry at most of this thread.
Christ almighty, we are now basically trying to work out whose fault it is that some women aren't able to relax enough to piss all over the bed.
But no. It's nothing to do with how relaxed a woman is - her body can do it or it can't.
I can't roll my tongue, some women can. See.. we're all different - it's not something that's there that we just haven't found a way to do."
You just haven't met the right man to make your tongue roll |
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"I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry at most of this thread.
Christ almighty, we are now basically trying to work out whose fault it is that some women aren't able to relax enough to piss all over the bed.
But no. It's nothing to do with how relaxed a woman is - her body can do it or it can't.
I can't roll my tongue, some women can. See.. we're all different - it's not something that's there that we just haven't found a way to do."
All women have the ability to empty their bladder though. Emptying it mid coitus is not everyone's cup cup of tea, or piss as it happens |
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By *2357Woman
over a year ago
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I know i can't squirt but men still try to make me even though i have told them. I had kidney problems when I was a child. To my head won't allow it to happen. Because it has been trained not to wet anything. Just can't understand if you say you can't do it. Then it should be lefted at that. Just my opinion. |
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over a year ago
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I googled it and got:
'The 'debate' continues to rage: is it pee or not? Well, it's a little bit pee and a lot a fluid found in the prostate?!
Basically, the urethral sponge (a glandular tissue that produces lubricant), which is the location of the "g-spot" secretes the lubricating fluid into the urethra and it flows back into the bladder.
When a woman has a big enough orgasm and has a degree of urinary incontinence the fluid will come out. The fluid could be seen as the equivalent to "precum" in men.'
So in the end, does it really matter what it is if it feels good?
It's not a contest and being able to gush or make a woman gush, doesn't make either the guy or woman better at sex.
Sex is to be enjoyed by all parties involved so chill and relax
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"I googled it and got:
'The 'debate' continues to rage: is it pee or not? Well, it's a little bit pee and a lot a fluid found in the prostate?!
Basically, the urethral sponge (a glandular tissue that produces lubricant), which is the location of the "g-spot" secretes the lubricating fluid into the urethra and it flows back into the bladder.
When a woman has a big enough orgasm and has a degree of urinary incontinence the fluid will come out. The fluid could be seen as the equivalent to "precum" in men.'
So in the end, does it really matter what it is if it feels good?
It's not a contest and being able to gush or make a woman gush, doesn't make either the guy or woman better at sex.
Sex is to be enjoyed by all parties involved so chill and relax
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I get more of a laugh from those who literally try and deny very basic junior cert level biology in favour of promoting their exceptional sexual ability.
The secretions are literally what makes any woman "wet". The volume is miniscule, and it certainly doesn't squirt, that's where the piss comes in!
Is watersports such a taboo for some that we've come up with this stuff?
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"I was told I'm not a squirter .. maybe I'm not relaxed enough Id say guy may not have been experienced enough to say that
He made other ladies squirt so he said .. I'd say its just me I guarantee my hubby would succeed were he's failed
It's on my bucket list to try .. but after been told I'm not a squirter.. and I know its me I can't relax and let go .. that's the truth
Anyway it's me
Goodnight x I didn't always squirt so a guy saying that is talking crap lol"
Why is he talking crap? Some women will never. Some are quite happy with that situation. I find the use of language like "can" squirt or "making" someone squirt a bit distasteful, like it's a badge of honour and you're somehow inadequate if you can't, or haven't made someone squirt.
Ffs what happened to just relaxing and enjoying each other  |
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Some ladies cum a little others come alot. Some squirt and some don’t. My first fab meet was a squirter- a first for me. It was fun until she blasted my eye n throat - blinded & nearly cho ked me. Now I know how the women feel with a facial without warning ha. Well she got a good laugh anyway.
Another bonus is the extra horny, pussy scented body, bed/car and panties. Sign of a job well done that gets ya hard again on way home. |
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""Conclusions. The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.”
I'm still looking for more information on this magical G-Spot squirt.
Also looking for a map to the g-spot"
There is research showing that the gspot is actually clitoral stimulation from the inside vaginal wall as the clitoris is actually a much larger organ than can be seen externally and can be stimulated from the inside. As per your quote, squirt comes from the bladder, comes out of the urethra, and is nearly entirely urine. The bladder is scanned with ultrasound and liquid measured before and after squirting and is shown to be emptied. |
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"Most women Ive met didnt know how good orgasms it brings.
I think you'll find it's the other way around. Mrs "
How dare you as a woman claim to know more about your body than us men. I mean, really..
"Women! Know your limits!"
https://youtu.be/LS37SNYjg8w?si=dU4TNdSU-v7nfnlE |
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"Most women Ive met didnt know how good orgasms it brings.
I think you'll find it's the other way around. Mrs
How dare you as a woman claim to know more about your body than us men. I mean, really..
"Women! Know your limits!"
https://youtu.be/LS37SNYjg8w?si=dU4TNdSU-v7nfnlE"
Mmmmm ... that must explain the beard |
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"Most women Ive met didnt know how good orgasms it brings.
I think you'll find it's the other way around. Mrs
How dare you as a woman claim to know more about your body than us men. I mean, really..
"Women! Know your limits!"
https://youtu.be/LS37SNYjg8w?si=dU4TNdSU-v7nfnlE
Mmmmm ... that must explain the beard "
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